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Marry YourSelf First: The 13 Most Important Questions for Your Best Life

Written by Ken Donaldson

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Here’s something everyone can relate to: Your Car.

That wonderful and amazing piece of technology that takes you from one place to another… usually without any difficulty.

And what is one big element the car relies on to get you there?

The tires…those round rubber donuts which “usually” create no problems.

Let’s talk about your tires…stick with me here… it’ll all start to make sense…I promise!

Think of your life as being a car and your tires as one of the most important dynamics to get you where you want to be in your life.

Each of the tires have an important role, so let’s take a closer look at the tires…

Tire #1: The Know YourSelf Tire

This tire consists of your purpose, your values and your vision.

Take the time now to answer the following questions:

  • Why am I here (purpose)?
  • Where am I going (vision)?
  • What’s most important (values)?

If this tire is not properly aligned, balanced or inflated, your car will not work properly and you’re likely to have a breakdown on the Highway of Life.

And THAT would be a HUGE bummer!

Tire #2: The Love YourSelf Tire

This tire consists of the ways you affirm yourself, talk to yourself, talk about yourself and the balance (or lack thereof ) you have in your life.

Answer these questions now:
• What good things do I say to myself every day?
• How do I celebrate me every day?
• How do I love myself every day?
• How do I keep myself healthy every day?

Like tire #1, if this tire is not properly aligned, balanced or inflated, your car will not work properly and you’re likely - again - to have a breakdown on the Highway of Life.

More bummers!

Tire #3: The Believe in YourSelf Tire

This tire consists of your self-confidence, your communication capabilities, and your ability to “Play Big” in life.

Answer these additional questions now:
• How do I strengthen my confidence muscle?
• How do I expand my communication skills?
• How can I play bigger and bigger every day in Life?

Yes, like tires #1 and #2, if this tire is not properly aligned, balanced or inflated, your car will not work properly and you’re most likely to have a breakdown on the Highway of Life.

Breakdowns like these are unnecessary and HUGE bummers!

Tire #4: The Guide YourSelf Tire

This tire consists of your boundaries, priority management and stress management skills.

Answer these last questions now:
• How do I evaluate my boundaries?
• How do I prioritize my life?
• How do I manage stress in my life?

I’m sure you’re catching on…yes, like tires #1, #2 and #3, if this tire is not properly aligned, balanced or inflated, you’re likely to have a breakdown on the Highway of Life.

And another bummer!

NOW, the only other question is: What are you going to do about all this?

Only one answer… Marry YourSelf First!

Do this and you answer all 13 questions and you’ll know, love, believe and guide yourself to your Highest Good and Highest Life!

So…what are you waiting for? A Breakdown???

Go get your tire situation straightened out now.

At the very least, answer these 13 questions for yourself… they may be the most important questions you ever ask yourself!

And Marry YourSelf First every day…in every way!

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KI provide mental health counseling, marriage counseling and relationship counseling to help professionals and their families eliminate stress, maximize success and create extraordinary relationships at home, at work and in the community. As a mental health counselor, marriage counselor and relationship counselor my number one goal is to help people live their lives and relationships fully and completely. I've been offering counseling, coaching, and educational programs since 1987. My programs are focused on empowering people to have more successful lives, businesses and relationships. You'll always find FREE Life and Relationship Success Special Reports at http://kendonaldson.com/. I'm also the author of Marry YourSelf First! Say "I DO" to a Life of Passion, Power, Purpose and Prosperity http://www.marryyourselffirstbook.com/

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