Creating The Relationship Space He Needs
Written by Coach Tatia Dee
The reason a man needs space in a relationship is because it helps him to stay emotionally connected to the woman he loves. This is known as emotional attraction.
No matter what your situation is – if your man is pulling away, man-caving or leaning in hard trying to get his way with you, ALLOW HIM THIS SPACE to show you what he wants and to (attempt to) do what he wants.
This may seem contrary to everything you’ve been taught about love and dating – but the power of your feminine energy is key to creating the relationship space he needs to get closer to you!
Don’t believe me? Then practice the following tools for three days:
First, increase your non-verbal communication
– smile at him more,
– hold eye contact with him for 3-5 seconds (then you look away and go back to what you were originally doing),
– laugh with him,
– hum or sing softly and
– making other non-verbal sounds like ooooooh, ahhhhh and mmmm.
Get more poetic with your words to him.
Second, gently shift your thoughts from him, and from the relationship.
Shift your thoughts to you, the things you enjoy and what's important to you in your life today.
When he’s in front of you, then he exists. When he’s not in front of you, he doesn’t exist.
Third, keep a calendar and a schedule. Please, please, please schedule some “me time” for yourself. Schedule some time for a good friend and/or family members. Monthly, weekly or something else. Have and maintain some time outside of your relationship or dating situation.
Fourth, no future forecasting about the relationship. Resist. Forecast for yourself only. Not even about when you’re going to see each other next.
Fifth is communicating with him using a method called "receiving and responding." Receiving from him is opening up your heart and tolerating him giving you attention, gifts, compliments and more . . . Responding is how you participate in the relationship with him, and it’s your form of “giving back” using your feminine words and actions. â¥
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Coach Tatia Dee helps women create a more Feminine, Powerful and Irresistible Life on her Relationship advice website www.Powertolove.com
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