Jonathon Aslay
BS from Loyola Marymount University
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Relationship Coach Expert

Jonathon Aslay Quick Facts
- Main Areas
- Relationship Confidant
- Best Sellers
- “Online Dating Secrets Revealed”
- Career Focus
- Speaker, Dating Coach, Entrepreneur
- Affiliation
- http://UnderstandMenNow.com
Jonathon Aslay is a successful entrepreneur, a sought after speaker and graduate of Loyola Marymount University. In additio
Jonathon graduated with honors from life’s virtual University of Dating. As a dating and relationship expert Jonathon is a defender and protector of women’s hearts across the nation. He helps women transform from being addicted to Mr. Wrong into finding their Mr. Right.
Jonathon, a successful entrepreneur, coach, speaker, and author of “ONLINE DATING SECRETS REVEALED” teaches the Do’s and Don’ts of Internet Dating and helps women become date and relationship ready.
Jonathon’s journey from seeking love to teaching women about how to find love started in 2005 after his own divorce and discovering the trials and tribulations of dating online. From his own experience coupled with over 10,000 hours of listening to and coaching women as they shared their heartbreaking stories, Jonathon found his true gift and passion in life as a Heart Champion for women.
Jonathon is like A GUY SPY to the male mind who truly understands the way a single or divorced man thinks and acts. Through his heart centered, radical honesty coaching style, he helps answer the questions that baffle women the most when it comes to dating, mating and relating.
Jonathon has created a unique website called Understand Men Now which offers dynamic weekly tips, FREE inspirational teleclasses, and coaching opportunities for novice and veteran daters who find themselves dating or in unsatisfying relationships with challenging men. Visit his website www.UnderstandMenNOW.com to find out more about all the other programs and opportunities he has created for women’s dating and relationship enlightenment.
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Why I Always Loved Dating Women with Children
As a Dating and Relationship Coach I'd heard single moms bemoan the idea that men do not want to date women with children but let me share why I always loved dating women with children.
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Five Keys to Avoid Desperate Dating
In my 10,000+ hours of listening to women who are dating at 40 or older, I hear they want men to fall for them before they take the time to find out if the guy is worthy of their affections. As a Heart Protector of Women let’s explore the dangers of dating desperately rather than with confidence and clarity.
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When Relationships Hit a Rough Patch
The evening was planned a week ago. Romantic dinner, tickets to see your favorite band in concert, just a night of fun with the man you love. But in what seemed a moment of time everything changed. Oh, you still had the dinner and tickets, but what you didn’t see coming was the temperature change. His temperature change. He went from loving and attentive to Oscar the Grouch and you had no idea why and you weren’t sure what to do.
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Three Keys to Reboot the Romance in Your Relationship
Women have probably heard this phrase many times in their lives: “If you really love me, you’d....” fill in the blank. Most of the time those comments are referring to the guy wanting her to prove her love by having sex with him, but today I want to hit on THREE ways women can put out that will satisfy her man and keep him coming back for more!
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Relationships and Conflict of Expectations
Has your girl friend ever said this: “What does it take to get him to change” ? Or have you received advice from a friend saying: “You just need to train him how you want him to be”? As a Relationship Coach and the Heart Protector of Women I want to tackle the topic of trying to change someone.
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Are You Rushing the Relationship?
Have you ever found yourself in this situation? You started dating a good guy who is full of integrity, charming, funny and considerate. The lines of communication seem to be wide open and you feel connected. You start to imagine life together with him on a daily basis and ponder over fantasies of how he may propose and where the wedding will be, the dress, the guests, the honeymoon. In your mind you have already married him and are living happily ever after. In reality he has never even once discussed marriage with you.
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How Our Past Affects Our Relationships Today
There are many dynamics to a relationship and I think most of us can agree that we rarely see everything going on under the surface, yet we feel the discomfort. As a Guy Spy into the Male Mind I would like to reveal three elements that can cause relational distress and immobility. Neglectedr
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Dating Divorced Men ~ The Real Mission Impossible?
If you choose to take on this mission, you must know before entering the territory that the terrain can be a very challenging. The agents of change will manifest in the dark and the baggage has not necessarily been left at the terminal. You will encounter emotional assaults from Agent “Ex” whether directly or through psychological warfare. The instructions in this portfolio are for your eyes only and will self destruct should you not choose to accept this mission.
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Dating Divorced Men ~ The Real Mission Impossible? PART II
Dating Divorced Men ~ The Real Mission Impossible? PART II In Part I we talked about three key elements for women to consider when dating a divorced man. As the Heart Protector of Women, let me remind you that before allowing him to participate in any “undercover operations”, you must determine if he is the one worthy of your time, attention and affections. So let’s pick up where we left off: 4. Does He Have a Swiss Bank Account?r
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Three Keys to Busting Out of Bewilderment with Your Beau
As the Heart Protector of Women I have come to the realization that when a woman feels connected with a man she is dating, she can sometimes end up in a quandary of emotions regarding future expectations. Females are still encouraged today from a young age to allow the male to pursue them, but when the woman finds herself placing her life on hold, I think things have taken an unhealthy turn. First locate which scenario you are in:
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Sex and the Single Girl ~ How Long Should I Wait?
As a Relationship Confidant, I often hear that women wonder how long they should wait before having sex. My answer would depend on what the woman wants out of the relationship. If she is looking for a solid committed relationship and she just met the guy I would answer very differently than if she is a girl interested in casual sex who just wants to have fun. The first step I think women should do is to locate their desires.
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Poker Players and Dating Slayers ~ Men Playing Poker May Reveal How They Date Online
The way a man approaches online dating could be the exact way he plays poker (like Texas Hold’em). If you can figure out how a man plays poker, you might easily see how he dates.
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Jonathon Aslay is a Dating and Relationship Coach who is a Heart Protector for Women and a Guy Spy into the male mind.
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Understand Men NOW is a heart centered membership community where I am honored to share the male perspective (direct, tough love with a heart) with proactive, relationship-oriented women.
My private coaching programs are designed to teach you purposeful dating and why courtship leads to a relationship.
Contact me to find out more at http://www.UnderstandMenNow.com