Elaine Sihera
BA (Open), PGCE, MA (Cantab)
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Elaine Sihera - The World Authority on Emotional Health Expert

Elaine Sihera Quick Facts
- Main Areas
- Self Esteem, Confidence, Relationships, People Management, Ageing Disgracefully!
- Best Sellers
- Managing the Diversity Maze
- Career Focus
- Author, Public Speaker, Enpowerment Consultant
- Affiliation
- Ecademy
ELAINE SIHERA is the most noted and quoted British woman on the Internet, being the world authority on emotional health, (confidence, self-esteem, career and relationships). Nicknamed Ms CYPRAH (or Cyber-Oprah by admirers), Elaine is the first Black graduate of the UK's pioneering Open University and a postgraduate of Cambridge University. Her main website is The Sihera Relationship Guide© at elainesden.org.
A qualified senior high school teacher and former education manager, magazine editor and equality consultant (for which she made such an impact she was dubbed 'Ms Diversity'), Elaine is the prolific author of six books and nearly 1100 articles on emotional health, career advancement and people management. Elaine also manages the following websites on self improvement.
As a high-profile role model for the past 15 years, Elaine is a very successful public speaker and innovator who has advised many blue chip companies and public service organisations. She has also presented many professional achievement workshops around personal development, staff management and effective diversity practice.
An Internet agony aunt, freelance broadcaster, and columnist, Elaine is also the Change Expert for FiftyForward, being a very keen advocate of changing perceptions on ageing and boosting people's feelings about themselves.
Elaine enjoys her work very much by living to purpose and in line with her own advice. She believes a smile, and laughter, are the best medicines and does not take herself too seriously too often. She is divorced with two kidults, Andre and Nicole.
A fuller resume is available on http://confidence-guide.com/about1.html
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The Sihera Confidence Guide©
http://www.confidence-guide.com
Elaine's Den
http://www.elainesden.org
Ms Cyprah at Newsvine
http://mscyprah.newsvine.com
Excerpt- Money, Sex and Compromise
http://books.google.com/books?id=x3n9AlYsgNsC&pg=PA11&dq=elaine+sihera&source=gbs_toc_r&cad=5#v=onepage&q=&f=false
Excerpt- Managing the Diversity Maze
http://books.google.com/books?id=wn4uRLrrQZsC&pg=PA9&dq=elaine+sihera&source=gbs_selected_pages&cad=5#v=onepage&q=&f=false
Excerpt- 10 Way Steps to Growing Older Disgracefully!
http://books.google.com/books?id=Q86S80KhRC4C&pg=PA184&dq=elaine+sihera&lr=&source=gbs_toc_r&cad=6#v=onepage&q=&f=false
Excerpt- 10 Easy Steps to....Finding Your Ideal Soulmate
http://books.google.com/books?id=KmlZb1fsyFgC&pg=PA36&dq=elaine+sihera&source=gbs_toc_r&cad=5#v=onepage&q=&f=false
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7 Attributes of the Truly Confident Person
A lot of people might believe they are confident, depending on how they feel on any given day. But confidence is not a fleeting thing that is here today and takes a holiday tomorrow. Confidence is all pervasive.
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The Main Reasons we Fear Ageing
It seems that at least 42% of people fear ageing. That's nearly half of our population in the UK. Yet, like death, age is an inevitable part of our existence. We cannot NOT age just as we have to die. So the only way to treat those two elements of our existence is to accept them as willingly, happily and joyously as we do life because ALL THREE come as a package. We cannot have any one without the other. The minute we accept life, we accept ageing and death.
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Are You Just an OPTION For Someone Else, Instead of Their PRIORITY?
On the welcoming page of my Relationship website I have 12 Lessons in Life which are very important to me. Among them is the statement: Never make someone your priority when to them you're only an option. Those words have ended up being the most popular search key words for the website, especially from North America! I am not sure why that is. However, my own instinct tells me that a few people have read the 12 Lessons, then cannot remember the website but remembered those awesome words and are passing them on to friends or colleagues, who are then trying to find them.
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Favorite Quotes & Thoughts from Elaine Sihera
Always Be Yourself! Those who like you will embrace you and nourish you, while those who don't will pass you by and save you the stress!
People who think highly of themselves do not see barriers to achievements or obstacles in their paths. Anything which blocks their journey can be removed because confident people already believe they have the tools to remove those blocks.
(7 Attributes of the Truly Confident Person)
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Other highlights
1. One of the outstanding profiles featured in Portraits of Black Achievement (by the Institute of Education, University of London)
2. The presenter of the FIRST ever Diversity Lecture in the British House of Commons(2004)
3. Keynote Speaker at UNESCO's Global Women’s Leadership Conference, held in Paris, which was attended by over 500 senior women achievers from around the world. (2004)
4. The FIRST Black woman in the UK to own and run a national magazine (New IMPACT) from 1993-2003.
5. The ONLY person to be simultaneously awarded TWO National Training Awards by the Department for Trade and Industry (1993).
6. FOUNDER of:
-The British Diversity Awards (10 years)
-The Windrush Achievement Awards (6 years)