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Adi Assodri
HI, I could start to list all the courses I have accomplished and Diplomas I have collected during my life.....it's not important anymore although they definitely were "guide posts"on my path towards EFT and Matrix Reimprinting.I found what I was looking for:Helping people releasing childhood traumas gently and throu…

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Aileen Nealie
Aileen Nealie has been in the field of psychotherapy for 12 years. Yet, prior to this, she gained many life experiences that package the unique and skillful individual she has become. In 1992 she graduated Summa Cum Laude from the prestigious Honors Tutorial College of Ohio University with a B.A. In Spanish Creative W…

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Angela Bussio
Angela W. Bussio Angela W. Bussio is a Master Energy Therapist with a successful private practice in Provo, Utah. Established in 2005, her practice has successfully assisted clients in shifting negative behavioral patterns and beliefs associated with depression, anxiety, post traumatic stress and addictions. Angela i…

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Anne Whitehouse PhD
Dr Anne Whitehouse is an author, a PhD scientist turned life alchemist and confidence expert. Above all, she is a passionate empowerer of women, dedicated to helping them achieve their full potential by releasing the conditioning and traumas that block their success and damage wellbeing. Anne studied at Jesus College…

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Barbara Stone
Barbara Stone, PhD, LISW, DCEP, is a workshop presenter, bilingual psychotherapist, and Professor at Energy Medicine University, a distance learning program. Her newest book, Invisible Roots: How Healing Past Life Trauma Can Liberate Your Present (2008, Energy Psychology Press), won the Book News USA award for the bes…

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Bart Sharp
Bart Sharp has eight years of experience working in a private practice as an intuitive therapist. Bart has found that issues or limitations that people created have a cellular memory recorded in their body memory. Bart specializes in helping people not only recall the stories of their life but identify where the body…
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Brenda Bates
Bates was introduced to the alte ative healing world almost twenty years ago. Her introduction started with herbal remedies, theological studies, reflexology, and raw foods. Her mother was her first client. After the passing of her mother in 1992, Bates continued with her alte ative healing studies and moved into hand…

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Cathy Chapman
As a licensed clinical social worker since the early 1980s, I have an excellent grasp of the emotional issues that can affect your health. With a master's degree in theology and my many years of work in spiritual direction and coaching, I can assist you in finding yourself emotionally, as well as spiritually. As a sp…

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Chantal Boudreau
Stress Management - Anxiety Weight Management - Nutrition - Emotional Eating Academic & Performance - Special learners - Austism - ADHD Emotional Health - Grief - Traumas and Abuses - Breast Cancer Mission: Create Shift Results and Excellence in Life Psychoneuroimmunology is field that studies how thoughts, emoti…

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Daphna Slonim, M.D.
Dr. Slonim is a Board Certified psychiatrist. She has been the Medical Director of the DSA Medical Clinic in Beverly Hills, CA since 1984. She has integrated energy muscle testing and energy psychology in her practice. She was a co-director of NATO projects, teaching her unique Sabotage Correction Technique (SCT), on…

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Dean Allen
Dr. Dean Allen holds a Ph.D. in clinical psychology from Utah State University and began his career doing biofeedback research for his doctoral dissertation on "Autonomic Nervous System Control as a Function of Imagery". He also taught a University course on the Psychology of Consciousness for 3 years at Boise State U…

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Diana Moore
Diana Moore (Lighteacher) is a Reiki Master, Psychic Counselor, Channeler, Certified Hypnotherapist, Co-Founder of the Foundation for Metaphysical Studies (Dallas, Texas); Founder of Consiousness Relationship Counseling (Counseling without Blame), Founder of Past Life Energy Relationship Tracing Technique, Life Coach,…

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Ellen Gray
Dr. Ellen Gray has had a long and varied career in human services as a clinician, academic, author, trainer, and consultant. She has held teaching positions in three schools of Social Work and one liberal arts college, and conducted research for the Department of the Navy, the Department of Health and Human Services,…

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Ellen Kratka
My mission is to help individuals and teams release fear, anger and the rnother effects of our duality-based universe, and fully embrace rnunconditional love for self and others. I use many of the most rncutting-edge modalities from energy healing and spiritual science to rnhelp people develop their self-awareness, re…

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FRANCES SODA
Keys to Emotional Freedom is devoted to helping solopreneurs who are frustrated, sad and stuck because their business isn't growing the way they have envisioned. With tapping (EFT)and my strong intuition, l help business owners overcome blocks and limiting beliefs to achieving the business of their dreams. I offer on…

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Gerald Stiehler
Diploma in Psychology an "Universität Koblenz-Landau"; 1993 Training in Familiy Therapy at "Institut für Familientherapie Weinheim", 1993-1998 Training in Behaviour Therapy at "Institut für klinische Verhaltenstherapie Bad Dürkheim" - and "Gesellschaft für Ausbildung in Psychotherapie", 1998-1999 Licenced Psychoth…

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Gloria Arenson
Gloria Arenson, MS, MFT, D.CEP specializes in using EFT to treat stress, anxiety, trauma, depression, phobias, and compulsions. Her extensive knowledge of eating disorders and compulsive behaviors led her to write How to Stop Playing the Weighting Game, A Substance Called Food, Born To Spend, the award winning Five Si…

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Harold Duarte-Be hardt
We are a father and son team, Harold and Harold, who have combined our lives’ experiences and different generational viewpoints to bring you a foundation for a Power Driven Life that is not limited by prevailing personal conditions or generational factors. We are deeply passionate about helping people to find meaning…

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James Henshall,
James Henshall, author of Riches On Earth, now writes for pleasure and profit and runs his own training and personal self-development consultancy. He read psychology at the Universty of Wales, and graduated summa cum laude in 1978; he competed his doctorate six years later in 1984. James has worked extensively in se…
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Julie Roberts, Ph.D.
Dr.Roberts helps individuals to move into their full potential. She specializes in personal and professional change so individuals and leaders overcome obstacles to productivity. She utilizes CLEAR® energy psychology (acupressure points, EMDR, Somatic experiencing), magnets, muscle testing, BodyTalk, Family Constellat…
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Kelly Meehan
www.childrenandspirituality.com Thank you for connecting with my services. My work involves expanding ones consciousness to experience the greater awareness of the self. All emotional feelings, physical aliments, and mental stresses all have a reason for being active within ones life. I teach self attunement, depth o…
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Krista Jarrard
Krista Jarrard brings a warm and wise heart, to her ten year practice of Systemic Family Constellation Work. During that time she has brought healing and long lasting resolution to hundreds of clients. She facilitates public workshop, private sessions and nine month Immersion Learning Programs. Krista has extensive tr…

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laura schwalm
Laura Schwalm ' Anthony is also known as Laura the voice of truth. She got her name from her friends and clients for her authenticity and accuracy as a psychic medium and healer. Laura has over sixteen years experience as a psychic medium and healer, se incorporates her vast knowledge in Holistic health care, nutritio…
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Lee Bowers
Hi! Have you been struggling with physical, emotional, or relationship problems? You probably have discovered they're all related. Stress in one part of our life affects all the other parts. I work with the body-mind-spirit to get all parts working in harmony again. Maybe you're ready to begin face to face psychother…

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Leslie Meehan
I have been a mind-body energy therapist for over 4 years working mainly with EFT, Emotrance, NLP and CBT. I conduct workshops, seminars, webinars and produce my own ebooks and other products. I also have more than 25 years experience in the creative field and I am a published author with seven books to my credit.

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Loretta Mohl
Loretta is an international teacher and a pioneer in the Healing Arts field. For over two decades she has been leading the way in Soul, Mind, & Body energy medicine. Loretta is the founder of Focused Intention Technique™ and the Canadian College of Healing Arts. It has bee Loretta’s mission to find ways to assist peop…

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Lorraine Blum
Lorraine Blum, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Minister of Spiritual Counseling, National Board Certified Fellow Clinical Hypnotherapist, Reiki Master, Thought Field Therapy Diagnosis Certified, and Reiki Master has been helping individuals search for self, growth and achievment since she was a teenager. Starting as…

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Martin Luthke
Dr. Martin Luthke is a clinical psychologist with a strong metaphysical bent as well as a very practical side. He is a carpenter and cabinetmaker by training, has been a researcher, author and teacher in the area of psychology, and for the past 20 years a psychotherapist and metaphysical teacher and healer. A Diplomat…
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Matthew Butcher
I believe what really holds us back is our blocks and it starts with our beliefs. Without going through this, we overthink our path to happiness. That will find us when we open ourselves up. I use a unique technique to help a client find the root of their blocks. I combine that with teachings of enlightenment to find…

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Mercedes Oestermann van Essen
Success follows certain laws. Successful people consciously choose success and commit to achieving it. I am a trading psychology and success coach. I have traded my own account for 15 years trading futures. My main emphasis is on coaching traders and entrepreneurs. I am the author of several books and success program…
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Norman Shealy
Norman Shealy, MD., PhD Father of Holistic Medicine,CEO of Shealy-Sorin Wellness Institute, Inventor of the TENS, Creator of BIOGENICS, Author of 35 books & many other medical breakthroughs and inventions.

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Patzia Gonzalez
I am passionate about supporting others in their personal and spiritual growth. I help people going through major life transitions achieve peace of mind, symptom relief, bring back a feeling of self-worth and self-esteem. You could say I help people bring back their aliveness. I am a Psychotherapist, Clinical Member…

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Rev. Anne Presuel
Normal 0 false false false EN-US X-NONE X-NONE Rev. Anne Presuel (self-proclaimed “Irreverent Rev”), is the creator and CEO of Divinely Intuitive Business, LLC. She works with spiritual entrepreneurs to bring their sacred gifts to the world and make money while they do it. Anne helps entrepreneurs with what she calls…

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Robert Kendall
Robert is a holistic practitioner and workshop facilitator Bachelor of Acupuncture, Dip. Herbal Medicine, Educational /BodyTalk Kinesiologist, Emotional Freedom Techniques, Workshop Facilitator, Meditation teacher. Member. Australian Acupuncture Chinese Medicine Association. Member. National Herbal Association Aust…

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Robert Najemy
Robert Elias Najemy, a life coach with 30 years of experience and the author of over 20 books, 600 articles and 400 lecture CD's and DVD's on Human Harmony. You can download FREE 100's of articles, find wonderful ebooks, guidance, mp3 audio lectures and teleclasses, as well as videos at http://www.HolisticHarmony.com…

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Rosa Granadillo-Schwentker
Dr Granadillo-Schwentker received formal education as Psychologist in both Venezuela & the United States & postdoctoral training on Energy Psychology & Medicine in Europe. She has done research on Movement-Expressive Arts working with violence, abuse & trauma with diverse populations, alongside she grew up as Shaman i…

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Rossanna Massey
Rossanna Massey has eighteen years of clinical experience as a Chiropractic physician. Many years ago she incorporated EFT into her practice and discovered the amazing effects of it on her patients. She decided to retire from Chiropractic practice to focus exclusively on EFT. Since then she's received her certificates…

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Sherry O'Brian
Sherry O’Brian is a psychotherapist and the sole proprietor of Mind/Body/Spirit Inner-grations she specializes in personal growth and transformation, as well as working with those suffering from chronic illness, grief/loss, and other emotional disorders. Sherry has assisted thousands of individuals through her worksh…

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Sidney-Angelique Green
I have been a Chakra Alignment and Energy Balancing expert for the past 20 + years. My formal training and Intuitive expertise have empowered me to help people to learn to release past trama and empower themselves using the medium of the chakrasa and correlating chakra to the area of your life it oversees.

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Stephanie Stanfield
Stephanie is a world-wide published author, accomplished teacher and energy medicine expert. She is currently the only energy medicine practitioner in the Colorado Roaring Fork Valley who had Dr. C. Norman Shealy as her adviser while earning a Doctorate of Theology (Th.D.) in Energy Medicine from Holos Graduate Semin…

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Susan Castle
Healing from the Heart Susan M. Castle, OTR/L, has been in the medical and energetic healing field for over 20 years. During this time, she has studied and experienced some of the best therapies in mind, body and soul integration, Chinese Energetic Medicine, QiGong, Hypnotherapy, NLP, Reiki, Guided Imagery, Meditatio…

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Tina van Leuven
Dr. Tina van Leuven founded InnerDelight in 2005. She has a a PhD in Healing Science and is a qualified and experienced practitioner of many healing practices, including: • TAT (Tapas Acupressure Technique) • energy psychology and life coaching • Zpoint • Assemblage Point Correction • reflexology • acupressure • arom…

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Valerie Lis
Valerie Lis, MA offers certification workshops through EFTuniverse.com, customized group training, and individual sessions in Emotional Freedom Techniques. Her credentials include EFT-EXP, EFT-INT, EFT-CERT I & II, EFT-CC & EFT-ADV. She has been an EFT Trainer since 2002 and a practitioner since 2001. Valerie also tea…

