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Your Self Esteem Will Improve With Persistence

Topic: Self-Esteem and Self ConfidenceBy Seyi EyitayoPublished Recently added

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It's a well known fact that nothing just happens in life. Something or someone has to make things happen.

Look around you, you will notice, you are surrounded by products of someone's imagination.

The car you drive, the clothes you wear, the house you live in etc. All these things were once a product of someone's imagination, but today we take them for granted and sometimes loose sight of where they originated from

What do you want?

Only you must decide by planting, that thought in your mind.

Make sure you nurture it with encouragement, action, determination and focus.

Your Definition of success can only be defined by you so, you must create a solid plan.

Below are some important things you must commit to

1,Surround yourself with a group of people who will help you carry out your action plan.

2,Before selecting the people you need. Ask yourself, "what can i offer them in return?

How can i create value for them?

These questions are very important because no intelligent person will work indefinitely for anyone without some form of compensation.

3,Commit to a regular meeting with your group to evaluate and work on your plans.Your meeting could be once a week or twice a week it does not really matter. What matters most is your commitment to this meeting.

4,Maintain a good relationship with all the members of your group if you want your plan to succeed. Remember part of what makes us human is the need to be valued, appreciated, and a sense of belonging.

In order for your plan to succeed, you can't afford not to appreciate your team members.

5,Never, ever, try to dominate your group. Remember you are a team working towards a common goal. Dictatorship never last,so guard against this
You need people who will work with you not against you.(This is not x factor, but you factor ) :-)

I remember when i set out to become an author, I received loads of rejection slips almost daily, which was a very discouraging experience for me. I determined in my heart after receiving 144 rejection slips that i will keep going until i make it. Few months later i received a letter in the post from my now publisher which read:

"We will be honored to publish your book"
For me it took 144 rejection slips to achieve my goal. I don't how many rejections it will take for you. I don't know how many obstacles you will have to overcome, i don't know how high your mountain is and when you will climb to the top.

What i do know is this:

You will make it if you keep going.

Disraeli said this:

"Everything comes if a man will only wait...
a human being with a settled purpose must accomplish it, and nothing can resist a will that will stake even existence for it's fulfillment"

The subconscious mind as powerful and helpful as it can be when used in a positive way. It can not, and will not do the job for you. You are still the person responsible for acting upon the ideas given to you buy your subconscious mind.

A farmer has to plant a seed before nature takes over.

We have to put food in our stomach before our body can digest it.

"We become what we think because our subconscious mind makes it so.

Thoughts gives birth to emotions, emotions give birth to reaction, reaction gives birth to action, action gives birth to result.

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Seyi Eyitayo, specialises in helping individuals improve their self esteem, self confidence and achieve their personal and career goals.

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