Topic
Browse Forgiveness
Explore the experts, articles, websites, videos, and events connected to this topic in one place.
Forgiveness
104 everything
Choose a lane, then start typing to narrow the topic instantly.
Expert
Azim Khamisa
Having lost his only son Tariq to a gang-related murder, Azim N. Khamisa is a rare individual who not only speaks of powerful and life-changing concepts, but also walks his talk having created a foundation in his son’s name, the Tariq Khamisa Foundation, which dedicated to breaking the cycle of youth violence by empow…
Expert
Barbara J Hunt

Expert
Bernard Schnee
In this lost world where money power has set the rules of people's life, selfishness and ignorance as well as judgment and rejection are sitting on the destructive throne of the lives of many. My goal is to bring before all, the reality of the need of forgiveness as without it, there is no life possible. I am the au…

Expert
Betty J. Coffman
I am a certified massage therapist with many years of experience, study and work in the field of mind/body connection. I have created the program called Forgiveness For Healing for which I am a Coach & Instructor. My life's work is to teach people how to truly forgive in order to allow themselves access to the deeper…

Expert
Brenda Adelman
Brenda Adelman grew up in Brooklyn with a sexy, bohemian artist mother and an alpha male Jewish wanna be Italian stallion father. Big characters. Big laughs. Until that fateful night in 1995. Mom was shot. Dad was jailed. His gun, the weapon never found. He quickly move din with and then married Brenda's aunt, her mot…
Expert
Carol Miller
I have a physic ability to create inner peace and healing through prayer.

Expert
Colin Tipping
Colin Tipping was born and educated in England and taught at London University before moving to the United States in 1984. He is an ordained interfaith minister with the Universal Brotherhood Movement, Inc. and a licensed hypnotherapist. During his career as a teacher and motivator, Colin Tipping has, together wit…

Expert
Hara Taicher
Author, Speaker and Spiritual Life Coach, Mind/Body Cleansing Expert, Hara Taicher lectures coast to coast on the importance of whole body cleansing, diet, detox and transforming old unproductive patterns. Hara has trained with some of todays' top Holistic Doctors to learn the latest therapies and treatments availabl…

Expert
Judy Irving
Judy Irving, MCC is an executive and leadership coach, a corporate trainer, author and non-denominational minister. She works one-on-one with business leaders to bring out their best (talents, strengths, skills) in order to reach their goals and vision. Her mission is to assist others in transforming the way they look…

Expert
Kristin Robertson
Kristin Robertson, President of Brio Leadership, is a values-based organizational consultant, dynamic presenter and results-oriented business coach. Her passion is to help individuals and teams positively transform their lives to create lasting change. Her corporate training and consulting programs build values-based…

Expert
Pat Crosby
PAT CROSBY has studied meditation with the masters of the far east, west and the higher planes of consciousness for many many years. She has visited and studied in many of the world's most sacred power spots. Her simple little guided meditation on ForGIVEness is a gift of the spirit guides of Lake Titicaca, Peru - who…

Expert
Patricia Minx
Article
The Watching Tree
“In contemplation the human spirit learns to see the presence f the divine in nature, and so recognizes that the Earth is a sacred place. For such a spirit the biblical bush burns, and we take off our shoes. --- Elizabeth Johnson
Article
The Great Economy
The Great Economy
Article
Chief Phil Lane Jr ~ "The Gift of ForGIVEness" ~ by Pat Crosby
In this straight forward and revealing interview, Chief Phil Lane Jr shares his heartfelt journey as he learns the powerful freedom and empowerment that comes from forgiveness. In this living oral history, Phil clearly and powerful shares his trials and tribulations and victories along the bumpy road of healing his own and social injustice ills.r
Article
"Remove The Occupation From Your Mind" ~ Interview with Alison Ramer by Pat Crosby
Social Healing ~ "This Takes Work" ~ One Person at a Time We caught Alison Ramer enroute to Jerusalem, just after an explosion rocked the city there. She shares her hopes, dreams, and visions that give her the stamina to go back to the war zone and continue the fight for peace, justice, forgiveness and healing. In this passionate heartfelt statement, Alison shares the vision and hope that her generation share and how social media is helping them unify in their common humanity.
Article
Get Gossip Out of Your Life
Gossiping can suck the zest out of your spirit. Gossip is mean-spirited and little-minded; its goal is to make the gossipers feel superior to the gossiped-about. It is seductive, addictive and a way of bonding with other gossipers, all while pulling you down to the lowest spiritual common denominator. Gently observe your interactions with others, and catch yourself if you feel you are getting sucked into gossip. What Is Gossip? Let's define what gossip is and is not. Gossip is judgmental chit-chat about another person or group.