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Zoe Walton
I have been a licensed Califo ia acupuncturist for 24 years. When I discovered in 1998, how effective EFT and later Matrix Reimprinting, is for deep healing, I changed my focus to this work. I have studied many energy techniques and have found Matrix Reimprinting to be a powerful and brilliant tool for change.
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Energy Medicine. What is it?
Most people are familiar with the term CAM (Complementary and Alte ative Medicine). You may think that energy medicine falls into those categories. It is that plus so much more. The International Society for the Study of Subtle Energy and Energy Medicine defines Energy Medicine as that which “includes all energetic and informational interactions resulting from self-regulation or brought about through other energy linkages to mind and body.” A new field of science is emerging called ‘psychoneuroimmunology’ or PNI.
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Want to have more joy in 2010? Laugh it up!
“Nothing is as important as a sense of humor when it comes to aging well. Studies of centenarians have revealed that it’s one of the three most vital coping mechanisms that healthy individuals possess; therefore, it’s crucial to living a long, happy life.” - Loretta LaRoche There’s so much scientific literature that supports the fact that when people laugh, “feel good” chemicals rush forth with each giggle and help the body stay well. You can even “fake it till you make it.” Your brain doesn’t really comprehend the difference between something real and something that is really happening.
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Reiki Is For Everyone!
Stressed out from the current state of the economy? Reiki can de-stress you quickly and easily! A Reiki treatment feels like a wonderful, glowing radiance that flows through you and surrounds you. It is hard to maintain a stressful attitude when you feel so good and peaceful about yourself and everything that is going on in your life. You can engage your sense of gratitude during the session and come away with a sense of peace and purpose. What is Reiki? Pronounced “rey-key,” many people believe that Reiki has to do with religion or woo-woo stuff.
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Essential Ingredients for a successful relationship
Criteria for evaluating one’s relationship with one’s partner Creating a healthy environment for a mutually satisfying relationship became the most hard and tedious task that a couple has to face in the complicated society in which we live. Nowadays, divorce is the norm and ...Criteria for evaluating one’s relationship with one’s partner
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The TAO of TAPAS
I had wondered about the significance of Tapas Fleming’s (the originator of Tapas Acupressure Technique) name, and it was only upon reading Rudolph Ballentine’s book Radical Healing, that I found an explanation. It turns out to be one that truly fits with the concept of acknowledgment, but without letting an urge move one into the addictive action step.r
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Be Grateful
Method No 1: Be Grateful Think of, and make a list of, all that already exists in your life for which you can feel grateful. Read this list daily for at least 90 days. Add to the list each time you think of something else for which you can feel grateful.
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Specify Goals
Method No 2: Specify Goals Make a list of your goals; the things that you would like to accomplish, create, manifest, improve or obtain. Include all aspects of your life – physical, material, emotional, mental, spiritual, social, familial, relationships, professional etc. Consider what you want to manifest for yourself, for your family, for others, for society and for humanity. Create your own unique list
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Get Free from Limiting Beliefs
Method No 3: Get Free from Limiting Beliefs Discover and then free yourself from all limiting beliefs (social and personal) conce ing what you can and cannot manifest and what can or cannot be done, especially in relationship to your specific goals. Our beliefs are the one main limiting factor in our creation or attraction process. We may feel unworthy of having what we desire. Or we might believe that we cannot have it. We may also actually fear having what we desire. Childhood programming
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Write a Description of Your Ideal Reality
Method No 4: Write a Description of Your Ideal Reality Using your imagination, now write a detailed description of your new reality in which your ideal life and ideal self are already manifested. Write in the present tense as if all of your goals have already been achieved. Describe how you feel, think, behave and live, now that all is as you want it to be. Read this description daily or even rewrite as many times as you like for 90 days.
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Experience the Source of Creation Within
Method No 6: Experience the Source of Creation Within Learn to let go of thoughts and experience the silence or peace between the thoughts. Here in this silent space exists the field of unlimited possibilities from which all beings, forms, objects and interactions flow forth. Begin to identify less with your body and mind and experience yourself as formless consciousness. As consciousness or energy you are actually one and the same with the consciousness that is the source of all that you seek to manifest. One consciousness, energy and matter.
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Experience the Source of Creation Within
Method No 5: Act now as You Imagine You Would Then Behave now as if your goals have already become manifest. Do now that which you imagine you would do if your ideal life was already a reality. Until now, we have learned to align ourselves with our ideal reality by: 1. Realizing how much we already have and feeling grateful. 2. Making a list of what we want to manifest. 3. Removing limiting beliefs. 4. Writing a description of our ideal reality.
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Give to Others and Yourself Daily
Method No 8. Give to Others and Yourself Daily Give gifts from the heart regularly to those around you. Also give to yourself. Focus also on giving to others and yourself that which you seek to attract or create. Wish for others to be well and to also have what you are seeking to create. Offer happiness to others in various ways that come naturally.
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Do You Have to Figure it All Out Before You DO?
Dear Anne: I feel really stuck. I'm really afraid if I make a move in my business, I'll make the wrong move and it will cost me time and money. So I don't do anything! But this doesn't work either, because well, I'm not doing anything! I want a straight and clear path that I can take to build my business. Help! Dear Divine One - If only. I hate to break the news to you, but there are no straight lines to building your business. (sorry)
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How Do I Keep the Money Flowing In?
I had a client with this problem. I really want to learn how to attract more clients. And better clients! My income goes up and down depending on what's happening in my business and how much marketing I'm doing. Sometimes, I feel very overwhelmed, because I know I'm not doing enough marketing. How do I get better clients (and more of them) and not be so overwhelmed while doing it? Help! Dear Divine One -r
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Why Aren’t People Showing Up?
My client's problem: I really want to start offering programs to my clients. I love what I do and my clients really get a lot of value from our sessions together. The challenge is that I don't have a whole lot of clients and when I do offer workshops, they are sparsely attended, which frustrates me and makes me want to give up. How do I get to the point where I am successfully offering programs to my clients and people actually show up for them? Dear Divine One:
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Remaining Healthy, Happy and Positive During Testing Times
What do we mean by the phrase “testing times”? There are periods in the life of every person, when certain events and situations demand greater inner strength, courage, faith, stamina, energy, understanding, optimism, inner security and self-confidence. These times may be personal, familial, social or even planetary. It could be a personal illness or the illness of a loved one. We might lose our job or other source of income. The loss of a loved one is the most intense for all of us. We may need to work many more hours just to survive.
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Care for Your Body
Your body and mind are the instruments with which you will effectively create and also enjoy all that you need to be happy. If your body becomes weak or ill, you will not be able to effectively and dynamically manifest the abundance and happiness that you desire. A weak or ill body will become an obstacle to your creative power. Here are some simple steps to creating a healthy body. 1. Fresh Food - Eat as naturally as possible. Make sure you have plenty of fresh fruits and vegetables in your diet and if possible, organic without pesticides, hormones or other chemicals.
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Cultivate Positive Thoughts and Feelings
You need a peaceful, clear and positive mind in order manifest your needs for your self, your family and perhaps even for society and the world. Our emotions have a direct effect on our bodies. Every time we feel an emotion, our endocrine system excretes certain hormones or peptides that flow throughout our blood stream to all of our cells, filling them with the “hormones of that emotion”. The hormonal state created by negative emotions creates an imbalance in our nervous, endocrine and immune system, which in turn creates an imbalance in all other systems.
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Using Energy Psychology For Getting Free From Fear, Anxiety And Other Negative Emotions.
Using Energy Psychology For Getting Free Fromr Fear, Anxiety And Other Negative Emotions. In the last 35 years a number of new forms of psychotherapy have become very popular among psychologists, psychiatrists, doctors and other health professionals who work with human emotional, mental, physical and spiritual harmony. Just a few of these methods are: TFT – Thought Field Therapy EFT – Emotional Freedom Techniques BSFF – Be Set Free Fast TAT – Tapas Acupressure Technique EMDR – Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing.
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The Twelve Step Manifestation Process
Many of you will have read the book or seen the movie entitled the “SECRET”. Actually what is taught is not a secret. It has been known for thousands of years by all religions and philosophical and spiritual groups that our beliefs, thoughts and emotions create our reality. We have discussed in previous chapters the laws of attraction, mirroring and sympathetic vibration through which we manifest our personal, social and planetary reality.
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Pain from a Break-up Resolved with EFT
As part of her ongoing "Life Makeover" psychotherapy process, Mia brought up her severe neck and shoulder pain in a session. I asked several questions regarding the pain, including when it had started. She said ten years ago. I then asked: What had happened ten years ago? Mia's eyes immediately filled with tears and she couldn't speak. I started tapping on her, saying "This sadness". When the intensity had gone down, she had very shallow breathing and rated herself at a four for Constricted Breathing.
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Traumatic Birthing Memory Clears With Emotional Freedom Techniques – EFT
"Connie" (not her real name) arrived feeling upset for her session. She had just read an article about a successful Home Birth after a difficult labor thanks to EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques). She too had wanted to have a Home Birth when her eldest son was bo 22 years ago and ended up with a cesarean. She "was over it" but had been disappointed and wished she had know EFT back then so she could have had a Home Birth, like the woman in the article. I asked her to "tell me the story" about the delivery, and to stop as soon as she felt any intensity.
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Breakups and Divorce from the Perspective of Family Constellations
Happiness has a very short attention span, it forgets what came before. Unhappiness, on the other hand, has a very long memory. Bert Hellinger “Sexual relations create a deep and binding bond. When a man takes a woman as his woman; and a woman takes a man as her man, sexual consummation creates a deep, unbreakable tie that affects the soul. This tie is stronger than that of parent and child and makes it hard to leave the relationship without feeling guilty.” Break-ups hurt; love pain is one of the worst pains we will ever feel.
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But I Just Need Some Closure!
The grief you cry out from draws you toward union. Your pure sadness that wants help is the secret cup. Rumi One of the hardest things for someone going through a breakup is fighting those relentless urges to contact the ex. "I just need some closure. I need some answers; I want to know 'why'. I need to understand. I just want to explain to them, plead with them, and show them how sorry I am. I want him to know I’m willing to do anything to change. I want her back. How could he do this to me?
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It's 3 am again, and I'm wide awake ... the cycle of grief after a major life transition
"Show me where it hurts," God said, and every cell in my body burst into tears before His tender eyes. Rab'ia It’s bad enough that life is turned upside down after a separation. Breathing hurts; you’re on an emotional roller coaster, your whole life is turned upside down, and on top of that you can’t sleep? Do you find yourself waking up at 3 am every morning and falling asleep again around 5 am?
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Hurting Neck and Shoulder uncovers traumatic memory
"Mary" came to see me because she had been having a lot of pain in her left shoulder and neck. She had seen her doctor, an acupuncturist, a massage therapist and it all helped but the pain kept coming back after a few hours. She was willing to try "this weird technique" to see if it helped her ...
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Osteoarthritis Pain uncovers unresolved grief
Stella (not her real name) came to see me in September 2008 because she had osteoarthritis in her right knee, and swelling due to a Baker's cyst (a benign swelling found behind the knee joint); and she had quite a bit of pain. Her family doctor told her all that the only thing that could be done was to take analgesics for the pain, and ice on the knee. She could also have a steroid shot in the knee. Stella was taking the analgesics, and her stomach was feeling terrible. She wanted to know if she could get relief with EFT.
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Marriage After Divorce: 5 Tips to Help Children Adjust
Unfortunately, second marriages have an even worse track record than first marriages. Part of this has to do with the kids, yours, his/ hers. Don't get me wrong, it has nothing to do with the kids as people, the kids are all right. It has a lot to do with our feelings about them. And I mean kids all ages, including adults. So here are some basic tips to help your children, you and your new spouse adjust: 1) Remind your kids that they were conceived in love. It's important to remind your children that you love them and that you once loved your ex very much.
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Energy Psychology: Experience These New and Effective Therapy Tools
When I tell people I work with Energy Psychotherapy tools, many wonder if I do some sort of Reiki, or maybe Healing Touch. I don't; "Energy Psychology" is the broad academic name for a body of work that includes many models developed over several decades that treat a wide spectrum of psychological and spiritual issues.
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Healed by Time... Not!
The insides of our own minds are the scariest things there are.rn--Robin McKinley One of the basic premises of Energy Psychology is that all negative emotion is caused by a disruption in the human vibrational matrix [composed of the biofield, the chakras and the meridians]. Among the negative emotions, we certainly can include anxiety, worry, nervousness, apprehension, unease and preoccupation. Notice that this premise does NOT say that thoughts, beliefs and memories are the cause of negative emotions.
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SUPER WOMAN
Katerina is very conscientious, a hard worker and reliable in all cases. At work and at home, she can be depended on to get things done. She often stays overtime, usually alone at the office, in order to get her work done. When she gets home, she immediately immerses herself in cooking, ...
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Understanding the Sexes
Although each gender tends to express itself quite differently, most philosophical teachings agree that the soul is neither male nor female. As souls, we inca ate into a gender in order to learn through that experience. Through our experimentation with the various qualities of each sex, we are ...
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DEALING WITH INTIMIDATORS
At times, we are confronted by people who seek to intimidate us. This offensive behavior is most frequently a cover-up for their fear. Let us investigate why we play this role and how we can communicate with those who behave towards us in this way. 1. As intimidators we seek to control others ...
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Eight Step Process for Manifesting Goals and Inner Potential
Eight Step Process for Manifesting Goals and Inner Potential Robert Elias Najemynhttp://www.HolisticHarmony.com We all have an inherent need to grow, evolve and manifest ever greater realities. This is basic to our happiness and feelings of self-acceptance and self-contentment. Happiness can ...
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QUESTIONS THAT WILL HELP CLARIFY OUR GOALS
QUESTIONS THAT WILL HELP CLARIFY OUR GOALS Robert Elias Najemy http://www.HolisticHarmony.com 1. What exactly is your goal or purpose here? 2. What is it that you would like to change, solve, manifest or create? 3. Why is this important to you? 4. If for some reason beyond your ...
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EIGHT STEP PROCESS IN MANIFESTING GOALS AND INNER POTENTIALS
EIGHT STEP PROCESS IN MANIFESTING GOALS AND INNER POTENTIALSnn© Robert Elias Najemynhttp://www.HolisticHarmony.com 1. Clarify goals 2. Set Intention (consciously and subconsciously) 3. Determine Actions and "sacrifices of love" 4. Remove inner obstacles ? 3 kinds ? Present State ? Effort - ...
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Our Unity is A Scientific Reality
For many centuries spiritual leaders have taught us that we are one family and that the solution to all of our problems is to live in unity, peace, love and cooperation. Christ gave special emphasis to these values and encouraged his followers to think of God as their mutual Father and all ...
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Truths Which Aid Forgiveness
Some truths which will help us forgive others are (some are based on various spiritual beliefs or Christian concepts which might not be acceptable to you or the subject): 1. All happens according to a divine plan which brings me exactly what I need at every stage of my evolutionary process in ...
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The Fear of Truth
It is not easy to be totally truthful with others and often even with ourselves. The main reason for this is our fear or rejection. This fear is often greater even than the fear of death. n We identify our self-worth and consequently our feelings of security with how others perceive us and ...
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Just Divorced
Margarita’s husband just left her for another woman. Her world has collapsed. She feels rejected, betrayed, hurt, depressed, belittled, shamed, fearful, bitter, injustice and anger and even revenge at times. She fears that she will not be able to cope with life alone. She fears that ...
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What is Love ? part 1
Part 1 of a 6 part series on the "The Stages of Love" Love is our greatest need. Is it our highest most fulfilling state. Do we really love or are we simply attached to, identified with or dependent upon the persons we "love"? Is our love free and unconditional, or is it mixed with various ...
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What is Love ? Part 2
Love or Need for Security ? Part 2 of a 6 part series on the "The Stages of Love" Our Love is Mixed With Need Our love is still mixed with a considerable amount of need. Love wants to give. Need wants to take. Sometimes what we are seeking to take is very subtle and requires deep inner ...
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What is Love - Part 3
Love, Pleasure or Affirmation ? Part 3 of a 6 part series on the "The Stages of Love" Robert Elias Najemy Needing Others for Pleasure Let us examine how our needs for pleasure and affirmation can limit and distort our experience of love. We create relationships that give us pleasure and ...
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What is Love? - Part 4
Selfless Love Part 4 of a 6 part series on the "The Stages of Love" Robert Elias Najemy Selfless Love for a Specific Perso An essential stage in the evolution of love is being able to love others regardless of their behavior. Probably the closest most of us have come to experiencing such ...
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What is Love? Part 5
Spiritual Universal Love Part 5 of a 6 part series on the "The Stages of Love" Robert Elias Najemy A later stage in our spiritual maturation process is the development of spiritual universal love where wisdom or spiritual discrimination is now added to our love. We now perceive all forms as ...
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What is Love? - Part 6
Loving the Wave or the Ocea Part 6 of a 6 part series on the "The Stages of Love" Robert Elias Najemy When we limit our love to a specific person (we do not mean sexually, but rather emotionally, mentally and spiritually), it is difficult to experience love in its highest expression. We love ...
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Sprouting for Health and Economy
Sprouts are rapidly becoming popular all over the world as people are seeking a healthy and economic source of food. A handful of seeds can sprout into enough "live food" to provide balanced nutrition for a number of meals. Why eat sprouts? 1. Sprouts are an abundant source of predigested ...
