Relationships: Clearing Reactions & Opening to Playfulness!

Relationship Empowerment - Clearing Reactions and Opening to Playfulness!
Most of us have so many fantasies of what the "perfect" connection looks like, and a few emotional wounds in the past that create a tough criteria for us to really open and risk sharing who we really are so we can control any future hurt we perceive could occur.
Unfortunately this creates firewalls and an inner judge that is not very playful or spontaneous in the moment, and actually steals a lot of inspiration and life energy from a very powerful force called Love from entering and empowering our lives.
If the Lightness of being and appreciation is what we all really seek to open to, why do we put so much energy into re-creating the past in the present moment when new opportunities arise? Perhaps it is because the world is wired to stay in the "critical ego mind" instead of continuing to grow, expand, and explore and calling this "risky" when this is our Creative Soul and Intelligence (also known as the Creative part of the Mind) that wants to awaken into higher heights and warmer depths of Freedom of Expression and Love Creation.

So as a Personal Growth Coach and Seminar Leader I focus on how much one's life is centered in Creating Forward Momentum into new EXPERIENCES, or someone is controlling their growth and impulses by REACTING to perceived fears that takes one into a CONCEPT. A concept of something will never be an experience and is centered around judgments and control. This control is usually fear based and sucks much life energy and inspiration out of us....

1. When you first meet someone and are interested, what energy and feelings do you send out telepathically without words?
2. How playful are you when you first meet someone to let them see your soul or real personality, or do you mostly hide this?
3. When an impulse comes in to explore who someone is or introduce yourself, what fears or self-judgments stop you from playing freely?
4. What is your biggest emotional hesitation when entering an intimate relationship?
5. When you start to get to know someone you like, do most of your questions come from the heart (feeling space) or the head (mental control space)?
6. Who are you angry at in your life that is blocking you from giving or receiving Love and Empowerment?
7. Remember a time that Love worked in your life and see a Scene from that relationship… Feel it, breathe in, and believe in new possibilities J
8. In what way do you manipulate others out of anger or resentment to get control?
9. In what way do you hold others momentum back or block their joy to not feel out of control and open to new possibilities yourself?
10. In what way do you not let yourself get “out of control” and block the flow of life energy when a new person enters your life?
11. What incomplete beliefs or judgments of your parents are you recreating in your relationships?
12. What made you feel Nurtured or Empowered in your last relationship?
13. Are you sensually creative and playful in a relationship, or a bit repressed and afraid of the vulnerability and the power behind this magical energy?
14. If repressed, what religious beliefs do you hold about allowing your power to manifest and about receiving pleasure? Are these beliefs serving you now?
15. In what way do you not tell the truth 100% when starting a relationship?
16. What few things said or done would have made your last relationship work?
17. Have you forgiven the last person you had a relationship with for where they did not meet all of your needs, so you can be present when meeting new souls?

What Do You Really Want & Need?
Make a detailed list of what qualities your ideal mate has, and more importantly what the Feeling would be like if you were with them now playing and creating. Allow your list to include everything this person would give you or the two of you would create in a right relationship. Then visualize this person appearing in your life playfully. Visualize them walking beside you and talking with you. Do this just before going to sleep for 3 weeks and see who shows up in the outer world!

Common Blockages
1. What do you react to, or avoid feeling when you first meet someone?
2. How much time each day do you spend noticing what is wrong with others?
3. How much time do you spend noticing what is wrong with yourself and not believing you are ok now and worthy of enjoying real love?
4. How much time do you spend waiting for someone else to magically fix your problems, issues, or bring success into your life?
5. How often do you put on the brakes emotionally when you feel 1 minor mistake or issue that doesn’t match your fantasy, instead of simply suspending this limiting thought and being open to knowing others at a deeper level before you make long term decisions?
6. Now Imagine yourself being free from any reactions and creating the Relationship you have always wanted without fears or hesitations. A right relationship will always contribute to your life 50/50 and empower and fuel you emotionally and mentally for months or years to come! Go ahead and dare yourself to create the dream, and take the risks of sharing and caring it takes to walk the walk!

Life and Love are a dance, enjoy and experience this Magical energy as much as you can!

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Paul Justi 805-241-8392 PST 10am-7pm
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