Article
Questions to Ask Yourself After Forgiving
Forgiving doesn't mean that you have to be best friends with - or married to - the person who hurt you. It simply means that you have reached a feeling of peace about the person or situation and have discharged your anger or resentment. The decision to take action after someone has hurt you is always a better one if you can wait until you have forgiven, at least in part. This is because your heart and mind are clear of dark emotions that dim your decision-making ability. So, you've gone through the process to forgive and have released much of your lingering anger and resentment.
Article
The Value of Mental Health Breaks
Are you challenged to live authentically and in alignment with your spiritual values on a daily basis? Many of us are so busy every day that it's hard to even remember what spiritual values are when we are on the go from morning to night. We have children to raise, jobs to commute to, work to do, meetings to attend, emails and phone calls to return, soccer practices and music lessons to chauffeur kids to. It's exhausting to think of the obligations we have in our lives.
Article
Spiritual Goal Setting
Are you ready to sit down and lay out your goals... be they for the New Year, for a project or just to get a fresh start on your life? I'd like to share my thoughts and experiences about goal setting that might provide you with some new perspectives on this important ritual.
Article
Forgiveness is a Team Sport
Forgiveness and the workplace -- seems like an odd juxtaposition, doesn't it? We do not often think of forgiveness as having anything to do with the workplace, but surprisingly, forgiveness is an essential practice of a highly effective work team. Thanks to recent psychological and medical research, we know that the act of forgiveness has many benefits to the individual. "People who are taught to forgive become less angry, more hopeful, less depressed, less anxious, less stressed, more confident, and they learn to like themselves more." (Dr.
Article
Finding Your Heart During a Busy Day
Does this sound like you? You rush from one meeting to another, deal with demanding customers, handle employees' conce s, put out the latest "fire" at the office or at home, return phone calls and wade through a knee-deep pile of emails. With a day like that, it can be so easy to get caught up in the busy-ness of the day -- the din of a hectic schedule drowns out the calm of your true heart. The good news is your quiet heart center is always available and it is just waiting for you to tap in, however briefly, to its calm.
Article
Five Ways to Practice Gratitude
Are you grateful? Now, more than ever, is the best time to practice gratitude. Although, it may seem like an odd time to discuss being thankful -- economic times are tough and public confidence in both corporate and governmental leaders is low. Why should you be grateful when it seems like things are at their worst? Consider this: According to recent research, the practice of gratitude and appreciation can make you happier -- and who doesn't want to be happier? There are several reasons that gratitude makes you cheerier.
Article
There Is Nothing to Fear in Forgiveness
Are you afraid of forgiveness? Do you believe that it will empower the other person to continue to hurt you and/or other people? Do you fear that forgiveness will make you give up your role as victim and lose the sympathy you get from others? Are you under the impression that forgiving will make you vulnerable to experiencing hurts similar to those you've experienced in the past? These fears are flat out false. Several of my coaching clients have declared something like this, "I can't forgive my ex-husband because I'm afraid he's going to do horrible things to me and the kids.
Article
Forgive in Your Own Time
Not long ago, I saw an online video of a woman who described the wondrous things that manifested in her life once she forgave the man who killed her daughter. She said she worked hard to forgive - it took her several days. I start screaming at the screen, "Several days! Honey, you think that's bad? It's taken me years to forgive several people in my life, and months to forgive others! And none of these people killed anyone!
Article
Five Ways to Develop the Transformational Leader Within You
Today, leaders must deal with complexity, ambiguity and constant change. If leaders are to be successful, they must possess not only mental maturity, but also maturity of heart, mind and the human spirit. Tall order for us mere mortals, huh? The good news is that transformational leaders, those who truly make a difference, are developed, not born. How can you become a transformational leader?
Article
Who is the Inspirational Leader in Your Organization? Could it Be You?
Who is the inspirational leader in your organization? A company needs just one focal person to bear the flag, as a Civil War flag bearer would ride in front of a cavalry unit, showing the way into battle with a symbol of pride. Employees long to work for organizations in which there is a purpose bigger than just a paycheck, where employees are appreciated, and where managers care about them as people. They need an inspirational leader.
Article
The Value of Building a Values-Based Enterprise
The country of Bhutan thinks differently. This country values happiness over productivity, as evidenced by their measurement of the Gross Domesic Happiness index. Recently, the Prime Minister of Bhutan, Jigme Thinley, pointed to the cause of the current economic crisis. His answer: "Greed, insatiable human greed." What a contrast between values such as the pursuit of happiness (a value first espoused in the United States' Declaration of Independence) and greed!
Article
Choose Love Despite the Fear
There are only two basic human emotions, love and fear. All other emotions are variations on these two archetypal themes. Of the two, which emotion have we seen at work in our economy over the past several months? Of course, the answer is fear. When I worked in the securities industry years ago, we had a saying that markets are driven by fear and greed. Greed is the operative that fuels run-ups in the markets as investors try to make a buck (or a euro, in this global economy).