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Create Happiness with a Positive Life Outlook
The mind is the molder of our personal and communal world. Every event we perceive through our senses is analyzed, evaluated and registered in the mind as pleasant, unpleasant or neutral. Our belief systems seek to determine whether each perceived input is something, which will "protect" or ...
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Breathing Problems - Natural Solutions
Breathing difficulties can seriously handicap our ability to function and enjoy life. Air is our most vital source of energy and vitality. When we suffer from asthma, bronchitis, allergies, frequent colds or simply insufficient oxygen intake, we are prone to a lack of energy, vitality and /or ...
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What is Meditation?
Meditation can be described in hundreds of ways. Here we will give some brief explanations about this so-extremely-important aspect of human harmony, health and spiritual evolution. Three Aspects of Meditatio 1. The first step is relaxation or surrendering of the body and mind so that the ...
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Create and Maintain a Conscious Love Relationship
We present you with a brief outline of some basic points necessary to tend to in order to create a harmonious and loving relationship. INNER PREPARATION Internal preparation is prerequisite for developing the maturity necessary to succeed in creating a conscious loving union with our love ...
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A Nature Meditation
You are sitting by a quietly flowing stream in the countryside. It is spring and life is green and moist? Sitting on a rock, the sights and sounds of the flowing water begin to work their mysterious way into your nervous system. Gradually, with the simple repetition of the water’s song and the ...
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Loving Ourselves
We lack giving and receiving love. Our feelings of isolation and loneliness breed mistrust, misunderstandings, competition, antagonism and the whole series of health destroying emotions such as fear, anger, hatred, jealousy, bitte ess, resentment etc. These negative emotions build up a ...
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Our Children's Needs - Part 1
A human being is pretty much formed and programmed in his or her concepts about himself or herself and the surrounding world by the age of eight. Most of the work, which is done today by psychologists and psychiatrists, is to solve the problems and fill the gaps left by the experiences of those ...
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She is a Perfectionist
Marina’s perfectionism annoys her husband, Dan. Marina cannot relax if whatever she does is not perfect. Of course, nothing is ever perfect and thus Marina is usually in a very tense state. This attachment creates for her anxiety, fear, and a continual sense of danger. This tension is ...
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From Codependency to Cocommitment - Part 1
Two new words have become very popular in studying the Psychology of Relationships. They are codependence and co-commitment, which describe two totally different types of relationships. CODEPENDENCE Codependence describes a situation in which two people are dependent or addicted to each other. ...
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High Blood Pressure - Natural Solutions
Some of the Causes of High Blood Pressure Before analyzing some of the effective solutions for high blood pressure, we must first look at some of the possible causes of this problem. According to modern medicine some of the basic causes of high blood pressure are: 1. MALFUNCTIONING OF THE ...
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Flowing Through the Labyrinth of the Mind with EFT
When employing EFT with clients, feel that, with each round, we are peeling off layers of emotions and beliefs based on incorrect childhood (or from the past in general) programming and conclusions about ourselves, life and others. With the effective removal of the disturbed or distorted ...
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Ever Want to Just Quit Your Biz?
Many entrepreneurs, just like you, suffer the thought of wanting to quit their businesses … At least sometimes. (If you’ve never thought this, then this article just isn’t for you.) Who can’t relate? There are those moments, aren’t there? And yet, something keeps you going. Something keeps you trying. Something keeps you taking action; it keeps you holding onto the dream. What IS that something? It is the dream that each one of us has, one that has ahold of us and won’t let go.
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Understanding the Sexes - Part 2
THE CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES AND MESSAGES THAT LEAD TO THIS CONFUSION These differences and resulting confusion and conflicts are created by our childhood programming about men, women and the relationships between them. Some of those messages were received through statements we had heard but ...
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Understanding Meditation through Models - part 1
Models, examples and parables are often more effective than word descriptions in enabling us to understand new concepts. You have heard the saying that a picture is worth a 1000 words. Well, the same holds true for a mental picture. It facilitates our comprehension of a new subject by using a ...
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Why Do We Fear Close Relationships?
Although we want to love and be loved, we also fear both. Our past experiences have programmed us to associate loving and being loved with unpleasant experiences and especially with feelings of vulnerability. For these and other reasons, we have developed fears and subconscious resistance ...
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Meditation & Society
MEDITATION & SOCIETY All indications and logical deductions point to the belief that meditation on the part of large numbers of people in our society will have a very positive effect. Let us consider in the light of what we have already learned about the benefits of meditation, how meditation ...
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A Fire in the Basement
From the book "Contemporary Parables"nby Robert Elias Najemy Some of us prefer to hide our problems from ourselves and others. Because it is too painful to deal with them, we lock them up in our subconscious mind and pretend that these problems or feelings do not exist and that all is ...
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Magnetize your Mind
From the book "Contemporary Parables"nby Robert Elias Najemy There is an interesting phenomenon in the physics of a magnet and its effect on a piece of iron. In order to understand this phenomenon, we must first realize that a magnet is simply a piece of ordinary iron with one simple ...
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The Personality's Broken Legs
From the book "Contemporary Parables"nby Robert Elias Najemy It is important to begin to realize that our personality is just like our body. It is not our true self, but rather a vehicle, or "mental body", through which our true self, the soul, is expressing itself. We tend to be more ...
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More Effective Communication with Children - Part 1
Today we are experiencing an ever-growing communication gap between parents, teachers and the children whom they are responsible for. Only through honest and sincere communication can we help our children to become honest, healthy and happy individuals. Some of the basic concepts of ...
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The Half-Finished Painting
From the book "Contemporary Parables"nby Robert Elias Najemy There is a spiritual truth which claims that everything which has occurred and which is occurring at this moment was and is perfect. The future we do not know. But once the future has become the present, then that too is ...
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More Effective Communication with Children - Part 2
HOW WE COMMUNICATE NOW Let us briefly mention how most people communicate now. There are two basic categories; those who suppress themselves and do not communicate; and those who suppress the others by raising their voices, blaming and criticizing the others, ordering them around in various ...
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BASIC BELIEFS OF THE PHILOSOPHY OF THE LESSON OF LIFE
1. We are totally responsible for the reality we experience. 2. We are immortal, inherently divine beings in a process of evolution. 3. This evolution and our emotional and spiritual maturation occur through a learning process stimulated and sometimes forced upon us by life's events and ...
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Playing the Victim
The role of Victim (poor me) is a favorite for many of us. There are so many benefits we can ascertain by playing the role of the victim. 1. We automatically gain self-worth. Follow this reasoning closely. As a victim, we are the one to whom injustice is being done, thus the others are ...
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Relationship Conflicts - Part 3
CLEANLINESS AND ORDER vs. FREEDOM AND RELAXATION Anna and George have been married for a number of years. They have each settled into their own stances conce ing various matters on which they do not agree. One of those is just how clean and in order the house must be. Anna’s standards ...
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Making a Difference in an Indifferent World
We live in troubled times where our peace and safety are often in danger. Most feel helpless and unable to affect the unfolding events in our present world. And yet many are uniting their minds, energy and actions in order to create a peaceful and safe world with dignity for all. Some groups ...
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Our Five Bodies
From the book "Contemporary Parables" Most of us believe that we have only one body. Most esoteric philosophies, however, teach that we have five bodies. Some claim even more, but usually these extra bodies are sublevels of the five basic ones mentioned below and represented by the five ...
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How We Evaluate Ourselves
From the book "Contemporary Parables" We need to understand how we value ourselves and hopefully heal ourselves from an epidemic of self-doubt and self-rejection. We are spirit which is ete al and divine. Being divine in nature there is no question about our worthiness. As spirit we are ...
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Create a Harmonious Relationship
Harmonious relationships are the result of inner work, love and deep respect for ourselves and the other. Below are some simple basic guidelines for that process 1. Take full responsibility for our reality. We are the sole creators of our thoughts and feelings. No one can create our happiness, ...
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Benefits of Meditation
How is Meditation Used Today? People from all walks of life, in all the countries of the world belonging to all the possible religions, meditate for a wide variety of reasons. The same technique offers something different to each according to his needs and motives. Some of the motives for which ...
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D E A L I N G W I T H "A L O O F S
In the role of the aloof we distance ourselves from others, avoiding meaningful or honest emotional contact. In this way, we are less likely to be hurt or controlled by people’s negative emotions, requests or demands. 1. We hide from the intimidator’s attack, the ...
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Working with Need Conflicts
We have in the previous chapter mentioned a few possible need conflicts. We unfortunately seldom communicate very clearly and objectively in these cases, and this lack of effective communication adds to the problem often resulting in conflict. A classic example is a couple I remember who had ...
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SHE IS ALWAYS ILL
Gina’s long standing illness has become a source of tension for all her family. She has been ill for many years and this is taking its toll on her husband Sam and the children. At times they feel she is using her illness to get attention and to force them into doing things for her. This ...
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Understanding Meditation - part 3
THE MIND IS LIKE A PLASTIC BAG As in the previous example, the mind has no reality of its own. Its reality is formed by its contents. It is like a plastic bag or cellophane that takes the shape of whatever you put into it. If you wrap up something long and slim then it takes that shape. If you ...
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WHAT EXACTLY IS YOGA?
Part 1 of 5 Various forms of meditation and inner concentration have been developed by most cultures and systems devoted to human health, harmony and evolution. The concept of coming into contact with an inner power, an inner voice, an inner knowledge or an inner guidance is common to all ...
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Relationship Conflicts - Part 4
CONTROL vs. FLOW Each person, in his attempt to find security, affirmation, happiness and harmony in his life, searches for ways in which he can most effectively create the world he desires. Some people have become programmed to believe they can do this only by controlling the situations and ...
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BASIC RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS
WHAT HAPPENED? We were so suited for each other, so in love, so happy together. We had so many dreams. Our first moments together were full of joy, happiness and the excitement of being close to someone who loved us and understood us. We were so sure that we would live "happily ever after." We ...
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What is Yoga - part 2
THE FOUR BASIC SYSTEMS OF YOGA There are many systems of yoga, but they fall into four basic categories. All the systems have the same goals: 1. Harmony between body, mind and soul, 2. Harmony between human beings, 3. Freedom from mechanical, unconscious, robot-like ways of thinking and ...
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Our Energy System
Each person is like an energy box (or energy system to the scientists). Energy comes in and flows out and what remains determines the energy state of that box or system. When the state of energy is high and of good quality, then the box (a person) feels well. When we are lacking in energy, then ...
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The Spiritual Teacher
The Spiritual Teacher must not become a crutch, a tranquilizer, or a dependency which undermines our inner strength. He or she should be like the battery charger, which we connect to our batteries in order to get our car started when its batteries are low. Once the car is running we do ...
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Love is a Choice
We may not able to choose all the events and situations that occur in our lives, but we choose how we feel, react or respond to them. We can choose to accept. flow and benefit from them. We can resist, reject and become bitter. We can choose to forgive or not to forgive. We can choose to ...
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Self-Acceptance and Self-Improvement
The first grader Perhaps the example of children in grade school will help us to understand this. These children in the first grade do not reject themselves because they are not in a higher grade, or because they do not know as much, or are not as capable as those children in the higher ...
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How We Create Our Personal Reality
In order to be able to love purely and steadily we need to understand how our reality is created A major obstacle to pure and steady love is our confusion about who is responsible for what happens to us and how we feel about it. This confusion is caused by two mistaken perceptions: 1. That ...
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Why do We Fear Love?
Why do we fear close relationships? Although we want to love and be loved, we also fear both. Our past experiences have programmed us to associate loving and being loved with unpleasant experiences and especially with feelings of vulnerability. For these and other reasons, we have developed ...
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What does it mean to be a Christian?
My logic and faith in the wisdom and justice of the Divine is that all religions have equal access to the one and only Divine Being. I believe that after leaving the physical body the virtuous Christian and the virtuous Jew will keep company with the virtuous Moslem, Buddhist and Hindu as well ...
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She is Ashamed of Him
Diana often feels ashamed of her husband’s behavior. Programmed by an aristocratic family, she has learned to give much importance to etiquette and one’s mental "sharpness and refinement." She has a university degree. Her husband Andreas does not. She has money. Andreas did not. She ...
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When He Does not Keep His Agreements
Sonny says "YES" to whatever request is made of him,nbut never follow through with the agreement. Afterward, he feels guilty, becomes defensive, and occasionally, aggressive. He, on the one hand, cannot say no, mainly because he fears rejection and conflict. On the other hand, he feels ...
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FEAR, JEALOUSY, SUPPRESSION & REBELLION
Valery is not very sure of herself as woman. She doubts whether a man can stay interested in her for a long period of time. She rejects her appearance and generally does not feel herself-worthy. Her self-doubt creates a strong fear of losing her husband to another woman. Valery’s father ...
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TWELVE STEPS TO CO-COMMITMENT - Part 1
(The basic ideas of this article are inspired by the work of Gay and Katherine Hendricks) We can move towards a conscious love relationship by committing ourselves to consciously working towards that goal. We need to clearly understand what we kind of relationship we want to create and be ...
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Bless your World - Part 2
WE ARE CO-CREATORS OF THIS WORLDn We are a truly wonderful beings. It is incredible what we have done with our minds and power. From the pyramids of Egypt and South America to the satellites and computers of today, from the paintings of Michaelangelo to the music of Beethoven … the list ...
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We Cannot See the Wind
Have you ever seen the wind? Think about it. The wind cannot be seen. We become aware of the wind through its affect on the objects around us. The swaying of the grasses, bushes and trees. The flight of leaves, and dust. The waves of the sea. Its sound as it rushes through small spaces. The ...
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HE DOESN'T LOVE ME
Sonia is unhappy because she feels her husband Philip does not love her. How does she know this? He is not affectionate with her. He does not agree with her. He does not like how she cooks or cleans the house. He criticizes and rejects her. He raises his voice in arguments. She feels very ...
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JEALOUSY
Bill is very jealous of Efi and does not want her to ever leave the house without him. He is afraid that some man might approach her, and he cannot stand the idea of another man even looking at her. Although she has given him no concrete reason to fear, for some reason, he does not trust her. ...
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TWELVE STEPS TO CO-COMMITMENT - Part 2
(The basic ideas of this section are inspired by the work of Gay and Katherine Hendricks) We can move towards a conscious love relationship by committing ourselves to consciously working towards that goal. We need to clearly understand what we kind of relationship we want to create and be ...
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What is Yoga - part 2
3. JNANA YOGA is the path of wisdom, understanding, discrimination and philosophy. It is the path, which few can follow. It requires a razor sharp mind that is always aware of the truth that we are not the contents of the mind, nor are we the body. Everything we see is just a temporary reality ...
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Are You Courageous Enough to Do This?
Imagine finding yourself on an early morning flight. 5 am. Which means being at the airport by 4 am. The plane boards and takes off, the pilot turns off all the interior lights. It is completely dark. And you’re awake. Wide awake. And you want to work. But working means turning on a light. And turning on a light means disturbing other people. For the next 10 minutes, you agonize over whether you should turn on an overhead light. Then you think,
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The Nature Of Freedom – Part 1
Note: As this subject needs a deeper explanation the article is broken down into three parts. 1. The first deals with the nature of natural freedom 2. The second with misconceptions about freedom 3. The third about how to experience freedom. Freedom is the absence of internal or exte al ...
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Ho’oponopono -How We Create Our Reality -Part 1
HO’OPONOPONO & POSSIBLE REFLECTIONS OF OUR INNER WORLD IN OTHERS AND THE WORLD AT LARGE Note: As this subject needs a deeper explanation the article is broken down into four parts. The first deals with the nature of interconnectedness and the technique of Ho’oponopono The second explains how we ...
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The Nature Of Freedom – Part 2
Note: As this subject needs a deeper explanation the article is broken down into three parts. 1. The first deals with the nature of natural freedom 2. The second with misconceptions about freedom 3. The third about how to experience freedom. The Reality of Freedom. The reality is that we are ...
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The Chemistry Of Emotions
The Chemistry of Emotions and our Brain's Electrical Wiring. 1. Each emotion causes various peptides / hormones to be excreted (through hypothalamus and pituitary gland) that are received by the cells and lock into receptors on the cells themselves. (Phd Physiology and Biophysics Candace ...
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Reality And Quantum Physics
About the nature of subatomic physics. 1. Matter and energy are interchangeable. Matter can become energy and energy can become matter (Nuclear energy, atomic bomb.) E= MC2 (Albert Einstein) 2. Particles can be perceived as matter and as waves - at different times - can behave as particle now ...
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The Nature Of Freedom – Part 3
