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ARTArticleHow to Heal a Rift with an Adult ChildFrequently I help my clients work through problems with their grown children. Sometimes, an offspring is angry about something, and the parent is at a loss for what is wrong or what to do about it. These struggles often have their seeds in things that happened long ago, when the child was young. Even parents who love their children and try to do the right thing can make mistakes, and some parents let their issues—struggles with spouses, stresses of single parenting, fears about money or social disapproval—skew their child-related decisions.ARTArticleHow To Know If Your Ex Boyfriend Wants You Back - Signs My Ex Wants Me Back After A Break UpHave you experienced a break up where your girlfriend left you for someone else? It does happen so don't feel like you are the only one trade with this. How to know if your ex boyfriend wants you back; Maybe you are now demanding to think about how you can get you're ex girlfriend back.ARTArticleHow To Know The Signs An Ex Boyfriend Still Have Feelings For Me - Loves - Likes And Wants Me BackI want my ex boyfriend back is the secret desire of many girls today; has a day gone by since your break up when you haven't thought about your ex boyfriend? If you still love him chances are very good that you think about him virtually non-stop. He's likely the first thing on your mind in the morning when you wake up and before you drift off to sleep you imagine being back in his arms. He's the man you love so it only makes sense that you'd think about him all the time, right? One thought you probably have continually swirling in your head is whether he ever thinks of you.ARTArticleHow To Make My Ex Girlfriend Fall in Love With Me Again - AnsweredHow To Make My Ex Girlfriend Fall in Love With Me Again. Dating advice on how to get the attention of an ex girlfriend. How Can I Make My Ex Girlfriend Fall Back in Love With Me. Tips to make your ex girlfriend love you again and Expert advice to get your ex girlfriend back in your life.ARTArticleHow To Make Your Boyfriend Miss You After A Breakup - Getting Your Ex Boyfriend To Miss YouThere are many people that have experienced a break up that came as a total shock to them. Also you may have been the one that initiated the break up only to understand later it may have been a mistake. How to make your boyfriend miss you after a breakup; No matter how it happened there may be a way for you to get your boy or girlfriend back if that is your desire.ARTArticleHow To Make Your Ex Miss You - What To Do To Make An Ex Boyfriend-Girlfriend Interested In YouYour boyfriend or girlfriend is not with you any more and now you are badly absent from them. You want to make your ex miss you and get interested in you. What do you think you should do? If this is what you are truly facing, and now you are telling those who are connected to you about it. If truly you want your boyfriend or girlfriend back then stop doing the talking and think about your problem on ground.ARTArticleHow To Spot A "Good" Woman - 15 Things To Look ForMany of my clients lately are men who have at some point or other in their lives been deceived and dazed by a woman's looks. Many of them have wasted countless hours and spent small fortunes chasing after women who lied to them and basically treated them like dirt. Some regret the lost opportunity to the marry a woman who was not exactly physically attractive but was a good woman. There is really no "standard" litmus test for telling right away that a woman is "a good woman" or one of those "other" ones. Here are just a few things to look for when you meet or date a girl/woman: 1.ARTArticleHow To Still Be Friends With Your Ex - Possible To Be Friends With ExDo you know what to do to get your ex back? How to still be friends with your ex; Be serious about your aim and take achievement. Think of it like a pastime, which could be the most important game you play. Possible to be friends with ex; Your aim is to get the person you love back into your life. A complete solution to get your ex back into your life is provided at the end of this write-up, meanwhile let's build the foundation.ARTArticleHow To Stop Waiting For His CallWe’ve all been there, a phone clutched tightly in hand waiting for him to text, email or call. So afraid you might miss him, you carry the phone from room to room, from place to place. You check your phone a hundred times while you refresh the mailbox again and again. You send an email to yourself just to make sure the mail program is working properly. If your friend calls you don’t pick up. Instead of welcoming her call, you’re annoyed by the interruption and it reminds you how it hurts that it’s not him.ARTArticleHow to Stretch