Article
Seven Characteristics of an Authentic Leader
Being an authentic leader is a cornerstone of building a spiritually intelligent workplace. To be authentic is to be real, to be genuine. If we consider that the opposite of authentic is phony or fake, then most people would vote for authenticity. It's like a counterfeit coin, which doesn't buy us anything once it is discovered, whereas an authentic coin is highly valuable. Personal authenticity breeds trust, commitment and loyalty in a work group.
Article
Take Nothing Personally
The scene: a hip and fashionable downtown restaurant. A high-ranking manager of a technology company and several of his team members are enjoying lunch together to celebrate the team's recent achievement. As the conversation veers off onto casual topics, one of the employees excitedly explains about a new start-up company to which her cousin was named president, ending with, "Wouldn't you just love to be in her shoes?" The boss turns to her and says, "You wouldn't love that - you'd hate it.
Article
Five Ways to Put Pride, Energy and Ownership Into Your Job
The scene was a late Friday night at O'Hare airport in Chicago. The flight was delayed and all the passengers were crabby. As they entered the aircraft, passengers were greeted by the first class flight attendant, who had a personality that filled the aircraft! "Welcome aboard, and how are you doing tonight?" he would ask each person as they boarded.
Article
Forgiveness - The Right Time is Up to You
"Timing is everything, and this is not the time," a colleague once said to me when I offered her a job that would require a move to another state. Her family situation didn't allow her to move at that time, but she left open the possibility that the timing could be right in a difference circumstance. I think this was a wise statement -- not just about jobs but about most decisions in life. The timing has to be right. The same can be said about choosing to forgive.
Article
7 Steps to Forgiveness
Did you know that forgiveness is good for you? The process of forgiveness has been shown to have both psychological and physical benefits to the person who is doing the forgiving. Shocking, isn't it? You may have heard the old axiom, "Holding a grudge is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die."
Article
Release Those Judgmental Thoughts
Can you think of a colleague, co-worker or acquaintance who really annoys you, but is probably a pretty agreeable person unde eath their irritating qualities? Stated another way, are there people who make you bristle because of a certain aspect of their personality, but if you consider them with an open heart, you could find quite a few redeeming qualities? I can say yes to both of these questions, so I assume that you can, too. Psychologists tell us that the qualities in others that most irritate us are the qualities that we fear in ourselves.
Article
Forgiveness is Good for You!
Forgiveness is like eating chicken soup for whatever ails you – it helps you feel better all over. You forgive others to help yourself – not to help the other person. Surprised? In my definition of forgiveness, the goal is to attain a feeling of peace toward a person who has harmed you. Forgiveness is like letting yourself out of jail – you release the hateful, vengeful thoughts that imprison you and make you feel bad every time you remember the hurtful incident. So if forgiveness is like chicken soup, what are the results of enjoying a steaming, savory bowl of the stuff?
Article
Forgive Yourself First!
A shocked silence hung over the conference room. Barry (not his real name), usually a compassionate and even-tempered vice president, had just loudly berated one of his managers during a staff meeting. The accused manager was looking down at his hands with a reddened face and the other managers’ jaws had dropped at this unusual display of emotional mismanagement. Barry quickly ended the meeting and hurried to his office. Later, he told me about the situation. “I was at the end of my rope, Kristin.
Article
Forgiveness at Work is NOT Singing Kumbaya!
We don’t often think about forgiveness in a business context. It’s usually not in our vocabulary at work. But it needs to be. Forgiveness at work creates a healthier work climate or environment and creates many other real benefits. It is not a touchy-feely, hold-hands-and-sing-Kumbaya gimmick. Forgiveness in the workplace is good business. It is important to define forgiveness at work. Forgiveness is giving people the benefit of the doubt and a second (or third) chance after making a mistake.
Article
Look Up to Hold Fast to Hope and Faith
When you walk down the street, where do you look? If you are like most people, you are looking at your feet, to make sure you don't trip, to see where you are going in the next step. In everyday life, we all tend to notice only those things that are at eye level or below. Our natural inclination is to look down. It takes intention and practice to look up and notice what is above our accustomed field of vision.
Article
How to Love Your Loneliness
Vienna, Austria circa 1987: I had just graduated from college and was alive with the excitement of exploring the world. My brother, Warren, had been living in this breathtakingly beautiful city for several years and I missed him. He was acting in an English-speaking movie starring Ben Kingsley and I got to hang out on the set; I even got a day’s wages as an extra playing a Russian peasant in the film. Warren met his girlfriend, who would later become his wife, on set.
Article
How to Forgive Your Mother’s Betrayal: So You Can Truly Stand in Your Power
My mother died in 1995. As many do after someone dies, I put her up on a pedestal. It’s only now, fourteen years later, that I have begun to look at the affect the unhealed parts of our relationship have had on me and the unanswered questions they have left for me. Would we have resolved our issues had she lived? Would I have been able to stand forth in my own feminine power with her big personality hovering over me? Could I have forgiven my judgments of her? My mother loved me. This was never in question. She was controlling. I’m sure she thought it was for my own good.