Note: As this subject needs a deeper explanation the article is broken down into three parts. 1. The first deals with the nature of natural freedom 2. The second with misconceptions about freedom 3. The third about how to experience freedom. What are those possible “understandings” that might ...
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Ho’oponopono Part 2 Of 4
Creating reality through interpretation and projectio Note: As this subject needs a deeper explanation the article is broken down into four parts. The first deals with the nature of interconnectedness and the technique of Ho’oponopono The second explains how we create reality through ...
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More Effective Communication with Children - Part 1
Today we are experiencing an ever-growing communication gap between parents, teachers and the children whom they are responsible for. Only through honest and sincere communication can we help our children to become honest, healthy and happy individuals. Some of the basic concepts of ...
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Are You on the “Yes” Express?
Recently, I had an opportunity to meet Jack Canfield. Jack Canfield is the famous author of TheChicken Soup for the Soul book series. He is also star of the movie, The Secret, and author of numerous other books on success. Jack is practically a house-hold name. Jack and Pamela Bruner, my coach, have co-authored a book on using tapping for success.
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The Sheepish Lion
Once there was a great lioness who went hunting with her new born cub. It happened that while attacking and chasing a flock of sheep, the she-lion made a wrong move, fell of a cliff and died. The cub was left in the midst of the sheep and grew up with them. As the years passed, the cub became a ...
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Making a Difference in an Indifferent World
We live in troubled times where our peace and safety are often in danger. Most feel helpless and unable to affect the unfolding events in our present world. And yet many are uniting their minds, energy and actions in order to create a peaceful and safe world with dignity for all. Some groups ...
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How Sacred Is Your Time?
Women are amazing care-givers. We care for our children. We care for our spouses and partners. We care for our friends. We care for our homes. We care for our animal friends. We care for our neighbors. We care for our community. We care for our bosses and colleagues. But somewhere in the midst of all of this caring, we have a tendency to forget ourselves. We often put ourselves at the bottom of the list. What this looks like is that someone else’s emergency becomes our emergency. And when that happens, our plans and our needs get placed on the back-bu er.
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Are You A HO?
"I feel like I have all of these gifts I want to share with the world," Karnie said. "And I keep taking trainings, and when I'm taking them, I think, I could be doing this! I really want to be teaching other people how to help others heal, and how to be happy, and how to have a great life!" "That's awesome!" I said. "So what is getting in the way of doing this?" "Well, I just don't really know how to do it," she replied. "I mean, I know how to help other people get what they want, but I don't know how to really market that."
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Did I Really Say THAT? (Connecting Our Words To Our Experiences)
"Jerk!" I said, annoyed. "I can't believe he just pulled out in front of you like that!" My husband said nothing, but his hands tightened on the wheel. As we passed the other driver, I glared at him, wondering from what planet he had just come. Reckless drivers or thoughtless drivers are a bit of a pet peeve of mine -- particularly after my sister died in a car accident in 2004.
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The 3 Biggest Mistakes Spiritual Entrepreneurs Make
"The economy has really hit me hard," Marilyn told me. "I just don't know what I'm going to do. I work so hard, but I don't seem to be getting where I want to go." As we worked together in releasing her fears, I realized that the challenge she was struggling with is the same thing many spiritual, heart-centered entrepreneurs are struggling with. And then I thought about the number of spiritual entrepreneurs who have not only survived this economic experience, but thrived.
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Goofing Up and Growing Up in Business
Several weeks ago I wrote an article entitled “Are You A HO?”. The article was about making the distinctions between being a Hobby Owner vs being a Business Owner in your business. To my surprise, that article generated some interest -- and not all of it positive. While there were new subscribers and some wonderful email responses, there were also some unsubscribes, and one colleague got upset and challenged my appropriateness in using the word "HO". Worst of all, I learned that I had not given credit where credit was due. Uh-oh. Time to take care of that.
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Got Clients?
Years ago, when I began my practice, I found myself in a challenging situation. I needed more clients. Yes, people were trickling in, but I didn't have the level of clientelle I wanted, or in fact needed. So I began to do the usual marketing things: I gave talks, handed out flyers, advertised, told people what I did for a living, and so on. But what I didn't do (at least not right away) was to envision my practice filled with clients. That seemed too big a step for me at that time.
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What If I Can't Do It?
If I had a dollar for every time I've either heard someone say, "What if I can't do it?" (or said it myself), I think I'd be rich! This question is one of the most challenging questions that every spiritual, heart-centered entrepreneur faces as they grow their business. I faced this question over ten years ago when I first started my business. I was terrified, and at the time, I was a single mom to a teen-age daughter. Seriously ... what if I couldn't build my business? But I had two things going for me: 1. My desire to create my business was stronger than my fear of failing.r
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DEALING WITH TESTING TIMES no 1
Remaining Healthy, Happy and Positive during “Testing Times” From Robert Elias Najemy’s newly released DEALING WITH TESTING TIMES There are periods in the life of every person when certain events and situations demand greater inner strength, courage, faith, stamina, energy, understanding, optimism, inner security, and self-confidence. It could be a personal illness or the illness of a loved one. We might lose our job or savings. Another possibility is that we may need to work many more hours just to survive.
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Do You Do Small Things With Great Love?
Recently I found myself in the hospital with acute appendicitis. After my appendix was removed, I had a several-day hospital stay recovering from the surgery. In the book "A Stroke of Insight", Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor, the author and a brain scientist experienced a stroke and recovery. Jill talks about how clearly she saw and felt different people’s energies as they came into her hospital room; sometimes their energy was very painful and sometimes it was very loving and supportive.
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Just How DO We Create Anyway?
That’s a rather odd thing to say, don’t you think? Well, actually you probably don’t, because you are likely familiar with the Law of Attraction and the power of your thoughts. Still, in our society, many people don’t really believe they think things into being. Rather, they believe they do things into being. And, well, maybe they’re right. At least, partially. I mean, you have to DO something in order to get what you want done. The dishes don’t do themselves, do they? And a house doesn’t build itself. You do have to take action. But the thought comes first; then the action.
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What Story Do You Tell Yourself?
Recently, I was talking with a client about her financial situation. The conversation went something like this: "I do so much of this spiritual stuff, and I'm happy all the time," she said. "Why am I not more financially abundant?" "Great question," I answered. "Why aren't you?" "I really don't know," she answered. I knew she was talking about the fact that she doesn't feel as though she has enough money. (This type of feeling is considered an inner conversation, a belief, or a vibrational place from which she is creating, by the way.)
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Don't Worry, Be Happy!
On a coaching call I had with a client a while ago, we talked about what was holding him back from creating what he wanted in his life. "I think I have a fear of being myself in the world," he told me.
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How To Create What You Want
Many times people share with me that they have difficulties keeping their minds focused upon what they want, rather than what they are experiencing. (Does this sound familiar?) For example, perhaps you want more money, but you aren't making very much. It seems as though most of the time, you feel the lack of what you want (sometimes intensely!).
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Create Happier Feelings in 3 Easy Steps
Several years ago, my nephew, Kevin, paid me the greatest compliment. "Aunt Anne," he said, "You're the biggest kid I know!" Those of you who have been following me for some time know I'm a big believe in having fun and laughing as much as possible ... no matter what. Why is this? Because being happy is one of the highest vibrations you can use to create the Divine life you so greatly desire. Really.
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Listening to Your Body 101
A while ago, I was dragging around with very little energy. This is pretty unusual for me because I am accustomed to getting up early and starting work immediately -- and being able to work straight through the day (with a yummy break for swimming). However, less than two weeks before, I had had major surgery.
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Get Clear and Attract More Clients!
Many gifted healers ache to bring their gifts to the world, but then find themselves stuck when it comes to marketing those gifts. In coaching these dedicated, spiritual entrepreneurs, it is clear to me that their marketing challenges occur because they are unclear about one of the following three elements: their message (what they are offering), their market (whom they are serving), or their media (the vehicle through which they are conveying their message).
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3 Lessons I Learned Playing Miniature Golf
Several years ago, I was attending a nephew’s wedding, and the day before the wedding, his younger brother suggested we go play miniature golf. Unbeknownst to me, my brother Steve often played miniature golf with his family, while I had played it perhaps five times in the past 20 years. So, we all went out to this beautiful course and began to play. Well, let me tell you, it wasn’t long before some old childhood competition began to arise in me. Steve is older than me and used to “cream” me at numerous games we played together. (To this day, I won’t play Monopoly!)
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Are You Stepping Into Your Magic?
One day last year, the Divine (or Spirit or God or the Universe – whatever you like to call it ... I call it the Divine) showed me something that validated this journey we are all on together: when you put your intention out there, when you speak it to others, it shows up in your life. Now this isn’t something new; I’ve been talking about this for years. And yet, I discovered again how true it is. Let me tell you what happened.
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What the Rat in My Garage Taught Me About Marketing!
As you reach out to your target market to share with them about your services, you'll want to connect to their "pain". Their pain is the area in which they are struggling, and the area where you have the solution to their problem. Here is a really great example of how my pain met up with a service provider's solution ... beautifully.
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Why Forgive: What's In It For Me?
After someone has "done you wrong" and profoundly hurt you, why should you forgive them? Why should you spend all the time and effort letting it go? And should you let it go? And if you forgive them, what does this mean? Does it mean you go back for more? I have gotten these questions a lot from clients through the years and I believe I have some answers not only because of my own experiences (yes, I've had to forgive big-time!), but also because I've spent years studying what forgiveness does for you. (Did you hear that? What it does for you.)
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Do You Bloom Where You Are Planted?
“I feel like I did something wrong,” my client, Sarah, said. “I tried and tried to think myself healthy, but somehow I ended up back in the hospital! I don’t understand!”
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Creating Abundance 101
There was a time in my life when I had no money. I was just out on my own, working in downtow Washington, DC, and living in Arlington, VA, and I didn't have bus money, so I had to walk to work. It was about 3 miles (each way). I remember what that was like.
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Got Choices? Get Answers!
"I don't know what to do!" I overheard this statement as I walked back into the auditorium at the event I was attending. Two women were behind me discussing a coaching program that was being offered at the event. I could still hear them talking. "What are you going to do?" one asked the other. "I'm not sure. I really want to, but that's so much money!" "I know! But I really think it will make a difference if I do it," the first one said, finally.
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How Intuitive Are You?
“How do you know if you're intuitive?" someone asked recently. "I mean, I think I am, but I'm not really sure what that means." She's not alone. Many people wonder if they are intuitive. Let me start off by saying "Everyone is intuitive." Now, before you go "Yeah, right!" let me explain. Intuitive abilities are inherent in each one of us, just as our ability to breathe is inherent.
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10 Inner Beliefs That Block Your Wealth
“A belief is just a thought that you keep thinking over and over again.”rn- Abraham-Hicks I was recently working with a client who has been struggling to build her business. She feels as though no matter what she does, she just can’t get a break. The economy collapsed. The person delivering her products took her money and ran. The assistant who was helping her turned out to be a nightmare. And so on.
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How Do You Hold Your Vision?
"Do you know how hard it is to hold onto a vision when so many people and situations are telling me I can't do this?" Alana asked. "I find myself getting caught up in the reality of what I see and hear, and then, before I know it, I've lost touch with my dream. I just don't know what to do about that." I could relate to what Alana was saying. How many times had I gotten sidetracked or dropped a dream because I just lost faith that I could create it?
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12 Life Lessons I Learned from Swimming
I’ve been swimming most of my life, and have loved it from the very beginning. I remember my first swimming lesson at around age 5, where we had to put our faces in the water and then turn our heads to the right to learn to breathe. The teacher pointed at me and said, “Yes! Everyone look at her! That’s how I want you to do it!” In that moment, the water and I merged into one, and a life-long love affair was born.
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Federal Judge Asked to Order Medical Apparel Maker Figs to Stop False Marketing, According to Rival
Federal Judge Asked to Order Medical Apparel Maker Figs to Stop False Marketing, According to Rivalr Medical apparel maker Figs is using false marketing claims to spark sales and should be halted from misleading the public with those efforts, a rival claimed. The rival has asked a federal judge in Los Angeles to order Figs to stop making the claims – and alert the public that they are false. The alleged marketing snafu is the second time in two months Figs’ marketing efforts have been attacked.r
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Why Cleanroom Solutions for Medical Facilities?
If you are just wondering as to why one needs medical cleanroom solutions, this is the guide that will have the best coverage of the context in the most proficient manner. Therefore, the question is – Are you right now working in the medical facility? Do you have just to deal with the medicinal processes and equipment to fine-line and well-tone the optimization of medicine productions? In case your answer is yes, this is high time to get through the guide since we will help you with the takes that you will love to have in place. Thus, let’s move forward.r
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Holistic Natural Approaches for Health, Happiness, and Longevity Five Most Important Health Essentials
This article contains book chapter excerpts from,Recovering Common Sense:Conscientious Health Care For The 21st Century, written by C. Norman Shealy, M.D., Ph.D., Sergey Sorin,M.D., DABFM & Amber Massey-Abe athy, Ph.D. Common Sense Is In Medicine The Master Workman. —Peter Latham
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The Victim Tyrant Cycle
The Victim Tyrant Cycler By Julie Roberts, Ph.D. This paper is about adults and not children. Children don’t have a choice when they are victims (they can’t leave their situation and if they do speak, often they aren’t heard). Adults have choice when they can see beyond the pattern that keeps them in a victim place.
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Do You Have What It Takes To Manage Money?
Everyone has an opinion when it comes to investing. The area of investing attracts wishful thinking, over exuberance and self delusion. If you have ha any cognitive training you will agree that reading or watching financial news engenders strong emotions and hysteria. Things are put into perspective when you remind yourself that most of the writers and speakers have never earned a living trading or investing. Investing and its racy cousin trading are areas where everyone can be an expert without training.
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Healthy Fear Versus Unhealthy Fear about the Ebola Outbreak
How do we know when we have healthy fear versus unhealthy fear about the latest pandemic? Healthy fear stimulates our awareness and drives us to appropriate action. Unhealthy fear is not as effective because we are over stimulated. We are hypervigilant, stressed, and our body is tense, all of which makes us less capable of seeing reality clearly, and less able to respond appropriately. With unhealthy fear, we are responding from a place that was traumatized in the past. Let me explain. When something happens to us that is unpleasant, we resist feeling the emotions associated with this event.
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Achieving Personal Power
This article discusses effective and ineffective ways of gaining personal power and how that search impacts those around us. Note: I suggest you read “The Victim Tyrant Cycle” as it includes important concepts used in this article (http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/negotiating-the-victim-tyrant-cycle).
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Being the Big One
Sometimes when we are little and things go wrong, we think we have to take charge and fix things. We feel it’s up to us to make it better. We think we have to be the big one and we’ll show the adults how to do it. Or we feel like no one else is seeing what a mess things are, or how unsafe things are, so we try to make it better.
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Intention and Focused Can Heal You
The passion to heal started for me at an early age. It was an unstoppable force. At age 16, I was a nurse’s aide; at age 19, I was studying to be a psychiatric nurse. But it was the death of my husband that showed me the true power of intention. I believed we would be together forever. But Rick’s life was haunted by a past of abuse and separation. To beat his pain he battled with alcohol and depression. At times it seemed like he was winning.
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Three reasons Why Preserving Your Psychological Capital Is Key To Trading Profits
Anybody who has invested in trading course knows the dogma: Discipline, discipline, discipline. Discipline is hailed as the very thing that ensures your success as a trader and investor. Not only do I beg to differ but I would go as far as to say that this premise is incorrect since it is based on outdated information of how our brains operate. The assumption that we can make decisions with our logical mind alone while ignoring our other senses is flawed given scientific research of the last few decades.
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How to Heal Ourselves and the World
Generally, society works against us discovering and being ourselves. We are taught to be what society and our parents want us to be. There is little faith in the brilliance and miracle of who we are. Instead, there is typically a fear that we are not enough and we have to push to be the best we can be to get what we want. We have to make ourselves into what we are supposed to be, and that is (we are told) not an easy road.
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The Essence Of Happiness
The Essence Of Happiness whether we are rich or poor, educated or uneducated, whatever our nationality, color, social status or ideology may be, the purpose of our lives is to be happy His Holiness The Dalai Lama This simple and beautiful statement sums up the essence of our being. Happiness is in the matrix of the universe. Civilization, societal structures and rituals have over the centuries skewed our perception of what it really means to be a human being who has chosen this experience on this earth.
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How to find Love
The world is filled with people who are unhappy and even angry because they can’t get the love that they want. Most of us think that we need to do something different or be with someone different in order to get what we think we need—love from someone else. We have to be better, do more, achieve more, or look different to get what we want.
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What You Should Know About The Concept Of Happiness
If I told you that happiness and sadness are the same things in the deepest, final analysis you would probably declare me nuts. After all, everyone strives to be happy; we know that happiness feels better than sadness. There are studies that prove that we are healthier when we are happy and get ...
