Richard Cole
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Richard Cole Quick Facts
- Main Areas
- Healing Affairs and Breaks of Trust
- Affiliation
- UKCP Accredited
Relationship Counselling, Couples Counselling, Marriage Guidance London
I work with couples who want to have an honest look at what is going on in their relationship - no matter what it is - to move towards creating the relationship they want.
There may be a particular issue you wish to sort out in your relationship or you may just want to communicate better and fight less. Relationship counselling builds on what first attracted you to each other and what can be done to reduce hurt and conflict. You may be in a pattern where one you, “wants more and the other withdraws”.
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Relationship Advice on Mens Mother Complex - Rape of the Heart
Insights For Marriage Counselling This article describes a common relationship pattern where men have closed down their “ability to feel’. The origin of this pattern is the man attempted to fill his father’s role when he was a boy. He attempted to meet his mother’s needs at the cost of his own. Emotionally he was asked for more than he could give resulting in a closed heart. Many men suffer from this today. Background
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Relationship Counselling / Couples Counselling - Why it's A Good Idea
If you are getting stuck in arguments relationship counselling is a good idea because you soon find out that there is more to understanding what is going on that you may initially think. It's wise to take time to evaluate and reflect before making big decisions; It might come as a surprise to find that you and your partner unconsciously co-create the issues. It takes two. Relationship counselling gives you insights and perspectives on your relationship patterns. These patterns can be strong. It can be too much to expect yourselves to work it out on your own without support.
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Sulking - An expert Guide
This article takes a light-hearted look at what it takes to be an expert sulker. The first step out of sulking is to gain awareness of what it is to sulk. The remainder of article describes an alte ative to sulking. Sulking is a primitive way to deal to feelings of being hurt. We all know the feeling of being hurt and wanting to withdraw, not able to express how we feel in the moment. To Be An Expert Sulker Bear the following in mind:
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All relationships go through challenging times -
How you handle those times makes the difference
Most couples come for relationship counselling because they want to be able to talk about things without arguing or sulking. They want to know what they can do to become closer and have more fun.
Try a session. It can be a huge relief to have some support to start to address the issues together.
Marriage Counselling
It’s common that very soon after getting married that issues come to the surface. Marriage counselling provides the structure, support and advice to help you understand how you can strengthen your emotional bond and work things through. Coming for marriage counselling doesn’t mean your relationship issues are any worse that for other couples; It means that rather than suffering and making do, you are motivated to improve your relationship.
Premarital Counselling
You can make part of making a commitment to each other, discovering how to express your feelings and needs openly with your partner, in a way that you both get heard. A good marriage is based on a willingness to speak up when there is an issue, to be honest and real. In order to do this it helps to develop the skills to express and negotiate your needs. Premarital counselling shows you how to bring more of who are into the relationship and how to be emotionally available to each other.
Affairs, Cheating and Betrayal
I imagine if you are have recently found out about your partner’s affair, you are in shock or feel hurt. You may keep going over the details, trying to understand what happened. You may feel right now that you will never be able to trust your partner again. If you have broken your partner’s trust, I imagine you feel awful about it, maybe ashamed, maybe fearful of losing your partner and not sure how to answer their questions. These reactions are typical. Yes, affairs and cheating can be worked through if you are willing to take the time to understand what is going on unde eath in your relationship. Breaks of trust indicate that something needs to be paid attention to.
Marriage and Relationship Advice
Relationship Counselling helps you understand what is going on in your relationship and to discover better ways of communicating your feelings and needs. Relationship advice and Marriage advice comes in the form of practical suggestions that guide you to communicate or understand yourself and your partner in a different way. My suggestions and support to allow you to re-evaluate, to explore and experiment, so you can to find out what works for you as a couple.
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