Martha Tara Lee
DHS, MA, BA
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Clinical Sexologist in Singapore Expert
Martha Tara Lee Quick Facts
- Main Areas
- Sexology, Human Sexuality
- Career Focus
- Clinical Sexologist
- Affiliation
- Eros Coaching, American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists , American College of Sexologists, Asia-Oceanian Federation for Sexology
Founder of Eros Coaching, Dr. Martha Tara Lee is a Clinical Sexologist who conducts sexuality and relationship coaching, and runs sexuality education events in Asia. She is compassionate, practical, honest, interactive and solution-focused. Dr. Lee incorporates a blend of conventional and alte ative approaches and draws upon a variety of styles and techniques to support each client as they work to resolve both current problems and long-standing patterns.
Based in Singapore, Dr. Lee utilizes her years of experience in professional communications and volunteer counseling to optimize her coaching work. A well-traveled Singaporean Chinese, Martha welcomes individuals as well as couples of all sexual orientations.
Often cited in the media, Dr. Lee is the appointed sex expert for Men’s Health Singapore, and Men’s Health Malaysia. She also contributes regularly towards YourTango and Elephant journal. She is also the host of weekly radio show Eros Evolution for OMTimes Radio. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40’ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. Her first book Love, Sex and Everything In-Between was published by Marshall Cavendish in Oct 2013.
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Online learning video: Fire on the Mountain
http://www.eroscoaching.com/2011/01/fire-on-the-mountain-male-genital-massage/
ex Possible: Overcome Vaginismus for Ladies
http://www.eroscoaching.com/2015/05/online-program-sex-possible-overcome-vaginismus-for-ladies/
Online learning video: Fire in the Valley
http://www.eroscoaching.com/2011/01/fire-in-the-valley/
Online learning video: Tantra Massage
http://www.eroscoaching.com/2010/07/tantric-massage/
Online learning video: Tantra Lovemaking
http://www.eroscoaching.com/2010/07/tantra-lovemaking-for-couples/
Online learning video: femme à femme
http://www.eroscoaching.com/2010/07/femme-a-femme/
Online learning video: Amazing World of Orgasm
http://www.eroscoaching.com/2010/07/amazing-world-of-orgasm/
Online learning video: Kama Sutra of Sexual Positions
http://www.eroscoaching.com/2010/04/kama-sutra-of-sexual-positions-and-the-fine-art-of-sexual-positions/
Online learning video: How to be a Sex Goddess
http://www.eroscoaching.com/2010/07/how-to-be-a-sex-goddess/
Online learning video: Lovers Getting Started with Erotic Massage
http://www.eroscoaching.com/2010/04/lovers-getting-started-with-erotic-massage/
Ready, Get Sex, Go: Overcome Premature Ejaculation for Men
http://www.eroscoaching.com/2015/05/online-program-overcome-premature-ejaculation-for-men/
Sex JumpStart for Couples!
http://www.eroscoaching.com/2013/11/online-program-sex-jumpstart-for-couples/
Martha Tara Lee Books
Petals
http://www.amazon.com/Petals-Nick-Karras/dp/097435628X?&camp=212361&linkCode=wey&tag=eroscoac-20&creative=391825
Love, Sex and Everything In-between
http://www.eroscoaching.com/2013/10/my-book-love-sex-and-everything-in-between/
What's Down There?
http://www.amazon.com/Whats-Down-There-Questions-Gynecologist/dp/0312644361?&camp=212361&liWh
I Love Female Orgasm
http://www.amazon.com/Love-Female-Orgasm-Extraordinary-Guide/dp/1569242763?&camp=212361&linkCode=wey&tag=eroscoac-20&creative=391825
She Comes First
http://www.amazon.com/She-Comes-First-Thinking-Pleasuring/dp/0060538260?&camp=212361&linkCode=wey&tag=eroscoac-20&creative=391825
Sex for One
http://www.amazon.com/Sex-One-Selfloving-Betty-Dodson/dp/0517886073?&camp=212361&linkCode=wey&tag=eroscoac-20&creative=391825
His Needs, Her Needs
http://www.amazon.com/His-Needs-Her-Affair-Proof-Anniversary/dp/0800717880?&camp=212361&linkCode=wey&tag=eroscoac-20&creative=391825
Cunt
http://www.amazon.com/Cunt-Declaration-Independence-Expanded-Updated/dp/1580050751?&camp=212361&linkCode=wey&tag=eroscoac-20&creative=391825
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The tribulations of a sexologist
When I started my practice, Eros Coaching, I was told unreservedly by many well-meaning people, often complete strangers, not to do so. Will I have enough business? Are Singaporeans going to come forward? “We are too shy!”, they exclaimed. “Why didn’t you stay in the United States and practice there? Surely, you don’t want to waste your time with this lot.”r
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Masturbation is self-love
Mention the word “Masturbation” and what do you think of? While masturbation means different things to different people, it is one of the most misunderstood subjects in the world, as it is enshrined in mystery and secrecy because of the simple reason we speak so little about it. Masturbation may evoke massive levels of guilt and shame, as many of us were told from when we were young not to touch ourselves “down there”.r
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Sex - a job or a joy?
