Dear Dr. Romance: I don't know how to choose a man
Written by Tina Tessina - Dr. Romance
Dear Dr. Romance:
You give good advice and I really like the articles you have here. I wish I could apply it to my life. I have married and divorced twice and i always tell myself "I don't know how to choose a man".
But is it the man or me who is wrong? I don't know. Now, I have a new relationship and I am afraid to lose again this time. Can you tell me what to do?
Dear Reader:
Thanks for letting me know enjoyed the articles. Yes, there are many articles there that can help you, like "Keys to a Happy Relationship"; "Couples Can Cooperate for Success"; and "Creating Unconditional Love" which will help you and your new partner develop a successful relationship. "You be the Judge" gives you a way to make sure you have a good man. I've just become the Chief Romance officer of LoveFilter.com, a relationships website for singles and couples, where you can learn a lot about taking your relationship from good to great. Sign up for all the news at Love Filter .com and like us at https://www.facebook.com/LoveFilter. It will be a great place for you and your new partner to have fun, and learn more about love and each other.
Love Styles, How to Celebrate Your Differences will give you a lot of information and exercises you can do by yourself or with your partner to hone your relationship skills.
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About the Author
Tina B. Tessina, Ph.D., "Dr. Romance," http://www.tinatessina.com, is a licensed psychotherapist in S. Califo
ia, with 35+ years experience in counseling individuals and couples and CRO (Chief Romance Officer) for Love Filter - the Relationships Website. She's the author of 13 books in 17 languages, including Money, Sex and Kids: Stop Fighting About the Three Things That Can Ruin Your Marriage; Lovestyles: How to Celebrate Your Differences; and The Unofficial Guide to Dating Again. She publishes the Happiness Tips from Tina email newsletter, and the Dr. Romance Blog. She has written for and been interviewed in many national publications, and she has appeared on Oprah, Larry King Live and many other TV and radio shows.
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