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3 Sexy Lessons for Seducing Your Wife

Whether you’ve been married a year or a decade, you’ve probably discovered that sex can go stale, no matter how much you love your partner. Keeping sex hot in a monogamous relationship is a challenge—but can you think of a better one to tackle? As any sex therapist will tell ...

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Female Ejaculation- It's Real

Female Ejaculation-rnDid you know that ALL women are capable of it?rnIt's True! By Lisa S. Lawless, R.M., C.E.O.rnPsychotherapist, Ph.D. CandidaternFounder Of HolisticWisdom.com You may have heard of female ejaculation, or you may not evenknow what it is, as many people do not. Female ejaculation isnot only very real, it is something that ALL women can achieve,and is a very basic female sexual response that has remained amystery until recently. All women can learn to ejaculat

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The Lover's Guide to Sensual Breast Massage

Breast Massage Instructions - The Lovers Guide to Sensual Breast Massage Pleasure Breast Massage Instructions - The Lovers Guide to Sensual Breast Massage Pleasure Author: Maya Silverma Breast massage instructions should be part of male (and female) everyday learning. It's that ...

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Where Do Guys Like to Be Touched?

Unfortunately guys are not blessed with as many erotic points as girls are. They say that with a girl every part of her body can trigger wild sensations, if touched right, that’s partly because girls are much more in touch with their bodies than guys are. For some guys the only part of their body that stimulates them sexually is their penis, they almost seem numb to touching on any other part of their body. That being said, guys can get aroused at the drop of a hat with or

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Definition: Sexuality

Generally speaking, human sexuality is how people experience and express themselves as sexual beings. The study of human sexuality encompasses an array of social activities and an abundance of behaviors, series of actions, and societal topics. Biologically, sexuality can encompass sexual intercourse and sexual contact in all its forms, as well as medical concerns about the physiological or even psychological aspects of sexual behaviour. Sociologically, it can cover the cultur

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***Three Myths of Sexual Desire

Sexual desire is a hot topic these days, considering that 15 to 20 percent of couples are reported to be living in sexless marriages (which means they’re having sex 10 times a year or less). With low desire fast becoming a top sexual conce for couples, it’s more important than ever that we learn how to keep the spark alive. With this in mind, I came up with a list of three big myths of sexual desire which may prevent us from having the sex we want and deserve. Here are these three myths – and my tips on how to overcome them.

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When the Abused Becomes the Abuser

It doesn't always happen. But it happens to a large enough degree that it can be referred to as commonplace. A number of studies indicate that between 30 - 70% of young abusers (physical or sexual) have been sexually abused themselves. Statistics on adult abusers who were sexually abused as children are lower - approximately 10 - 22%. However, I suspect that a much larger percentage of adults who have been sexually abused as children have developed coping and/or relational styles that are abusive - if not to others, then certainly to themselves.

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How to Arouse Your Wife The Right Way (Husbands Take Note!)

Sometimes when a couple is married for a while some of the foreplay time goes out the window. Maybe you’re busy with work or kids, but you should never let your love life dwindle. “Quickies” are great sometime, but it’s important to focus on arousing your wife as well. If you would like to know how to arouse your wife, simply think back to the things that turned her on when you were first together.

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*** Men and Women Foreplay and Orgasm

Art of Stimulation: Leave Her Begging More, More, More “Yes! Yes! Yes!” she cries while one had beats heard and steady on the dinner table and the other hand tussles her thick head of hair. This is the scene from When Harry Met Sally, when Sally demonstrates how easily a woman can fake an orgasm in an instant. Everyman wants to her their partner to shout loud enough for the neighbor at the end of the block to hear, but the reality is most men don’t know how to get a “Yes! Yes!

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***5 Ways to Spice Up Your Valentine’s Day (with or without a partner)

Valentine’s Day is a holiday few of us like but most of us feel compelled to participate in. Many people I know, friends and clients alike, resent the commercialism of this holiday and its authoritative “celebrate or else” feel. It’s true that no one likes to be told to be romantic and spontaneous; making it mandatory sort of kills the mood. And of course, those of us who are single, dislike being made feel like the “lesser species” just because we don’t have a partner.

