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Be a Blessing

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No matter how much effort you put into your life, you will never be truly fulfilled until you pour yourself out into the lives of others. Need is everywhere, and true greatness occurs when you are able to give of yourself. It may sound odd, but one way to make sure that your needs are continually being met its to continually try to meet the needs of others. It's so much easier to lift yourself up if you are focused on lifting up others in the process.

You are not playing this game of life solo. We're all on the same team. Moms are intrinsically aware of this fact because we can easily go from morning to night without giving a single thought to our own care and keeping. But true selflessness does not translate to putting yourself dead last. On the contrary, selflessness happens when you are able to be a totally fulfilled individual and then let that energy pour out into the lives of those around you. It's true with everyone. We can be more for our children, our husbands, our friends, and the world around us when we are more for ourselves. And when we are living up to our full potential, that's when we truly have something to offer this world.

You may think that you have little to offer. The needs are so great out there, and you are only one person. Recall the beauty of a starlit night. The sky would be awfully bleak without any stars, but as each one glimmers in the night sky, the heavens become jeweled with glory. Be a jewel in this world by pouring out your blessings to the world around you. You can do anything - whether it's tutoring kids, volunteering in a soup kitchen, or shopping for elderly people. Find something you can do and do it.

It takes a certain amount of trust to let go of our time, money, energy, and possessions. But life works in a fluid manner. Blessings cannot pool up and stagnate. If they do, they are not longer blessings, but trappings. If you really want to be blessed, then be a blessing. When you do, you will experience fulfillment of supe
atural proportions. If you try to hold on to things, you are left feeling empty. But if you let go and give of yourself, then you will feel totally and completely full. You fill up by pouring out!

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Mom expert Hannah Keeley is a blogger, author, founder of the website www.hannahkeeley.com, and homeschooling mother of seven. Check out a mom's fail-proof way to improve her life in only 5 minutes at http://hannahkeeley.com/coaching/the-five-minute-mom.

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