Be “The Artist” of Your Relationship Success Story

You may be trying for a long time now to find a partner (if you are still single) with whom to develop a successful relationship, or to develop a satisfying one (if you already have a partner).

In order to succeed you have probably read advice columns about dating and relationships. Listened to various tips about “how to date”, “how to make a relationship work”, “how to communicate”, and so on and so forth. In most likelihood you did what is “customary” to do; whatever everybody else is doing in their search for a relationship, and did NOT do what others don’t.

But if you haven’t been successful until now to develop the relationship that you want, isn’t it time for you to find a new way to approach dating and relationship, one which will lead you to success?

HOW TO BE “THE ARTIST”OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP SUCCESS STORY

Here is some advice on how to go about finding and developing a satisfying relationship:

1. Get up the courage to do things differently: Sometimes in order to succeed you need to take an approach others haven’t taken; an approach you yourself have never taken before.

2. At times, only when you take a risk and do things YOUR way - you succeed. A beautiful example of it can be found in the movie “The Artist”: it has taken an unconventional approach to the way movies are presently done and won Oscar in 5 categories! If you find your own authentic way of approaching dating and relationships you can also win.

3. Rather than continue looking for more tips on how to go about finding a partner and having a relationship, you may want to consider developing your Self-Awareness. This means, taking the steps to becoming aware of the ways in which you might have harmed your attempts at relationships until now. In all likelihood you are not aware of the specific ways in which you shoot yourself in the foot. And until you become aware, you can’t change whatever it is that you do that have hurt your attempts so far.

4. There is a saying: “If you do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always gotten ...”

If you have failed in your attempts until now, the only way for you to eventually succeed in having a satisfying relationship is by approaching dating and relationships differently than the way you have been doing them until now.

5. There is probably “something” you do that hinders your attempts. These could be your fears, needs, reactions or behaviors, unrealistic expectations or fantasies, or any combination of the above which makes you fail in your attempts at relationships. Becoming aware of what this “something” is will enable you to de-activate its power over you and enable you to approach dating and relationships in a way leading to success.

As you develop awareness and become The Artist of your own way of approaching dating and relationships, you will succeed in developing a satisfying relationship.