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The Connection Between Nitric Oxide, Sex, Health and Happiness

Nitric Oxide (not to be confused with nitrous oxide) is a very simple but important molecule that can actually determine how long you live and the quality of your life. Nitric Oxide is made by the blood vessels’ lining, or endothelium. The endothelium is extremely sensitive to the physical and chemical conditions inside our blood vessels. When the endothelium senses heart-healthy conditions, such as physical activity and low cholesterol, it releases more Nitric Oxide. And that’s very good for your health and vitality.

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A Sex Therapist’s Guide to Passionate Sex

Want passionate sex? The first step is to figure out what you mean when you think about sex that is passionate. You could think that sex is passionate when your partner: Acts like they want you right nowr Is more aggressive than usualr Goes slower than usualr Takes the time to explorer Gets right into itr Is tenderr Is rough As you might guess, passionate sex means different things to different people! Some couples are lucky; they read each other easily and can usually figure out what kind of passionate sex their partner wants.

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A THEORETICAL PERSPECTIVE ON BLACK MALE SEXUALITY & RACISM IN AMERICA, PT 1

I am the first documented Social Scientist and Clinical Sexologist to conduct in-depth research into the sexual behavior and sexual practices of Black People in America, As a result of this research I theorize that the sexual practices of black people are virtually unknown because they are shrouded in myths, fairy tales and stereotypes developed over centuries by other races.

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Why Sex Is Important To Men

I know, I know some would say that what a ridiculous statement, of course it is important to men but why? Some say that they think about it twenty three hours a day, seven days a week. Even the most famous psychologist, Freud agreed that it is the main goal of men- to get sex when they need it. To them it signifies power and success. To majority of them money, power and success is futile if you can’t get it. Some would deny it and say “no, it is not everything. It’s not

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***3 Signs of True Confidence

If there is one thing in this world everyone wants to have more of, it’s confidence. Men and women everywhere wish they could be more assertive, self-assured and secure. Confident people make it all look so easy. There is something magnetic and enviable about their unshakable sense of self.

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***Sex Toys: What You Need to Know

Sex toys combine two things we humans love most: sexual pleasure and fun! Today, the pleasure product industry grosses a whopping $15 billion annually, but a mere decade ago sex toys lived on the fringes, just starting to break through into the mainstream. Thanks to stores like Good Vibrations in the US or A Summers in the UK, with their clean, brightly lit locations and helpful, non-judgmental staff, consumers began thinking of sex toys as something normal and acceptable.

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Out Of This World Intercourse Positions That Can Drive Your Man Crazy

Do you want to have sex tonight? Then better make it as unforgettable and as wicked as possible. Remember, a wise and witty woman always makes her mark every time she makes love to her man. Keep in mind that great sex should not only spice up your love life, but it should also have a lingering effect on you and your lover. It should inspire him, empower you and make him love you more. If you want to make your mark in the bedroom, then surprise him with this hot intercourse po

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Feminization Hypnosis Completes The Male To Female Transformation

Society has a major role in influencing one’s sexuality and gender. Before, there were two genders that are socially acceptable and those are men and women. But these days, people are slowly recognizing and acknowledging the existence of the third gender or what we all know as gays or homosexuals. In many conservative societies, the concept of homosexuals is still unacceptable and considered unusual. Despite of their growing existence, gays are still treated differently. Th

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Women’s Secret Sexual Desires

Ah, women and sex, for a man, nothing can be more interesting than a discussion that includes these two fascinating words. However, if a guy wants to get more out of these two words other than just mere discussion, then he needs to be in depth on not just what women want in bed, but their secret sexual desires as well. But first, he needs to understand the basics of women’s sexuality. The first thing that a man needs to know is the sexual energy flow of women. Unlike most m

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5 Ways to Build Your Sexual Confidence

It’s a common experience to feel a lack of sexual confidence around women. When you’re not sure what to do to satisfy her, you’ll end up projecting a nervous attitude towards sex. nnBut while lots of guys experience some form of anxiety you CANNOT let this affect your performance in the bedroom. It’s important to understand what pleases women and then DO it. Only then will you be able to display an unstoppable amount of sexual confidence. nnIn this art

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Music & Dancing is Like Sex & Romancing

If you’ve ever danced the night away, then you know how truly liberating, invigorating and therapeutic it can be to just let it loose on the dance floor. Music has a way of touching the soul in an extraordinary and profound way. Whether fueled by a DJ or a live band, dancing is quite similar to sex. By allowing yourself to fully delve into the veritable vibration of what you perceive, you’re able to become fully present to the physical sensations that you might not otherwise be keen to.

