Debbie Schaefer
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Marriage Coach and Encourager Expert
Debbie Schaefer Quick Facts
- Main Areas
- Marriage Advice, Soul Mate Coaching
- Career Focus
- Blogger, Life Encourager
- Affiliation
- SimpleLifeSoulMates.com
Debbie Schaefer and her husband are Soul Mates who have been married for over 30 years. After nearly seeing their marriage end in divorce twenty years ago, they began one of the toughest, but most rewarding, jou eys of their lives to rebuild their marriage.
While Debbie not a professional counselor, it has become her life's mission to help as many married couples as possible to save their marriage and have a happy, fulfilling life together through practical marriage coaching, advice and resources that can be found on the internet or in your local bookstore. Ultimately, they hope that many of the couples they help and guide will become Soul Mates like they did after their difficult struggle.
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Long Distance Relationships....Making It Work For You!
You can make long distance relationships, including a marriage, work if you and your spouse are willing to work at it and be flexible with one another. Personally, we have never had to deal with this ourselves, but we know several couples who do, including a brother and sister-in-law, and they have had long very satisfying and successful marriages, but it was not easy for them. Nor will it be a simple task for any couple who endeavors to walk down that road less traveled.
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Save My Marriage Advice
Couples having marriage problems want simple save my marriage advice that they can implement quickly. They want a neatly packaged marriage miracle. The problem with that is most marriages in trouble need more than a quick fix. A band aid fix will not work in most cases. Most marriages that are in deep trouble need major surgery that requires cutting away and replacing the negative feelings and emotions that created the problem in the first place. In order to save your marriage, you will have to work at it continuously and confront those issues that are tearing
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Marriage Advice To Make It Last
We did not set out to give marriage advice to any couples, but we had heard just about every imaginable reason why men and women were giving up on their marriages and it was breaking our hearts. You see, my husband and I nearly gave up on our marriage 20 years ago when things got a little rough. Our communication had broken down and we were feeling a lot of anger and tension in our relationship. Giving up on our marriage seemed like the easiest thing to do, but after ten years of marriage and two children, it just wasn't that simple.
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Married Sex: The Best of Your Life
Married sex can the best sex of your life because you are making love to your soul mate and not just any person. Let's face it, sex is very important in any marital relationship. As newlyweds, we may crave sex because of the physical pleasure that it brings us, but as you progress through the years in your marriage you may find that making love is more emotionally fulfilling than anything else.
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Steps To Recover From Infidelity
The first steps to recover from infidelity are never easy. In fact they may be the most painful steps you will take as an individual or as a couple as you try to rebuild the trust you had in your partner.
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Marriage Advice: Work On The Fundamentals
Marriage Advice: Work On The Fundamentals It seems everyone wants to provide marriage advice to couples who are struggling, but unfortunately, sometimes that advice is coming from people who are not doing so well in their own marriage. In fact, this advice may be coming from someone who has been married and divorced more than once, so you have to be careful about the guidance being provided.
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Date Night Ideas: Rekindle The Passion In Your Marriage
A happy marriage can begin with a list of date night ideas that you turn into a series of romantic dates with your mate. That's right, you can rekindle the romance in your marriage with a regularly scheduled date night with your spouse. Couples who nurture their relationships through regular date nights tend to have long, very happy marriages. This is particularly true for couples who have kids that are active in sports and other school activities. If these parents don't set aside time just for themselves then their marriage could lose its excitement and passion very quickly.
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Infidelity: Rebuilding Your Marriage After Your Spouse Cheats
Let's face it, infidelity causes deep personal pain, but your spouse's affair doesn't have to mean the end of your marriage. In fact, I hope the informatio I share with you here will help you save your marriage and help you rebuild the trust you need to fully recover from this painful experience. While there are a lot issues that create problems in marriage nothing is more devastating than infidelity. Money problems,communication issues and arguments will put stress on a relationship, but an affair shakes the foundation of any marriage.
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Get The Loving Relationships That You Want And Deserve
Successful living begins with loving, passionate relationships that are mutually beneficial to both partners. Many people "settle" for just any relationship and never get the love they want and deserve. If you want a loving, passionate relationship with that special someone, then you have to be willing give more of yourself unconditionally to get the rewarding marriage you want and deserve. Zig Ziglar said it best when he said, You can have everything you want if you help others get what they want.
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Survive His Affair: Steps To Take When The SOB Cheats On You
Boom! It hits you hard and rips out your heart. The love of your life has been cheating on you with another woman. That dirty SOB of a husband has done a lot of things over the years to make you angry, but nothing he has done in the past even remotely compares to this. His affair has violated your love and trust leaving you feeling helpless and asking "Why?". Now you have to deal with a lot of emotions and feelings so you can begin to piece your life and your relationship back together.
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Communication Breakdown: Steps To Better Communication With Your Spouse to Avoid Divorce
Every couple has a communication breakdown in their marriage at some point. In fact, most couples have numerous breakdowns in communication throughout their marriage. Communication is really a simple thing, but somehow as humans, we complicate things and blur the lines of communication with our spouse and our relationships begins to get out of focus quickly. When love and feelings are involved, any misunderstanding with your mate can lead to anger, frustration and withdrawal.
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Personal Development Plan: Achieving the Extraordinary
Ralph Waldo Emerson wrote a very simple, but profound statement that literally began a change in me that has led to my extraordinary success in life. The little quip that began my life-long journey to success was, "Nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm". What stirred the passions ...Ralph Waldo Emerson wrote a very simple, but profound statement that literally began a change in me that has led to my extraordinary success in life. The little quip that began my life-long journey to success was, "Nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm".
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