Article
The 5 Top Reasons to Never Forgive and Why You Must
I have been performing my one-woman play, My Brooklyn Hamlet, on and off since 2000. It is based on my journey from deep despair and darkness to acceptance and peace after my father (whom I adored) shot and killed my mother (my best friend) and subsequently married my mother’s sister. After each performance, I lead a Q & A session. I also offer live workshops on the power of forgiving the unforgivable. After seeing the show, audience members share about their hearts opening. They reveal how they have gained more compassion for the people in their lives and for themselves.
Article
How to Forgive Your Father’s Betrayal So You Can Have More Love in Your Life Now
Did you know that if you are angry, un-forgiving and resentful of your father you are actually hurting yourself? Think about it for a minute. Who holds that anger in their body and mind? You or him? This energy becomes toxic to the person feeling it and usually shows up as depression (which can be anger turned in on oneself) or a high level of anger toward others (those who you love and don’t deserve it) or as sickness (the anger creates stress within you and all kinds of blockages). How can you truly accept yourself as a good man if you hate the very man that gave you your life?
Article
The Three Steps to Forgive and Finally be Free
I was raised by wiseguys in Brooklyn (my father one of them). He taught me how to drive a Cadillac at six and how to shoot a gun at ten. He had a nickname for me, Brenda Badenda, his Great Defenda. I was definitely Daddy’s little girl. Mom was an eclectic bohemian artistic who practically strapped me to her back and took me traveling each summer with her around the globe. She taught me Shakespeare by reading it to me as a bedtime story from the time I was three years old and took me to Broadway shows on the weekends. She was my best friend. My parent’s love for each other was intense.
Article
Family Dysfunction, Festivities, and The Power of Forgiveness
Holidays are meant to be happy, joyous and life-affirming times. Filled with joy and gratitude we return home to our families, fill our bellies with delicious food and our hearts with cheer. Right? Well, truth be told that in most cases this just isn’t true. Instead of happiness, anger brews. Instead of joy, tolerance rules. Instead of gratitude, resentment surfaces. Here are three reasons for this: 1. Unhealed issues between family members have never been addressed and dealt with in a safe and healthy way.
Article
A Moment for Thanks at Thanksgiving
A time for Thanksgiving is a time for gratitude. During these tough social times, it may be difficult to easily find a grateful attitude. A lot of people are out of jobs, houses are upside down, the economy is brutal, unemployment is high. There are serious problems everywhere in our world.
Article
A Trip To Australia Brings Awareness and Healing
On a fifth annual trip to Australia, I had the opportunity to speak with those brothers and sisters who live "down under" proving once again, no matter the nationality, or continent, or community, everyone wants the same thing: peace and purpose.
Article
We Look Back on 10 Years of Losses and Lessons
As we acknowledge and respect the many who lost lives at the 9/11 tragedy and hold ourselves in silence and prayers that their souls have found ete al peace on the 10th anniversary of a tragedy that changed the world, we must also stop and ask what we have learned over the years? In my humble opinion, the choices our nation made after the 9/11 tragedy have made the world a more dangerous place. Some 90 countries lost lives in this tragedy, including France and Germany and many of our allies whom we alienated by taking a unilateral decision to handle the response alone.
Article
A Chance to See Restorative Justice in Action
Have you wondered why our criminal justice system is in disarray, why our criminals are not being transformed, why we continue to fill prisons and reform few, and why the justice system fails miserably in delivering justice at all? I have as well, but in my jou eys I have been able to recently see it another way. In late July, I was able to make a special trip to a special city that knows not of such a failing system.
Article
It All Counts - Forgiving Even the Small Things to Live in the Present
Someone pulls out in front of you on the highway. A teller gives you bad treatment. The computer freezes up on you for the third time, erasing your document you've worked on for hours. You receive an e-mail that puts you down. Someone takes your parking spot, the one you've been eying for 5 minutes. There are many instances when you may get flustered and fall short in the realm of forgiveness and tranquility. God knows I have fallen short at times. What we must acknowledge is: We can all get agitated with a myriad of experiences at various times.
Article
Moving Out of Denial and into Acceptance that My Father Murdered My Mother
In 1995 I was newly engaged, moved across the country to be with my fiancé and was excited to start acting in Los Angeles. I had wanted to move to Califo ia ever since one of my closest friends moved there from NY several years earlier. I 'fell' into a retail management job as soon as I arrived because a store I managed in Trump Tower in Manhattan had another location in Beverly Hills and they wanted me.
Article
Africa, you have not been forgotten
Africa; Today we come before you to invite you. As servants of the Lord we are coming to you to let you know that you have a right. You are no longer slaves but you are sons and daughters. We come to you to let you know that your right is to believe; your right is to hope, your right is to have ...
