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Curt Gorlick, The Life Choice Strategist, an expert coach and public speaker on mindset and successful life skill strategies helps baby boomers navigate smoothly through their ordinary and extraordinary life struggles, guiding them into the life and relationships they want. Having experienced living life in anger, overwhelm, and frustration, Curt knows first-hand how to Break the Barriers to Happiness.
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Who is Really in Control of Your Life? Is It You? Or….?
You might be thinking, what a ridiculous question! “Who else is — or could be — controlling my life if it isn’t me?” The truth is there are many possible answers to this question. Here’s a few: your spouse… your significant other… your parents… your siblings… your good friends… or…. I’m sure you can come up with many more answers tha I did, but here’s the simple yet powerful answer. Your life is controlled by whomever you give your power away to.
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Is Life Really a Game?
How many times have you heard “Life is a game?” Do YOU believe life is just a game? I do. Does my response surprise you? If so, keep the question hovering in your mind for a bit as I explain. I believe life is a mind game. Winning the mind game of life is all about perspectives and choices. Every issue in life can be viewed from many different perspectives and each perspective presents different choices.
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Lasting Change Starts From Within
If you have finally had enough stress… overwhelm… over-compromise… anger and … disappointment in your life and… you’re ready to do something about it… CONGRATULATIONS! I remember back many years ago when I was a young boy my father would often say, “Talk’s cheap. Don’t be a talker, be a doer!” I’ll never forget those words.
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Living Life on Cruise Control
When people live their lives on cruise control – as so many people do – it reminds me of a broken record. (I’m really showing my age here. This example wouldn’t work so well if I said on a CD or mp3.) These days it seems like people wake up in the morning, get dressed, and drive to work taking the same route. When they get there they do mostly the same work day after day. At the end of the day they revisit their to-do-list checking off what got done and transferring the items that didn’t get done to tomorrow’s to-do-list.
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10 Tips for Handling Strained Relationships During the Holidays
This is the time of year when many people feel stressed and not wanting (needing) to be with family. All your bad feelings come up as you remember how past holidays went. Remember your thoughts just last year? "I'm never going to do that again!" "I can't believe those are my relatives" "Why was I so stupid to think they would change?" Past hurts rage as the memories spin around in your head.
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An Effective Communication Skill for Better Relationships - Married or Not
I was just talking with a new client of mine who was feeling angry with her husband. The anger came from a conversation that just didn't go the way it should. As I was asking questions to get to the root of the problem there was an "Ah-ha!" moment. The Ah-ha moment came when my client realized the only reason the conversation got out of hand was because she and her husband both assumed they knew what the other was thinking. "Why did you assume?" I asked. "Because I always do. Don't most people?" she replied.
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What Does a Life of Fulfillment Mean?
For many years I didn’t understand what it meant to live a life of fulfillment. I’ve come to learn many people have no idea what it means either. When I asked the questio “What does a life of fulfillment mean to you?” the most common response I get is “Living a life of fulfillment means living a life of happiness.” I don’t know about you, but for me I’ve never had a time in my life when I was happy every day, all the time. How about you? Can you image living everyday of your life being happy? Really? People would think you were living in your own world.
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You’re Ready for Change – Good for You!
Are you finally at the point in your life when you’re ready for change? Do you really want to change or are you hoping other people and circumstances will change? If you’re hoping people and circumstances will change then you can stop reading this article now and be prepared to see yourself in the future as you are right now. If you are still reading this, you are more than likely ready, so read on. Are you more aware of who you are and what you want in life? Have you made up your mind not to live the rest of your life feeling the way you do now? Great! So now what?
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Accountability: Is it Important?
Accountability is one of the most overlooked and undervalued pieces of the puzzle to achieving personal and business goals. Without accountability many things in your life would not be present. In fact, lack of accountability could be the biggest reason why you don’t currently have what you want in life. When you choose the wrong person to be accountable to it is counter-productive and a waste of precious time and money. Here are some examples of choosing the wrong person to keep you accountable. 1. Someone who is toxic to you. 2. Someone you do not admire or look up to.r
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What Will It Take to Get What You Want?
Do you know some of the reasons why you might not be getting what you want? I'm not just talking about material things. You may want a better relationship with your spouse, significant other, maybe your kids, your parents, or some of your friends. You may even want to have a better relationship with yourself so you can do some of the things you put on hold for a later date. How about better relationships with the people at your job or possibly to grow your business?
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Get Rid of Toxic People
Let’s pretend someone asked, “Who are you tolerating?” Maybe you’ve been asked that question before; maybe you haven’t. Either way, think about it for a moment. Now, answer this question. What came up for you when you thought about it? This is the type of question that provokes other questions and thoughts. In addition to thinking of the type of people you’re tolerating, you might be thinking about who they are in your life. Then you think about what they do that bothers you and how it affects your life. The questions roll on and on.
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Why Don’t You Act on What You Say You Want?
I’d like to introduce you to that little voice in your head. While these voices are called different things by different people, I choose to call them “The Saboteur.” The Saboteur is what keeps most people stuck from getting what they want in life. Maybe you have more than one. These little voices are in each and every one of us. You know the voices I’m talking about. Here are a few examples of what you may be hearing from them inside your head right now. “I’m not good enough for….” “I’m not smart enough to…” “I don’t deserve…” “I can’t find anyone who would want me.”
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