The differences between the Sexes
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WHY we are so different, all boils down to different
hormone distribution. Males possess 10-20 times more of the sex
hormone testosterone, then females & it flows through their bodies
on a daily basis, being highest in the AM, which explains why men
are horny first thing in the morning. Testosterone is responsible forr
Libido, aggression and competitive drive.
As to females, they are ruled by Estrogen, the "feeling hormone".
We get a few hormone surges throughout the month on the time
of ovulation, prior to our period & at the time of menstruation, all
of which can elicit moodiness, sadness, euphoria, depression and
overall bitchiness & malaise, depending on the individual female.
Unlike the male who gets a constant hormone flow day in day out,
women are subjected to constant changes in their bodies from the
waxing and waning of hormonal rushes, flooding through us like a
roller coaster taking us on emotional highs & lows, like the ebbing
and flowing of the sea.
Around ovulation, prior to our period & on a Full-Moon, testosterone
level increase and we get in the mood for love. Unlike males, women
go through stages of, "not in the mood, could be interested and yes,
I gotta have it" stages throughout the month, depending on her cycle.
Next, the reason why women get attached after sex, unlike men who
can keep sex and love separate, is once again hormone related. The
female releases a hormone called oxytocin after love making, which
is the same hormone that bonds a mother to her baby. This happens
regardless whether the sex was good, or bad & is often the reason
women stay in bad relationships.
Furthermore... male and female brains are different in size, as well
as in how they are wired. The males brain is compartmentalized and
is configured to concentrate on 1 task at the time, while the female
brain, although smaller in size then the males, can multitask and use
both sides of the brain, speech and emotions, simultaneously, while
men have to switch from left to right brain to access either separately.
Finally men and women have different priorities and perceive things
differently. While a man's focus is on his career, accumulating wealth
and gaining status in society, a female's goal is to built relationships,
interact in her community and finding Mr. Right to eventually have her
own family. While males are mostly visual, aggressive and competitive,
woman are emotional, nurturing and seeking to connect with others.
The # 1 female complaint is that men don't listen.
The # 1 male complaint is that women talk too much.
For more on the differences between the sexes, read "Why men don't
listen and women can't read maps" by Barbara and Allen Pease. It isrnquite fascinating. Here are a few excerpt:
Uptight men drink alcohol and invade another country. Uptight women
eat chocolate and invade shopping malls. This is why 90% of inmates
are male & 90% of people who see therapists are women. When mad,
women talk without thinking, while men act on impulse, without thought.
A men wants all women to fulfill his ONE need, while women want ONE
man to fulfill all her needs.
The reason men like to marry virgins is because they hate criticism and
unfavorable comparisons.
Et voila! Men... woman, differences explained!
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