Kemi Sogunle
BS, MS, CPC
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Life and Relationship Expert

Kemi Sogunle Quick Facts
- Main Areas
- Empowerment: Personal Developmentl, Love and Relationships - Domestic Abuse, Marital Conflict Resolution
- Best Sellers
- "Love, Sex, Lies and Reality," "Being Single: A State for the Fragile Heart."
- Career Focus
- Author, International Speaker, Life and Relationship Expert
- Affiliation
- Love Not Hurt, (501c3) non-profit organization; Contributor, Huffington Post
Kemi Sogunle has been featured in Essence Magazine, Your Tango, Zoosk, Older Dating and has been named one of the 10 Best Coaches in Maryland by Thumback.com. She is a life and relationship contributor to The Huffington Post.
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Top Reasons Why Single Women Get Hurt Easily
It's so easy to become gullible with words without paying close attention to the actions in the words uttered. This usually happens when a woman has been alone (without a date) for a while.
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How to Find the Love You Deserve
Have you ever wondered why you have not found the love you deserve? Are you getting frustrated about finding your match? What you need is not far from you, you just may need to take a closer look within. We often have after thoughts of meeting the wrong people, especially when we initially thought we had finally met “the one.” This can become overwhelming if you keep meeting the wrong match over again. Well, you do not have to look that far. The first step to finding the love you deserve starts with you.
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Top 3 Reasons Why Men Become Insecure
We all have insecurities of some sort but when it takes a toll on our relationships, it becomes burdensome. You may have finally met the man of your dreams but it seems you cannot put your fingers on. It turns out he is always defensive or sensitive and has answers or excuses for everything you suggest you both do. He may also lie to you about some things, thinking that if you know, he will let his ego down. This may end up affecting your relationship. This is a sign that his insecurities are more dominant than you know. Here are top three reasons why men are insecure:r
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Three Mistakes Parents Make
Parenting is one of the most remarkable experiences one can have. No one prepares for it. The skills develop as you go along. This is because every child brings on a different experience but raising children requires the similar adopted methods. However, as parents, we sometimes make the mistakes. Here are three mistakes parents (sometimes) make: Parents do not want their child/children to see them as a failure
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3 Reasons You Need to Treat Dating Like Shopping for Shoes
Every woman or man wants a pair of good shoes. No one would buy smaller-sized shoes or an uncomfortable pair to start with. We all like to mix and match while ensuring that we stand out at any event we attend. Just like shoes, no one wants to be with the wrong partner. Here are three reasons you have to consider when dating (in comparison to shopping for a pair of good shoes): You will shop for the perfect pair of shoes
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3 Things You Should Not Do When Dating
Dating is no longer, what it used to be. You also have to realize that your boyfriend or girlfriend had his or her own friends’ priority to meeting you. Dating is about learning and exploring the possibilities that exist in a relationship and figuring out if the relationship can move to the next level. You cannot expect your partner to abandon his/her lifestyle to fit in with yours. Here are three things you should not do when dating: Expect Your Partner to Give Up “Me” Time
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Let Go of Anything That No Longer Serves You
“The trees do not hold on to dead leaves but lose them in order to create room for new ones. We can learn from this, by letting go of the past and focusing on the now. We cannot change the past but we can make the present and future brighter and better not bitter.” ~ Kemi Sogunler
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Is Ego Destroying Your Relationship?
Relationships experience ups and downs and can sometimes lead to breakups and heartaches but is ego part of what is destroying your relationship? If you take a deep look at relationships across the globe, be it in the workplace, government or personal, pride/ego shows up when there is a misunderstanding or conflict in our personas. No one wants to face defeat due to fear and as long as we do not recognize that fear has no place in love, we will continue to face difficulties in our relationships.r
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5 Ways You Are Practicing Self-Hate Without Knowing It
We all experience pain in some form but not knowing how to move “Beyond the Pain,” may result in self-hate. Here are 5 ways you may be practicing self-hate without knowing it: 1. You believe everyone is against you. You cannot seem to accept anyone who tries to show you love or care but allow your mind and thoughts to create illusions out of fear of rejection which alters your mindset. This creates limited beliefs that may be had to let go of.
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3 Things We Can All Learn From Barack and Michelle Obama’s Relationship
1. They supported each other’s mission and growth Supporting your partner’s vision and growth is essential to building a healthy and stronger relationship. Barack in his farewell speech stated,” For the past twenty-five years, you have not only been my wife and mother of my children, you have been my best friend.” 2. They created time for date nights amidst their busy schedules They took time out to have date nights. This is vital to building stronger together. No matter how busy your schedule may be, set time aside to go on date nights.
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Favorite Quotes & Thoughts from Kemi Sogunle
"“If you don't love yourself, you won't be happy with yourself. If you can't love yourself, you can't love anyone else. You can't give the love you do not have. You can't make anyone love you without loving yourself first.” - Kemi Sogunle
“The most painful moments and memories eventually lead to the greatest strengths and growth in life.” - Kemi Sogunle, Excerpt, "Beyond the Pain." Copyright ©2014. All Rights Reserved.
“Without making mistakes, there won't be lessons learned. Without getting hurt, there won't be knowledge gained. The only way we grow is by learning from the past. Always be willing to learn and grow daily. It's how we come to know who we are and what we are made of.” - Kemi Sogunle, Excerpt, "Being Single: A State for the Fragile Heart." Copyright ©2015. All Rights Reserved.
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