Article
Keep on moving
Set your goals and keep on moving toward them. Take time from your busy schedule and go for a walk, take the stairs instead of the elevator. Watch less tv and enjoy the wii. You can bowl or learn new dance steps from your wii. Eat more than less, you have to eat in proportions and a little something from every food group. You can lose weight by eating more each day of fruits and vegetables. With just a small portion of protein the size of your fist.r
Article
LIFE'S SIMPLE PATH
PRAY IN SILENCE, PRAY FOR FAITH, PRAY FOR LOVE, PRAY FOR SERVICE, AND PRAY FOR PEACE. JESUS WILL LIFT YOU UP THROUGH FORGIVENESS. LOOK TO JESUS, HE'S THE ONE YOUR LOOKING FOR. JESUS IS PRECIOUS TO ME, HE IS THE ONE WHO CAN MAKE ME SEE. HE WILL COME INTO YOUR HEART AND GIVE YOU A BRAND NEW START. I THANK THE LORD FOR MY BLESSINGS EVERYDAY. THE LORD IS MY GUIDING LIGHT AND HE HELPS ME THROUGH THE NIGHT. AMEN. BY CAROL A. MILLER
Article
You can be what you want to be
Imagine yourself being there, imagine yourself getting thinner and imagine yourself to success. Have the Definiteness of purpose and the desire to put your Dreams to Action. Don't give up on your Dreams, you can make them a reality. Persistance pays off. Become success conscious and bring on changes tomorrow. Have integrity, quality, and respect. Your responsible for your own life, take control and be ready and determined to accept the Blessings. Money, Recognition,and happiness can be yours if you are ready to have them. Never give up on the Dream. By Carol A. Miller
Article
SOMEWAY SOMEHOW
SOMEHOW SOMEWAY My Life was rushing by and i didn't have time to cry. I had to be on my own and I found out the hard way, that there was no time for play with a baby on the way. And i thank the Lord for this Beautiful Child that Godr
Article
Jesus is the Way
Jesus is the way Jesus is the way, that's what i have to say, he can show you the way. Give your heart to Jesus and watch yourself improve. Your past will be gone and he will help you carry on. Jesus forgives you for all the wrong you have done. Let him in your life and start having fun. He will change your life forever and make you very clever. Pray today to Jesus and he will come into your life and help you reach that lever. I love you Jesus with all my heart and soul.r
Article
3 Proven Strategies To Chill An Emotional Meltdown
Never take yourself out of life. Many things will go on that may make you angry, or may seem unfair, but learning how to manage yourself and your feelings in those situations is a skill that's genius to learn! Every experience and every person you come in contact with has something to teach you.
Article
7 Powerful Strategies For Staying Positive
There is so much going on in the world today that can throw anybody off their center. Being able to keep your attention on accomplishing goals, feeling in control of your life, your emotions, your future, is one of the greatest challenges we face. To get your hands back on the steering wheel, ...
Article
Get Centered, Get Results
This is a good one! It's powerful once you understand this. It's right in front of us everyday And has EVERYTHING to do with moving forward in your life. What is it? Do you want to know what is the biggest hindrance to having what you want? It's the choices that you make! Let me be a little ...
Article
4 Keys to Choosing Conscious Language
There are so many daily actions to take and responsibilities to fulfill that the thought of monitoring our words may seem like a luxury we don't have time for. After all, we may believe we have good intentions, and that should be enough. Here's the short answer to that seemingly innocent thought. What we think of, speak about and act upon creates our reality. First we think of something. We get an idea. Then we speak about it. We put language to express our thoughts.
Article
How to Look and Feel 10 Years Younger in 5 Easy Steps
I'll admit the term easy is a relative one. Let me rephrase the headline to read like this; If you choose to have a healthy mind and body, let go of unproductive habits, and are willing to make small but significant changes in your daily routine, read on. Whew! I feel better coming clean right from the start. Truth is, I witness so many people having difficult times in their lives, whether it's health, love or finances or all of the above.
Article
3 Reasons Why You're Overweight
Unless there is some genetic reason why you're overweight, there are many contributing factors to this problem. Eating the wrong foods, daily stress and being exposed to toxins in the environment rank high on the list. Eating the wrong foods refers to the impact that food has on the body. There are three food groups: protein, carbohydrates and fats. Each one of these groups is essential to the proper body and brain function. Protein is broken down into the system as amino acids. Amino acids are the building blocks for cell renewal. Some proteins are better than others.
Article
Be Your Own Authority
It's not true what you've heard. Those who say you can't accomplish what you're passionate to achieve, and that you shouldn't even bother trying. Or those that remind you of others that are already doing something like what you've got in mind. As if it were true, there's only so much room for success. Too long the critics and critical voices have dominated our thinking, and left us in a semi powerless state. Somewhere between I might and I'll try. That way of thinking and I became good friends.