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Dirty Phone Talk - Tips for Long Distance Relationships

Dirty talking on the phone can be a wonderful way to maintain long distance relationships. It can also be a simple and thrilling thing for any one at all to try. rnDirty talking on the phone works well for different groups of people for different reasons. • Couples separated by distance may have no other outlet for sex.rn• People who are shy to talk dirty face to face might find this a less stressful alternative.rn• It may be an impulse thing, when you use it to flirt,

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Erotic Talk: Overcoming Fear and Shyness

In the many classes and workshops I've given over the years on the art of erotic communication, the most common questio I'm asked is: "Can you give me some ideas on how I can get over my self-consciousness about using erotic talk with my partner?" My answer is an emphatic yes! There are several ways to help you and your partner feel more at ease communicating about your sexual needs and desires.

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***How to Experience a ‘Mindgasm’

Orgasm is truly all in your mind, however you need to let go of all thoughts and just allow yourself to be fully present with the physical sensations without distractions. It is, in a sense, a meditation to practice and ultimately master. In fact, it is possible to bring yourself to a powerful orgasm while sitting absolutely still with no movement, physical stimulation, or friction whatsoever. Many women have testified to having the ability to produce a full-o “mindgasm” during meditation, or rather a self-hypnosis type of technique.

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Never Be Fooled Again- Know The Signs Of Real Orgasm

Face it, when it comes to giving a woman real orgasm is like being in the episode of CSI- elusive, mind-boggling and requires hard evidence. On the contrary, some cocky men brag that giving women real orgasm is like a walk in the park. But the truth of the matter is that, 75% of women cannot reach the climax and most likely, the same figure tends to fake their orgasm. Does this mean that women, in reality, are harder to please? Or maybe 75% of men cannot help but ejaculate wi

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Feel The Magic Of Deep Penetration

Lovers have different opinions about deep penetration intercourse position. Some women are uncomfortable with the idea but most women yearn for it when they make love. Women who love deep penetration say that it gives them the emotional rewarding sensation- a sense of satisfaction that goes beyond the lustful act of sex. They further added that the sexual connection between them and their lover is just out of this world, not to mention the mind-blowing orgasm it gives them. T

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Staying Juicy! Maintaining a Youthful Yoni

Women tend to spend a lot of time and money on skincare. We want our skin to look youthful, supple and smooth. The key to younger healthy looking skin is sufficient moisture. In humid tropical climates, our skin naturally looks and feels healthier, and the women of the tropics generally look much younger than those who live in dryer climates. That is why it is so important for us to stay hydrated and keep our skin properly moisturized.

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Hand Job 101: Let Your Hands Do The Talking

Making love is one of the factors that keep the passion burning in a relationship. Keeping it exciting and stimulating can awaken any dormant bonding. But keeping sex life alive requires conscious effort. One thing that makes sexual intercourse exhilarating is foreplay and second to giving a bountiful amount of blow job, doing a perfect hand job can send your man to the roof of pleasure. Be careful though, incorrect demonstration of a hand job can cause injury and can traumat

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The True Fountain of Youth ~ Sex is Good for Your Health!

Did you know that sex can make you look younger and more attractive? Sex helps boost the production of the human growth hormone, which improves muscle tone and takes years off the way you look and feel. Women’s estrogen levels naturally decline with age eventually reaching the stage of menopause. When a woman has sex, she produces more estrogen, which helps keep her hair shiny, smooth, thick and healthy looking. Sex also increases the production of collagen, which promotes supple youthful skin evading age spots and sagging. Sex is truly the real fountain of youth!

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What is the difference betwee Kamagra and Kamagra Oral jelly?

Sexual prowess in men is more linked to their self esteem and any difficulty like erectile dysfunction (Ed) would badly hit their ego of being an erotically impotent man. Before Viagra hit the floors the condition was ignored and no special attention was given. The magical moves of the drug made a hypnotizing effect on men by actually understanding their physical pains. The medicine was introduced in 1998, but the saddest thing is till date, there are many such areas where people have no access to such quality treatments.

