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ARTArticleOn IntegrityHere is the theme and the statement of the day: In order for any relationship to work and have any lasting prospect of existence what it must have first and foremost is INTEGRITY.
So, what is this thing we call integrity? We use the word usually in relationship with others, like politicians, business people, and such. We can say when ‘those people’ have no integrity. How often do we think about and consider our own integrity? Do we know when we are in integrity and when we are not?ARTArticleParental Alienation SyndromeIn 1985 Dr. Richard Gardner (M.D.) coined the phrase "parental alienation syndrome (PAS)". Dr. Gardner defines PAS as "a childhood disorder that arises almost exclusively in the context of child-custody disputes." Primarily it is the child’s campaign of denigration against a parent without ...ARTArticleParental Alienation SyndromeParental Alienation Syndrome
In 1985 Dr. Richard Gardner (M.D.) coined the phrase "parental alienation syndrome (PAS)". Dr. Gardner defines PAS as "a childhood disorder that arises almost exclusively in the context of child-custody disputes." Primarily it is the child’s campaign of denigration ...ARTArticleParenting the Creative Child: The Ten “Commendments”To nurture your child’s creative talent: commend, don’t command
At some point in the early life of your new child, she or he surprises you. She listens intently to the story you’re reading, then adds her own imaginative ending. Or he not only colors out of the lines, but also draws in extra figures, using eye-catching colors. Or she hears a song in the morning, and you find her singing it in the playroom in the afte
oon, embellishing it with her own lyrics and dance moves.ARTArticlePrevention of Workplace ViolencePreventing Workplace Violence
While training in anger management can be very helpful in preventing workplace violence incidents or even minimizing their effects, there are a number of other things an employer can do.
One of the best ways to prevent workplace violence and avoid law suits is to ...ARTArticleRaising G-rated kids in an X-rated worldEffective parenting involves good character development- that is, raising kids who have a sense of ‘other’ rather than a sense of entitlement. It also means raising kids with a moral compass that helps them work out right from wrong. Kids usually pick up this moral compass from their parents ...ARTArticleReacting Vs. Responding – And Why Is This Important In RelationshipsReacting means to act again, re–act. Reacting is based on what we already know and often so well that we do it automatically. Some reactions are very useful for our survival, like pulling our hand back from a hot furnace or jumping away from an oncoming car. In other words when our bodies sense ...ARTArticleReduce Stress and Strengthen Your Immune System:Stress seems to have become a constant factor in today's fast-paced society. If left unchecked, it can wreak havoc upon our health. Learning how to effectively manage stress can mean the difference between being robust and full of life, or becoming susceptible to illness and disease. Stress ...ARTArticleS.M.A.R.T. DatingSmart Dating is about focusing on the quality of your relationships, all of them, especially your dating relationships. Instead of focusing on your agenda to win someone over or to make a great impression, focus on connection. But not just any connection: positive, meaningful connection. What ...ARTArticleSmart GoalsIf you have completed your visioning exercises (see previous blogs: 2008 Intentions, 2007 Reflections, Current State, Life Vision Statement, and 2008 Vision Statement), then you are ready to set SMART goals for 2008. What is a SMART goal?
S = Specific
M = Measurable
A = Action-oriented, ...ARTArticleSpiritual Problems on a Spiritual Path - Solutions for the Spiritual SeekerWhen one matures, the passion for Truth becomes greater than all other passions. Spiritual thirst is stronger than any desire, fear or mental conditioning. If the normal, however strong, human wants and fears, attachments and weaknesses, activities and identifications were stronger than one's deep spiritual thirst; then no one could begin, let alone stay on, forget about the completion of a spiritual path and becoming enlightened.ARTArticleSteps to Developing Your IntuitionSteps to Developing Your Intuition
“The intuitive mind is a sacred gift and the rational mind is a faithful servant. We have created a society that honors the servant and has forgotten the gift.” – Albert EinsteinARTArticleThe "Me" BrandWe were taught all through the 80s and 90s to say, “We” and “Us” before “I”. It was all about giving credit to your peers before yourself. But how were we supposed to stand out above and beyond the rest? You didn’t, and if you did try, you were considered ruthless, untrusting or self ...ARTArticleThe Anxiety–Overeating–Depression CycleYou’re anxious, you stress-eat, depression sets in. How do you break the cycle?
Eating is one of the toughest addictions. We all have to eat, so it’s not possible to avoid being around food. But some of us have a hard time controlling our input, and we give our bodies what they seem to want, rather than what they need.ARTArticleThe Art of Active Listening -- A Magic Bullet to Healthy Relationships.Listening is hard work. Countless thoughts interrupt our focus, distracting us and blocking our understanding of one another. All too often, we are more interested in expressing our thoughts, than in hearing someone else’s. Obstacles to good communication magically melt away when we learn how to ...ARTArticleThe Future Of Love Is NowHow does love show up in your life now? Are you lonely, searching for a soul mate and instead finding losers and misfits? Are you anxious for that moment of letting go, breathing deeply, and finally feeling loved? Are you discouraged by the number of truly bad dates you’ve had? Are you ...ARTArticleThe Imminent Evolution of MenMen today have come to a place where evolution is necessary in order to resurrect the essential role that we play in our species. Men have learned over the years that only two extremes exist:
1) the animalistic, agressive male, or
2) the passive, indecisive, disempowered male
The emergence ...ARTArticleThe Informal Normal In A Black-Tie-Affair WorldWhen it comes to defining love, life and relationships, have you noticed the trend?