TimeIt is indeed possible to stretch time—to make the time you have go farther, and use it more for what you really want to do. Stretching time is not difficult if you have the prerequisites: self-awareness, a sense of purpose, thoughtful action, and a playful approach. Self-Awareness: As with all successful life skills, time stretching works better if you know yourself well. When you are aware of your priorities—for example, where do work, relationship, family and fun fall on “What’s most important” list? Are you spending the most time on what is most important?ARTArticleHow To Tell If My Ex Boyfriend Wants Me Back - Signs Your Ex Boyfriend Wants You Back Body LanguageYou may have recently opening up with your boyfriend or girlfriend and both of you were happy to be rid of each other. How to tell if my ex boyfriend wants me back; The relationship may have been going great but something happened that brought this break up.ARTArticleHow To Tell Your Ex Boyfriend That You Still Miss And Love him - Should i text my ex boyfriendShould i text my ex boyfriend i miss him? Telling Your Ex Boyfriend That You Still Miss him dearly; how do I make my ex-boyfriend miss me like crazy and remind himself about the good time, we had together?ARTArticleHow To Write A Love LetterWriting has a powerful effect on our emotional state. The following exercise is designed to help you fully express feelings that may have lain dormant for a long time, or may be too intense and jumbled for your to process effectively. Youll find it helpful in expressing what you feel, especially if youre having difficulty letting go, forgiving, grieving for or being appropriately angry at someone.ARTArticleI Keep Dreaming Of My Ex - Why Do I Keep Dreaming About My ExIt is by no means simple going through a relationship break up. There is never anything fun about it whether you initiated the break up or you were cast off. I keep dreaming of my ex; But, in a way you may find yourself relieved that it is done and you can move on with your life. You ask; why do I keep dreaming about my ex? Until you realized you miss your ex.ARTArticleInterview with Best Selling Author and Couple’s Therapist, Harville HendrixSome people may find it odd that I, a woman in my 30’s, who has never been married choices a couple’s therapist as one of my greatest idols. His name is Harville Hendrix, PhD. He is the author of the bestselling book, “Getting the Love You Want” and co- founder of Imago Therapy that was developed with his wife (equally dynamic and inspiring) Helen LaKelly Hunt, PhD. He has been featured on the Oprah Show several times and made Oprah’s list of TOP 20 Unforgettable Shows.ARTArticleInto Every LifeAs a parade went by, one of the horses pulling a float entry left a memento in the middle of the road, right in front of where we were watching from the sidewalk. From that point on, every band or group that came marching down the road marched bravely on, right through the pile of horse manure.ARTArticleJealousy, Faithfulness, and DistanceSo many couples are now separated part- or full-time because of military deployment and/or work travel and schedules, I get a lot of questions about faithfulness. Your marriage vows may have said, “'til death do us part” but no one said anything about what happens when a military career or traveling job makes it necessary for you to part, and you want to maintain the closeness in your relationship. Not only does the war take husbands away from their wives, but the greater involvement of women in the military means that more husbands are also left behind during wartime deployment.ARTArticleKeeping Toxic People at BayKeeping Toxic People at Bay I think we can all think of people we have come across who vent frustrations all the time, focus on the negative around them, or vocalize how bad they expect the world to get. Certainly, we may all have these feelings sometimes but for those who exude this negativity, it can be toxic to have them as an active part of our lives. Why? Negativity can be infectious and will bring us down. It can hamper our own outlook and happiness. One way to address it is to limit it. We can gently remove ourselves from these conversations or situations.ARTArticleKeys to a Happy RelationshipEveryone wants the best relationship they can have. The markers of a happy relationship are: Cooperation/partnership, mutuality, laughter and affection. Whether you're in a relationship now or hoping to be, these keys will help you create a more loving and happier partnership. The Key to Handling Problems Before They Start: Be on the lookout for early warning signs that things are getting a little off track between you two:ARTArticleKindness and HappinessRecently, I went through very unpleasant and difficult dental work, and the