Dr. Gilda Carle
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DR. GILDA CARLE (Ph.D.) is the media’s Go-To Relationship Expert & Performance Coach, serving clients worldwide at www.DrGilda.com. As a media personality, she was the therapist on TV's Sally Jessy Raphael show and has conducted Relationship Wellness training for Columbia University Medical Center. As President of non-profit Country Cures® at www.CountryCures.org, she uniquely applies Country Music to trai Female Veterans in Empowerment Skills. She is also a product spokesperson (Hallmark, Harlequin, Sprint, Cottonelle, Galderma Pharmaceuticals, Match.com), keynote speaker, Professor Emerita of Business, and author of 17 books, including “Don’t Bet on the Prince!” (test question on “Jeopardy”), “How to WIN When Your Mate Cheats” (literary award winner from London Book Festival), and “Don’t Lie on Your Back for a Guy Who Doesn’t Have Yours.” She wrote the weekly “30-Second Therapist” column for the Today Show, the “Ask Dr. Gilda” column for Match.com, and she was the therapist in HBO’s Emmy Award winner, “Telling Nicholas,” featured on Oprah. She hosted MTV Online’s “Love Doc,” TV shows on TBN, and Fox’s “Dr. Gilda” show pilot.
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4 Date Traits to Avoid
4 Date Traits to Avoid by DR. GILDA CARLE (PH.D.) If you’re feeling desperate and lonely, you might fall for the wrong person. Courtesy of Match.com’s Happen Magazine ? http://www.happenmag.com/magazine/index.aspx?lid=396
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Can a Cheater Truly Change?
Do you believe the adage of “once a cheater, always a cheater”? I believe the answer lies in understanding the motivation and character of the cheater in question. People only take one second to determine whether they find someone sexually attractive. Then in only three minutes, they decide whether they want to see that person again. That’s how quickly we decide if a prospective mate should be in our life — for better or for worse, and usually, when it happens that quickly, it’s for worse. Over and out!
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For Men Only: 7 Ways to Impress a Worthy Woman
For Men Only: 7 Ways to Impress a Worthy Woman By DR. GILDA CARLE (Ph.D.) Gals may be uncertain about what they want from guys, but there are some behaviors to which they always respond! Courtesy of Match.com’s Happen Magazine ? http://www.happenmag.com/magazine/index.aspx?lid=396
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I Broke My 3 Love Rules
I Broke My 3 Love Rules By DR. GILDA CARLE (Ph.D.) Even relationship experts make mistakes! Finally, it’s MY turn to be put on the couch! I broke my own 3 cardinal rules, and got the reminder that I’m still human! Courtesy of Match.com’s Happen Magazine ? http://www.happenmag.com/magazine/index.aspx?lid=396
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How to Get Through to the Opposite Sex
Do you ever feel your sweetie doesn’t understand what you’re saying? It could be a simple difference in gender communication styles. What caused your last argument? Are the words you said the same ones your sweetie heard? It’s no secret that storms between women and men linger at the intersection of loving and living. You may find yourself asking, “Earth to sweetie, what must I do to get through to you?”
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Overcoming a Past of Abuse
Overcoming a Past of Abuse Courtesy of Match.com’s Happen Magazine Dear Dr. Gilda, It has been almost a year since I fled my marriage, which was very abusive and ended in divorce. For most of this year, I have been floundering, but I have started to pick up the pieces and put myself back together. I have a lot of goals I want to accomplish to improve myself, and I have started taking baby steps toward them.
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The Disappearing Lover
The Disappearing Loverr By DR. GILDA CARLE (Ph.D.) Courtesy of Match.com’s Happen Magazine ? http://www.happenmag.com/magazine/index.aspx?lid=396 Dear Dr. Gilda, I am 36, a professionally successful divorced woman who has a lot of affection for my boyfriend. But I don’t even know if we have a relationship; he disappears from time to time. He is gone for weeks and then he comes back saying he thought about things and I am the best one for him. I don’t think he is seeing other women, though I can never be sure.
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The New Aphrodisiac: Money Woes Can Actually Benefit Your Life
Do you know anyone who has sex for money? Sure you do. Whoever stays in a dead relationship just to retain financial security is exchanging body parts for cash! This is what I call Transaction Love. Love as a transaction dates back to when “I’ve got cattle” was followed by “What can you trade ...
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Are The Two Of You Ready For Intimacy?
Reprinted from MSN’s Home Pagenn__________________________________________________________________________________________n • DR. GiLDA’s GUIDES on “How to Win at Relationships” and “How to Win at Work” (http://www.drgilda.com/books.htm#guides) • INSTANT ADVICE —BY PHONE OR E-MAIL for SAME-DAY ...
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7 Signs Your Honey May Cheat
7 Signs Your Honey May Cheat By Gilda Carle, Ph.D. Reprinted from MSN.com Dating & Personals – with Match.com Most of us — even the not-so-jealous types — know that feeling of, “Is my love really working late… or could this person be two-timing me?” ...
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