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ARTArticleDear Dr. Romance: Do you feel that she is wanting out and doesn't want to tell me or hurt me?Dear Dr. Romance:
I have a question for you. I normally don't ask questions like this. But I was looking at your Facebook page and reading some of your responses. Here goes.ARTArticleDear Dr. Romance: Even after several years, I still feel stigmatizedDear Dr. Romance:
I enjoy reading your "Happiness Tips Newsletter" I actually want to ask you some questions. I know you are a psychotherapist, So i thought you might to explain the difference between the mental health unit of an hospital and a psych ward? Why would one feel ashamed to have stepped in there for one reason or another?ARTArticleDear Dr. Romance: He wants to call all the shots and refuses to compromiseDear Dr. Romance:ARTArticleDear Dr. Romance: How should I tell her I have feelings for herDear Dr. Romance:
I'm in my first year of high school, but I have no experience in relationships. I'm in contact with a friend who is a year younger than me, and I recently realized I have feelings for her. She's funny and playful, and I just can't help myself. What's your advice on how I should tell her?
Dear Reader:ARTArticleDear Dr. Romance: I actually forwarded him the conversation by accidentDear Dr. Romance:
I am a woman in my thirties. It's been over a month since I last spoke with my ex-boyfriend of one year. He gave me the silent treatment because I hurt him. Or it might be his way of breaking up with me. I lied to my girlfriend about him and he found out. I actually forwarded him the conversation by accident and he read it and texted me "I will never change".ARTArticleDear Dr. Romance: I am not sure what the dating customs of this country areDear Dr. Romance:
I read your monthly "Happiness Tips" newsletter and thank you your advice. However, I noticed that you try to help resolve or forestall relationship problems. My problem is still meeting a man that I like. When I go out and see a guy I am attracted to, I do look towards that man and "let" him know Ilike him. That guy usually looks at me back , but just does not approach me.ARTArticleDear Dr. Romance: I cannot compete with a dead manDear Dr. Romance:ARTArticleDear Dr. Romance: I cannot compete with a dead manDear Dr. Romance:ARTArticleDear Dr. Romance: I feel almost embarrassed about being a virgin at my ageDear Dr. Romance:ARTArticleDear Dr. Romance: I just don't understand menDear Dr. Romance:
I'll admit, I just don't understand men. Do they want us to be perfect all the time? I mean, I think I'm a pretty okay person. I honestly like myself for who I am. It took me a long time to get to this point. I'm not a model, but reasonably attractive for a woman in her 40s. I'm fit, educated and successful in my teaching career. While being single mom of a teenager, I'm launching my art career, and trying to break into teaching at the university level. I love art, music, books, the outdoors. And I volunteer, and have friends.ARTArticleDear Dr. Romance: I want my wife and family back.Dear Dr. Romance:
I saw your article "Guidelines for Improving the Odds to a New Relationship with your Ex" in divorce360.comARTArticleDear Dr. Romance: I want my wife to be my loverDear Dr. Romance:ARTArticleDear Dr. Romance: I want to break-up with him, but I don't know howDear Dr. Romance:
I heard you on the radio and I have a relationship question for you. I have been dating my boyfriend for seven years, I care for him deeply. However, I am not happy. I want to break-up with him, but I don't know the best way to do it and not hurt him. I would still like to remain friends with him, or is this just wishful thinking?
Dear Reader:ARTArticleDear Dr. Romance: I went through hell on earth with him until he quit drinking.Dear Dr. Romance:
I had two divorces, and both men turned out to be gay. By this time my self esteem was shattered, I felt there was something wrong with me. To make a long story short, I basically started dating and slept with men, just because they showed they desired me, for me. (Wrong thing to do).ARTArticleDear Dr. Romance: I'm afraid the age difference means our relationship won't workDear Dr. Romance;
I read your article about Older Women Dating Younger Men I am dating a man who is 22 yrs, younger than myself. He appeared older and I appeared younger to him. Now I'm afraid the age difference means our relationship won't work. Would you be able to help me with this dilemma?
