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Do you just Know About It, or have Authentic Hands-on Experience? Part 4 in the Do What Works series
Topic: Stress ManagementBy Cris BakerPublished Recently added
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Do Only What Works
To achieve the results you want, you need to do what works and not to do what doesn't work. And it's your job to ascertain which is which! Once you know the difference you'll be more effective in achieving your goals.
When you have experience in a field, it's natural to want to share your secret of success with others. Yet many people find an idea that seems plausible, and then prematurely try to persuade others to follow it. But without empirical know-how, how can they know that it does work? They ignore the vast difference between just knowing about something and genuine hands-on experience.
Do they Have the Experience?
Experience gives credibility. When you listen to a sports commentator, the difference is clear. Those who have played the game extensively have the ring of authenticity when they say: "He's now digging deep!" You'll change your life by following those with experience and ignoring those who only know about, but pretend they really know instead.
Are they Telling you What To Do?
Many people will tell you to do what they do, ignoring the fact that their context is always different to yours. So beware of encouraging others to follow you.
But how do you help someone to become more effective without telling them what to do? Simple, the secret of success is to extend the Do What Works strategy:
- Do what works for you to achieve whatever you seek to be, do, or have.
- Do NOT do what doesn't work to get you there.
- Encourage others to do what works for them to achieve whatever they seek.
- Encourage others to stop doing what doesn't work to get them there.
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About the Author
Cris Baker has much practice in overcoming adversity, he's been screwing things up for years! Why suffer the consequences of your own mistakes? Now you can benefit from real knowledge, crucial know-how gained from his vast experience with extensive pain and suffering!
You'll find enormous joy in overcoming your self sabotage; check out the secrets of success at Life Strategies, learn to do what works and discover how to change your life!
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