John and Elaine Leadem
LCSW, CSAT
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Substanse and Process Addiction Recovery Expert

John and Elaine Leadem Quick Facts
- Main Areas
- Substance and Process Addictions
- Best Sellers
- One In the Spirit, Suveying the Wreckage , Clearing Away the Wreckage of the Past.
- Career Focus
- Professional Training & Therapeutic Retreats for Recovering Couples
- Affiliation
- SASH, NASW, IITAP
John V. Leadem , LCSW, MS, CSAT is the co-founder of LeademCounseling & Consulting Services, PC. His professional service to addicted individuals and their families has involved his participation in the development and operation of addiction treatment services in a full array of modalities over the past 38 years. John is a published author, retreat master for couples, and happily married in recovery for the past 34 years. John was recently certified to serve as a field supervisor to candidates pursuing certification as a Sex Addiction Therapist. He was trained in Sexual Addiction Treatment by Patrick Carnes, and addiction intervention by Vernon Johnson. His commitment to a “Shared Program of Recovery”© is his distinguishing professional contribution.
Elaine M. Leadem , LCSW, CSAT is the co-founder of LeademCounseling & Consulting Services, PC. Her professional work in the addictions treatment field began in the late 80’s and has evolved into a subspecialty which targets the needs of the victims of traumatic abuse and betrayal. Her commitment to healthy families provided the core inspiration for the development of a “Shared Program of Recovery”© which has helped many couples move from the traditional parallel model of recovery to strong united core support group. She is a certified Sex Addiction Therapist and co-developer of a model for treating couples during the crisis stage of recovery.
Free Articles & Book Excerpts
No Longer In Love? – Perhaps You Need To Get IN
http://www.leademcounseling.com/the-couch/romantic-health/no-longer-in-love-%E2%80%93-perhaps-you-need-to-get-in
Being of Service to Your Partner
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John and Elaine Leadem Books
Surveying the Wreckage: A Guide to the Fourth Step
http://www.leademcounseling.com/store/meditationstep-guides/surveying-the-wreckage-a-guide-to-the-fourth-step
One in the Spirit: Meditation Course for Recovering Couples
http://www.leademcounseling.com/store/counseling-services/one-in-the-spirit-meditation-course-for-recovering-couples
Clearing Away the Wreckage to the Past: A task oriented guide to completing Steps 4 through 7
http://www.leademcounseling.com/store/counseling-services/clearing-away-the-wreckage-of-the-past
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Communication Skills: the Secret to Successful Relationships
Can you read your partner’s mind? Of course not! Neither can your partner read your mind. But this is what you may have come to expect of each other if you grew up in a movie-script, hearing phrases like: “Love is never having to say you are sorry.” Or perhaps you learned as a child that: “You should not have to tell someone what you are feeling or what you need if they love you”
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Worry and Love
Many of us grew up with the belief that to worry is to love. Those we love most may be in real trouble, and we realize that there is very little we can do to improve the situation. So we worry because we love. Unfortunately, worrying is really nothing more than the active practice of not taking action. Our fear may lead to depression. When we feel out of control we maintain our depressed moods by telling ourselves that by worrying at least we are doing something.
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Favorite Quotes & Thoughts from John and Elaine Leadem
John believes that recovery was never intended to be an endurance contest
Elaine is sure that the only difference between being "in love" and loving someone is the decision to be "IN"
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Toms River, NJ 08755
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