Valeria Tari

"Humility does not mean we accept what IS, but rather that we accept what we DESERVE." Valeria Tari

"Pride is humility’s killer." Valeria Tari

"When we fight through our ego, we deny ourselves the good. If we surrender, we may encounter what is rightfully ours." Valeria Tari

"Until we let go of attachment, we do not grant ourselves the opportunity to connect freely, and therefore can never achieve that." Valeria Tari

"Emotional attachment stifles all possibilities." Valeria Tari

"Without intention and the willingness to learn, we cannot change anything or anyone." Valeria Tari

"More often than not, we must change ourselves in order to bring about change in others." Valeria Tari

"Our surroundings and circumstances are mirrors reflecting our own inner selves." Valeria Tari

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A great percentage of us THINK that we understand men when normally what we read are the stereotypical articles written by women in the pages of magazines and tabloids. Much of it has nothing to do with reality or the truth. Now you have every right to pose the question, “How can you know the solution? After all, you’re a woman, too.”

You are completely right. I truly am a woman. The type of woman who, for most of her life until now, suffered and struggled and searched for happiness, her path, her calling, a man, herself, and a joyous relationship. A woman who, instead of finding the miracle and completion, was constantly disappointed, falling into traps and deep pitfalls. A woman who always made her own progress harder, running into obstacles and battling overweight. Meanwhile, I fought for every relationship, but only ended up finding love that was hopeless and unrequited. A woman who lived through pain, sadness, loneliness, and lack of love. But after all that, I didn’t give up!

I summoned the hope and waited, trusting that someone would solve my problems for me. After being in pain for many long years, I awoke one day and said to myself, “ENOUGH! This is no good, and it can’t continue this way. I must do something, I must do something differently, because it isn’t working this way, and it isn’t good.” I heard my own cry for help. I began to immerse myself in my thoughts, seeking the answer to my questions. I began examining myself, my life, my fate, my opportunities, and men. I wanted to change. I consciously concentrated on what was happening to me and why it was happening. I sought out the company of men and talked to hundreds of them, so I could understand them and how they worked. I got to know many of them and read tons about them – books written by men about themselves. I attended self-awareness courses, continuously working on myself, and I developed. Then, I read more, attended more courses, and spoke to more men – until I finally understand my own inner workings and those of men.

I have been living a conscious life for fifteen years. I’ve learned several methods of self-awareness. I began to work on myself and confront myself, and that is when I came to see the ingrained patterns that defined and motivated me. The patterns I had learned did not allow me to be my true self, and they prevented me from achieving the happiness I desired. When I grew closer to my true nature – alongside further self-development – I started to hold therapy sessions, and eventually I taught as well. Thousands of realizations, thousands of revelations – honestly, we are talking about numbers that big – after plenty of pain, loads of bitte ess, and countless “A-HA” moments, I am finally my true self. I can do what I must do and be who I must be. I am a happy woman living in balance, harmony, and a joyous relationship. I have reached my goal. I arrived.

The many revelations, ingrained behaviors, courses, books, and conversations made me understand what it takes for a romantic relationship to work well. I learned how men work and what I had to do so we could work well together. Now I know the mistakes I made, when and how. I also learned how to act well and properly.

I want to make it possible for everyone to take possession of the secrets, because my heart’s desire is happiness for all Humanity. I want more and more women to be able to put these revelations to use, to turn these secrets to their advantage. It would be good for as many women as possible to know them, because they work and can lead to success. I would like every woman to experience what I do now. Happiness! GRATITUDE!