Article
How to Make Change Work For You
If you're anything like me, you're always looking for information and new ideas to make your life more productive. As a Wellness Trainer, that's my main focus. Once I get a new thought/product integrated into my thinking, I'm able to teach what I've learned to my clients. Adopting new ideas can often create an environment where change is necessary. That's where the challenge comes in.
Article
7 Tips to Exercise Your Mind
You wake up in the morning and immediately a negative thought comes into your head. Maybe it's something that's been on your mind, a conce or an unresolved situation. Sure enough, not even a minute after you've opened your eyes, you're right back in the thick of that stressful thought process. Does this sound familiar to you? Do you wish you could turn that negative auto responder OFF? Time to WORK-OUT your thinking! We go to the gym to exercise our body. Well, the same principle applies to our thoughts!
Article
The Mathematics of Happiness
Add appreciation and gratitude to your every day. Enhance the world around you with your smile. Smiling creates endorphins which send feel good messages to the brain. It's healing to you and those who receive it. Subtract any grudges you've been holding on to. For they reside within you. The only person you hurt is yourself. Learn to let go. Time exists in the present. What is done is in the past. It's history. Take away what's good in life. Nourish it, so it increases and expands. Come from inspiration, not from memory. What will be depends on what yo
Article
It's Time to Forgive
The healing power of forgiveness is like nothing you've experienced before. What most people don't understand is that when they forgive, really forgive, they actually set themselves free. It is the one who holds the pain or anger, or whatever the emotion is inside them that suffers most. The key to being free is to forgive. I know some situations are complicated, and it may be difficult to even consider the thought of forgiveness, but it is important to know that forgiving doesn't mean you carelessly abandon your principles.
Article
Who's Responsible?
Are we the blaming kind? Do we find some kind of satisfaction in putting the responsibility and therefore the blame “out there”? Do we tend to say, its Obama’s fault we’re in this mess? Or I just can’t get the work done in this heat, or as Flip Wilson used to say, “The devil made me do it.” Or as I remember back in the days when the fridge had ice trays, the son of a friend when challenged on why he didn’t refill the tray blamed it on Clancy the dog who used up the ice. I still laugh about this one.
Article
Getting Real About What it Takes
Today's workforce is experiencing a tremendous crisis of morale. This is not only effecting individual success, but corporate finances across America. We can't wait for the government to do it for us. Each of us is responsible not only for the actions we take but the way we think and believe. If there is a silver lining to the situation that is going on in America today, I suppose it is that it has put us back in touch with what a greedy bunch we have been.
Article
Moving On...By Taking Off The Blinders
I’m sure most of you are familiar with 360 degree feedback. Most large companies administer these through their Human Resources to see how well an employee is living up to the objectives of the company and their individual department. It definitely plays an important role in personal and career ...
Article
Are You Putting the Cart Before the Donkey?
Have you said this to yourself: I have a great product so I need to get busy with the marketing; without fully doing market research or product research, or creating a business plan first? I call this putting the cart before the donkey. Can a cart actually pull a donkey? A donkey can ride in a cart, but what’s going to pull the cart? What I’m asking is: What is the engine that is going to run your business? Have you ever actually spent money before you had it in hand…knowing it’s coming soon?
Article
How Do We Invite So Much Judgment Into Our Lives?
Many Spiritual teachings say that the universe arranges for all the people in our life – from our most casual acquaintances to our dearest friends, from our closest family members to the stranger who walks his dog past our house; share negative traits similar to our own. Here’s what happens: ...
Article
Living the Life You Love!
Living the Life You Loven n n“We either make ourselves miserable or we make ourselves strong. The amount of effort is the same.” ~ Carlos Castenedan I ‘woke up’ one day and realized life is what you make it, not what is ‘dished out’ to you. Me – personally – I am responsible for my happiness. ...
Article
25 Facts I Wish I’d Known Sooner
1. The grass is not always greener over there. There is a gift or opportunity right where I am if I will only take the time to think and reflect. After all if I’m thinking about their grass, I’m missing my own. My energy is better spent just being grateful I have grass. 2. Bigger is not always better. What matters is quality and joy, not size. Why not try playing a higher game as opposed to a bigger one? Or focus on enjoying more fully what you currently have before planning for more or bigger? 3. It’s not “their’ fault.r
Article
Trust Your Cape
Where do you place your trust when you take a leap of faith? I was driving today and a song came on the radio about a boy who could fly because he didn’t know he couldn’t. It went something like this: Spread your armsr Hold your breathr And remember to trust your cape. What is it you are not doing in your career, life, relationships, as a parent, a friend, a writer, a teacher, an athlete that you’re not doing because you think you can’t? Perhaps you’ve not even analyzed it, or didn’t think carefully about something because you assumed it was beyond you.
Article
Does Bouncing Back Get Easier?