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Why Love Awareness Is Essential For Success
Love is one of the most misunderstood energies of our time. Most people look at the lore of love predominantly from a romantic viewpoint. However, viewing love through this narrow lens filters out the larger picture and misses the deeper meaning of love energies. The love you have learned to experience is just a tiny aspect of a very deep, profound and powerful energy that underlies everything in this universe. This energy has the ability to supersede everything. It is the most powerful force that drives you ultimately to the achievement of the things you hold dear.
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Observations on the Road to Spiritual Freedom and Ultimate Success
Finding your true purpose is one of the most important things you can do for yourself. It will bring you freedom, happiness and dissolve your fears of the unknown. Unfortunately, too many of us spend a lifetime never finding the elusive holy grail. Once you get the real truth about your authentic self , you will have found the nucleus around which inner peace, balance and purpose revolve. It is the sweet spot from which strength, determination, passion and creative talent and health emanate.
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Clear Your Limiting Beliefs About Money
Many of us have limiting beliefs that impact our relationship with money. During these difficult times when we are tightening our belts, it would be helpful to rid ourselves of any negative beliefs that impact our ability to manifest money. These beliefs originate from our interactions, cultural traditions and experiences with money, and then influence how we attract money (or not). If I believe something, even at a subconscious level, that belief impacts my ability to manifest that thing in my life.
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Energy Psychology Heals Addiction
Addiction results from using a substance repeatedly to cope with emotional and/or physical pain. Family history of addiction is a factor in the severity of the problem and one’s ability and willingness to stop, but using substances to deal with emotional pain prevents us from learning effective behavioral coping mechanisms. And the more we use the more stunted our abilities to cope become. Addiction can be to alcohol, drugs, eating, gambling, sex, and even to one’s negative coping behaviors such as fighting, withdrawing, or being a drama queen.
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Using Clear™ Energy Psychology To Help Victims Of War
Overview The development of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder and other psychological problems by war survivors has been well documented1. Despite substantial efforts to provide these individuals with Mental Health services, the reality is that that the services are not usually available, or are ...
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How To Activate The Secret To Your Personal Success And Abundance Now
You have probably heard that true abundance and success are your birthright. This statement, on the face of it, seems somewhat outrageous and I would not blame your for dismissing it, particularly if you believe that true success comes through hard work and that you are helpless in the face of ...
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How To Cope With The Christmas Using The Law Of Attraction
It is this time of year again, emotional pressures run high and we have wholly unreasonable expectations of ourselves and others. Coping with Christmas is a challenge for many of us, but you can make it easier on yourself using the law of attraction to your advantage. So, you probably feel ...
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How To Face Your Fears And Light Your Inner Candle
The Buddha said: Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared" But happiness increases 10 fold when it is shared. Those of you who are familiar with Dr. David Hawkin's work will know that ...
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Make Your New Year's Resolutions Work In 2009
We are at the end of yet another year, which has been particularly challenging for many of us. As usual we have learned many ways of how not to do things and naturally intend to do better next year. As we know, when we do the things we have always done we will get what we always got. Simple, ...
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Why Personal Development Work is More Important Than Ever Before
The road to self mastery is not always an easy one, nor does it go in a straight line. The path to wisdom is littered with failed attempts, occasional frustration and many give up along the way. I know all about failing on the way to success, believe me. Just like anything in life personal ...
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Geopathic Stress, The Invisible Danger You Need To Know About
When I first came across geopathic stress almost twenty years ago, after moving house I moved house I experienced sudden unexplainable health problems, which would not go away. I also felt uneasy and depressed in the property, for no obvious reason. There were unexplainable damp spots in the ...
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Understand How the Universe Works and Discover Your True Purpose
Finding your true purpose is one of the most important things you can do for yourself. Some of us spend a lifetime never finding it. Once you get the real truth about you though, you will have found the thing that gives you inner peace, balance and purpose. It is the sweet spot from which ...
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Switch Off the Box and Get Rid of Your Fears
It is easy to be swept away with panic and fear in the face of the recent happenings. Just watching the news every day feels like being mauled. The energies are frantic and you hardly have time to catch your breath. Of course those of you who are fifty or older will remember quite a number of ...
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Transform Your Life by Learning New Tricks
The road to self mastery can be challenging. The path to wisdom is littered with failed attempts, frustration before the new insights and snippets of enlightenment take hold.There are compelling reasons though why you should make the effort. Just like anything in life personal development and ...
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Three Ways To Improve Your Relationship
So, your partner or spouse is difficult, and you are more aware than ever that your love life is lacking, you feel unappreciated and are getting desperate for those loving touches that make all the difference. You crave nurturing, a little romance and emotional security with a partner who is ...
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Light Your Inner Candle and Dissolve Your Fears
The Buddha said: Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared" Happiness increases 10 fold when it is shared. If you are familiar with Dr. David Hawkin's work you will know that when our ...
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The Most Powerful Secret of Lasting Happiness And Success
When we look at well known successful people, like Bill Harris, James Ray or Anthony Robbins, to name but a few one just sees the icing of the success cake. These people, like many others have arrived at the pinnacle of their careers through two things: Working with solid determination towards ...
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Learn To Say No and Build Your Inner Strength
Much has been talked about the power of saying yes and your ability to be open to new thinking. This is all well and good, but the universe acts like a bourse of exchange. In order to receive you must also be able to let go. Letting go is a challenge and very few of us rise to it. Particularly ...
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Practice Tonglen Meditation and Go Beyond Experiencing Compassion
One of my favourite meditations is tonglen. Those of you who are familiar with it will know that tonglen is a compassion meditation. Briefly, this meditation consists of breathing in suffering and then transmuting it to light on the exhale. Those of you who practice Buddhist teachings will ...
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Five Minutes to Financial Freedom? It Can Be Done
If you are sceptical about bold claims like the above I don’t blame you. You are probably wondering how anyone can get themselves out of a financial mess which probably took many years to get into? Your scepticism is justified, but wrong. Let me explain: When you do not make headway with ...
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Feeling Emotional and Anxious? Use EFT to Solve Your Problems
When you get out of bed with that uneasy feeling in your stomach and your inner talk is negative you are guaranteed to have just such a day. I don't care how much self development work you do, you will always have some days when things are not going your way and the world seems on top of you. ...
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Is Procrastination Stopping You from Attaining Financial Freedom?
Procrastination and worry are a curse that befall many of us. You may not even be aware that you have fallen into this trap because procrastination comes in many guises. I am a very pro-active person. If I told you that I used to procrastinate you would laugh at the idea, if you knew me. You ...
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The Man on Top of the Mountain Did Not Fall There
Well, that is pretty obvious, I guess. For everyone knows that in order to get to the top of the mountain you will have to either walk, climb, or have a helicopter drop you off. In other words, some form of action will be required from you. No action, no results. That's all there is to it. ...
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Hone Your Happiness Vibes
Happiness is high up on everyone's wish list, because when you are happy things go your way. Yet happiness is a rare commodity and the much lauded ideal of "the art of happiness in all circumstances" an even rarer reality which eludes most of us.So, the theory sounds great, but just how do you ...
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Could Buddhism Teach You Something About Trading And Investing?
At first glance there seem to be few parallels betwee Buddhism and your trading and investing strategies, but is that really so? If you look beneath the surface a very different picture starts to evolve. Traditionally we go through life viewing events, like market action as something that ...
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Could Buddhism Teach You Something About Trading And Investing?
At first glance there seem to be few parallels betwee Buddhism and your trading and investing strategies, but is that really so? If you look beneath the surface a very different picture starts to evolve. At first glance there seem to be few parallels betwee Buddhism and your trading and investing strategies, but is that really so? If you look beneath the surface a very different picture starts to evolve. Traditionally we go through life viewing events, like market action as something that happens outside of ourselves and as something on which we have little or no influence.
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The New Anatomy Of Risk From A Buddhist Perspective
The financial world is upside down and by now even a blind man with a stick should be able to see it. I have been involved with trading the markets for many years and am well versed with the psychology of trading and investing. It is a fact that there are still an amazing number of people who believe that the present situation can be easily remedied. Unfortunately, there is nothing in my analysis that says that we are anywhere near an end of this cycle of collapse and this has major consequences for your risk policy.
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How to Pursue Financial Happiness
Yes, Happiness does have to do with money, because in order to live you have to have money. Money is the means of exchange that makes your dreams come true. There is no getting away from this fact. Without money you will starve or at best live off the government on the bred line. This is ...
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Learn To Love Chaos And Stop Fearing Loss
It is a known fact when times get difficult and we experience challenges in our lives we tend o go back into the past in the search for answers. Cycle analysis looks to forecast the future by looking at the past. There is the belief that what has worked in the past will work again in the ...
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Why Cognitive Behaviour Techniques Could Improve Your Trading Beyond Your Wildest Dreams
If you are an experienced trader or investor you will know that mastery is a mind game. In fact, trading and investing are about understanding crowd psychology and your own psychology, because when you fully understand how you react to events deemed to be outside of your control you are taking ...
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The Truth About Personal Growth - Are You Ready for It?
Naturally, everyone wants to feel good. When our lives are not working we tend to turn to personal development in search for answers. Nothing wrong with this concept, however very few realise what is involved of you are serious about accelerating your personal growth. Working on your personal ...
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Change is Good, You Go First
By now a blind man with a stick can see it, the world as we know it is changing. Yet there are still those who believe that the worst of the stock market crash is over. However, when you look at the fundamentals there is little evidence to support this view other than wishful thinking. Of ...
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The Reality Of Personal Growth. From Baby Steps To Enlightenment
The true nature of personal growth is seldom spoken about. In this article I want to share with you what it is like going through the different stages of growth and the meaning of spirituality as I have come to experience it after many years of working on myself. If you are committed to ...
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How To Clear Unwanted Blocks From Your System So You Can Achieve Your Goals
If you want to alleviate stress, reduce negative emotions, eliminate obsessive thinking, or help actualize your potential, you can use the following simplified steps of CLEAR. This method combines a number of energy psychology methods (EFT, EMDR, Somatic Experiencing) and is simple and ...
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Develop True Self Appreciation; It Will Set You Free
It is a fact that we will do more for other people than for ourselves. This really is quite a lopsided state of affairs when you consider that you are with you 24 hours every day through your entire life. We would drop friends who treated us in the same way that we treat ourselves. You are ...
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Electro Magnetic Radiation Affects Us All
Over the last 20 years I have done a lot of research into geopathic stress and electro magnetic fields. What started out initially as solely geopathic stress research merged into research into electro magnetic radiation and the evidence of dangers to our physical and emotional health which I ...
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An Introduction to Medical Psychology
The American Board of Psychological Specialties, a division of The American College of Forensic Examiners, has created a board certified specialty in the area of Medical Psychology. Medical psychologists have post doctoral training in various methods to help patients who have chronic and/or ...
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How to Survive Anxiety Over Today’s Economy
In my roughly 25 years of private psychotherapy practice, I’ve never seen people as anxious and worried about finances as they are today. Certainly it is not without reason. Most people have seen their retirement savings dwindle. Unemployment is at a several - decade high, and of course the ...
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Coping with the Dreaded “C-word”
“It’s cancer,” the doctor said, looking at me solemnly and waiting to see my response. I remained composed. It wasn’t a total surprise – I knew there was a strong possibility. Still, that word, being attached to my name – it felt like a kick in the stomach. Here I was – the person who’d ...
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What You Don’t Know Can, In Fact, Hurt You
German physiologist Manfred Zimmerman, of the Neuroscience and Pain Research Institute, estimates that every waking second, our eyes process ten million bits of information, our skin one million bits, our ears and nose one hundred thousand bits each, and our tastes buds, one thousand bits. ...
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Are You a Slave to the Seasons (or Other Allergens)?
An estimated 50 millio Americans suffer from all types of allergies. This includes indoor/outdoor, food & drug, latex, skin and eye allergies. Allergy is the 5th leading chronic disease in the United States among all ages, and the 3rd common chronic disease among children under 18 years ...
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Allergies, Stress, and Breathing Easy
Approximately half of all Americans are bothered by at least occasional allergies. Some suffer so much that allergies seem to control their lives. Most people believe that the only action to take with allergies is reaction - i.e. to treat the symptoms - either with over the counter or ...
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Learn to Ask the Right Questions and Achieve Your Goals Faster
Yes, it is true, ask and it will be given. The trouble though is this: Most of us do not know how to ask correctly. Let me explain why this is so. Your mind is a wonderful tool. It will get you everything you want if you use it correctly. The reason why most of us have trouble achieving our ...
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Why Financial Freedom Is Key to Spiritual Enlightenment
If you have been a subscriber to my newsletter for awhile you will know that I place great importance on the subject of financial freedom. My personal tool of choice to accomplish this is trading, since in my reality it is the fastest and most fascinating way to create the financial independence ...
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The Path to Freedom Begins with Self Awareness
You are probably totally unaware how much lack of self awareness affects your life and the outcomes you are creating. For most of us life unfolds lacking direction, since we have not yet learned to control and direct our inner world, or thoughts consciously and purposefully. Success in life depends on your ability to be happy with life, and your ability to be happy with your lot depends to a large extend on the way you see the world. How you see your world is dependent upon your level of development, or I could also say your cognitive awareness.
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Discover the Gold in Your Shadows
This simple and profound saying by Carl Jung is a phrase every trader, investor and wannabe should have firmly programmed into their minds, for our shadows are stalking us day and night, mostly without our conscious knowledge. And this is precicely where the big danger is lurking, because the unconscious mind is far more powerful than your conscious mind. In fact, it is your unconscious mind that ultimately drives you to achieve your goals and not your conscious mind.
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Defining The Human Energy Field
The subtle energy body is “an energetic matrix for the physical body, and extends beyond it into the space around us. Like the earth, the human body has a protective energetic ‘skin’, an invisible but palpable membrane that contains our subtle energy body” Hartley (2004, p.141).This subtle, but ...
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The Seven Steps to Healthy Parent/Child Relationships
The world in which we live is violent in large part due to how we raise our children. We assume that children are small and undeveloped and without the need for freedom and personal choice. However, we traumatize them by making demands, creating unnecessary limits, not listening to them and not considering their needs or desires. In response, children fight back, recoil in fear or both, internalizing that they are not enough.
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Change Works with CLEAR
Book review of Change Works with CLEAR, Clearing Limitations with Acupressure Release By Julie Roberts, Ph.D. Ready for distribution; printed 4/07 by Change WorksnISBN #: 978-0-9796033-0-3 Paper back; 150 pages Cost: $15 (+ shipping) available at: www.changeworksinc.com Book Summary Change ...
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The Healing Stream
The healing stream is a frequency of energy that comes from the divine source. Some people call this source God, the higher self, the higher power, the divine self, the creator, the spirit, and other names. The key is that this energy exists in a higher dimensional plane of existence and it flows interdimensionally into the mind, emotion, and body fields of each and every one of us. This divine flow provides each of us with healing wisdom, love, and light.
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What Kids Need
What do Kids need? Children need to be seen and appreciated for who they are. Our job as an adult is to look at a child and ask, “Who can you be?” This means we create an atmosphere of curiosity and attention, which nurtures a child to find the essence of who they are. We support their way of being, providing freedom for them to be who they are while teaching them how to be a kind and authentic human.
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Seeing Through the Fog of These Times
SEEING THROUGH THE FOG OF THESE TIMES by Martin F. Luthke, Ph.D. Last night I was in for a surprise: Accidentally still wearing my reading glasses, I looked into the bathroom mirror. Wow! I discovered details in my face I did not know were there! The real surprise wasn’t the stray bristles on my eyebrows but that I had not been aware to what degree my eyes have been projecting a faulty or incomplete image of reality to my awareness.
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How Can I be Happy
I recently turned 55 and at my birthday celebration, a friend told me that I had changed more than anyone he knew. When I told this to another friend (with whom I have recently reconnected after 30 years) he said yes, that was true for him too, “you aren't the same person in so many ways, and yet you haven't changed at all in ways that are so fundamental to your nature.” What a great thing to hear after all these years—that my work on myself has paid off!
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The 3 Ways Fears and Phobias Can Start
