Hugo Elfinstone
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Love That Lasts
Truly loving another human being means you want what is best for them even if that's not you or what you want. Our idea of what is best for them and what is truly best for them may be different.nLove is our natural state of existence when we are absent of fear, confusion, and emotional upset.nContaminated Love is a mixture of fear and love.nnThe world's great wisdom traditions say that love is the ultimate reality of existence. In human relationships, the more we strive to re
July 12, 2008
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Understanding Dreams
nMy significant other has been suggesting that I write a article on understanding dreams for the last month or so. Interestingly enough several people have presented me with dreams they have found particularly disturbing over the last few weeks.nnOne of the problems I see is that people take their dreams literally. Therefore, it can be very upsetting when they have a dream that is shocking to them, for example, having an affair, killing a dolphin, or countless other disturbin
July 12, 2008
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Dealing With Rejection
âWhen you feel rejected, how do you keep from rejecting yourself?ânnSometimes when we feel rejected, it brings up all the other times in our lives that we felt rejected. The worst part is that when we feel rejected, we tend to reject ourselves. nnMany of us spend a great deal of time seeking love, appreciation and approval from other people. We are looking for them to tell us we are okay, worthwhile, special and lovable. We imagine that if they find us worthwhile and lova
July 12, 2008
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