Rhoberta Shaler
PhD, ARCT
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Consultant, Counselor, Coach, Catalyst for Optimizing Relationships & Results Expert

Rhoberta Shaler Quick Facts
- Main Areas
- Catalyst for Communication & Collaboration for Individuals, Couples & Business Teams
- Best Sellers
- Wrestling Rhinos: Conquering Conflict in the Wilds of Work; Soul Solitude: Taking Time for Our Souls to Catch Up; Optimize Your Day: Practical Wisdom for Optimal Living; What You Pay Attention to Expands; Keep It in Mind: Memorable Message for Staying on Track
- Career Focus
- Consultant. Coach. Speaker, Author, Mediator, Facilitator
- Affiliation
- Sow Peace™, For Women Entrepreneurs, Optimize Institute, Spiritual Living Network, , NAFE
Dr. Rhoberta Shaler is a relationship catalyst helping businesses prosper and people flourish. She is a noted speaker, author, executive coach and founder of the Optimize! Institute, OptimizeInstitute.com * Optimize Center, OptimizeCenter.com in Escondido, CA. Dr. Shaler works with leaders who know their people are their top resource and that building relationships is a top priority. As a coach and mentor, she helps executives and entrepreneurs create successful, aligned lives and businesses simultaneously. Founder of Sow Peace®, She is works with individuals, couples, families & workplace teams to create collaborative solutions and agreements to resolve relationship problems.
Dr. Shaler is also the founder of the Spiritual Living Network, www.SpiritualLivingNetwork.com , a free social networking site for spiritually-minded people. She created SLN to encourage spiritual dialogue and provide resources and support to help people align what they say they believe with what they do daily, in every relationship.
Dr. Shaler’s latest books, SOUL SOLITUDE: Taking Time for Our Souls to Catch Up’ and Wrestling Rhinos: Conquering Conflict in the Wilds of Work as well as more than a dozen other books and audio programs are currently published in nine languages. Her latest e-book, Pack Your Own Parachute: Tactics for Taming Tense Times is availabe at www.TamingTenseTimes.com You can receive her free e-book, ‘No Limits! No Doubts! No Kidding!” at www.NoLimitsLiving.com For an overview of Dr. Shaler’s work, visit www.Rhoberta.com
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Rhoberta Shaler Audio & Video Programs
Rhoberta Shaler Books
Soul Solitude: Taking Time for Our Souls to Catch Up
www.SoulSolitude.com
What You Pay Attention to Expands
www.OptimizeShop.com
Optimize Your Day: Practical Wisdom for Optimal Living
www.OptimizeShop.com
Wrestling Rhinos: Conquering Conflict in the Wilds of Work
www.OptimizeShop.com
Keep It in Mind
www.OptimizeShop.com
Prevent Free Fall: Pack Your Own Parachute - Tactics to Triumph in Tense Times
www.OptimizeShop.com
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Backstabbers Lose!
BACKSTABBERS LOSEn© Rhoberta Shaler, PhDnwww.OptimizeInstitute.com www.WorkplacePeopleSkills.com Whatever are people thinking when they are two-faced? Are they really thinking that people are stupid and can't see the forest for the trees? When meetings take place surreptitiously, behind ...
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What Do You Mean I'm Angry!@#$%!
www.OptimizeInstitute.com www.WorkplacePeopleSkills.com www.TamingTenseTeams.com n When you reach your boiling point, what do you do with the steam? This makes all the difference in your relationships at home, atnwork, and, with yourself. Do you know when you are angry? Many folks don't. ...
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How To Negotiate Effectively
www.OptimizeInstitute.com www.WorkplacePeopleSkills.com www.TamingTenseTeams.com Negotiation is a fact of life. Little children learn about it early. You did, too. Were you effective? Are you now? Do you want to improve your abilities? Feel better about both the outcome and yourself when ...
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Negotiating Is A Way Of Life
www.OptimizeInstitute.com www.WorkplacePeopleSkills.com www.TamingTenseTeams.com You negotiate all day long. If you are not doing it with yourself, you're doing it with others. Sometimes, subtle, sometimes overt, negotiating happens continuously. Nothing could be simpler or broader in scope ...
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How To Deal With Difficult People
www.OptimizeLifeNow.com www.WorkplacePeopleSkills.com www.TamingTenseTeams.com Let's face it. For a minute or two every little while, every one of us is someone else's idea of a 'difficult person'. OK, that's a given. There are, however, folks who make a lifestyle of being difficult. At ...
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Unresolved Conflict Is Organizational Bloodletting
UNRESOLVED CONFLICT IS ORGANIZATIONAL BLOODLETTINGn© Rhoberta Shaler, PhDnwww.OptimizeInstitute.com www.WorkplacePeopleSkills.com www.TamingTenseTeams.com Unresolved conflict is like blood-letting: immediate pain, a big mess, then, a slow draining while no one does anything - or worse yet, ...
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Favorite Quotes & Thoughts from Rhoberta Shaler
Everything is as it must be now. I am at peace. - Rhoberta Shaler & G. Charles Andersen in Soul Solitude
Once you make a decision, the Universe conspires to make it happen. - Ralph Waldo Emerson
If one would take time, once a day at least, to let go of all that is not true and lay hold of Reality; let go of doubt, distrust, worry, condemnation and fear, and lay hold of Life in its expressions of beauty, truth and wholeness, his mental congestion would be healed. Keep the mind and body open to the reception of Truth. - Ernest Holmes
True forgiveness is in closing our eyes and getting within, in the spiritual sense of things, and there getting in touch with the reality of that individual and finding athat all reality is God and there never has been a sin or a mistake or anything to overcome. - Joel Goldsmith
By believing passionately in something that still does not exist, we crate it. The nonexistent is whatever we have not sufficiently desired. - Nikos Kaantzakis
Contacting Rhoberta Shaler
You may contact Dr. Rhoberta Shaler at:
The Optimize Center
365 West 2nd Avenue, Suite 101A,
Escondido, CA 92025
760.747.8686
Or through her websites:
www.SpiritualLivingNetwork.com
'People Skills' Development for the Workplace:
Ezines:
www.SpiritualLivingNetwork.com
For a general overview of the many websites and offerings:
How to get started
If you want to enhance your team or company, visit: www.TamingTenseTeams.com
If you want to strengthen your 'people skills'--communication, conflict & anger management, negotiation--vist: www.WorkplacePeopleSkills.com
If you would like personal, executive or team coaching, visit: www.OptimizeCoaching.com
If you want to create the life and livelihood you long for...and are female...visit: www.ForWomenEntrepreneurs
If you are looking for an informative, motivating speaker for your next business event, visit: www.OptimizeInstitute.com & www.ForWomenEntrepreneurs.com
If you are looking for a thought-provoking, inspiring speaker for your next general conference, visit: www.Rhoberta.com
If you would like to interact with other spiritually-minded people worldwide, join www.SpiritualLivingNetwork.com There is no membership fee.
If you would like to receive our ezines, Daily Spiritual Quotes, The Rhino Wrestler or Spiritual Living Digest, visit www.Rhoberta.com
Other highlights
We invite you to walk on the spiritual life journey with us at www.SoulSolitude.com Through frequent teleseminars, discussion groups, seminars and retreats, we explore the deep, mystical aspects of life and spirituality, and discuss the issues, perceptions, questions and thoughts that accompany a focused spiritual journey.
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