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Are You Getting Satisfaction? Take This Relationship Quiz

Topic: SexualityBy Dr. Leah SchwartzPublished Recently added

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Put your relationship to the test by answering this quiz/questionnaire.

1. Is the passion in your relationship:
1. improvingn 2. decliningn 3. staying the samen 4. gonenn 2. Is she sexually satisfied when you make love:
1. every timen 2. most of the timen 3. hardly eve
4. neve
n 3. Is he sexually satisfied when you make love:
1. every timen 2. most of the timen 3. hardly eve
4. neve
n 4. Are you both in the mood to make love:
1. always at the same timen 2. mostly at the same timen 3. rarely at the same timen 4. never at the same timenn 5. What happens most often whenever one of you expresses your sexual desire:
1. you make loven 2. you make plans to make loven 3. you try to make an excusen 4. you get into a fightnn 6. Which two are most important in your relationship:
1. just enjoying your time togethe
2. a good sex lifen 3. moneyn 4. televisionnn 7. Which two are most true of your relationship:
1. having fun together is still a priorityn 2. you still enjoy planning romantic dates togethe
3. she is not being sexually satisfiedn 4. he has problems becoming or staying turned onnn 8. Rate the spontaneity in your love life compared with how you remember it at the beginning of your relationship:
1. the samen 2. down a littlen 3. down a lotn 4. non- existentnn 9. How often does your partner use shortage of time as a reason for not making loven 1. neve
2. sometimesn 3. oftenn 4. alwaysnn 10. How often does your partner use tiredness as a reason not to make love:
1. neve
2. sometimesn 3. oftenn 4. alwaysnn 11. When your partner returns after a couple of days away, do you:
1. give them a wonderful hug and a loving kiss and say you’ve missed them:
2. give them a quick hugn 3. say hello but carry on with what you were doingn 4. ignore them-after all, you’ve seen them beforenn 12. It’s the eve of your partner’s birthday and you still haven’t bought a present. Do you:
1. spend your lunch hour hunting for the ideal giftn 2. run to the shops on the way home and grab something you hope they’ll liken 3. not bother with a present---a nice birthday card will be finen 4. not bother with anything---after all. Birthdays are just a boren

So how do you think your relationship has fared?

To find out the how your relationship scored, check out the guide below.

1. Mostly A’s: This shows your relationship is rock solid when it comes to sex an romance. If you have answered nearly every question with an A, the you are probably as happy together as the day you met.

The spontaneity is still as sizzling as ever. In fact you are hard-pressed to find any faults in your partner.

2. Mostly B’s While you might not be as ecstatic as the people who answered A’s, you are pretty contented.

You still make love when one of you is in the mood-at least most of the time. To rekindle the passion you had at the start of your relationship, try to be more romantic towards your mate.

3. Mostly C’s- This relationship is running into serious trouble but it’s not too late to put things right.

While you often say you are too tired for love you still find energy sometimes. Try talking to each other again---then you can start to get on like you used to.

4. Mostly D’s- There isn’t much happy about this relationship—for either of you.

You probably argue over just about everything—especially sex. If you want to stay together, you will have to learn to talk and listen to each other honestly and say what you really want and need.

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A sex educator for over 20 years, Dr. Leah Schwartz is co-author of the best-selling book, The One Hour Orgasm, and the author of FUNGASMS: The Ultimate Guide To Having Fun Every Day; WHO TAUGHT YOU THAT?: Answers to 101 Important Questions About SEX; as well as a popular series of Venus Butterfly videos, including; FOR HIS EYES ONLY: How to Make Sex More Fun for Her and; FOR HER EYES ONLY: How to Make Sex More Fun for Him -- these and a free Sensual Tips newsletter are available at VenusButterfly.com.