How are you at bouncing back? Is it easier than it used to be? Harder? Seems like everyone and everything is bouncing back from something; unemployment, poor business, faith in America, the economy, the market, the banks, or real estate. Many marriages and relationships have fallen apart, people have gotten depressed or sick. It seems like a lot and I for one have set an intention to be optimistic in 2011. So I ask you this question: Is there really more now to bounce back from or is that just where our focus has been recently?
Article
Does the Demand Exceed Your Capacity?
What if you were built like a computer where you could run at full speed, operating multiple programs and all at once? If you’re like me, you attempt to do just this and then get frustrated, if you (or the computer) don’t change as quickly from one program as you deem necessary…what’s wrong with this picture? Could be a simple lesson in patience, but I suspect the real reason is today’s demands exceed your capacity. Let’s take another example: Compare your mind and body to a tank of gasoline.
Article
***What Is Radical Forgiveness?
Everyone agrees that forgiveness is a good thing to do. Besides the fact that it holding onto anger and resentment makes you feel horrible and robs you of your life force energy, the link between high blood pressure and other health issues is well proven. Moreover, the research shows that there is a direct link between having a resistance to forgiveness and the formation of cancer. So, people are now realizing that forgiveness is very essential to one’s health and well being.
Article
***Making a Difference for 2012
As the movie ‘2012’ plays in theaters, I am reminded that in 1999, I wrote the following as my mission statement: “My mission is to raise the consciousness of the planet through Radical Forgiveness and create a world of forgiveness by 2012.” Even then I thought, who the hell did I think I was to imagine I could make this kind of a difference? How grandiose of me! Was I really being serious?
Article
***The John Edwards Affair
If I had known earlier what I have just learned from reading excerpts, in Newsweek, taken from Elizabeth Edwards' recently released book, I would have gone out and put money on the absolute inevitability of her husband's infidelity. I am quite certain that John Edwards had no choice in the ...If I had known earlier what I have just learned from reading excerpts, in Newsweek, taken from Elizabeth Edwards' recently released book, I would have gone out and put money on the absolute inevitability of her husband's infidelity. I am quite certain that John Edwards had no choice in the matter.
Article
***The Boyz of Wally Street
For all that I go on about how money is just energy, has no meaning other than what we attach to it, and how there is no shortage of it, I still find myself feeling a lot of anger towards the guys on Wall Street who took an average of $12 million each in bonuses. The fact that they took the ...For all that I go on about how money is just energy, has no meaning other than what we attach to it, and how there is no shortage of it, I still find myself feeling a lot of anger towards the guys on Wall Street who took an average of $12 million each in bonuses.
Article
***The Power of Oneness
Since I often refer in conversation about how Radical Forgiveness has the power to create change in people, it seems appropriate for me to say something about the nature of that power and the source from which it emanates. You would probably expect me to say that God is the source, but I am not ...Since I often refer in conversation about how Radical Forgiveness has the power to create change in people, it seems appropriate for me to say something about the nature of that power and the source from which it emanates.
Article
***A Bridge to Somewhere
Clearly, the days of profligate spending are over. But that doesn't mean we won't spend at all in the next few months and years. It's just that we will spend more wisely now. Just like our government is investing in infrastructure as a way to move our economy forward, we should be planning to ...Clearly, the days of profligate spending are over. But that doesn't mean we won't spend at all in the next few months and years. It's just that we will spend more wisely now.
Article
***Upsiding The Downtu
By any standards, we look to be in a bit of economic mess right now and in many ways the future looks bleak and uncertain. If you are in danger of losing your home or your job, you know this only too well. If you are in a predicament like this, I don't doubt that you are feeling fearful, angry ...By any standards, we look to be in a bit of economic mess right now and in many ways the future looks bleak and uncertain. If you are in danger of losing your home or your job, you know this only too well.
Article
***Why We Must Forgive Our Parents
Few people going through a messy divorce in mid-life would blame their own parents for their predicament. Neither would a business owner betrayed by a trusted partner normally think in those terms. A person who loses his job every five years would also not say that his grandfather was to blame. ...Few people going through a messy divorce in mid-life would blame their own parents for their predicament. Neither would a business owner betrayed by a trusted partner normally think in those terms. A person who loses his job every five years would also not say that his grandfather was to blame.
Article
*** Walking to Forgive
One of the reasons why I think people are reluctant to go through a process of forgiveness is because they just don’t want to revisit the pain. Let sleeping dogs lie! Why dig up the past? Just forget it! Who needs it, for God’s sake? But research is showing that this strategy ...One of the reasons why I think people are reluctant to go through a process of forgiveness is because they just don’t want to revisit the pain. Let sleeping dogs lie! Why dig up the past? Just forget it! Who needs it, for God’s sake?
