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"If dating is an art, then I must be a math teacher." Ever feel like the dating scene just doesn't make sense? Why is it so hard to find a quality relationship? Penguins don't seem to have any problem, and I'm smarter than a stupid penguin. When it all comes down to it, love and relationships just happen. Being prepared however, is where they're fortified or broken.
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Desperation Doesn't Work
You’re on a date. It’s going well. You enjoy the person you’re with, and while it’s still too early to know for sure, you have a feeling this could be something serious. Additionally, you’ve been searching for that someone for quite some time, and are tired of the whole dating scene. You may not want to admit it, but you’re desperate to find love. You want to breathe that sigh of relief, knowing that you’ve found what you’ve been searching for. The problem is, is that if you appear desperate you may scare your potential prince or princess charming away.
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How To Court A Woman
This may seem self-explanatory, but as we all know not everything is as easy as it looks. Courting a woman is a process; there is no doubt about it. Time and effort and required to successfully gain the admiration and/or love of any young lady. The common problem that men run into, while making an attempt at this, is assuming that “what is good for the goose must be good for the gander.” In truth, men and women think and perceive things very differently. It's important, as a guy, to put yourself in her shoes.
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Trust. Its Important
Trust. It isn’t a tangible thing, but its importance outweighs any physical gift you could ever receive. What does it mean to trust someone though, and why is it important? Well the easy answer, is safety. In a relationship you want to feel safe and confident with your partner. If you feel that you can trust them with a secret or trust that they won’t hurt you (emotionally, physically, or mentally) then you feel safe and confident. You feel on top of the world because you’re happy with the person you’re with and you know they would go to war for you (metaphorically) in a second.
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Love or Lust at First Sight
Intimacy and Dating Advice 101: In our modern society there is a great disconnect in the dating world. What is it? Its how men and women view love, and lust. This is important for many reasons, but none more important than communication. It is plain and simple, communicate better and your relationship will grow. However, neither sex really understands where the other is coming from, and this creates misunderstandings - and broken hearts.
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Expect The Unexpected: Dating Advice for Women
Hello ladies - today we're talking about what to expect in love and dating. Expectations can be a useful meter to test a particular guy against what you feel you deserve. The obvious problem though is setting these expectations too high and demanding more from a potential relationship than is appropriate. Of course, depending on your experiences with dating and relationships, your age, and your state of mind you probably have a set of ideas and expectations about your ideal man.
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Book Smart or Street Smart
Recently, there was an NBC Nightline special about a doctor that fell for a Nigerian money scam. You know, those e-mails that promise you millions of dollars in return for accepting a package on behalf of their government. The reporters where wondering how such an educated individual could fall prey for such an obvious scam. Their answer was: he's book smart, but not street smart.
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Woman, not Women
It sure is great to be a guy in this day in age, isn’t it? It is not uncommon for men to hold multiple relationships with women in various places, while they decide which one they want to be with. It’s almost like a reality show when you think about it. Yet, when women do the same thing they are ridiculed and devalued. How is that fair? That is just the way it is, and while I could spend some time getting into the incongruencies between men and women, that is not the main topic of this article.
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How Ego Gets In The Way
Let’s talk about your ego. It is that little voice in your head that says “hey, you’re better than this.” Sometimes its wise to shut that voice up, but sometimes it isn’t. Sometimes you can’t stop the voice from taking over your actions, other times its trained well enough to stay out of your daily affairs. In either case, the ego can be a gift and a curse, it all depends on how its used.
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Acceptance is Paramount
When people say they “accept” someone, what does that mean? Do they agree with what the other person believes? Have they seen something within the other person that proves their worth? It’s a complicated question for sure, but usually, it doesn't just mean in general, but instead regarding a specific part of that person. It means that something little, something deep within, has been recognized and approved. As a result, that person is “accepted” for being something special.
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