Is sex a job or a joy to you? Sex means many things to different people, often depending on where they are emotionally, or even the time of their life. For some, it is a chore, a duty, an obligation, simply a way to keep the harmony in a relationship. For others, it may be a way to ensure food gets put on the table. Sex may even be viewed as a strategic decision to reduce the chances of the partner seeking sex elsewhere.r
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Want anything?
In this day and age, are we really suffering for want of… anything? Long before budget airlines, it was a very big deal when people would travel to other countries. So much so that friends and family would go to great lengths to show up at the airport just to wish that person ‘bon voyage’. Often the departing person would be asked to seek out and bring back a particular spice, cosmetic, or other luxury item, because such items were either unavailable or exorbitantly priced in Singapore. This practice still exists, and I’ve had experience of it from every angle.
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Sexual Consent: Women who don’t know how to say no
This is part four of a four-part series on sexual consent. The other pieces can be found here: Sexual consent: When no is no; Sexually Confused: When No is a Game; and No Go: Too Drunk to Consent. In early December, paparazzi pictures of 19-year-old Hong Kong starlet, Rose Chan, being kissed and hugged by fellow actors and co-stars Joe Ma, 43, and Benny Chan, 42, surfaced. The actors had apparently gone for supper after a day of filming in Hengdian, China.r
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The power of play
I have a question to ask you. Amidst the hustle and bustle of your busy work and personal lives, when was the last time you played? Close your eyes and try recalling some of the happiest moments in your life: What might they be? Whether this memory is of you as a child or as an adult, chances are, they involved some sort of play.
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Sexology is my calling. What’s yours?
I facilitated a session which defined sex, sexuality and intimacy during SlutTalk, a fringe event under SlutWalk Singapore. It was the inspiration for an earlier piece on publichouse.sg with the same title here. After my session, I thought I could go off-work, resume my civilian status, and was easing into my seat. An undergraduate lady sitting next to me began small talk by first remarking that I look nothing like my namecard/ website/ media pictures. She next asked me if my work was difficult.r
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Enjoying my body, moving without agenda
Last September, I attended a ten-day residential program, which is part of the Sexological Bodywork certification in Australia. Though this was the second time I was going through this program, I was returning as one of four assistant coaches. I felt it was important to connect with my community (sex-positive people who spoke my lingo), refresh my skills and acquire new knowledge.r
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Silence is golden
Have you heard of the saying, “Speech is Silver, Silence is Golden?” This phrase can be traced back to early Egyptians and it essentially means that while speaking is good, saying nothing is better. Discretion can be worth more than even eloquent words. Have you ever felt glad, relieved even, to get away from someone because the person would not stop talking, and worse yet, about themselves? Have you wished the person sitting behind you on the bus or standing behind you on the train would stop talking into their phone or to the person next to them at the top of their voice?r
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Book Review: Shameless
Book Review: Shameless – How I Ditched the Diet, Got Naked, Found True Pleasure… and Somehow Got Home in Time to Cook Dinner by Pamela Madsen I fell in ‘like’ with Pamela Madsen even before I heard about or read her first book Shameless. It happened when she shared her blog post ‘My Mother and The Gift of The Traveling Red Panties’ on Facebook. I instinctively felt that she was a woman who is honest, has a good sense of humour, and ‘gets’ what embracing her sexuality was all about.
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Book Review: His Needs, Her Needs
His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage – Fifteenth Anniversary Edition (2001) by Willard F. Harley, Jr. Most of us are probably familiar with ‘The Five Languages of Love’ by Gary Chapman. These “Five Love Languages” have been useful in helping people speak and understand emotional love when it is expressed through one of five ways: words of affirmation, quality time, receiving gifts, acts of service, or physical touch.
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Being Woman: A Singaporean Chinese Writes
For the longest time, being a woman, to me, meant being:rn-seen and not heard;rn-expected to help, serve (for instance cook, clean, iron) and please people around me, especially the men;rn-fertile, and being expected to bear children.rn-expected to look good, smell nice, and happy and positive at all times.
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“You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience by which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, 'I lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.” - Eleanor Roosevelt
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Sexuality Coaching
Sexuality coaching is conce ed with the physical, psychological, social, emotional, and spiritual makeup of an individual. It can address gender, gender role, gender identity, sexual orientation, sexual preference, and social norms as they affect physical, emotional, and spiritual life.
- 15 min consult – S$25 only.
- Private Coaching – Starts from one hour with different packages. Can come in as an individual or couple.
- Intensives – Can be four hours, one day, or multiple days. They are customised to your specific learning needs
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Life Coaching
Life Coaching is about breaking down the barriers, which prevent change from happening and creating the ideal environment for positive action to take place. It is a totally holistic approach which looks at the present and sets goals for a more successful future.
I also do shadow work which does addressing and releasing the thoughts and beliefs which are holding us in opposition to source energy and source perspective, the part of us that is not a match to who we truly are. Same rates as above.
Telephone Access
For greater convenience, telephone coaching or counseling is available through Skype. This option is extended to clients whom I have already met at least once. If you travel or other schedule demands make this the preferred option, please email to arrange.
Answer Sexuality Questions Via Email
At S$10, ask a factual question related to sex or sexuality and I will answer you within 72 hours! Note: This has to be a straight forward question where a clear answer is possible, and not applicable to personal sexual issues as it is not possible to diagnose or treat via email. Payment via Paypal.