Dear Dr Romance: I Need a Good Self-Help Book

Dear Dr. Romance:

I congratulate you for your many helpful articles on the Internet. I would like to have your advice. I am male and in the last 25 years I had a therapy experience which lasted 3 1/2 years and left me with unresolved issues; shorter therapy experiences with different therapists, which I ended, because it seemed to be prolonged pointless therapy, for the sake of therapy. I am left with frustration from the futility of these experiences. Since then, I made significant progress both in profession and family, not in spite of bad therapy. I can't find good therapists, but I have found good books. I have tried to get some therapists to help me follow the suggestions in the books but they have refused.I would appreciate it if you can suggest me a good self-help book which would help me step-by-step to become free from my negative programming.

Dear Reader:

Thank you for your kindness. From what you write, I would suggest my own book It Ends With You: Grow Up and Out of Dysfunction [http://j.mp/HcxXnw]. It sounds like you have some attachment issues which keep expressing themselves with therapists. I'm a bit surprised that they didn't know how to deal with those issues if you brought them up. I think you'll find what you need in the book, and if you want to go deeper, try The REAL 13th Step [http://j.mp/Hcy4zq] which gives you six specific tools to modify your subconscious. You might also find some help in my article "Winning the War Within" [http://www.tinatessina.com/war_within.html] which is on my website for free. Best of luck with this, and please let me know what you think.