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What Do Women Want During Sex? Top Secrets She Wants in Bed

When having sex with your girl, have you ever tried to be attuned with her body language? I hope you weren't just concentrating on your own personal glory on this one. Sex is something you're supposed to both enjoy. When things get a little too heated up and you're both itching to get into the bedroom, why don't you try a little different tactic this time? Know how to pleasure her more and get her absolutely blown away with these techniques to satisfy her --- below are a few

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How To Overcome Psychological ED - 4 Effective Techniques

Psychological ED hits men of all ages, young and old. In younger men, psychological ED generally hits due to the newness of sex... it is all so overwhelmingly exciting, combined with the unfair pressure of being expected to know what they are doing (when deep down they know they are inexperienced). In middle aged men, it may come after a divorce. A man having had sex with the same woman for years, may have split apart from her, and now experiences self-doubt, guilt, fear over the future with a new lover... and sex with someone new just feels so foreign.

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Masturbation is self-love

Mention the word “Masturbation” and what do you think of? While masturbation means different things to different people, it is one of the most misunderstood subjects in the world, as it is enshrined in mystery and secrecy because of the simple reason we speak so little about it. Masturbation may evoke massive levels of guilt and shame, as many of us were told from when we were young not to touch ourselves “down there”.r

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10 Ways for Women to Defy Maturity

You can look and feel younger, no matter what age you are! It is just a matter of staying active and implementing more fun and adventure in your life. Don’t just exist and be a slave to the same old boring routine day after day. You don’t have to be wealthy, retired, or even have a significant other to be happy and have a fun-filled, joyful, extraordinary life. You have heard the cliché, “life without passion is not worth living”. Here are some ways for women to defy maturity and live life to its fullest.

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What to Say When Talking Dirty to a Guy.

A lot of women haven't got the slightest idea when it's time to or what to say when talking dirty to a guy. Among the simplest ways around this problem and start driving your man crazy with sexy erotic talk is to make a plan and decide what you're not going to say to him, such as not bringing up his past seductions or anything which you already know will turn him off. Men have really pictorial minds, they can build a full color image in their minds from the most simplified of

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How to Get Your Groove Back

When you are “in the groove”, you feel confident, sexy, healthy and strong! Being in the groove is all about attitude, and is really quite noticeable to others. People can sense your energy if you feel secure, positive and optimistic – all incredibly attractive qualities. But what happens when you lose it? – Maybe for a brief time, or eventually giving up and completely letting yourself go? I’ve certainly experience feelings of despondency at times. It’s like a downward spiral that may have been initially triggered by something exte al, yet can allow it to deeply affect our entire outlook.

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Yoni Massage Techniques: How to Appreciate the Divine in the Sacred Space

Yoni is the conventional Indian word for vagina. Sanskrit in origin, the broad interpretation is holy space. It is a term of reverence and respect and is the belief that forms the root of Yoni massage. It is often used to free women from sexual inhibitions that may have been brought on by negative sexual or life experiences. It is used to free the woman's sexual energy and offer release of pent up energy. It can be very healing and can offer a girl the trail to wholeness. Too often the ordinary sexual experience produces the reverse effect.

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4 Real Life Ways to Make a Guy Fall in Love With You

Ladies, let's get real here for a second. You've probably read dozens of magazine articles on making a guy fall in love with you and let's face it - most of them are complete nonsense. They are missing the essence of what makes men go nuts, like, for real and only touch the whole topic on the surface. The truth is simple and it hurts and Cosmo the like don't want to be straight to the point with you, since they believe this will kill their audience. If you want real life tips

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5 Ways to Make Sex More Interesting for Your Husband

Marriage can get boring. And when it's boring - it's usually because of bad sex. Your husband's maybe just not that into you any more. Or he is - you just don't know which switch to turn on in him. Spice it up a bit, your sex life could be far more interesting. Here's 5 real life ways to make sex more interesting for your husband and yourself. 1. Get out of the box. Having sex just in your bedroom is boring. Attack him in the kitchen, give him oral on your way driving somewhe

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How to Be Sexually Aggressive? Sexy Seduction Secrets For Women

We can't deny the fact that there will always be sexually aggressive and less sexually aggressive women --- however, being a little forceful and insistent do have their perks sometimes. Of course, we all know that men love it when their women take hold of the reins sometimes --- it shows that you're one strong female who knows what she wants and will work hard to get it. Now, is there practically a way to know how to be sexually attractive to men? How can a woman act a little