outpouring of kindness I receivedfrom my husband, who held onto my ankle all through the two and a half hours (and had nightmares that night about it) to my dear friends, who offered me support and encouragement to heal and take care of myselfmade me feel blessed, despite the pain. I don't think there's a greater happiness in life than knowing the people who love you are there for you.ARTArticleLearning To Speak From Your FeelingsYears ago, I could not find my feelings. I could give you words for miles, but I couldn’t tell you how I felt. Even in romantic settings I didn't know how to say what I felt. This is all in hindsight. Once I understood that at any given moment there's a mixture of feelings going on inside of me, I felt excited to FEEL STUFF. And yet, it was still difficult to speak my true feelings. I felt shy, I felt embarrassed, and I felt a little exposed. I'd practiced standing in a full length mirror and saying what I felt.ARTArticleLess Talk, More ActionThose of you who have read my articles know that I am always talking about the importance of good communication, urging better communication, and giving skills for being better understood. Communication is one of the most important aspects of relationships; positive and negative. However, talk is not necessarily communication; and there are lots of non-verbal ways to communicate.ARTArticleLetting Go Takes LoveWhen you feel beset in your life, and people close to you seem to be difficult and uncooperative, consider that they may be reflecting back to you the behavior your own anxiety is creating toward them. Learning to let go of your obsessively trying to control others can free you to receive the best they have to offerwhich may look different from what you think you want, but actually be the perfect gift.ARTArticleLighten Up - Cures for Marital BoredomThe old folk songs say it: Oh, love is handsome, love is fine Love is a jewel when it is new; But when love's old, it waxes cold And fades away, like morning dew. Folk wisdom says it:ARTArticleLiving Outside the BoxI was speaking with a client today about his burn-out in his career. This is a man who's been very successful, earned a lot of money, and worked hard for a big, national corporation. I told him he was burned-out, and on strike, because he had put himself in a box about work. The box consisted of four walls: Wall #1: I have to make $$$$ amount of money Wall #2: I have to work for a certain kind of company Wall #3: I'm scared about letting myself be creative (the unknown) Wall #4: I hate all of it.ARTArticleLiving Your Life By ChoiceHow often in a day do you find yourself saying things like I should do this or I have to that? Think about the feeling associated with those shoulds and have tos. It may range from resignation to resentment. Seldom do we experience excited anticipation for things we feel we should or have to do. I want to challenge you to replace the shoulds and have tos with I choose. Our language is powerful. When we think and talk in terms of I should do this or I have to do that, we disempower ourselves.ARTArticleLooking Backward, Looking ForwardHappy New Year! May you be filled with renewed energy for life, and the wisdom to put it to effective use. The month of January is named after the Roman god Janusthe god of beginnings and transitions. If you have seen depictions of him, you know he had two faces which looked both backward and forward. Thus, the transition month of the year bears his name.ARTArticleLooking For Love After Divorce?Don't Repeat Past Mistakes. Follow These Three Tips Looking for love after divorce? Here are three tips to help as you begin dating after your divorce. 1. Be suspicious if it all seems “too good to be true” – it probably is.ARTArticleLove from Inside Out- Love yourself first to better love othersLOVE YOURSELF TO BETTER LOVE OTHERS When you know that to love yourself first is critical to cultivate loving relationships, you will then understand and accept it as the ONLY foundation on which unconditional love, compassion and a desire to help and serve others evolves. The perception that to love yourself first is key to being able to do the most good for yourself, your family and others, doesn’t come naturally to us human beings.r ARTArticleLovestylesIt was one of those magical encounters with a personal truth—you know how it feels. I was fifteen, in ninth-grade English. The teacher, Mr. Rizzutto, read us a poem, and it had such a profound effect on me that even five decades later, I’m still using it as a guide. The poem, “Outwitted,” by Edwin Markham, is simple: He drew a circle that shut me out; Heretic; rebel; a thing to flout. But Love and I had the wit to win: We drew a circle that took him in.

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