Dear Reader:ARTArticleDear Dr. Romance: Is it appropriate for him to still have her in his life?Dear Dr. Romance:
I am going through a break-up this week and pretty broken hearted. My boyfriend and I currently dated for the last year and nine months and it ended this week. He is my age, mid thirties but when he was in his early to mid twenties he had an affair with a much much older woman who was and still is his boss. She is 20 years older, married with 3 children. The affair went on for 5 years and then for 5 years there after, they would still have a sexual encounter here and there, the last time this occurred was a year before we began dating.ARTArticleDear Dr. Romance: It makes me very very upset, angry, pissed-off, and sad.Dear Dr. Romance:
I saw your article "Surviving Loss and Thriving Again" while searching for answers to my own issues. The 'loved one' I lost was myself. I loved life, loved adventure, travel, people, photography, mostly adventure! In 2 seconds my life was 'taken' away pretty much. This week the pain seems more overwhelming, so I'm more depressed, and that's why I came across your site.ARTArticleDear Dr. Romance: it was like our relationship didn't matterDear Dr. Romance:
I am hoping you can help. I made a query about maintaining a marriage over long distance and noted your book The Commuter Marriage My wife and I have been married for 12 years and have had our ups and downs. We are both commited to our relationship. We lived in different states, but when we married, my wife moved here.ARTArticleDear Dr. Romance: let the small things go and don't pick each other apartDear Dr Romance:
I just wanted to say thank you for the article you wrote "Dating 101: Do Opposites Attract?" I just read it today and you have really made my day. I'm currently in an interracial relationship with a wonderful man from Africa. Not only are we from different races but he is Muslim and I am a Roman Catholic so it makes it a little more interesting. Unknowingly we have been following the guidelines you have written in your articlerARTArticleDear Dr. Romance: My daughter told me that she can't take it anymore and wanted to kill herselfDear Dr. Romance:
I am a divorced father of 3. I am remarried. My 11 year old daughter is very upset about her mother's new boyfriend that is also still married. He was first introduced as a friend but she doesn't understand why he is always at the house and stays till late at night. My daughter has asked her mother if this is her boyfriend and the mother tells her no.ARTArticleDear Dr. Romance: My husband's one-night-stand is pregnantDear Dr. Romance:
I read an article of yours on Divorce360 about affairs the end with a pregnancy. My husband had a one night stand three weeks ago. He told me about it. We've been going to counseling for several months and were doing great. We just found out she's pregnant. I love my husband, but can I work through this?
Dear Reader:rARTArticleDear Dr. Romance: the thought of seeing him have sex with other women bothers me a lotDear Dr. Romance:
I am a bipolar woman with emotional problems. These problems seem to manifest most lately with my boyfriend whom I tend to blame for everything. I feel super insecure when we are out and he notices other women. He taught me a lot about sexuality and commented constantly about other females and tried to entice me into threesomes, or at least get me interested in having one.ARTArticleDear Dr. Romance: Why this compulsion to cheat?Dear Dr. Romance:
I'm looking at myself and asking the question, "Why this compulsion to cheat?" What will it take to keep my eye from wandering around? I'm divorced, technically, but trying to make amends with the ex. I love my kids, and an absentee father just doesn't fit my taste. I'd rather be there. I won't bore you with it. But everyone thinks I'm insane back with the ex.
Why do men cheat?ARTArticleDepression Hurts Everyone Around ItHave you ever thought about suicide? Have you ever felt like the world would be better off without you in it? Have you ever spent hours crying or lying in bed with your head covered up? Have you cut yourself off from friends and family? Do you spend copious amounts of time alone in your home? These are all symptoms of depression.
Clinically, the signs of depression are as follow:
• Feeling sad or tearful
• Significant loss of pleasure in life
• Weight loss or gain without trying
• Trouble sleeping
• Sleeping too much
• AgitationrARTArticleDisadvantages of Online DatingDating online has many problems not faced when dating from your church or denomination. The most common is distance. I’ve heard many horror stories in the last year. One woman reported that she dated someone over the phone for a year. Then, when it was time to meet he disappeared and she never heard from him again.ARTArticleDr. Romance on Anger: Cleansing Squall or Hurricane?Anger is the emotional energy within each of us that rises up when something needs to change.
If you act on the need to create change, your anger can be channeled effectively; but it’s not redirected to something effective, your frustration will build, sometimes to hurricane force.ARTArticleDr. Romance on how Couples Can Cooperate for SuccessDr. Romance writes: You have probably entered relationships madly in love, convinced that your feelings for each other were so strong your dream would carry you through the tough times, but wound up feeling more like you were living in a nightmare than a dream, struggling with conflicting wants and needs. If you don’t know how to work together effectively to solve the conflict, the resulting frustration, anger and battles make the relationship more and more unpleasant and difficult to sustain.ARTArticleDr. Romance on Jealousy, Faithfulness and DistanceSo many couples are now separated part-or full-time because of military deployment and/or work travel and schedules, I get a lot of questions about faithfulness. Your marriage vows may have said, "'til death do us part" but no one said anything about what happens when a military career or traveling job makes it necessary for you to part, and you want to maintain the closeness in your relationship. Not only does the war take husbands away from their wives, but the greater involvement of women in the military means that more husbands are also left behind during wartime deployment.ARTArticleDr. Romance on The Importance of HumorDr. Romance writes:
We are such an inventive species. We are also a species with a sense of humor. I think the two are connected. It takes a sense of humor to be able to stumble around in an unfamiliar situation until you figure it out.
Current research has indicated that humor, specifically laughter, counteracts the devastations of stress on the body and immune system. So, it’s obvious to me that a sense of humor would ease the stress of new situations.ARTArticleDr. Romance on Your Job on EarthDr. Romance writes:
It's easy to get discouraged when we become aware of the suffering throughout the world: natural disasters; racial prejudice; addiction and self-destruction; political oppression in its many forms (starvation, war, torture, misinformation, imprisonment, denial of rights of speech, health and human dignity, and just plain bigotry and nastiness). My own reaction, years ago, was despair. "I can't stand it! So much suffering! So many issues! There's nothing significant I can do."