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Naughty Neck Kissing Techniques - How to Have One Hot Make-Out Session

Kissing enhances your sensuality and it sure does contribute in making someone get totally fired-up and turned on. When you start making out with someone, kissing will always be a part of it but it just doesn't involve the lips of course. One very sensitive spot you should be aware of is her neck --- a neck is considered sexy and a good target to make her in the mood for one hot make-out session. So below are a few naughty neck kissing techniques and get her to go to bed with

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SIBLING ABUSE – Children Abusing Other Children

Even though there can be life long debilitating psychological effects, sibling abuse may be the most ignored - if not accepted - form of domestic (i.e. sexual, physical, emotional) abuse. Why is this kind of abuse ignored or minimized? There is a lot that is swept under the rug in the guise of “sibling rivalry”. And American law does not consider this a prosecutable offense unless a child is turned in by their parent(s). In other words, parents would have to be willing to file an assault charge against their own child. So parents keep this type of abuse within the family.

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Sexual Arousal and Excitement - How to Maximize them

You can stimulate the sexual excitement and lust both in yourself and your lover by the surrounding you choose for making love, by the atmosphere you create at that place, by special actions and by using special products targeted for this purpose.nnnHERBAL PREPARATIONS TO INCREASE AROUSALnnOn the market you can find many herbs or herbal blendings capable of increasing the sexual arousal. Many arousing herbs are also found as common spices. Examples of arousing herbs are ginse

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The Profound Power & Pleasure of Female Orgasm

Fueled by pure primal instinct, our sex drive is a compelling physiological desire for copulation. Unlike most female mammals, women can enjoy immense pleasure from sexual activity. Of course a partner is not necessarily needed to achieve sexual satisfaction and orgasm, however it always more fun to share erotic experiences with someone you care deeply for. Whether you enjoy solo play in stimulating yourself, or you have assistance from an adoring lover, orgasm can be profoundly powerful and extremely gratifying to a woman.

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Ancient Sex vs. Modern Day Sex - Has Anything Changed?

I learned about the destruction of Pompeii back in Grade 10 in 1954 when I was translating the ancient Latin text by the writer, Pliny, about the eruption of the volcanic mountain, Vesuvius, and the subsequent burial of the town. The devastation unleashed was the equivalent of a nuclear holocaust. From that time forward, Pompeii became embedded in my imagination and acquired the dimension of a legend. One time my wife and I had the privilege of visiting Pompeii when on a trip

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Become a Webcam Modelling Couple

Are you an exhibitionist, do you love the attention you get. Well put it to good use and become a webcam model or a webcam modelling couple. You can earn big money on webcam modelling sites just by doing what you love to do. That could be just getting naked and walking around your home doing everyday chores. Want To Dance Naked To Strangers You could put that easy setup pole dancing pole you bought and never used up. And show off your moves to thousands of horny people. You c

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How to Achieve the Big ‘O’ and More!

When it comes to getting ‘turned-on’, men are mostly driven by visual and physical stimulation. For women, sex is much more of a mental and emotional experience. Stress is the most common obstruction in being able to feel optimum sexual pleasure. If your mind is full of distracting thoughts or if you’re upset about something, you may be unable to wholly experience all of the magnificent sensations our bodies our capable of. It’s imperative to decrease stress, tension and disturbance before embarking on a sexual journey with or without a partner.

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The Art Of Sensual Massage

As with all things worth doing, sensual massage takes attention, care and practice to perfect. The art itself is a journey towards greater and greater destinations. A simple relaxation rub, or tension busting deep muscle massage does not awaken the sexual centres in quite the way an attentive, ...

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Women Get Better With Age – and So Does the Sex!

Just like fine wine, women get better with age – and so does the sex. During our younger years, social time is spent either in excessive party-mode or completely focused on academic and personal development. Curiosity about sex is generally fulfilled by amateur experimentation, books, films, and/or random hearsay from others. Our first intimate relationships mainly consist of trying to figure out what we’re doing and becoming comfortable with sharing our bodies with another person.

