Dr. Bob Huizenga

LMFT, CSW

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Infidelity and Extramarital Affairs Expert

Dr. Bob Huizenga

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Main Areas
7 Types of Affairs, Empowerment after Discovery, Marriage Makeover after Infidelity, 4 Stages of Infidelity Recovery
Best Sellers
Break Free From the Affair, 19 Live Infidelity Coaching Sessions, Marriage Makeover
Career Focus
Infidelity Coach, Author, Web Developer
Affiliation
Various Affiliate and Joint Venture Partnerships

Dr. Robert Huizenga, CSW, LMFT, The Infidelity Coach, is a relationship coach, author, and Marriage and Family Therapist. Dr. Huizenga has maintained a private practice in Marriage and Family Therapy for the past two decades serving hundreds of couples and thousands of individuals. He has served on the Michigan State Board of Marriage and Family Therapy. During the past eight years he has focused on research and study in the area of marital infidelity.

He is the author of one of the first online e-books, "Break Free From The Affair" and developer of one of the first websites devoted exclusively to the marital crisis of infidelity. Dr. Huizenga provides telecoaching and continues to write, produce audio tapes and expand his websites which have served over 2,000,000 targeted visitors.

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People with different motives have different kinds of affairs.

The affair is not the fault of the "offended" partner or marriage. This shift in thinking is vitally important if someone wants to break free from the affair.

Affairs are exceedingly complex, but there are patterns that one can identify.

What works to break free from one kind of affair will be disaster for another.

The odds of saving a marriage vary according to the kind of affair.

Affairs are predictable. Once one identifies the patterns one can project ahead and know what most likely will happen next.

There are 16 skills that someone can easily learn and apply to the 7 different affairs:

  • My Marriage Made Me Do It
  • I Can't Say No
  • I Don't Want to Say No
  • I Fell Out of Love...and just love being in love
  • I Want to Get Back at Him/Her
  • I Need to Prove My desirability
  • I Want to Be Close to Someone...but can't stand intimacy

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