Stephanie Buehler
MPW, PsyD, CST
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Sexuality and Intimate Relationships Expert
Stephanie Buehler Quick Facts
- Main Areas
- Passionate Relationships and Sexuality
- Career Focus
- Psychologist, Sex Therapist, Author
- Affiliation
- AASECT, TWSHF, ISSWSH, NVA, IPPS, SSSS
Dr. Stephanie Buehler is a licensed psychologist and AASECT certified sex therapist. As Director of The Buehler Institute in Orange County, Califo ia, she works with individuals and couples who want to have more passion in their relationships.
Dr. Buehler is also "Your Passion Expert," and is developing all sorts of downloads that can help couples experience a more intimate relationship, in and out of the bedroom.
"Passion is an essential element of any intimate relationship. Whether you are in a new relationship or one that needs tuning up, you know that feeling of closeness and trust is one of the best human experiences that life has to offer.
"In my practice, I work with men, women, and couples who want to experience passion, but have been wounded in some way. They may have a sexual conce they want to address, or the spark may have gone out in a relationship. I give people hope that they can have a normal intimate connection with a lover. They can enjoy love in all of its aspects, in and out of the bedroom."
Dr. Buehler is a nationally known expert. She was recently profiled in Coast magazine, and has been quoted in TIME, Redbook, Self, Figure, Esquire, and many other publications and websites. She is editor of the Women's Sexual Health journal for the Women's Sexual Health Foundation and has been published in other professional jou als. Dr. Buehler also holds a Master of Professional Writing degree from USC and is currently working on several ebooks. Be sure to visit her websites to get free downloads.
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Are You in a Sexless Marriage?
Are you in a sexless marriage? I’m a sex therapist in Orange County, CA and I assure you, you are not alone! About 25% of all marriages are “sexless,” meaning that the couple has sex fewer than one to two dozen times a year. Sometimes marriages naturally go through dry spells. A partner might be sick, be pulled by care-giving demands, or absent due to military or other job obligations. But when couples go for a year or longer without connecting in the bedroom, there’s a problem. What causes a sexless marriage?
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When Your Husband’s Sex Drive Is Gone
As a sex therapist and psychologist in Orange County, CA, I have found that a lot of people believe that it’s always the woman who has no sex drive. But that is a myth. Women also call to complain that their husband or male partner has no interest in sex. Women who have a husband with low libido, like men with wives who have no drive, also state that they feel rejected, unloved, and unattractive. In part because of the myth that “men always want sex,” they sometimes feel even more desperate than their male counterparts. They experience intense sadness and become frustrated.
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Sizzling Sex Life: 5 Spicy Practices For Making Love Hot
We all know it happens: A few years (or sometimes a few months!) into a relationship, sex can get boring, even with a partner that you still love in your heart. Like boiling away the flavor from a stick of cinnamon, you may find that the “heat” has evaporated from the bedroom. But don’t toss ...
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Sexual Desire in Long-term Relationships: A Mind-Expanding 3-Question Quiz about Sex
We hear it all the time, how sex in marriage or long-term relationships fades or dies out altogether. One or both partners lose their sexual desire. Passion is a forgotten memory. Making love becomes an obligation or an afterthought. But does it have to be that way? Take this quiz and see ...
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A Shocking Secret for Incredible Sex
Want to know the shocking secret of passionate sex? It has nothing to do with technique! The shocking secret of passionate sex is to be able to talk about it with your partner. Amazed? You shouldn’t be. That’s one of the first things any good sex therapist would tell you if the ...
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Electrifying Orgasm: 5 Top Tips for Making Your Partner Want More Sex with You
Even though an orgasm is only a small part of the lovemaking experience, couples are always interested in how to make it better. They want to know the best sex positions, the best lubricants, the best sex toys, the best lovemaking techniques for exciting themselves to stronger climax. But ...
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8 Sexy Ways to Pump Up Passion
Does your sex life have about as much dazzle as an old, beat up penny? Do you love your partner, but feel sad that sex just isn’t the same as it used to be? It doesn’t have to be that way. Here are the top 8 ways to put the passion back into your relationship. 1. Plan for passion. Maybe ...
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6 Secrets of Sexual Pleasure
Does your partner complain that you are not a good lover? Do you want to improve your lovemaking technique? If you want to make your partner purr with pleasure, you must: 1. Learn what your partner enjoys. Just because you read about a great technique in an article or book doesn’t mean that ...
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6 Sizzling Tips for Hot Valentine's Day Sex
If you’re in a sexual relationship, there’s probably more on your mind than chocolate and flowers when it comes to Valentine’s Day. No doubt, you’re thinking about putting the moves on your sweetheart to get some hot sex going in the bedroom. If you want to ensure you ...
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3 Sexy Lessons for Seducing Your Wife
Whether you’ve been married a year or a decade, you’ve probably discovered that sex can go stale, no matter how much you love your partner. Keeping sex hot in a monogamous relationship is a challenge—but can you think of a better one to tackle? As any sex therapist will tell ...
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7 Sex Mistakes to Avoid if You Want to Be a Better Lover
You would think that with all the information there is about good sex more people would be better at pleasing their partners when they make love. Sadly, a lot of folks pay little attention to how they can become a better lover. It isn’t that difficult to learn how to make love. ...
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3 Surefire Ways to Get Sex from Your Partner
For some people, letting their partner know when they want to have sex turns into a big problem. They seem to only ask their partner for sex in one way all the time, no matter what is going on in their partner’s life. So it’s no wonder that when they ask for sex, they end up with a big, fat ...
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Favorite Quotes & Thoughts from Stephanie Buehler
"Falling in love you remain a child; rising in love you mature. By and by love becomes not a relationship, it becomes a state of your being. Not that you are in love - now you are love." --Osho
Contacting Stephanie Buehler
Stephanie Buehler, MPW, PsyD, CST
The Buehler Institute
4000 MacArthur Blvd., Suite 900
Newport Beach, CA 92660
Phone 800-769-0342
How to get started
Download Dr. Buehler's free e-book "Sexual Discovery: 25 Secrets for Incredible Passion" at http://www.yourpassionexpert.com, and receive the "Passion Pages" as a biweekly bonus.
You are also invited to read Dr. Buehler's blog on relationships and sexuality at www.thebuehlerinstitute.com/blog.
Other highlights
Do you live in the southern Caifo ia area? I provide expert sex therapy for most any sexual concern, including:
- low and mismatched sexual desire
- difficulty with orgasm (men and women)
- painful sex
- erectile dysfunction
- premature ejaculation
- sexual compulsions
- recovery from sexual abuse
- pregnancy and post partum sexuality
- menopause and sexualty
- fertility problems and sexuality
- unique sexual problems (don't worry, I've pretty much heard it all)
Be sure to sign up for my free e-newsletter and to check out my blog at http://www.theblogerotic.com at The Buehler Institute.