Dr. Jeanette Raymond
Ph.D.
Free
Relationship Success, Anger and Stress management, Dream Interpretation Expert
Dr. Jeanette Raymond Quick Facts
- Main Areas
- Relationship Stress, Managing Conflict in Relationships, Emotional stress leading to problems with weight, skin problems, gastric complaints, hair loss, pain, migraine, chronic fatigue, arthritis, dream interpretation and analysis for personal growth
- Career Focus
- Psychotherapist - using conflict advantageously, dream work, mind-body issues
- Affiliation
- Califo ia Psychological Association, Los Angeles Psychological Association
Have you been struggling to find the 'secret' of making someone like you, love you and want you?
Perhaps you have difficulty trusting having been betrayed in the past.
Maybe you get bogged down with guilt that makes you withdraw from relationships.
Have you exhausted all your efforts and now feel let down, desparate and angry that time is running out?
If you have read the books, listened and listened again to the CD's, podcasts and radio/TV talk show experts, but haven't found it easy to implement the advice, you are right to be frustrated and annoyed with the waste of money.
Relationships work when you have the experience of a good secure and consistent one yourself. That gets your brain pathways to recognize what is genuine and what works for you. You can't learn it just from books or shows.
You need the one on one interaction that jump starts that process. That's where I come in and help you build the foundation that is crucial for you to be able to use it in all areas of your life. You practice the skills of interaction and managing emotions when things don't go well, so that you become your own expert. Then you have the tools you need to manage and enjoy relationships at work, with family, friends and partners.
Read some client stories and discover what you could gain.
- You can learn how to negotiate the negative cycle of fighting and making up.
- Discover how to do away with power struggles so you can have peaceful connections.
- Figure out how to relate without the need for revenge and punishment.
- Get out of the exhausting blame games circles
- Learn how to stop relationship stress from making you sick.
- Deal with issues of committment in relationships so you feel more secure.
- Find out how to have a comfortable level of emotional intimacy
- Work on enjoying physical intimacy including affection
- Learn about your selection of partners that may or may not be working for you
Dr. Jeanette Raymond is a licensed psychologist and psychotherapist. She has a doctorate in clinical psychology and a masters degree in child, adolescent and educational psychology. She has 25 years experience working with adults, couples, adolescents, children and families. She is the author of several articles, including managing relationship stress, the healing power of dreams, dealing with conflict, healthy and unhealthy anger, emotional problems and weight management, stress and anxiety showing itself in the body, chosing partners, intimacy problems in relationships.
Dr. Raymond writes a blog giving relationship tips twice a week. One is an article and one a videolog. Sign up and get the tips for free.
Free Articles & Book Excerpts
Book Excerpts for Now You Want Me Now You Don't!
http://nowyouwantmenowyoudont.com/category/excerpts/
Why You Keep Getting Attracted to the Wrong Person
http://losangeleswestsidetherapy.com/2013/08/21/why-you-keep-getting-attracted-to-the-wrong-person/#.UhgwUT_lfms
Five Ways to Shift From the 'I' Body language to the 'We" in your relationship
http://losangeleswestsidetherapy.com/2014/10/31/five-ways-to-shift-from-the-i-body-language-to-the-we-stance-in-your-relationship/#.VFfNFBawWH0
Why Your Partner Falls Short of Your Ideal Partner Characteristics
http://losangeleswestsidetherapy.com/2012/02/28/why-your-partner-falls-short-of-your-ideal-partner-characteristics/
Ensure Your Relationship Against a Loss of Intimacy and Committment
http://losangeleswestsidetherapy.com/2012/07/24/ensure-your-relationship-against-a-loss-of-intimacy-and-commitment/#.UA4-MaNdC7s
To Forgive or Not to Forgive: That is the Question!
http://losangeleswestsidetherapy.com/2012/04/24/to-forgive-or-not-to-forgive-that-is-the-question/
Pull Out the Roots of Your Anger and Stress with Exercise and Gardening
http://drjeanetteraymond.com/pull-out-the-roots-of-your-anger-and-stress-by-exercising-amid-nature/#.VFfNYRawWH0
Three Ways to Control Emotional Eating When Under Stress
http://drjeanetteraymond.com/three-ways-to-control-emotional-eating-when-under-stress/#.VFfNpxawWH0
Ten Things You Should Never Do on a First Date
http://losangeleswestsidetherapy.com/2014/09/29/ten-things-you-should-never-do-on-a-first-date/#.VFfN6hawWH0
How to bargain successfully with your loved ones
http://losangeleswestsidetherapy.com/2011/08/28/how-to-bargain-successfully-with-your-loved-ones/
How to get more by working less at your relationships
http://losangeleswestsidetherapy.com/2011/03/29/how-to-get-more-by-working-less-at-relationships/
How to make up after a fight and find intimacy
http://losangeleswestsidetherapy.com/2010/11/21/how-to-make-up-after-a-fight-and-find-intimacy/
Is your relationship in danger becuase of of your perfectionism?