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The Extraordinary Enigmatic G-Spot

What is this mysterious ‘G-Spot’ we’ve been hearing about, and how exactly can it help women to experience more pleasure than we’ve ever thought possible? For years, the clitoris was considered the only trigger for the female orgasm, and with that we do celebrate the all-mighty clitoris as the epicenter of sexual bliss. But think of the clitoris as the tip of the iceberg. On the other side of the clitoris, deep within the vaginal chamber is the extraordinary and enigmatic G-spot.

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When Your Husband’s Sex Drive Is Gone

As a sex therapist and psychologist in Orange County, CA, I have found that a lot of people believe that it’s always the woman who has no sex drive. But that is a myth. Women also call to complain that their husband or male partner has no interest in sex. Women who have a husband with low libido, like men with wives who have no drive, also state that they feel rejected, unloved, and unattractive. In part because of the myth that “men always want sex,” they sometimes feel even more desperate than their male counterparts. They experience intense sadness and become frustrated.

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Communicating with Your Lover

Whether you’ve been with your partner for years, or are with someone new for the first time, it’s important to express what you want. There are many ways to communicate your desires. We do this through our behaviors, through our actions and reactions, through our body language, or by simply asking. Talking about what we want and what turns us on takes away the guesswork. However some couples prefer the trial-and-error method. What worked with his (or your) previous partnership, may not necessarily work with this one.

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5 Easy Sex Moves for Hot Results

It happens to everyone: sex becomes routine or passionless. It doesn’t have to be that way! In fact, it’s easy to get that tingle back if you try easy ideas to generate new excitement. 1. Sex 911. That’s right, you can declare a “sexual emergency.” Text your partner and tell them that ...

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Words for Lovers: Erotic Appreciation

With Thanksgiving drawing near, I believe this would be an ideal time to discuss the role of gratitude, validation and appreciation in the art of lovemaking. Of course, when we feel validated and appreciated in any aspect of our lives it deepens our sense that we truly matter in this crazy world and that we are making a contribution to the lives of others. Yet, many of us overlook or forget to bring such appreciative expression into the intimate moments we share with our partner.

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What Do Men Think is Sexy?

This question has been on my mind for quite some time, and I’ve recently asked several men, “What is sexy?” This is sort of like asking, “What is delicious?” or “What is quality?” It is all a matter of personal taste and there is no right or wrong answer. How does a woman exude sexiness to a man? Does she need the physical attributes of a supermodel? Should she wear suggestive or revealing attire? Or perhaps an attractive face with luscious lips and perfect teeth? A particular hairstyle?

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Does She Want to Have Sex? - Hot Sexual Tension Signs

When a woman gets a little turned on and would want to get some action done, they can't just make the first move on you and get it all started. That's one of the perks of being a member of the male species --- we don't wait, we make things happen. So how do we find out if she's already in the mood for one naughty night ahead? Are there sexual tension signs we need to watch out for? Well, no need to get all fretted up on that. The answers are right below. Here are a few hot se

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Rebound Relationships: When to Get Back in the Game?

When a relationship ends, one of two things is typically happening. One, you are being spared something (such as a life with someone who is not well-suited to be your partner); or you are being prepared for something new (learning lessons that will prove invaluable to you in your next relationship). Unfortunately, though, no matter how good a break-up might be FOR you, they rarely FEEL good to you. That’s okay. Not everything that’s good for us feels good.

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Flirting With a Guy - Learn the Secrets of Seductive Body Language.

Have you ever wondered what the secret is to Flirting With a Guy...Learn these Three mysteries and make any man adore you! Do you know how to flirt with a guy so that he thaws like a ice cube when he is with you? What if you could apply your born talent of body language to convey to him anything you want and know that he comprehended it? Are you aware that you could get at minimal double as many dates if you recognized how to flirt with a guy? If you're ready to discover the

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SEXUAL TRAUMA - Loving Your Abuser

Recognizing you are being abused is difficult when you love the person who is abusing you. This is true for both children and adults. The mind will go to great lengths to protect a person who cannot emotionally accept that they are being abused. The greater the abuse, the more elaborate the strategy the brain employs.

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The Playful Erotic: Dusting Off the Adult Imagination

She chased you to the back of the playground and told you she'd share her new crayons with you if you showed her what you had "down there". You tried kissing her with bubble gum in your mouth to see if you could share a "bubble". He often played "doctor" with his next-door-neighbour, always delighted when she rang him up complaining that she was "sick". Somewhere along the line, most adults decide that sexual exploration is serious. Very, very serious. But we don’t start off that way, as the above examples illustrate.