Most fears or phobias can be traced back to a root cause. These root causes generally fall into three main categories based on what created the original fear. In this article you will learn the three ways in which a fear or phobia can start which should help you to understand more about how your own fear or phobia came about. A lifelong fear or phobia can usually be traced back to having been caused in one of the following three ways: 1. A Traumatic Experience. 2. Learned Behaviour 3. Psychological Inducement
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Learn How Your Phobia Started
“How do I cure a phobia?” is such an important question to all who suffer - often on a daily basis - from some form of irrational fear. A fear that can be so severe it debilitates both the mind and the body of the sufferer. Take the first step on the road to your own cure by searching first for the answer to the question “How did my phobia start?” This article gives you some great ideas of how to do this and painlessly!
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The Best Way of Curing a Phobia
There have been many methods proposed and tried for curing a severe fear or phobia but the evidence available indicates that the vast majority of them fail miserably. The latest techniques of NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) have provided good results as also have the methods employed in CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy) but far out distancing both of these is the best way of curing a phobia that I want to share with you in this article. Main textr
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Panic Attacks Cure - What Are Panic Attacks?
Surveys suggest that around 20% of the US population will suffer at least one or more panic attacks at some time during a lifetime. It is also reported that around 1.7% has a serious panic attack disorder. Let’s talk about what panic attacks are and how they affect people. What is a panic attack? A panic attack is an involuntary reaction to exte al or internal factors that, if unchecked, can trigger a series of very unpleasant physiological and psychological changes. The first of these changes can quickly create a chain reaction of stronger reactions and sensations.r
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Cure a Phobia – 3 Common Methods
Of the various methods available to cure a phobia there are three which seem to have become very popular. Each is quite different from the others and which to use is often more to do with what feels right to the individual. Let’s go through the 3 commonest ways to cure a phobia. Each of the three methods aims to change the way you think about your phobia and in this way change how you react towards the cause of your fear. #1 – Immersion therapy
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Overcome Phobias with EFT
EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques) is a mind-body natural energy therapy that has proven to be one of the most reliable methods available today to cure a phobia. Created by Gary Craig, this energy method has been used to help sufferers of virtually every type of phobia. Let’s examine why EFT is so effective and how it can help resolve your phobia once and for all. What is EFT? EFT is a natural energy protocol that uses two important proven concepts: 1. Our bodies have a natural energy healing system 2. Our mind can control and direct that healing energy
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Living fully
We are born into this world with one thing—ourselves. So how do we make the most of this thing called our life? We can start by asking good questions, like: Who am I? What are my gifts? What do I love doing? What do I want to do and who do I want to be? How do I want to be with myself, my friends and my career? Is my career aligned with my true gifts? These are the questions related to how we do this life, not just what we do. This process of becoming is a life-long process that continues until we die.
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Shifting Patterns of Learned Helplessness
Growing up with developmental trauma* can cause patterns of learned helplessness where we shut down, get small, space out, disassociate and eventually get depressed. Another response would be to go into the big one where we puff up and present ourselves as bigger than we are (see “Being the Big One” article https://www.changeworksinc.com/being-the-big-one/). And we can alte ate between being the big one and helplessness. This article is dealing specifically with “learned helplessness” and how to shift that pattern.
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Feelings and Violence
I believe that most of the violence in society comes from our aversion to our emotions. We fight the reality of what we feel because we don’t like the feeling. We try to make it go away by resisting what is. We battle with our feelings by drinking, running, eating, refusing to feel. When we have feelings we don’t like, we battle with others by blaming them for how we feel. When we resist our feelings, the emotions get stuck in us and then when something comes along that resembles that stuck emotion, we get triggered and respond as though we are back in time when that first happened to us.
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Healing Strife in Society
Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing, there is a field. I'll meet you there. Rumi
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Accepting Feelings Leads to Inner Peace
Many of us were raised to resist our feelings (don’t be angry, don’t cry, don’t be so wild, etc). We do most anything to not feel: we eat, do drugs, drink, exercise, work, text, play computer games, and in doing all of this doing, we fight reality. When we resist feeling, we block reality, and this leads to a pattern of fighting that distances us from a sense of peace and contentment and ability to be present in the here and now. We live according to the belief that I have to resist or fight in order get what I want and feel good.
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Creating Healthy Relationships
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Listening to our needs strengthens us
If you do for others and neglect your own needs, you are not nurturing yourself and you are not aligned with your true self. Often people are told they are selfish if they think of themselves and and put their needs before others, but really we strengthen ourselves when we listen to our own needs. We are born into the world only with ourselves—this is our main gift to the world—us. So when we bring ourselves fully into the world, others benefit. We come home to ourselves by listening to our bodies. When we are in sync and aligned, we feel strong, and content.
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Bringing the feminine forward
What does it mean to bring more of the feminine into our culture and why should we do that? Is there evidence that it helps? In a study in Leadership: Women Do It Better Than Men, Harvard Business Review (https://hbr.org/2012/03/a-study-in-leadership-women-do), Dr. Jack Zenger and Dr. Joe Folkman identified sixteen competencies that made an individual an outstanding leader. The results showed that women out-scored men in twelve of the sixteen competencies, including: Taking initiative, Inspiring and motivating others, Driving for results, Building relationships, Collaboration, and team work.
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Being a Witness to Our Suffering
Repetition compulsion* is a pattern we get stuck in where we are trying to ease the pain that manifests because our needs as a child were not met. The pain occurs when we are younger and because our feelings weren’t acknowledged, the emotions (of fear, anger and grief) are not resolved and we get stuck in a loop of recreating the pattern in an attempt to resolve the feelings that get triggered in us.
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Use EFT To Get a Divorce From Your Parents
When it's time for the holidays or a family reunion do you cringe at the thought, but go anyway? Your mom will find fault with your hair, your job or the way you are bringing up your kids. Your dad might pick a fight with you or boast about how much money your brother makes while you are barely getting by. You know that you will have a terrible time and perhaps eat too much or drink to dull the pain. When I ask clients to tell me who in their life has had the most negative effect on them that is still a problem, the majority replies either mom or dad.
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Relationships: Don't Settle For Less Than the Best
Do you settle for relationships with people because you secretly believe that you can't do better? I once knew a wonderful and loving minister who used to tell a story about one of his parishioners who came to him for guidance. She was a lovely woman who was having trouble financially. She told the minister about her low paying job and how she could barely pay her bills each month. The minister took a twenty-dollar bill out of his pocket and offered it to her. She recoiled, saying that she couldn't possibly accept it.
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How to Parent Your Adult Child
In the last few years I have created a new niche in my practice, counseling parents of adult "children." Perhaps it is a result of the fact that people are living longer that my clients are often over 65 and are as frustrated over their relationships with their grown-up sons and daughters as they were when their offspring were toddlers or teens. Although society has many rituals to celebrate the rites of passage into adulthood such as graduation from school, bar mitzvahs, and weddings, we have no way to demarcate the passage from "child" to adult within the family.
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Thank Your Negative Thoughts
Thank Your Negative Thoughts Absolutely! Thank them. They may have served a purpose in the past, but we no longer need to keep them. We can use them instead as keys to unlocking and releasing our limiting beliefs. Now is the time to move forward with new and powerful positive beliefs. Remember: beliefs are not true or false, they are only beliefs. And the word ‘lie’ in the middle of ‘beliefs’ shows us that at least some of what we believe may not be true at all.
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Stop Me Before I Love Again
Do you fall in love with the same person over and over again? The name may change, but when the honeymoon ends you find yourself in the same old rut with the same problems you had before. Even if you have a PhD and tell yourself that you know better, there you go again.
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Restaurant Therapy For Overeaters
If you are a compulsive overeater you may have mixed feelings about eating out in restaurants. Although you enjoy eating, perhaps you feel fearful about being tempted to consume certain foods you love that you believe are "bad" because they lead to binge eating. Your inner dialogue sounds like this: I love this food so much that I don't think I can eat just one portion. If I eat it I will continue to eat too much. If I do, I am bad so I might as well keep eating since I have already "blown it." Afterwards I will hate myself, and vow to never do it again.
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Instant Stress Reduction With EFT
Most of us are so used to living with stress that we aren't even aware that it's there. Here's a quick way to eradicate stress in two minutes or less. You can perform this procedure, called EFT, any time and anywhere.I enjoy doing it while stopped at a red light. It is safe and good for your health. Make sure to turn off your cell phone or iPod before you get started, When you are feeling uptight because of physical or emotional stress, the body tightens, and you may experience a knot in your stomach, neck or shoulders.
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How to Prevent Your Child From Growing Up to Be a Procrastinator
Procrastination is a widespread problem that never seems to go away. For many, this pesky habit began in childhood. Although we may look back on childhood as a carefree time, a child’s life is structured around school. Parents and teachers rule, and children must obey. Procrastination is ...
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How To Prevent Your Child From Growing Up To Be A Procrastinator
Procrastination is a widespread problem that never seems to go away. For many, this pesky habit began in childhood. Although we may look back on childhood as a carefree time, a child’s life is structured around school. Parents and teachers rule, and children must obey. Procrastination is all ...
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10 Key Benefits of Learning to do EFT
1. It takes only minutes to learn the tapping sequence.n n 2. It is safe and so easy to learn that even children can learn it. 3. You can teach your friends and family how to tap. 4. EFT requires no equipment. 5. It is an effective self-help tool that can help you release physical or ...
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Games Procrastinators Play
Doris was so fed up with her messy desk that she finally sought my help. No matter how many times she promised herself that she would clean it up and clean it out she found lots of other things that came first. “It’s not a big desk. I should be able to finish the job in a few hours,” she whined. ...
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A Guide For Choosing the Right Psychotherapist For You
Some people think that going to a therapist is like going to a car mechanic: they expect the therapist to diagnose a specific problem and fix it just as the mechanic puts in new brake pads or readjusts the carburetor. These clients expect something to happen to them. That is not the case. Don’t ...
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How To Live Smart
Putting an end to procrastination is not about being smarter; it is about creating smarter goals. You may have heard this advice about time management, “Winners Focus, Losers spray.” Procrastinators often get off into distractions and land up doing many other things than what they intend. Thus, ...
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The Weighting Game
“I’ll start on Monday” is the dieter’s excuse for putting off beginning a diet. I call this the Weighting Game. There seems to be more to gain from losing than from gaining. Putting off taking it off is a common behavior. Yet people who want to lose weight seem to be motivated by a strong desire ...
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When Talking To Yourself Out Loud Helps
Did you ever have a problem or emotion that was so upsetting you wanted to call your best friend because you needed a friendly ear? But what happens if no one answers? You are stuck with your feelings and misery. I have invented a simple EFT variation to help you help yourself when you feel this ...
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How To "Get Over It"
Many people work with me to overcome the after effects of traumas like rape, auto accidents, childhood abuse, war experiences, etc. These terrifying, often life threatening events leave them with what is called Post Traumatic Stress. They can’t stop reliving what happened, often have ...
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Questions And Answers About Compulsive Spending
What is the difference between compulsive spending and the kind of spending most of us do? My definition of compulsion is if you can’t control when you start or when you stop a behavior you have a problem. Most of us splurge occasionally, but compulsive spenders find the urge overpowering and ...
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Curb Compulsive Shopping with Mall Therapy
Compulsive spending is a problem that affects millions of people from all walks of life. In a society that actively promotes conspicuous consumption, credit card abuse has reached epidemic proportions, causing untold heartache and ruined lives. Shopping is a pastime that hooks us into spending ...
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The Compulsion Merry-Go-Round
When you can’t control when to start or stop a substance or behavior, you have a compulsion. Compulsive overeaters have the urge to gorge until they feel sick, shopaholics can’t control the urge to buy all sorts of stuff they don’t need. Many don’t even open the bag once ...
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Did You Should On Yourself Today?
I should get my car washed. I should pay my bills. I should eat less. I shouldn’t sleep so late on the weekend. Our lives are filled with shoulds. Shoulds keep us on the straight and narrow path to goodness. What are shoulds and where did they come from? Of course we can trace them back to ...
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Perfectionism: It's All In The Eye Of The Beholder
The other morning I got out of bed before my husband and, as I was brushing my teeth, I saw him get up and make the bed. Making the bed for my perfectionist husband means throwing the blankets willy-nilly back over the bed, period. What is wrong with this picture? Is that the way a perfectionist ...
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The Four Level Plan To Stop Compulsive Behavior
When you can’t control when you start or when you stop a behavior or substance you are suffering from a compulsion. We are all familiar with compulsive eating, drinking, and spending. Compulsive behavior begins as a solution to another problem, a way of using pleasure to mask pain. Sadly, over ...
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What’s The World Coming To!
One of the most common reasons people come to see me for psychotherapy is to eliminate fears. Fear of flying is one of the most widespread. Fear of needles keeps many people from going to the doctor or dentist, and many women avoid mammograms. Nevertheless, ever since 9/11 I have been ...
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Share Your Gift With The World
Have you ever been complimented on something you have done and wondered why since it was an ability you took for granted? Have you ever complimented someone else about what they do that impresses you because you couldn’t do it no matter how hard you tried, and they do it so well? Many years ago ...
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How To Live With A Compulsive Spender
Is there someone in your life who is spending compulsively, and you feel frustrated and angry with him or her? You don’t understand why they do what they do, and you can’t understand why they can’t just use a little more willpower. Perhaps you have tried bribery, threats, punishment, rewards, ...
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You Can Eat One And Stop
An amazing acupressure technique called EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques) can take cravings away in minutes. Whether it is cigarettes, beer, donuts or chocolate, just touching or tapping a few energy points on the face and upper body allows the urge to disappear effortlessly. Most people who ...
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Three Ways To Release Stress
Most of our stress arises from negative thoughts and beliefs. We tend to think that what we think is the truth. What if it isn’t? If your thoughts are making you depressed or stressed try these three helpful tips to brighten up your day. 1. Get into a cosmic perspective. A very creative ...
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EFT For Toddlers
When my daughter was 2 we lived in a house with a mural on the bathtub wall. It was a Polynesian scene with a palm tree and some strange looking Tiki figures. One day, for some reason, she became terrified of the scene and refused to take a bath. I tried everything I knew then (I wasn’t a ...
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Perfectionism is in the Eye of the Beholder
The other morning I got out of bed before my husband and, as I was brushing my teeth, I saw him get up and make the bed. Making the bed for my perfectionist husband means throwing the blankets willy-nilly back over the bed, period. What is wrong with this picture? Is that the way a perfectionist ...
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What Does Love Look Like?
Recently I was using EFT with a client I'll call Marie while she was exploring stress about some serious problems in her family. Thoughts and feelings about family members came up as she tapped, and tearfully she said, "I want love." She told me that she didn't feel loved by her mother and in the next breath explained that she and her mom spoke on the phone every day. Although she couldn’t' remember her mother hugging and kissing her as a child, she knew that her mom loved her, but it wasn't enough.
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Dieting and the Mind: Hindbrain
If you’ve been dieting for weight-loss for some time and have found that the diet isn’t “working” – by whatever measure you care to apply – then the reason for this has to be to do with diet, or it has to do with how you are mentally and physiologically responding.
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How to Get Through the Holidays Without Stress
The holiday season is upon us. Do you greet it with trepidation? Festivities bring us together with family. Are you dreading that experience because you have to act as if everything is peachy when it isn't because you are really having an awful time and can't wait to find an excuse to leave? In psychology we call that pseudo-mutuality. Pseudo means false. In other words, the smile on your face is hiding your true feelings of unhappiness, anger or boredom.
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A Book Junkie Admits All
I have spent the last few days unable to tear myself away from watching a dreadful series that I am streaming instantly on TV. There are thirty-two episodes and I am almost finished with the lot. I am annoyed with my behavior and what a waste of time it is. Yesterday I tried to stop and couldn't.
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Rage of Eden
At the 2011 Heaven & Earth workshop in Israel, the old issue of anger came up. In facing the exte al world, anger means it is time to put a border. It is an instinct and an energy, neither good nor bad. To accept responsibility for our anger - to begin to be able to contain it - is to move into a new stage of development. After years of work in inner growth, it seems the anger issue never really dies down. Moving as it does in a spiral, our life-time processes will lead us to revisit that old friend called anger again and again, with ever increasing refinement.
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Using Emotional "Harmonics"
It is not so surprising that when we experience an emotion our brains emit electromagnetic waves of a particular shape and frequency. All vibrating things have harmonics: all it means is that at the same time as the original (or fundamental) is emitted, vibration at a higher frequency (usually exactly half and even a quarter) is emitted alongside or inside the wave. Just as strings on a guitar or violin have harmonics, so do the emotional waves that we emit. The first (sound) harmonic is an octave and the term “octave" is used in theosophical writing of all sorts.