http://losangeleswestsidetherapy.com/2011/09/07/perfectionism-may-be-ruining-your-intimate-relationships/
Four Love Steps for Singles to Turn Dates into Long Term Relationships
http://losangeleswestsidetherapy.com/2011/03/15/four-love-steps-for-singles-to-turn-dates-into-long-term-relationships/
Three Ways to Stand up to Passive Aggressive People
http://drjeanetteraymond.com/three-ways-to-stand-up-to-passive-aggressive-people/#.VFfOKhawWH0
Free Audio & Video Samples
Using your dreams to help you succeed in relationships
http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/dr-raymond-using-dreams-to/id431107410
How to manage when your partner loses interest in you
http://losangeleswestsidetherapy.com/2011/05/20/how-to-manage-when-your-partner-loses-interest-in-you/
How to stop feeling used in relationships
http://losangeleswestsidetherapy.com/2011/07/16/how-to-stop-feeling-used-in-relationships/
How to stop being lonely
http://losangeleswestsidetherapy.com/2011/07/08/how-to-stop-being-lonely/
Dealing with relationship conflict
http://losangeleswestsidetherapy.com/2011/02/18/avoiding-conflict-with-a-dose-of-curiosity/
How to get loved the way you want and deserve
http://losangeleswestsidetherapy.com/2011/04/22/how-to-get-your-partner-to-love-you-the-way-you-want/
Dr. Jeanette Raymond Audio & Video Programs
Mistakes that men make attempting to get close with their women on the Todd Newton Show
http://goo.gl/p9hcer
Fear of Intimacy in marriage: Interview with Dr. Atherly
http://ow.ly/DbsYC
Obstacles that get in the way of closeness, Mother Love Show
http://tinyurl.com/l3vd8xe
How ideal romances end up as unhappy marriages
http://www.latalkradio.com/Players/Docmichelle.shtml?date=August+15,+2014&file=081514
The best ways to succeed at being emotionally intimate
http://tinyurl.com/mbalsjr
Dr. Jeanette Raymond Books
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Family Co-dependence Stifles growth and development
Driving home from his last landscape design consult, thirty-three year old Craig’s stomach was in knots wondering if Sophie would have gotten over the row she had with her mother the other day. He felt bad for his wife who had tried and failed to arrange a family dinner, taking out her frustration on him. His temples began throbbing and his breathing became quick and shallow as he felt the overbearing sense of heaviness that came over him when he approached his front door.
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Family co-dependency: the difference between supporting and rescuing a loved one
Trudy a twenty-nine year old local newspaper reporter and Max a thirty-three year old limousine company owner had endless fights about who was doing the lion’s share of parenting their two children. They argued about what to do, how to do it, when to do it and who should take the blame when things went wrong. Trudy’s sister Sophie got mad at Max when she saw her sister miserable and at a loss. Sophie rescued Trudy countless times, and usually felt heroic in the process.
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Family Codependency part 3 - five more steps a couple can take to support rather than resuce each other
Despite the relief that Craig felt when his wife Sophie did his bookkeeping for his landscape business he was frequently choked with shame. The conflict made him snappy and uninterested in spending leisure time with her. He dreaded going to bed at night because he didn’t want to face his impotence when he forced himself to try and make love to her. He was trapped in a cycle of neediness, shame and anger at the very person whom he relied upon to keep his business afloat.r
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Five Ways To Use Anger as a Positive Motivating Tool
Anger makes Zane protest and refuse to work hard Zane was furious when he didn’t get his pay raise. He remembered all the times his boss gave him signs that his efforts would be rewarded. Was that a dream? Did he misread the signals? How could he be so easily fobbed off with a few sweet words?
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How to Recognize the Signs of Fear of Emotional Intimacy in Your Partner
At the age of 34 Rory had achieved everything he had set out to do when he decided to prove to his father that he wasn’t a waster. He had an exciting six figure salary job as a buyer of exotic furnishings for a global interior design company. Together with a large upscale home, a beautiful and intelligent wife Alicia, and an adorable daughter, he was the envy of everyone in his social world. But Rory wasn’t happy. In fact he was angry and miserable because he felt excluded from Alicia’s private world. Alicia initiated sex often and seemed to want it more tha Rory did.
