Dr. Jane Bolton
PsyD, LMFT, CC
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Psychotherapy for Self Esteem & Empowerment Expert

Dr. Jane Bolton Quick Facts
- Main Areas
- Psychotherapy for Self Esteem, Assertiveness, Anxiety, Depression, Creative Issues
- Career Focus
- Psychotherapist, Speaker, Supervisor of Therapists, Author
- Affiliation
- American, Califo ia and Los Angeles Associations of Marriage & Family Therapists, Institute of Contemporary Psychoanalysis
Dr. Jane Bolton writes a blog for PsychologyToday.com,Your Zesty Self
Dr. Jane Bolton, PsyD, LMFT, CC, has both personal and professional reasons for being an expert in self-esteem. Born with the gift of being an "unwanted" child to a depressed mother and an enraged father, she has the joy of learning and earning her own high self-esteem.
Professionally, she has spent 16 years working to help other people love themselves more fully. She is a marriage and family therapist, a certified contemporary psychoanalyst and Master Results Coach in Culver City, Califo ia. A supervising and training psychoanalyst and adjunct professor at the Institute of Contemporary Psychoanalysis in Santa Monica, she also supervises psychotherapists for Los Angeles counseling agencies, and gives empowerment workshops to enhance Self-Esteem.
Her mission is to support all people in the highest and fullest expression of their Real Selves. This involves supporting Self Discovery, Self Awareness, Self Acceptance, Self Understanding, Self Growth and Development, Self Expression, Self Esteem and Self Expansion. In short, she helps people love themselves more fully so that they can love others more fully too.She carries out her mission by providing Psychotherapy, by giving Supervision and In-Service Trainings to psychotherapists, and giving Workshops and Presentations.
Intersubjectivity is a subject dear to her heart & her doctoral paper is based upon the treatment of a woman suffering from what Intersubjectivity Systems theorists call the "fundamental psychic conflict." This conflict often occurs for people whose early caretakers were unable to meet the child's needs, resulting in the dynamic of the child learn to meet the caretakers' needs. Adult children of Alcoholics, so called, "co-dependents", adult children of narcissists, and therapists, are some populations whose lives can be truncated by this basic conflict - and who can be helped enormously by psychoanalysis.
Psychologytoday.com blog: Your Zesty Self
Website: http://www.DrJaneBolton.com
Free Articles & Book Excerpts
Your Zesty Self: Blog at Psychologytoday.com
http://blogs.psychologytoday.com/blog/your-zesty-self
The Beginnings of the Anxious Self: Family Patterns
http://www.dr-jane-bolton.com/support-files/anxious-self-family-patterns.pdf
High Self Valuing Is The Best Predictor of Success: How Do You Know If You Need More Self-Esteem
http://www.dr-jane-bolton.com/support-files/higher-self-esteem.pdf
How To Double Your Creativity
http://www.dr-jane-bolton.com/support-files/self-esteem-and-creativity.pdf
Release Shame Binds
http://www.dr-jane-bolton.com/support-files/shame-binds.pdf
Codependency: Half a Loaf of Self
http://www.dr-jane-bolton.com/support-files/co-dependency-half-a-loaf-of-self.pdf
Self-Esteem and Your Inner Child
http://www.dr-jane-bolton.com/support-files/self-esteem-inner-child.pdf
How To Dialogue With Your Inner Child
http://www.dr-jane-bolton.com/support-files/inner-child-dialogue.pdf
Mirror, Mirror, When You Are Up Against a Wall
http://www.dr-jane-bolton.com/how-to-make-love-through-deep-listening.html
Dr. Jane Bolton Books
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Co-dependency: Half a Loaf of Self
The term 'co-dependency' was initially used to describe a person who was dependent on another person who was an alcoholic, or addicted to another substance. Over time, it has been discovered that co-dependents have common characteristics that have nothing to do with substance ...
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How to Dialogue with Your Inner Child
What is “dialoguing” with my Inner Child? Dialoguing is talking with your Inner Child, caring for her/him non-verbally. The word dialogue implies a back and forth exchange between the two of you, rather than just “talking” which could be understood as a one-way communication. When do I do ...
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How To Increase Self Esteem with Inner Child Dialogues
Before describing how to use dialoguing with your Inner Child to increase self esteem, I'd better say what your Inner Child is, for those who may not be familiar with the term. What is an Inner Child? We all have an Inner Child. It is who we are when we were born, our natural core self. That ...
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TRAPPED BETWEEN AN ANXIETY ROCK WHEN YOU SAY “YES” AND A GUILTY HARD PLACE WHEN YOU SAY “NO”?
A few months ago, I received an email with a quotation from The Invitation, by visionary author, Oriah Mountain Dreamer: “It doesn’t interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart’s longing. . . .I want to know if you can ...
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Favorite Quotes & Thoughts from Dr. Jane Bolton
"Asking ourselves why we are not more often the person we wish to be is the wrong question. The question needs to be why we do not wish to be the person we are more often." Paraphrase of Oriah Mountain Dreamer
There's nothing so sad as, "It might have been." Anonymous
"Persons of high self-esteem are not driven to make themselves superior to others; they do not seek to prove their value by measuring themselves against a comparative standard. Their joy is being who they are, not in being better than someone else." Nathaniel Branden
"There came a time when the risk to remain tight in the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom." Anais Nin
"Nothing soothes fear and shame like connection." Pat Love & Steven Stosny
By consciously operating in oposition to our hidden fears of lack & limitation, we dispell their hold on us. Dr. Jane Bolton
"No one is perfect. That's why pencils have erasers."Anonymous
"Imagination is more important than knowledge. For knowledge is limited, whearas imagination embraces the entire world..." Albert Einstein
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PsychologyToday blog: YOUR ZESTY SELF
http://blogs.psychologytoday.com/blog/your-zesty-self
Phone/Fax: 310.838.6363
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Please check out my website: http://www.DrJaneBolton.com
I write the blog for PsychologyToday.com, YOUR ZESTY SELF: http://blogs.psychologytoday.com/blog/your-zesty-self
And I'd love it if you would contribute to my personal blog:http://www.FreedomFromShame.com
Call me at 310.838.6363