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Psychic and Corporeal Energies
Discussing the concept of energy with reference to the mind and body separately and at the interface between the two is fraught with difficulty: possibly more so than almost any other area of investigation, even including the vexed topic of the unconscious mind. This is because that while there is some agreement on energies that cannot be measured, paradoxically, there is little consensus regarding the nature of others which can: how they might best be measured and interpreted (in particular) and the effects that these different energies have on mind and body.
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*** How to Remove Past Life Trauma: Part One
Past Life Treatment Made Easy How to Remove Past Life Trauma Without Traumatizing Yourself All Over Again By Re-experiencing It. Past life regression became popular by Dr. Bryan Weiss, using hypnosis. However, this method is excruciatingly painful, as you need, in the hypnotic trance, to experience the previous trauma and death. Now there is a technique that allows you to find past life trauma that blocks you, and release is totally pain-free.
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***The Missing Link
EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) became increasingly popular recently because it is, indeed, effective and at the same time very easy to use. However, there are also a lot of reports that it is not as effective as it was reported to be. EFT founder, Gary Craig, blamed it on the fact that the technique is practiced by people who were not appropriately trained according to the “Gold Standard”, as dictated by him.
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***Money and Marriage
A lot of women have the expectation that their husbands should be like their fathers and be excellent providers and allow them to have the extravagant lifestyle that they are accustomed to. They spend as much money as their husband gives them, and it is never enough. This creates a lot of resentment from the husband, who may not be as rich as the father, and even if he is, he may have a different attitude towards money. He may be more of a saver, coming from a fear of more difficult times ahead or just in order to build a nice investment account in order to have passive income.
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***How to have better orgasms?
Do you sabotage yourself out of having the best orgasms ever? This time I would like to address the subject of female orgasms and how to remove subconscious sabotage to reaching the best orgasms or multiple orgasms. At another time I’ll address the issue of male orgasm, as the sabotage is different to a great extent, when we are looking at subconscious issues.
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***The Law of Attraction Revisited
Rhonda Byrne's book and movie, The Secret, sold 21 million copies. It served an important mission: It popularized the Law of Attraction and emphasized the importance of Positive Thinking.
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***Do you sabotage your potency?
Impotence, or erectile dysfunction, (E.D.), is afflicting many men. You can see that from the billions of dollars sales of drugs like Viagra, Cialis, or Levitra. Sometimes, people die, when using these drugs. Sometimes, E.D. is just a way warning you that you have to look into the underlying problem.
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***Do You Sabotage Your Weight Loss?
You are unable to reach your weight loss or fitness goals. You try every diet. You register for gym membership. You buy the best equipment. Yet you procrastinate. You lose the same 10 pounds over and over again. You are too tired or too busy to shop for healthy foods and you order pizza. You are not lazy and you do have self discipline in other areas. What is going on?
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***Why People Sabotage Their Relationships?
We see a lot of people who consciously are desperately looking for a good relationship. Yet, they are dating or marrying people who are selfish, emotionally unavailable, and even verbally or physically abusive. In years of treating people who subconsciously sabotage their relationships, I found out that a lot of times it comes from subconscious or even semi-conscious fears.
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***Abundance Does Not Attract Happiness. Happiness Attracts Abundance!
Research showed that earning more than $60,000 a year does not add on to people's happiness. On the other hand, the Law of Attraction clearly points to the fact that the key to success is happiness. So, if you have ever wondered how to manifest success, if you've ever asked yourself: "How can I be rich?" you need to change your quest. The more important question is: "How can I be happy in life?"
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***Fear of Success: 5 Reasons Why People Subconsciously Feel it is Unsafe to Make More Money
Fear of success is as prevalent as fear of failure and is one of the main reasons why a lot of people are not fulfilling and maximizing their potential. Most of the time, the fear of success is subconscious. As such it has much power. When the enemy is unknown it can stab you in the back. When you shed the light of awareness over it you can rationally examine it, face it, debate it and dismiss it or use my SCT (Sabotage Correction Technique) to remove it.
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***The Law of Attraction and Subconscious Sabotage
Before the movie, The Secret, Esther and Jerry Hicks wrote a series of best-sellers about the Law of Attraction: The Power of Deliberate Intent, and The Art of Allowing. Esther supposedly channels a non-inca ate being by the name of Abraham, who gives her knowledge about using the Law of Attraction to manifest things. The teaching is a great teaching and is basically correct and useful. The teaching states that whatever you focus on, you attract. So, you can reach for better feeling thoughts.
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***What is Karma?
Everything is energy and energy vibrates. The body is condensed materialized energy, at the level of our vibrations. I see the body as a small computer, connected to the main computer of the Highest Consciousness that is uniting us all. All knowledge is, of course, available as the Source has all knowledge. The body has access to the Source, as it is an instrument of the Source. For sure it has access to all of the personal history and suppressed emotions as evidenced by hypnosis.
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***How to Be Successful and Make the Law of Attraction Work for You?
A lot of my patients ask me how to be a success. They do everything by the book, say the perfect affirmations, think positively, and do dream boards as suggested in the book "The Secret". Yet they are not successful in making the Law of Attraction work for them. What is going on? We are indeed electromagnets and we attract to us people and experiences that vibrate at the same wave-length. Except at least 95% of what we radiate is what is going on beyond the level of our conscious awareness.
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***Treatment of PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder) with Energy Psychology and SCT (Sabotage Correction Technique).
I worked with a soldier, Jonathan, with a few years history of PTSD, with the classical symptoms of nightmares, flashbacks, emotional numbness, and dissociation from life. He had been in therapy twice a week with a psychologist in the last four years and was on a whole cocktail of medications. With all this his condition had not improved, and he had not functioned at work or socially.
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***Do you sabotage your money line?
Did it ever happen to you? Does this sound familiar? You make some money, then you lose it soon enough. How about intentionally throwing your money away, on something you know is not going to work? You'll find many excuses. You may think it is because you are not focused enough, that you don't do enough research, that there is too much information etc. etc. OK, you may not be aware of it, but if there is something bad in your subconscious about making money, you are not going to be successful at making it.
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Receiving 101 A Lesson From Nature
Receiving 101 A Lesson From Nature Excerpt from the book " The Healing Planet" The forest does not grow with an expectation of what it will look like. It just grows. Other factors such as sun, wind, water, and other plants influence it. In the plant world there is no competition; just the energy to thrive. They are simply happy to grow. It sounds like a good model for business “Simply happy to grow”. Living with no resistance; allowance of all energies around us; awareness of our surroundings; a process that is working all day long.
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Johnny Cash From The Darkness To The Light
Johnny Cash From The Darkness To The Light I recently watched the movie on the life of Johnny Cash called “I Walk The Line” and have been listening to Johnny’s hit album of 1968 called “Johnny Cash At Folsom Prison”. The story and the movie parallel each other in the depiction of the deviant sides of Cash and the conflict of the criminal element within himself to become more whole. In the album “Johnny Cash At Folsom Prison” Cash sings songs of the experiences of a reckless, unlawful life that divulges the angry world of the criminal.
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Listening With The Heart
I was once in relationship with a woman who was quick to become angry and would often verbally confront me with the anger. It was often for the smallest of reasons. Although I cared for this person it was painful relating in such an aggressive way. Of course I would not have attracted such a person in my life if I did not wish to resolve this within me. When my girlfriend would become angry my immediate reaction was to defend myself. My mind would start to beginning trying to find reasons why it wasn’t my fault.
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Suppressed Anger: Its Lesson of Life
I was talking with a friend who told me that he had spent his entire life either living in the past or the future. He lived in the past in resentments to what had happened to him or was in the future thinking about how he could avoid the pains of the past from reoccurring. Our mind can do some ...
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The Energetic Healing of Anger
The true purpose of anger is to stimulate us to take action. The more that we can be present in us with our feelings and express them in some way we release anger with greater ease. The best example of the expression of anger and letting it go quickly is from animals. They are direct with ...
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A New Approach to Depression
Depression is often termed ‘anger turned inwards’. In other words anger suppressed or buried within us to the point that we do not feel the anger anymore. What shows up instead is depression. Most people might respond by saying: “I’m not angry, I do have issues with depression.” Or say, ...
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Energetic Healing Of My Own Anger
In my years of doing Access Energy Transformation I have seen so many dramatic changes in my life of more ease in everything I do, increased psychic abilities, greater charisma, personal power that I had never believed that I had and a variety of abilities that are too many to mention. One ...
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Relea ing To Feel Yourself Again
We are living during a time of some of the greatest developments of the human psyche in the history of the world. It is a time that many are awakening to their inner gifts thus awareness, intuition and abilities to manifest things that we wish for take on new possibilities. It is a great time ...
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Recreating Our Imagination
As a child growing up in the rough rural countryside of Texas in the fifties and sixties I was given a large amount of time to create what my imagination desired. It was a rich world full of made of stories, games and projects created from my imagination. In the quiet lifestyle I was able to ...
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Are There Ghosts Or Entities In Your Life?
Going beyond the tales of ghosts that we have all heard in stories, television and in books. I have found that entities and some ghosts are involved in most people’s lives most often without them knowing it. Most ghosts are simply beings that have died and generally due to their own ...
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The Art Of Processing Emotions
Many of us spend hours regularly processing emotions that we experience in our lives. It is in the belief that if we come to a place of resolve with them that we would be happier and/or be more present in our lives. Processing emotions is a skill that many have difficulty doing especially if ...
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An Alte ative Approach To Depression
Depression is often termed ‘anger turned inwards’. In other words anger suppressed or buried within us to the point that we do not feel the anger anymore. What shows up instead is depression. Most people might respond by saying: “I’m not angry, I do have issues with depression.” Or say, ...
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Healing Missing Mother Syndrome with EFT
When I had my very first EFT session as a client, we went straight back to my birth. I released a deep, very painful feeling of abandonment, since my schizophrenic mother was unable to bond with me from the beginning. It was a powerful experience, and it made a believe and an EFT practitioner out of me. EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques) is a simple tapping procedure that gently realigns the body's energy system - kind of acupuncture without the neddles.
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Life Transformation, The Master Path and Swimming With Crocodiles
Are you suffering in your life? Has your health collapsed? Are you floundering in your career or relationship? Have you experienced abuse or trauma? Does it feel as if the world is against you? Are you struggling to cope? In life, we all face challenges and trials. When we confront these things, there is always a choice: we can either remain powerless, or we can use our situation to raise ourselves up and transform ourselves. Look at the people who inspire others with their lives. Have they had easy paths? Invariably you find a story of loss, trauma, survival and then transformation.
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Broken Heart First Aid: Self-Help for Those First Few Weeks
The person you hoped to spend your life with has left you, for whatever reason. Your heart is broken. Initially, that pain and heart-ache is unbearable and you don’t know how you’re going to get through the next minute, let alone the next day. Obviously you need to go through a grieving process for the lost relationship, and that will take time. However, you can help yourself through the first acute stages of pain with these simple, natural remedies and healing exercises. Crystal Healing
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BLUE: The Holistic Solution for Nightmares, Stammering and Bedwetting
We all want our children to be healthy and happy. All too often though, our little ones suffer with issues like nightmares, stammering and bedwetting, and as parents we feel powerless to help. However, with a little bit of know-how you can make a difference. In this article, I will show you simple, effective steps you can take to help clear the cause of these issues and heal your child. Clear the Root
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Magenta: The Colourful Way to Help ADHD Children and Their Stressed Parents
Many children struggle with ADHD and behavioural problems, and we parents end up suffering with stress, exhaustion and feeling generally frazzled. Would you like to learn how to make both yourself and your children feel more relaxed and focused using only colour and the power of your mind? In this article I will show you a quick and easy healing exercise which can really help. Why Colour?
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Steve Jobs: Vision in Life, Inspiration in Death
Steve Jobs has finally lost his battle with cancer, and lovers of computing and technology will mou his loss. While there will no doubt be many eulogies and tributes to his achievements, I would like to offer a more spiritual perspective on this inspirational man.
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Love: The Key to Releasing Addictive Behaviour
Love is all we need for deep-down wellbeing. Our subconscious mind knows this, and will do anything to get that feeling. Unfortunately, we often have sabotaging mental programmes too, which prevent us from allowing love into our lives. If we are in a relationship, we unconsciously keep our partner at a distance, either emotionally or physically. If we are single, we will doubtless sabotage any potential relationship.
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Rape and Sexual Assault: Liberation and Empowerment Visualisation
After an assault, the first priority is to help your mind release the pain, shock and trauma of the experience in order to move on. To do this, you have to coax your subconscious into unfreezing itself and allowing these changes to occur. The following healing exercise is one I have used many times with my clients with great success.
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Rape and Sexual Assault: Self-Help for Healing and Empowerment
When you have suffered rape or sexual assault, you are carrying that shock and trauma in the cells of your body. It is particularly important to clear that shock from your system as soon as possible. If you do it straight away, the damage to you will be minimal. If, however, you leave it to fester, it can undermine your health, well-being and relationships for many years to come.
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Rape and Sexual Assault: Your Way Back to Life
It is a tragic fact that many women suffer rape or sexual assault at some point, and for some it can ruin their lives. Are you one of these women? It is possible to turn this terrible experience around completely, and not only get your life back, but grow far beyond what you believed possible. In this article, I will give you a glimpse of how to change your thinking and create something positive for yourself, even in the face of such darkness. The Starting Point
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Stress, Burnout and Exhaustion: Self-Help Energy Exercises
Imagine that your body's capacity to cope is like a bucket. The bucket represents your strength, your immune system, and your resistance to the stresses of life. Each time you put yourself under stress, it fills the bucket a little bit. Perhaps you are having a difficult time working with a new boss, then you argue with your partner and children. After that you catch the flu, then there is a rumour about job cuts. Each thing contributes a bit more stress to the bucket.
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Stress, Burnout, Life Purpose and a Message From Your Heart
Today's world is very stressful. We put ourselves under pressure on a daily basis, at work, at home, at school, and that pressure is never released. Day after day, year after year, the stress ramps up, putting more and more strain on our minds and bodies until one day things simply fall apart: the result is exhaustion, illness or depression. This is the conventional understanding. However, is that all there is to it? Perhaps there is a more profound and spiritual interpretation of our high stress levels. Let's look a little deeper into this question.
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Holistic First-Aid For Cats and Dogs: You Can Help Them Feel Better
We all value our pets. They give us so much: affection, love and entertainment. So it's very hard to watch them when they are ill, afraid or suffering. Over the years I have sometimes been asked to provide healing for pets. Let me share with you some simple and effective healing techniques which you can use to help your furry friends. These have all been used with real animals, and without exception, the pet responded well to the treatment.
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Stress and Internal Conflict: Heal Yourself With Forgiveness
All stress, regardless of the source, will undermine our wellbeing if left unchecked. The accumulated stress can eventually lead to conditions such as anxiety, insomnia, high blood pressure, heart disease, cancer, stroke, ME/chronic fatigue and depression, to name but a few. So, any steps we can take to reduce our stress will be beneficial.
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Disease and Chronic Illness: Can I Allow Myself to Get Better?
When illness strikes in your life it can be devastating. You feel dreadful, and can no longer enjoy the things you used to love doing. There is now so much to worry about. How are you going to pay the mortgage and put food on the table? Are you going to lose your job? How are you going look after your family? You would do anything to recover. You may be spending a fortune on alte ative therapies and dietary supplements. Nothing seems to work though. Why? The fact is that your subconscious mind might have a very different view on the issue. It might actually like you being ill!
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The Negative Law of Attraction: Are You Attracting Bad Experiences Into Your Life?
Are there aspects of your life that you're unhappy with? Are you ill? Are you overweight? Are you unhappy in your career or relationship? Do you feel like a victim? Do you think you are simply unlucky or that life is cruel? Perhaps you feel comfortable in the belief that there is nothing you can do to change any of this? Have you ever thought that perhaps you asked to have these things in your life? Energy of Attraction
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Create a World of Love: Your Thoughts Can Make It Happen
Did you know that you really can change the world with your thoughts? While we all know that it is better to go through life with a loving, positive attitude, did you realise that your thoughts are actually sending real energy into the world and making changes there?
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Turn Your Darkness Into Light: The Highest Perspective
No matter how positive our outlook in life, unpleasant things are going to happen which bring us down. People betray us, hurt us and disappoint us. People attack us with their spiteful words. They misjudge us, take credit for our work or malign us. When we experience this sort of thing in our daily lives, it is very difficult to remain positive. Such actions and feelings produce a very low vibration: a very negative energy. However, while we cannot stop this sort of thing from happening, we can choose how to react to it. Option 1:
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Illness, Diagnosis and Recovery: Is Your Doctor Programming You to Stay ill?
It is 1999, and I am sitting in the consultant's office. He closes my file and looks me straight in the eye. "Yes, you have ME, Chronic Fatigue Syndrome," he tells me. "I'm afraid there is nothing we can do to help you. You'll always have it, but in time you may be able to manage it. Good luck!" At the time, I had no idea of the damage this well-intentioned doctor had done with this simple statement. Now, twelve years and a long journey later, I know exactly what he did that day. He imposed a life-sentence on me.
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ME and Chronic Fatigue Syndrome - What You Need to Know to Avoid This Condition
Are you on the fast-track to illness? The seeds of this debilitating condition may have already been sown, but it is not too late. You can stop things now and turn back towards health. In this article you will learn the two mental programmes which are the root of this debilitating condition. This could be the key to preventing years of illness for you! Destructive Programming
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Subconscious Programming: Is Yours Sabotaging Your Life?
Is your life exactly what you want it to be? Probably not! Do you feel that you repeat the same old patterns year after year in your relationships, your finances and your career? Are you held back by feelings of insecurity or inadequacy? If the answer is yes, then very likely your subconscious programming is undermining you and sabotaging your life.
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5 Beliefs that Support Healing
Healing your body requires that you do certain things: take responsibility for your own healing, do what your health care professional recommends and be mentally and emotionally ready for healing. That last one may seem strange. "Of course I'm ready for healing." Are you? Any success expert will tell you that mental attitude is the underlying foundation of achieving what you desire in life. If you don't have the confidence and motivation to succeed, in this case heal, then you've failed before you've begun.
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The Stress and Emotion Detox - Your Key to a Healthy Life
An emotional detox is probably the best thing you can do for your health. In the short-term, it relieves stress, improves sleep quality, strengthens your immune system and helps you cope better with life. In the long-term it could prevent life-threatening diseases from developing. What is more, it is simple to do, and you don't have to give up coffee, chocolate or your evening glass of wine! In this article, I will show you how to find and release the toxic emotions stored in your body, leaving your system squeaky-clean and healthy. Forgive and Forget - Is This Possible?
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Resisting What Is Makes Life Difficult for You and Others
Resisting what is happening in your life is a sure way to frustration, anger and depression. No one likes bad things to happen to them. Everyone would prefer that life move along according to their needs, desires and whims. The fact is that life has its own way of moving and it is often contrary to where you want it to go. There are things you can resist. For instance, you can resist the urge to speed through a school zone or pull your credit card out to buy the latest technological marvel which would be nice but is not a necessity. These are the actions you have control over.
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Anger Can Be Permanently Dissolved
Anger Can Be Permanently Dissolved By Bart Sharp Anger management is not the best long-term solution for our anger. What it offers to the person desiring the ability to control their anger. However it does not address the long-term solution. They still often become the affect of anger. We can go from someone who uses anger as a destructive force to not holding the triggers and energies that influence us to become angry. We can be free of this destructive cycle.
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Energy & Orthomolecular Medicine
Linus Pauling, a double Nobel Prize laureate, coined the phase Orthomolecular medicine, years ago. Unfortionately you will probably not find much about this in our libraries here in the United States, The treatment is primarily vitamins and nutrition, the Pharmaceutical Companies are too ...
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The power of Acupuncture to change Emotional States
An area of Traditional Chinese Medicine that is not often discussed is the effect that acupuncture has on the emotions. It can literally change how you feel in a matter of minutes and have a lasting effect when the needles are left in for 30 minutes. It can take away emotional pain, lighten ...
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Our thoughts create our reality - Choice produces results.
I would like to help you start on a journey that will lead you to happiness. Lead you, to your own personal happiness, and what ever that might mean to you. That could be joy, inner peace, success, prosperity, abundance, health, loving relationships, greater creativity and a deeper connection to ...
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***Energy Psychology Is Yoga For Your Imagination
We are all familiar with the concept of ying and yang, consciousness and unconsciousness, ebb and flow. In yoga, the asanas (postures) we strive to perfect with our bodies speak to our deep desire to perfect and unite our mind, body and spirit. And yet, often in spite of years of dedicated ...
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***Energy Psychology Is Yoga For Your Imagination
We are all familiar with the concept of ying and yang, consciousness and unconsciousness, ebb and flow. In yoga, the asanas (postures) we strive to perfect with our bodies speak to our deep desire to perfect and unite our mind, body and spirit. And yet, often in spite of years of dedicated ...
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What Is Suffering?
Suffering right now is about how we programmed ourself. It is all that we wrote down in our manual for living from the beginning of the womb and throughout many life times have come back to resolve to evolve. We used suffering to find out what we were not to re-member who we were, which is love. ...
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Eliot Spitzer: A Lesson For All Of Us
The Spitzer tornado has kept the media and political circles busy for the last few days. Mr. Spitzer’s fall from grace has wider implications than his immediate legal and personal troubles. (Though these are huge problems for him.) Each interest group has an interpretation of Mr. ...
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Fake It 'Til You Make It
Hmm! Under most circumstances I would not accept “Fake it ‘til you make it” as a good principle of life. But, after seeing hundreds of marriages ending up in divorce and lives destroyed by the rush for instant gratification, I’m compelled to borrow the phrase in order ...
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Your Best Life Ever!
There is perhaps no subject of greater obsession or importance than that of LIFE SUCCESS! Who doesn’t want to be a SUCCESS? Who doesn’t want to SUCCEED? SUCCESS is a word loaded with meaning. Its meaning has been largely twisted by the media and the constant parade of e-mail blasts ...
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Robin Williams' Divorce: A Symptom of the Deeper Problem
After nearly 19 years of marriage, Robin Williams and his wife are divorcing. Williams and his wife have two children together. Marsha Garces Williams filed a petition for dissolution of marriage on March 21 in San Francisco Superior Court, citing irreconcilable differences. The two met when ...
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Strategies and Tactics
As a LIFE coach I face a variety of human dilemmas which are mostly rooted in emotional PAIN and memories of past emotional PAIN. The fact is, people don’t call me when things are going well; they call when they’re hitting bottom. These situations can include: • A marriage ...
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Your Choice Matters!
Several years ago I found myself totally absorbed by the reading of “Anne Frank: The Diary of a Young Girl” (Doubleday and Company, 1952). This last week, my son Hansel had to read the book for his English class. We talked about the book together and my afterthoughts gave birth to ...
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"Porcupines" And Your Success!
Category: Successnnn“PORCUPINES” AND YOUR SUCCESS! Harold J. Duarte-Be hardt Porcupines have always elicited uncomfortable feelings in my mind! I have watched them walk at zoos, and since I was a young child I decided I never wanted to have an encounter with a porcupine. They are ...
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Admit You Are Wrong
On August 29, 2006, Neil A. Lewis reported in The New York Times that Richard Armitage (former deputy Secretary of State in the Bush Administration) had been confirmed to be the first and primary source of the CIA leak regarding covert CIA agent Valerie Plame Wilson. On November 11, 2007, ...
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Transcending the Stories of Our Life
Throughout history humans have walked this jou ey called life using myths and stories for direction or guidance along the way. From the Petroglyphs of caves, to more modern times, stories have guided us along our jou ey. As a culture there is an agreed upon meaning of what is important, and what is not, that are often reflected within these stories. The use of archetypes & metaphors has long been used as a way to teach one how best to navigate this jou ey through life. However, our society has lost awareness of the power of story.
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What Do You (Nurture) Feed?
What beliefs and thoughts do you nurture daily? Do your beliefs and thoughts support or sabotage you? Are you aware of any conflict within? Our beliefs (conscious & subconscious) are reflected by the emotions (energy in motion) we experience in our lives. When we experience a life that is less than desired we must turn within to discover what beliefs or thoughts we are nourishing on a daily basis. There is an old Cherokee tale of two wolves which illustrates this beautifully:r
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Balanced Giving
Did you know that November is National Care-givers month? Unfortunately, most caregivers are unaware of this. Moreover, much too busy and overwhelmed to – STOP, and give themselves the much needed attention they deserve.
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Creating An Energetic Bridge
The efficacy of energy-based psychotherapy is slowly increasing with the advent of new technology that can measure brain waves and other forms of subtle energy. As with any field of study there are several branches, all of which focus on change within some aspect of the human energy field, or circuit. As a psychotherapist, I have found that the creation of an energetic bridge between the conscious & the subconscious mind is helpful for clients to access the source of an energetic block.
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Morphic Resonance & the Power of Community
Have you ever experienced a gathering (church, conference, workshops, etc.) where the synergy of the group was so uplifting & powerful you just knew this would last forever? Then you return back to your everyday routine & environment (work, home, etc.) & some part of this energy or experience is lost. Is it that we fall back into our routines & forget this experience? Perhaps, the environment or community to which we return does not resonate with this new found energy & it is too difficult to maintain this vibration on our own.
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Mind, Mood, & Matter: Our Power To Create
What if you were told a power within you exists that can treat disease, reduce stress, regulate physiological functions, create psychological wellness, and much more? Would you use this power? Unfortunately, individuals do use this power – unconsciously. Often defined as “worry” the unconscious use of this power creates exactly what is “NOT” wanted. The self-fulfilling prophesy of doom. “I knew this was going to happen.”
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The Angry Pancreas
Since the beginning of my EFT career I’ve been fascinated by the many layers of emotion behind serious diseases. Many of my patients who came to me for spinal related problems were also under their medical doctor’s care for a variety of different illnesses. Intuitively I always suspected specific emotions related to their chronic illnesses, yet I was careful not to approach the subject with them. My patients would tell you that I am not a shy person but I was mindful not to get too personal while working on them.
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The Angry Pancreas - Part II
With every week that passed she started to feel more comfortable, and started recognizing her issues about her own parents without feeling like she was dishonoring them. As in the case of most angry people, she felt that she had already “dealt” with that part of her life, but I knew better. She admitted that her mother was bossy and controlling who “picked on” her father, who never defended himself. The guilt behind the anger at her own parents, who are both deceased, kept her from ever expressing it. I assured her that you can love someone very deeply and still be angry at them.
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The Grieving of America
The Grieving of America We plan our lives according to a dream that came to us in childhood, and we find that life alters our plans. —Ben Oki
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Witness To A Murder (Post-Traumatic Stress)
Witnessing a murder is a specific traumatic event. It produces post-traumatic stress, yet oftentimes it's much faster to achieve resolution with EFT because it is one specific event. In contrast, soldiers in combat generally experience more than one traumatic event, which takes more time to deconstruct and diffuse.
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Post-Traumatic Stress - A Soldier and His Wife's Story
Anyone who has suffered traumatic events has "stress." And, by expanding the terminology of PTSD, I think of all my EFT clients as having some form of “post-traumatic stress.” And while military personnel have received the most attention in this regard, this is not exclusively a military problem. As an EFT practitioner, I work with the effects of past traumas with every client.
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The need for spirituality
Spirituality is about connecting ourselves with a deeper reality and using that perception to better ourselves and our lives. Although, it is not always easy to look at ourselves at a deeper level, because we have settled into who we are not realizing how possible it is to better ourselves. Our egos are especially resistant to that, yet the ego's perspective is disconnected from the much wider reality. There is so much more potential for us to tap into that we may not even realize.
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Awareness of the ego can take you to the next level
The times when we have the highest levels of inspiration and freedom comes during the absence of the ego. During these times we can tap into our full potential. The problem is that these moments may come rarely.
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Fear is the reason why we may be stuck in our lives
We could have been trying accomplish something great in order to move forwards in our lives but yet we always seem to hit a wall. It could seem that we are just really unlucky or cursed. For example we could have had several attempts in wanting to make it to the next level in a relationship but after a great start, everything seems to fall apart. It could be that every time we meet someone that we truly like, we can never make it far. Either because we think obstacles get in the way or we blow it.
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We Make The Most Out Of Our Relationships When We Integrate Higher Awareness
Many relationships can come to a time where there's a gap and we probably look to outside sources to fill that void. When we look to outside sources to fill in that gap we also walk away from our personal evolution. The voids we experience are supposed to challenge us to look within to see where we can grow to inspire a new spark to our relationship.
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With society's distractions, it is important to stay focused on the bigger picture of life.
We may have a hard time keeping in touch with the big picture of life because our society offers so many distractions and fears that can consume us. We have technology, entertainment, bills to pay and so many other things that can keep us overly busy. But at the end of the day do these things make us happy? Do they fulfill us? Probably not! What we really fulfills us is when we connect with ourselves and with the world around us on a deeper level.
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How to find higher consciousness
Finding our connection with our higher consciousness will bring us towards enlightenment and at the same time give us the knowledge we need to bring balance to our civilization. When we are connected with our higher consciousness, we see much more clarity about everything, we feel fulfilled and we can also see what direction we should take with our lives. It is the experience we should seek to connect with as often as possible.
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Getting in Your Own Way: the Professional Resistance Phenomenon
This article is directed to EFT practitioners who may have inexplicably experienced only marginal gains with certain clients which can then discourage them from seeking further help with EFT. While I deal mostly with serious diseases, recognizing this not so obvious barrier between you and your client, and addressing it head-on initially, could save you both time and effort and get you the results that you expect.
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The Boomerang Tapping Technique
In loving memory of Hypatia Kelly-Butte. Although we never had the chance to meet in person, energetically there was a deep trust connection between us that allowed you to take me with you through your past and present realities. For me, it will always be a place of honor and respect. I send you love and gratitude for you having lived as long as you needed to leave your mark on our collective consciousness. May you bask in the glow of ete al love and light, and may your heart recognize unbridled joy throughout ete ity.
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The Unwanted Afterbirth: Depression
I have long wondered why there was such a mixed bag of experiences for women post postpartum. How is it that some women get depressed and why others do not? Is it really just an unbalanced internal chemical mix that happens randomly, or are there contributing emotional factors that give one the propensity to not be able to handle what is normally a natural hormonal shift in the body after delivery?
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The Energy Game of TOOLS & RULES
The 'Game of Life' …is an ‘Energy Game’ …between the Tools & the Rules of ENERGY! Your TOOLS began at conception with 23 pairs of chromo-somal (light-body) memory banks that evolved into your 23 Spirit Life-force organ/gland energy systems' (tools) for you to play your Game of Life. To win ...
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Human Solution begin with Clarity for Energetic Reality
Human Solution begin with Clarity for Energetic Reality The 21st Century began, appropriately, with the Year of the Dragon (from the Chinese calendar), which symbolizes getting rid of everything that no longer serves you in your life. It began a time of massive change in our world, challenging ...
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The Ways of The Spirit and The Ways of The Dragon
No matter the Question, the Answer’s the same--its all about Energy; its life’s only Game! The ways of the Spirit, as opposed to the ways of the dragon, are all important matters …for which clarity gives you the ability to fulfill your life through decisions/actions that create a healthy body, ...
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Consciousness: The Only Elegant Solution
Your consciousness in the moment of decision is what always makes the difference with everything in your life, including the health of your body, the success of your business, and the quality of your relationships! This is true because Consciousness determines the quality of all your decisions, ...
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How Organ/Gland Wisdom Solves Life & Body Problems
How Organ/Gland Wisdom Solves Life & Body Problems n(Its all about Dancing With Your Dragons) Are you confused about your Life, Body & Business problems? Where did they come from? Would you like to know how your daily unconscious decisions create/maintain your Life, Body (health), Business ...
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Coping With the Now
COPING WITH THE NOW DIANA MOORE Does it seem like you are under more stress than usual? Does it seem like time is speeding up, leaving you with less hours in a day to accomplish the things you need to do? If you answered “yes,” you are not alone. I myself feel like I am living with one foot in the fourth dimension, one foot in the fifth dimension and under the umbrella of Satu and sometimes Pluto. Now, what does all of this mean? The word “dimension” means concept or aspect. At one time, the concept of the planet was that the earth was flat.
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WHAT YOU ALWAYS WANTED TO KNOW ABOUT KUDALINI ENERGY BUT WERE AFRAID TO ASK
I define Kudalini Energy as that life force energy associated with the chakra centers. It is that life force energy that begins the moment we take our first breath and according to Eastern philosophy lies coiled at the root chakra (base of the spine) until uncoiled). It is the energy from creator source moving through your chakra centers downward to the creative source in Mother Earth and back up again to the creator source. It is my opinion that we, as humans, work with the kudalini energy every day but for many of us, we are not aware of it.
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The Reason John Edwards Does Not Do House Clearings Or How To Get Rid Of Unwanted Ghosts
First, I want to point out that the opinions expressed in this article are not those of John Edwards and John Edwards is not associated with this article in any way. The information expressed in this article is strictly that of the author. If you feel that you have a ghost or spirit in your ...
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