Ups and Downs

Ups and downs, everyone has them. In work, in life, in relationships, even in fun.

Imagine a week where you feel utterly alone and single, blessed with plenty of friends, stressed because you are working too much, grateful because you love your work. You receive a call from a loved one struggling with addiction, a friend whose husband is battling cancer, yet several friends call to check on you, pray for you, and invite you out.

The week continues to be full of ups and downs in work. Several freelance jobs came through and you feel blessed because you have so much work. A couple of jobs don't come through so you hope the workload stays steady. You try to juggle a job and a business because you love both; but, it wears you down. Ever been there? Most entrepreneurs have. They know what it's like to burn the candle at both ends and when the right time is to blow one end out.

Just one week can contain so many ups and downs. Life and its seasons can contain ups and downs. It's important to remember, "this too shall pass", both the ups and the downs. The best way to look at each moment is to keep it in perspective with the larger picture.

Visualize what you want. As you proceed to move closer in the direction of what you want, the obstacles tend to disappear. The answers to how to go around them appear.

Although life is naturally full of ups and downs, and we all experience challenges, counting our blessings and being grateful for the small things will keep it all in perspective. Our perspective, our mindset, and our attitude can change even the most challenging of circumstances.

Finally, remember, when the challenges seem insurmountable, you always have support. Reach out to a friend or a loved one and ask for their help to put your situation in perspective.

And, enjoy the roller coaster ride.