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Ten Ways To Use Anger To Build Confidence and Succeed
Louis shock turns to disbelief and anger The world caved in on Louis when his girlfriend of three years ditched him, complaining he was ‘too needy!’ Louis had been the devoted boyfriend and caretaker. He did whatever she asked no matter what the cost to him. He cut out his friends and family. He stopped playing sports and dropped out of college.
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Hair Loss Can Be Caused By Stress and Emotional Silence
Nia was stunned when her perfect relationship ended Nia was on top of the world. Her job was going well, and she had the best boyfriend any girl could ask for. He was attentive and affectionate. He was interested in her ideas and opinions. He showed respect for her family traditions. She felt important and needed when she supported him through tough times. His gratitude was genuine making Nia believe they were a solid couple. The beginning of the end came the day Nia’s boyfriend didn’t take up her offer of caring for him when he was ill.
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Do You Know When You Need to Feel Guilty and When You Don’t?
The pressure’s on - everything depends on Wyatt’s speech!
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What's The Best Way of Expressing Your Anger?
Do you feel ashamed when you lash out at the people you love the most? Do you wish you could erase it for ever and be free of this beastly emotion? That’s because there is a taboo against feeling and expressing anger, particularly if done in a loud, over the top and explosive way. We don’t like to think of ourselves as uncontrolled and irrational.
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Why Do Those Migraines Keep Messing With Your Life?
The cures don't last, but it's nice to have care and concern! Bonnie was a hostage to migraine attacks. They lasted for hours and she was unable to do anything but lie down in bed until it passed. Sometimes her migraine was accompanied by nausea and other times by cramps or acid reflux. Treatments from herbalists, acupuncturists, nutritionists, homeopathic doctors, spiritual healers, medical doctors and meditation did nothing to stop the onset or reduce the severity of the pain and exhaustion that accompanied the episodes.
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How To Give Yourself What You Want and Stop Getting Mad
I do what you want, but you never let me do what I want! Justin had his heart set on the new BMW sports car, but Be ice wondered whether it was the best way of spending money at this point. There were other more important priorities like her business start up, the kids school fees and house repairs to consider. Justin blew up. “ You never let me have what I want! When you wanted to go to Costa Rica I agreed because I knew what that meant to you. I let you choose the living room furniture even though I hated it.
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What unbearable conflict is your acid reflux trying to get you to solve?
Achieving her goals was a bit too easy for Nadine Thirty-five year old writer and director Nadine got three clients as soon as she put the word out about her new venture as an acting coach. Her script for a TV show was accepted and she was hired to direct the production. She was amazed at how quickly and effortlessly everything was falling into place. Nadine’s dreams were about to come true. Her talents were prized and she felt giddy with excitement. Expressing her creativity felt authentic but scary. She dared to imagine being famous.
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Favorite Quotes & Thoughts from Dr. Jeanette Raymond
There is nothing so fulfilling as a secure and stable relationship that you can rely on. It is also the most difficult thing to create and keep. Trying to make relationships work can be very stressful and put you off.
You can learn how to go from fear and frustration to fulfilling relationships by figuring out what gets in your way and finding some solutions that allow you to communicate in a clear and inviting manner while feeling worthwhile and lovable when you interact with my quizzes, listen to my audios, and read my blogs.
Contacting Dr. Jeanette Raymond
Phone: 310.985.2491
e-mail: drjeanette@drjeanetteraymond.com
website: West Los Angeles Psychotherapy For Relationship Problems
How to get started
Relationship Tips
1. Audio tips on relationship stress
2. Audio tips on managing conflict in relationships
3. Audio tips on creating comfortable intimacy
4. Audio tips on using emotions to connect
Blog
Read and subscribe to the relationship tips blog based on real life stories and up to date research
Quizzes that give you a personal profile of your style of relationship and tips on improving your relationship skills
1. Relationship Sabotage test and find out if your relationship style gets in the way of your happiness.
2.Take the Conflict quiz and discover if your way of dealing with relationship conflict works in your favor.
3.Take the Intimacy Quiz and get some insight into your comfort level with intimacy.
4.Take the Anger Quiz to find out what triggers your anger and if you cope in ways that benefit you.
Other highlights
Join my dream group meeting one evening a week. Call 310.0985.2491.
Anger and stress management workshops for corporations that care about their staff.
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