Gasp! Do People Actually Have Oral Sex? (Video)
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Everyone has their own sexual preferences, whether it's plain old missionary position, lights off, oral sex, anal sex (gasp!), or any one of dozens of exotic sexual activities.
nOf course, nobody thinks of what they like as a weird fetish. No, what they like is always "OK" and "mainstream". Then we hear about someone doing something just a little more weird, just a little different from what we're comfortable with, and suddenly it's a "kinky fetish".
nHere's a question from a man in Georgia, who's absolutely shocked to have discovered that some people seem to actually enjoy oral sex. Is it blasphemy, or has he just been missing out?
nnnDear Dan and Jennifer,
nDo people really perform oral sex? Seems disgusting to me. Is it rare, or do couples regularly do it? I never thought of such a thing until I got on the Internet. It was never discussed in my circle of friends.
n-- Harold, GA
Watch this short video for our thoughts on this very interesting question...
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nDo Regular People Actually Engage in Oral Sex?
nAbsolutely. There are people out there who enjoy every type of fetish and exotic sexual activity imaginable. From enjoying oral sex, to relishing anal sex, to threesomes and swinging, and other fetishes you've never even imagined.
nAnd of course there are people who want absolutely no part of any of these activities. They are content with missionary position on the third Thursday of every month, give or take a week. :-)
nThere are even some people out there who consider sex without the specific objective of making a baby to be a sin!
nThe Most Important Rule for Sexual Fantasies and Fetishes
nMost importantly, figure out what you like to do, and find someone who likes to do these things with you. And then have fun, lots of it...
nThis is a private agreement between the two of you. Don't focus on what other people do or say, unless you're looking for other things to try with your partner. Also, don't try to force something on your partner that they are not comfortable with. This is about making each other happy, not forcing your ideas on your partner. Especially with oral sex, if you do it right, I think your partner will come around. Yes, the pun was intended!
nHow to Become an Expert at Giving Oral
nRemember. Just because women aren't very vocal about requesting oral sex, doesn't mean they don't like it and WANT IT.
nTwo of our most popular articles in recent months have focused exclusively on pleasing your lady with oral sex. These are the Female Orgasm Black Book review, and a review of well known romance expert Michael Webb's groundbreaking new guide called "Lick by Lick". If you haven't seen these already, go check them out.
nMen shouldn't feel left out though. If you're looking for a guide to buy for your lady friend, get her a copy of Michael Webb's just released "Blow By Blow" - a guide to pleasing the man in your life. Yeah, you read that title right, and that's what it's about. Don't blush, you know you either like it or would like to try it. :-)
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