Victor Gold
B.S., M.S. in Education
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Victor Gold Quick Facts
Victor Gold B.S. M.S., is a holistic health educator specializing in erotic spirituality. He shares a private practice with his tantric partner, Aimee Lyndon-Adams in San Rafael, Califo ia. Victor's recently published book, "The Potency Principles: Transforming Sexual Energy into Spiritual Power," demystifies tantric sex with such amazing clarity that many readers will be inspired to reinterpret their own sexual behavior.
Men, in particular, have been burdened with several erroneous assumptions regarding sexuality that has hindered their spiritual progress. Perhaps the most destructive myth is that ejaculation is the highest expression of male sexual power and virility. Nothing could be further from the truth. Unlike women, when men ejaculate they lose vital energy. Sexual energy is vital for spiritual growth. Rather than depleting ourselves of vital energy, as men, we need to learn how to cultivate and transform sexual energy. Seminal retention techniques were developed to promote male well being and to provide complete female sexual satisfaction. Accomplished male lovers have learned to substitute orgasm(s) for ejaculation. Yes, they are two distinct physical processes that can be separated out from each other. This is the basic fundamental skill for accomplished male lovers in the "new" sexual paradigm. Once this skill is mastered, the habitual male sexual routine of ejaculating with every orgasm will be seen for what it is --- sheer lunacy. In other words, withholding genital release, especially when in a high state of sexual arousal, is a major vehicle for accelerated spiritual growth.
Victor has been featured in several instructional videos including Deborah Sundhal's, "Tantric Journey into Female Orgasm" and Joseph Kramer's, "The Best of Vulva Massage." Victor Gold's website address is www.sexualhealingnow.com
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A BRIEF HISTORY OF THE G-SPOT CONTROVERSY
Ancient tantric teachings have long specified that all women possess two poles, or hot spots. One is the northern exte al pole, the clitoris. The other is the less well-known internal southern pole, the G-spot. It should be noted that recently both these assumptions have been challenged as being too limiting. Some people feel that the human sexual response is so rich, fluid and varied that it is impossible to declare any absolutes. After all, it may be entirely possible for women to have more than two hot spots and there is no good reason to get stuck with any more limiting beliefs.
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HOW TO ATTAIN A "HEART-ON"
One of the most common complaints that I hear from women about their male lovers is that they are just to genitally focused. It's become clear to me that many women seek a more soulful experience in sexual love that relates to the heart as well as the genitals. Their craving for it is so deep that its absence insures her dissatisfaction at a primal level. Women often use the words "sexual intimacy" to describe what they are looking for in sex. However, for many men, the term sexual intimacy seems to mean only sexual intercourse, or other forms of genital fulfillment.
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EROTIC SPIRITUALITY AND THE CHURCH
EROTIC SPIRITUALITY and the CHURCH
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TRANSFORMING MALE SEXUAL ENERGY INTO SPIRITUAL POWER
One thing is certain, Tantric sex is not for everyone. Tantra requires a level of consciousness that is based on energetic and spiritual principles. In a nutshell, the foundation of Tantric sexual practice is learning to generate copious amounts of orgasmic energy, and directing it up the energetic pathways that target the spiritual faculties that reside in the brain. It is in the brain where sexual energy, the creative energy from which we all sprang, transforms consciousness. In this way, a new perceptual reality can be born that gives birth to Unity Consciousness (Oneness).
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Sexercises for Genital Health and Sexual Pleasure
Many of us are engaged in various activities in the pursuit of physical fitness. We go to health clubs to tone up and strengthen our muscles so that we can look and feel better about ourselves. While the focus of this type of exercise conce s itself with strengthening the exte al muscles, for many practitioners of the sexual arts the focus expands to include the internal muscles used in sex. You see, weak sexual muscles not only compromise a man’s ability to provide complete sexual satisfaction, but they reduce the capacity for sexual pleasure and genital health for both men and women.
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THE SHORTCOMINGS OF FRICTION SEX
If you have paid careful attention, you may have noticed that ordinary friction sex, the kind of sexual exchange that most men employ, is characterized by a series of incessant, robotic, pelvic pumping actions combined with rapid breathing. There is no doubt that this is the fast and hard version of sex that has been glorified in pornography and elsewhere.
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A New Sexual Paradigm For Men
I believe it's safe to say that very few of us have received any formal training in sexual matters. Let's face it, the subject of sex is one in which the majority of people appear to be unpardonably ignorant. The sexual urge has been grossly misunderstood and slandered by both the uninformed ...
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FEMALE EJACULATION
I find it fascinating that men place so much emphasis on their own ejaculations, often to their detriment (unlike women, men lose vital life-force energy with their release), while virtually ignoring women’s ejaculatory capacity. Trust me! The world would be a much different place if men ejaculated less and women ejaculated more. While the discovery of the G-spot may rank first in importance of all the “recent” sexual discoveries, female ejaculation is certainly more observably dramatic.
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The Potency Principles
I believe its safe to say that very few of us have had any formal instruction in sexual intercourse. Let's face it, when it comes to the subject of sex, the majority of people appear to be unpardonably ignorant. If you think about it, most of what we have learned about sex comes to us from ...
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Is Sex Necessary for Spiritual Expression?
No controversy in religious annals is more laden with raw emotion than the argument as to whether sexual activity is, or is not, a necessary ingredient to spiritual expression. Down through the ages, as this sometimes-bitter dispute has raged some of the most ruthless crimes (remember the ...
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The sexual urge has been grossly misunderstood and slandered by both the uninformed and the evil minded. The line that divides sex and spirit is extremely thin, if it exists at all. The failure to acknowledge both the inherent unity of sex and spirit, and the importance of cultivating sexual energy are two of the foremost limiting factors in modern sexology.