Article
*** How Radical Forgiveness Works
Ordinary forgiveness is 'letting bygones be bygones'. A certain willingness to forgive is implied but the belief something wrong happened is never questioned. “You did that to me, but I’ll let you off the hook and forgive you.” Research based at Seattle University, WA showed ...Ordinary forgiveness is 'letting bygones be bygones'. A certain willingness to forgive is implied but the belief something wrong happened is never questioned. “You did that to me, but I’ll let you off the hook and forgive you.”
Article
***Supercharge Your Business or Career By Becoming a Published Author
Nothing enhances your standing amongst peers, customers, clients and business associates more than being a published author. They automatically assume: You are smarter than average You are an authority on your subject You deserve a lot of respect You are a person they can do business ...Nothing enhances your standing amongst peers, customers, clients and business associates more than being a published author. They automatically assume: - You are smarter than average - You are an authority on your subject - You deserve a lot of respectr
Article
***Your Willingness to Receive is the Gift
At this time of year, the focus is 100% on giving. Yes, it’s a wonderful feeling to give from your heart, but how about receiving? Can you do that with an open heart as well? The fact is many people find receiving much more difficult, but giving and receiving are two sides of the same ...At this time of year, the focus is 100% on giving. Yes, it’s a wonderful feeling to give from your heart, but how about receiving? Can you do that with an open heart as well?
Article
***Be In The Now, Not In The Dow
Understandably, people everywhere are feeling that the old paradigm has let them down. They worked hard for years and years in order to create some security for their senior years and for their children and now they see it melting away. They are losing their jobs, their homes, their pensions ...Understandably, people everywhere are feeling that the old paradigm has let them down. They worked hard for years and years in order to create some security for their senior years and for their children and now they see it melting away.
Article
***Getting a Jump on Thanksgiving Jitters
As Thanksgiving looms, a familiar queasiness in the gut may be forming as you contemplate the annual family get-together. But I doubt your conce is about what dishes people are bringing for the table. Rather, my bet is you are worrying about the emotional baggage that everyone, including ...As Thanksgiving looms, a familiar queasiness in the gut may be forming as you contemplate the annual family get-together. But I doubt your conce is about what dishes people are bringing for the table.
Website
Forgiveness Made Easy
Everything you need to know about how to forgive anyone and anything. Forgiveness Made Easy is a non-religious, accessible approach to everyday forgiveness - a secular ethics practice that can transform relationships, resolve the past and ultimately, help to co-create a world at peace.
Website
Barbara J Hunt
"The voice of an angel, the mind of a philosopher, the heart of a woman, the soul of a mystic." Evolutionary/Integral Singer-Songwriter from England, UK with a background of 25+ years of personal/spiritual development reflected in the depth of her heart-opening songs.
Website
mysustainableliving.net
sustainability and spirituality
Website
Waking Gods & Goddesses
Be Spiritually Sexy—Embody Divine Wisdom and the Sensual Life as empowered, fulfilled modern men and women—purposefully living wide awake, self-realised, from all 7 of senses, living in balance with her inner masculine and feminine, and accessing-expressing the full range of human emotion and experience with grace and ease.
Website
NLPworking4u
NLP Trainings, NLP in Business, Relationships, and Personal Development
Website
Emily Eldredge's Drawing Out Process
The Drawing Out Process is an easy yet very powerful way to release fears, self-criticism, and other emotional struggles. These "characters" within you are drawn out and returned to a state of wholeness and peace - so that you can finally feel whole and at peace.
Website
First International Doer's Ministries
Helping people to go through challenges of life instead of constantly dwelling in.
Website
How to be Happy Store
Dr. Aymee's Instant Downloadable Lessonsr Learn How to be Happy Right Now! Feel Better! Get Depression Help! Get your life back on track! Learn from a doctor and an expert who lives and breathes happiness everyday!
Website
TO DELIGHT IN THE PATH OF RIGHTEOUSNESS
Inner peace through spiritual healing.
Website
reliefwithoutaprescription.com
I am a Holistic Health and Lifestyle Coach, specializing in mind/body cleansing programs which I customize for corporations, clubs, individuals, schools...
Website
GetCenteredWithHara
Are YOU ready to be in the best emotional, mental and physical shape of your life?
Website
Ligia Houben
As a Life Transitions consultant & coach, besides having specialized in grief and loss, Ligia M. Houben, with special care helps people transform their losses and transform their lives. Her system The 11 Principles of Transformation is offered now as a 12 weeks online program www.the11principlesoftransformation.com
Guide opening
One lead guide opening per topic
Each topic supports one lead guide. SelfGrowth reviews requests, reserves the slot, and publishes the guide when it is ready.
1. Request
Explain why you should lead this guide.
2. Approval
If approved, SelfGrowth reserves the slot and opens the guide workspace.
3. Publish
Once the guide is ready, SelfGrowth publishes it on the topic page.
Your request
Apply as a contributor
You need an approved contributor account before you can apply to lead the guide for this topic.
Start your contributor application