You ever notice how on programs like "The Bachelor" most of their dating episodes are via limousine escort?
They travel to lavish destinations amid scenic splendor. The sunsets are so beautiful you can almost ...ARTArticleThe Politics of DatingThe Politics Of Datingn"Those marriages generally abound most with love and constancy that are preceded by a long courtship." Joseph Addisonn Whether you are single, widowed, divorced or about to be, pursuing love can be more fruitful when you are open to the many exciting opportunities it ...ARTArticleThe Silent Treatment in RelationshipsDo one or both of you retreat too often into the cone of silence?
In an article earlier this year, I spoke about the devastating effects of verbal abuse. A retreat into a “cone of silence” by one or both partners in a marriage or relationship can potentially be just as devastating. Sure, some people are simply quieter, less communicative, or more contemplative than others.ARTArticleThe SURGE of the URGEHave you ever heard the expression, "The Urge to Merge"?
It is a term relating to sexuality and marriage. The "URGE" symbolizes sexual interest, and the "MERGE" symbolizes marriage union.
We see it all around us! Late night TV bombards us with sexual images and sensual content. Commercials ...ARTArticleThe Trouble with Supe
anny and the Problem with NaughtyMy heart sinks when I see the “Supe
anny “series listed in the TV guide. Her way of dealing with children’s behaviour isn’t helpful. I realise that this may come as a surprise to many people because what she does seems to work. What it actually does is create more problems that will surface ...ARTArticleUnderstand Your Birth Order Personality For Maximum Success“Know thyself” is a powerful principle that leaders, managers and effective people intuitively know.
When you understand your own strengths and preferences you are in a position to maximise those strengths and compensate for any weaknesses either by working differently or surrounding yourself ...ARTArticleUsing Jealousy To Get Your Ex Girlfriend BackAs ‘sleazy’ as it may sound, jealousy is one of the fastest and most effective ways to influence how your ex girlfriend is feeling after breaking up. When you make your ex jealous, you skip straight past her rational thought processes and into her deeper emotions.
In some cases, making her drool with jealousy can actually make her come running back to you... especially if she’s already moving on after your relationship and doesn’t really seem to care much getting back together.ARTArticleVenus Explains How To Tap Into Your Own Inner Goddess.Venus, the Roman Goddess of Love is an ancient archetype for feminine beauty and romantic love. I interviewed her to see how she might help you connect with her energy and your own divine allure.
Here's what Venus shared with me.
Ronnie: Venus, thank you so much for taking this interview. I'm ...ARTArticleWhat Are You Practicing In Life?Ever hear the expression “practice makes perfect?” Well, it’s not true. Only perfect practice makes perfect. Champion athletes often use visualization processes in which they see themselves making the perfect shot or scoring the touchdown. They visualize themselves practicing perfectly, feel the ...ARTArticleWhat's With The Shortage Of Men?Dear Dating Coach,
Everywhere I have moved, people immediately tell me there are no available men. When I moved to Oregon at the age of 32 for graduate school, I was immediately told by the local women that there were no men in the town. Then I moved to Seattle two years later and was told ...ARTArticleWhen Is Make-Up Sex a Good Thing?If you’re relying on make-up sex too often, your relationship may need help
Make-up sex is famous for being unbridled and highly pleasurable. And that can be memorable, especially if the overall sex life of a couple has been routine, humdrum, or just plain bad most of the time. In a good marriage or relationship, make-up sex can be a high point. But is it a good idea to suffer through a bad marriage just for those few peak moments? I say no.
There are many reasons make-up sex is so delicious, including:ARTArticleWhen To Contact Your Ex Giflriend After a BreakupIf you want to get your ex girlfriend back in your life, you need to be careful about when and how you contact her. As you may have read elsewhere, many relationship gurus encourage you not to contact your ex for a period of time after breaking up. This is often referred to as the "no contact" period.ARTArticle*** Is Bad Dating Etiquette Keeping You from True Love?Have you ever gone out on a date with someone you really liked and never heard from him again?
It seemed like you had a nice time, maybe he even said he would call or mentioned going out again.
Then nothing.
Well this happened to Alicia EVERY SINGLE TIME she went out on a date with someone she really liked and was attracted to. She is a great catch, fun, smart, and very attractive. So what happened?
Bad luck? I don’t think so!!rn!
Dating can be nerve racking.