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Embracing Menopause

Menopause is certainly not a time to pause from men. In fact, we need to look to our male counterparts for support through this difficult physical and emotional process. It’s important for them to at least try and understand what some women go through during this transitional time in their life. Most women experience the typical irregular menstrual periods and hot flashes, which is more of a personal inconvenience.

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Herbs to Boost Energy, Vitality & Libido

For thousands of years, Cordyceps Sinensis (mushroom) has been an integral part of traditional Chinese medicine. Found in the Himalayan regions of Tibet and Nepal, sprouted from caterpillar carcasses, this potent fungus is used to treat numerous health conditions while boosting sexual vigor and overall vitality. As legend would have it, cordyceps was discovered by Himalayan shepherds who observed a drastic increase in liveliness and mating activity among their herds after eating this particular mushroom. Soon emperors were sending for it to boost their own libidos, stamina and energy.

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Natural and Effective Aphrodisiacs

Forget the Spanish Fly, Rhinoceros horn or other rumored aphrodisiacs, the most natural libido enhancers are easily accessible and good for your overall health. For thousands of years, humans have been experimenting with various foods and herbs to improve health conditions and support sexual wellness.

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How to Give a Female an Orgasm

The situation with men and women who can really give a female an orgasm is scandalous. If you ask any girl how many good lovers she had in her entire life – she counts them all by the fingers of one hand. This website and series of articles on sexuality have as a goal radical improvement in this area of life. If you did not know, an average duration of a sexual intercourse among couples who live together longer than one year is about 7(!) minutes. No wonder that so many wom

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Enjoy a Great Sex Life – With or Without a Partner

Every woman deserves to have a great sex life, whether or not she has an accessible partner. If you have a companion who’s willing to embark on this journey of mutual discovery and support, good for you! But if you’re currently alone, don’t let that stop you from enjoying extraordinary pleasure and passionate intimacy, as you have the power and ability to provide that for yourself.

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Avoiding the Rut of Boring Relationships

A standard routine is often a good thing, as a familiar schedule regulates activities, tasks and responsibilities, as well as instills discipline and organization. However the same old routine in your relationships and especially with intimacy may become a bit boring after a while. It is important to keep it fresh with unique experiences to add richness, excitement and variety to your partnerships and sex lives. Sometimes couples fall into a repetitive program that seems like they’re reliving the same habitual scene every day like a sitcom rerun.

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What She Craves Most During Sex - Hot Ways to Pleasure Your Girl in Bed

Women crave for sex as much as men do (well, okay, we do have a much bigger appetite) and that means they take pleasure with sex as much as men do --- that's why it's never an excuse not being able to pleasure your girl in bed. A hundred percent of the time, we contribute so much into making her reach the peak so it pays to be a gentleman on this one and make her go first. Now, what happens if you're completely clueless about making love? Well, maybe you did make love with a

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5 Sex Toys Guaranteed to Spice Up Your Love Life

Whenever someone asks me what I do for a living, I'm always a little bit hesitant to tell them that I run an online sex toy store. There are so many negative connotations in that one phrase that usually causes surprise, some disdain and usually I get no respect from my peers, or even parents and the middle aged crowd. The funny thing is though, they're usually my most frequent and best customers! And that is because Sex Toys are a great way to spice up your love life and re-i

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Swinging Heaven Community

Swinging Heaven is place of freedom of expression. All that you want to explore is available there. I enjoy knowledge that it gave me, so I decided to share it with others as well. What does Swinging stands for? Well I first got introduced to the Swinger lifestyle through UK swinger friend. I didn’t know much, but it intrigued me that some people in today’s society participate in polygamy sexual intercourse. I was on a mission to find out what is swingers lifestyle all ab

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How to Be Noticed and Get More Respect – The Art of Sensuous Seduction

If you’re single looking to find the guy of your dreams, or you already have a partner but feel overlooked at times; then listen up for some great tips on enchanting those around you. Seducing a man doesn’t necessarily mean stealing him from someone else, or convincing him to do something he doesn’t want to do. It can simply mean to captivate his attention or desire for you, whether it is a guy you just met or someone you’ve known for years. Get noticed and gain the respect you deserve through the art of sensuous seduction.

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