Julie Orlov
MAOL, MSW, LCSW
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Julie Orlov - Relationship Builder Expert

Julie Orlov Quick Facts
- Main Areas
- Relationships
- Best Sellers
- The Pathway to Love: Create Intimacy and Transform Your Relationships through Self-Discovery
- Career Focus
- Author, speaker, psychotherapist, trainer, coach
- Affiliation
- National Association of Social Workers, American Society of Training and Development, Publishers Association of Los Angeles
Julie Orlov has worked as a psychotherapist, coach, trainer, speaker, and consultant for over 24 years, helping people transform their lives. She started her career in clinical social work, treating individuals, couples, and families in private practice, guiding them to learn the importance of understanding and acceptance. She shows us that “understanding and accepting who we are today, empowers us to transform and create the life we choose.” In 1993, Julie created “Parenting Helpline” that served families in the South Bay area of Los Angeles, Califo ia. She has also served on the Alte ative Dispute Resolution Panel of the Los Angeles Superior Court, providing mediation services.
As her career progressed, Julie began to work with leaders and teams so that relationships could thrive in organizations and businesses alike. As a consultant and trainer, she strongly believes in helping leaders develop the capabilities to make a positive difference in the lives of those they lead. She has worked with corporations, educational institutions, non-profit organizations, and small businesses, coaching and training people in various capacities including front line employees, educators, supervisors and managers, and CEO’s. She assesses the current business state, individual capabilities, and team building skills and helps organizations achieve their business goals.
While her life’s work has taken many paths, she is passionate about empowering others to create relationships that work. Julie continues to expand the ways in which she contributes to the community. She has written and published a variety of articles and has appeared on radio and television. Her books, programs and services provide an opportunity for people to grow and thrive within the context of human relationships. Her vision is to help create a global community in which we are all committed to each other’s well-being.
Julie Orlov holds a master’s degree in organizational leadership from Chapman University, a master’s degree in social work from University of Southern Califo ia, and a bachelor’s degree in psychology from University of Califo ia, Los Angeles. She is a member of the National Association of Social Workers and the American Society of Training and Development, Los Angeles, where she served as the 2010 president on the board of directors. She has also served as foundation chair for KindredSPIRITS, a humanitarian organization located in San Pedro, Califo ia.
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Nice Guys Don't Have to Finish Last
Nice has become the new four letter word for many women. They associate “nice” men with having qualities such as boring, passive, and unromantic. I’m not sure how this happened. My guess is that it is part related to how the media portrays “strong” versus “weak” men and part related to our biology—women neurologically look for traits in men that will ensure that their offspring will have good genes, be provided for and protected. I think women have collapsed Hollywood’s version of the bad boy/strong male with our biology’s’ version of what qualities make for a good mate.
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How to Cope when A Loved-One Becomes Ill
It is inevitable. At one point in time your loved one will become ill. You will become ill. This could be a short-term illness, an injury that will take time to heal, a chronic illness that needs to be managed over a lifetime, or a life-threatening disease. When someone gets ill, your relationship is immediately challenged. Some of these challenges include -Abrupt changes in roles and responsibilities -Financial stress and demands -Added responsibilities for caregivers -Guilt, stress, fear, pain, helplessness, anger, and frustration for the person dealing with the illnessr
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Welcome to a lifetime of love and self-discovery!
As a psychotherapist and consultant, I’ve had the privilege of helping thousands of people understand how relationships develop, deepen, and thrive over time. Whether you’re single or married, in a new or long-term relationship or looking for one, there is a pathway toward more understanding, acceptance and love.
The Pathway to Love books and programs enable you to:
- Distinguish real love from fantasy, including the different ways we express and receive love.
- Understand the issues and gifts inherent in each phase of your developing relationships.
- Transform your reactions into understanding and acceptance of yourself and others.
- Enhance your interpersonal relationships, improve your relationships at work, and feel better about yourself.
Your relationships hold the key to unleashing your personal power, freedom and well-being. This is why I am dedicated to helping you create relationships in your life that work. So let’s get started!
Contacting Julie Orlov
Julie Orlov
P.O. Box 1446
Torrance, CA 90505
julie@julieorlov.com
support@julieorlov.com
1-310-379-5855
1-888-997-2847
1-888-99PATHS
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JulieOrlov.com is your source for information, resouces, tools, products, discussion, and community on matters of relationships—relationships with others and your relationship with yourself. I am committed to creating a forum to support you and your ability to thrive and grow within the context of human relationships, where you can be seen, heard, understood and accepted for who you are and do the same unto others.
I welcome you to ask questions, submit comments, and contribute to our discussion by sharing your experiences and lessons learned in your relationships.
Join in the conversation and take advantage of all the information, tools, and support available through our blog, events, tips of the week, newsletters, products, and programs at www.julieorlov.com. We welcome you into our community!
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Experiential Seminars
There’s no better way to learn how to develop your relationships than by exploring the four phases in real-time with others. The Pathway to Love Seminars provide an experience where you can understand the tasks, practice the skills, and integrate new insights and discoveries about yourself, your significant others, and your relationships. This is accomplished through specific exercises, discussions, and group support. The beauty of the seminar’s design is that you do not need to come with a partner or currently be in a relationship in order to gain the benefits that this program provides.
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Private Coaching
If you want to work on developing your relationship in a private one-on-one setting, then The Pathway to Love coaching program is for you. You will receive eight private sessions designed to enable you to understand which phase(s) you have traversed, how to work with the challenges and opportunities that exist in your relationship, and then define the relationship you want and learn how to get there. The sessions will adhere to the concepts and frameworks presented in The Pathway to Love books and are not intended to provide or replace psychotherapy for individuals or couples.
Keynotes and Speaking Engagements
Julie Orlov is a powerful communicator. She engages, educates, and entertains audiences around the world. Below, please find a sample of her offerings. These topics can be delivered as keynotes or break-out sessions and workshops.
An Introduction to The Pathway to Love
Every relationship has a developmental path – a life cycle all its own. Understanding how relationships grow and thrive helps you navigate yours with more ease and grace. This includes interpersonal relationships at home, in the workplace, and in your community.
Julie Orlov presents the four phases of a developing relationship. Each phase has its own specific issues, tasks, and opportunities for growth and transformation. Through interactive discussions and activities, participants will learn how to transform their reactions into greater understanding and acceptance of themselves and others.
Communicating from Intention
One of the basic components to creating relationships that work is your ability to communicate effectively. It is very easy to get caught up in power struggles, fighting over the right to be right. Everyone wants to be heard and understood. Far too often misunderstandings block our pathway to creating positive connections with others. Whether you are relating to someone at work, at home, or in your greater social community, learning to communicate from intention is a must.
This presentation takes a look at all the traps that obstruct our way to clear communications. We will discuss ways to mitigate obstructions and proactively create greater understanding. In addition, specific communicating skills that address problem-solving and conflict-management will be presented.
Reclaiming Your Power
In order to establish healthy boundaries and make powerful choices, you first need to identify the values, needs, and wants that comprise your boundaries. This enables you to retain your integrity, accomplish your goals, and enhance your well-being. Even though you may believe you already know what you want and don’t want in your life, this doesn’t mean you act accordingly. Re-evaluating your values, needs and wants sets the stage for making choices that are in your best interest.
This presentation is highly participative. A process for Reclaiming Your Power will be introduced. At the end of the presentation, each participant will have created a clear understanding of their values, needs, and wants, as well as a specific strategy for maintaining healthy boundaries, self-respect and integrity.