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From Unfair to Fair - the Four Steps to Filling your Life with Power
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Politicians benefit by pretending life is unfair
Life is not fair! complain envious citizens when they see someone with more than they have.
Life should be fair! says the politician, and I can fix the problem. Elect me and I'll ensure the law is changed to make it fair. There are many "useful idiots", in Vladimir Lenin's phrase, who believe their politicians without skeptically exploring to see if their words make any sense, or no sense - nonsense. [Crucial hint: Always investigate what someone has to gain - especially if they want you to believe them without questioning what they say.]
This becomes yet another excuse for government to interfere in the smooth running of the economy. And eliminating inequality becomes yet another impossible goal for government, politicians, and bureaucrats alike.
Public Choice
It's important not to be cynical. But it's equally important to ask yourself if someone trying to persuade you to believe what they say. Is it genuinely in your best interests, or in their own?
Professor James M. Buchanan* of the Cato Institute won the 1986 Nobel prize for Economics by demonstrating that both politicians and government employees are just as venal - mercenary - as everyone else. His Public Choice** analysis conclusively proved that self-interest is not solely for private citizens, exactly the same self-interest is also the primary conce
of politicians and public servants.
Even when someone has nothing to gain by your belief, and so may not be spinning the truth, they will naturally put their own best interests first. First come their spouse, their children, and the rest of their family; then come their goals, their ambitions, their friends...
Why does Life seem so Unfair?
Nishant (name disguised) recently asked: Why does life rain the hardest on those who deserve the sun?
I replied that the rain is to strengthen them so troubles worry them less. Iron is far stronger once it becomes steel in the heat of the forge. We all become stronger when we overcome our troubles. [But don’t ask for strength, since what you'll often get is more adverse situations in which you can develop that strength you desire...]
Nishant continued. But it's not fair.
My reply? Life is entirely fair. But you only get this when you understand its context, that it goes round in circles. In life:
- you judge yourself and your situation at every moment
- you then choose your next action
- all actions have consequences, some more unpleasant than others, and
- "what goes around, comes around"
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Cris Baker has much practice in overcoming adversity, he's been screwing things up for years! Why suffer the consequences of your own mistakes? Now you can benefit from real knowledge, crucial know-how gained from extensive painful experience.
The judgment that life is unfair is an unproductive and incorrect judgement. Rather discover the empowering difference between assessment and judgement, and you'll feel better about yourself and your life.
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