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ARTArticleDr. Romance on The Right Way to LoveDr. Romance writes:
There’s a pervasive myth in our society that there is a right and a wrong way to love. However, there’s not much clarity about what the right might be. We all have difficulty with relationships and difficulty with love. Therefore, we’re liable to draw the uncomfortable conclusion: “Everyone knows how to love correctly except me.”ARTArticleDr. Romance on The State of the Union MeetingDr Romance recommends couples increase their mutual respect and appreciation by having a regular "State of the Union" meeting. Here are two simple techniques you can use in all kinds of relationships: couples, families, even work partners and friends, to enhance your cooperation, tolerance and rationality, and to defuse conflict as soon as it arises.ARTArticleDr. Romance on Turning Poison Into MedicineDr. Romance writes:
The revered Sufi poet, Rumi, wrote: “We turn poison into medicine and our sorrows into blessings” I’m thankful for many things. I live a wonderful life, surrounded by loving friends and my beloved husband, Richard; I have the privilege of doing work which I love, and I’m thankful (yes, really) for being diagnosed with diabetes 11 years ago.ARTArticleDr. Romance on Winning the War WithinDr.ARTArticleDr. Romance on You Be The JudgeDr. Romance writes:ARTArticleDr. Romance On Your Heart's DesireYour heart's desire -- what could it be? So many people, including many of my clients, are searching to know what it is would satisfy them, to give their lives focus and direction.ARTArticleDr. Romance on Your Job on EarthDr. Romance writes:ARTArticleDr. Romance on Your Job on EarthDr. Romance writes:ARTArticleDr. Romance on: Apology and ForgivenessDr. Romance writes:ARTArticleDr. Romance on: Getting To YesARTArticleDr. Romance on: How to Have Happier Holidays!Dr. Romance writes:ARTArticleDr. Romance on: Intuition or Inner knowingDr. Romance writes:ARTArticleDr. Romance on: Kindness and HappinessARTArticleDr. Romance on: Mirrors and TeachersDr.ARTArticleDr. Romance on: No Cooperation? Solve It Yourself!Dr. Romance writes:
What do you do after you have tried everything and your partner, friend, child or colleague still won't negotiate?ARTArticleDr. Romance on: The Power of PolitenessDr. Romance writes:
Politeness and sensitivity are not held in high esteem in the media these days. The nastiest politicians get the most air time. Many media spokespeople, stars and commentators, “gangsta” rappers, nasty radio talk show stars and “edgy” comedians; as well as personalities like the judges on talent reality shows and certain game show hosts achieve success by putting people down and making fun of them. Sports are now about doping and winning at all costs, and the old ideals of sportsmanship seem to be lost.ARTArticleDr. Romance on: The Power of PurposeARTArticleDr. Romance On: The Tennis Match: How to Balance the Power in Your RelationshipCouples often come in to Dr. Romance's counseling office soon after they move in together, because they’re arguing about differences in design and life styles. Whose furniture to use, where to put it, who can use each room, or how to work out the division of labor. These squabbles are often symbolic and mask the real anxieties of the partners, which have to do with intimacy, space and closeness.ARTArticleDr. Romance on: Where is Love?Dr. Romance writes:ARTArticleDr. Romance on: Without EgoDr. Romance writes:ARTArticleDr. Romance says: "Lighten Up - Cures for Marital Boredom"Dr. Romance writes:
The old folk songs say it:
Oh, love is handsome, love is fine
Love is a jewel when it is new;
But when love's old, it waxes cold
And fades away, like morning dew.
Folk wisdom says it: If newlyweds put a penny in a jar for every time they make love in the first year, and take one out for every time after that, the jar will never be empty.ARTArticleDr. Romance Video: Dr. Romance on How to Be a Loving Couple when You Have KidsIf video doesn't load, click hereARTArticleDr. Romance Wishes You a Happy ThanksgivingDr. Romance on giving thanks:ARTArticleDr. Romance writes: Should you stay in your marriage?Dr. Romance writes: Should you stay in your marriage?
Marriage can be frustrating and disappointing, especially if you don't have the skills to fix it. But giving in to the frustration and leaving may turn out to be the worst thing you ever did.
Consider these reasons to stay:ARTArticleDr. Romance: "Don't Call Your Ex!"Dr. Romance "Don't Call Your Ex"
Dr. Romance’s How to handle being dumped
DO put it in perspective If you're dumped, it hurts, but count your lucky stars. You don’t have a relationship if the other person's not really interested.ARTArticleDr. Romance: "Don't Panic"Dr. Romance writes: There is always something in the news or on TV to scare us. Hysterical articles in the media sell papers, and attract eyeballs to websites, but are usually exaggerating the facts. If you listen without evaluating what you’re being told, it’s easy to become frightened. There's a reason why I don't usually waste time and energy on panic and drama.ARTArticleDr. Romance: "How to Deal with a Partner's Annoying Quirks"Many guys, especially younger ones, are well known for having 'courting behavior' and then relaxing into their old, slobby selves once you're committed. It's not that men are from Mars, women from Venus - it's more like all of us have grown up on different planets. Couples can get caught up in arguing about who's right, rather than focusing on what will work.ARTArticleDr. Romance: 3 Tips to Letting Go of PainIf your marriage ends in divorce, you lose more than the marriage itself. Even if your marriage had problems, or you were the one who wanted out, you still will have grief over the dreams and hopes which have died with the relationship. The overwhelming feeling of loss can be confusing and difficult to understand. The following tips will help you move through these feelings and begin to focus on the future.
1. Get Support.rARTArticleDr. Romance: 4 Tips for handling Post-holiday bluesDr Romance writes:
Everyone is relieved when the holidays are over, and sometimes disappointed. If you're worn out, it's worth your while to take the time to recharge a little, and pamper yourself. Here are some hints:ARTArticleDr. Romance: Creating a Blended Family When You Have a New PartnerOnce you have gone through the wrenching experience of loss or divorce, it's not easy to pick up the pieces and find a new love. If you have children, they have been through a lot of upset, also. So when you do find a new love and want to create a blended family in a new way, these steps will help:
Dr. Romance's 4 tips to smoother step-parenting