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A Smart New Year Resolution: Develop Self-Awareness & Become Empowered to Have a Successful Intimate Relationship

Written by Doron Gil, Ph.D.

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STICK ON TO YOUR NEW YEAR RESOLUTION & BECOME ABLE TO DEVELOP A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP

New-Year is a time for Resolutions. At times you promise yourself to do such and such in the coming year, but put this intention aside as soon as January 1 is over. The reason is that it is so easy and simple to just continue with things as they are, even if they don’t take you to where you want to be. However, you can promise yourself that, when it comes to a relationship, you will stick to your resolution.

Consequently:

If you truly wish to develop a successful relationship next year, and:

* You contemplate on making a New-Year Resolution which will enable you to find a partner and cultivate a successful intimate relationship this coming year, and

* Are motivated to pursue your resolution, hoping wholeheartedly to see your dreams come true,

Then:

Resolve to develop your Self-Awareness and to find out, once and for all, how to become empowered to find a partner with whom to cultivate a truly satisfying relationship.

Developing Self-Awareness will enable you to understand things about yourself you haven’t understood before. It will help you see how you might have shot yourself in the foot in your relationships, and how to change it.

IF YOU ARE SINGLE, Self-Awareness will enable you to understand what stands in your way from cultivating a relationship.

IF YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP, it will help you understand what stands in your way from being able to keep and improve it.

Working on developing your Self-Awareness will empower you to:

* Cultivate a successful relationship;

* Maintain and develop it;

* Feel satisfied;

* Be able to deal with whichever problems that might arise;
* Feel empowered to improve the bond continually, treating it in a constructive way.

Isn’t it a worthwhile New Year Resolution?

Having the motivation to stick to your resolution will enable you to see your desire for a relationship materialize.

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About the Author

Doron Gil, Ph.D., is an expert on Self-Awareness and Relationships with a 30 year experience as a university teacher, workshop leader, counselor and consultant. He has written more than 140 articles on the subject and is the author of “The Self-Awareness Guide to a Successful Intimate Relationship”. Available as eBook and Paperback: http://amzn.to/eAmMmH

More on Dr. Gil and his book: http://self-awareness-and-relationships.blogspot.com

For a complete list of Dr. Gil’s articles and their links: http://relationship-self-awareness-advice.blogspot.com

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