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ARTArticleDoing it Diffe
tlyWhen I was younger, I always knew that I wanted to be two things in life: a teacher and a mom. The first came true for me as I taught swimming throughout my high school and university summers. In 1991, after three long years of trying, I finally realized my dream of being a mom! Giving birth to ...ARTArticleDon't Depend on Someone Else to Make You HappyI would like talk about any of you who may be in their 30's or 40's and have never been married and are yearning to settle down and get married and start a family.
Are you frustrated because you can't seem to find Miss Right? Are you longing to be a father? Have you lost hope that you will ...ARTArticleDon't Jump into a Relationshiop Too Quickly!I’ve done it myself. I’ve seen women do it after a week. It feels like the right thing to do, the easiest thing to do, yet it’s actually self-sabotaging and risky. The “thing” I’m referring to is jumping into a relationship with someone too soon - - putting all your eggs in one basket.
Have you ever met someone and after one or two dates you felt like there was a potential for him to be your soul-mate so you stopped responding to anyone else who was interested in you? If so, you’re risking your ability have a loving, lasting relationship with the right man.ARTArticleDon’t Let Your Belief-System Hurt You & Sabotage Your RelationshipsIt is being said that having a belief-system is good: it is something which directs you; guides your actions; motivates you to know how to go about feel you know how to move forward with life. But if your belief-system controls your attitudes and behviors without you being aware of it, you are in danger of sabotaging your relationships.ARTArticleDon’t Sabotage Your Relationship! Become Aware of What You Do – and Change!WHY DO YOU FAIL TO DEVELOP A SUCCESSFUL INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP?
If you have been trying for quite some time now to find a partner with whom to develop a satisfying relationship but in vain, or are having continuous problems with your partner, there is probably something you do wrong. Apparently you are sabotaging your attempts at relationships without even knowing that you do!
Becoming aware of how you sabotage your relationships enables you to make the necessary changes and to embark on the road to a successful relationship.
Let’s take Mary as an example:ARTArticleEasy Ways to Improve Your Baby's IntelligenceAfter a baby is born, her brain and her nervous system get to work learning about how her body works and the world that she live in. Despite the fact that a newbo
sleeps quite a lot of her day, a baby's brain and nervous system are incredibly busy. If fact, from birth to 2½ years old, a ...ARTArticleEffects of Exposure to Domestic Violence From Childhood to Adult LifeOne of the many problems for children exposed to domestic violence, is that for some, it comes to be included amongst their own interpersonal management strategies.
Children exposed to domestic violence learn the use of violence as a strategy to mediate their needs and wants. They see the ...ARTArticleENERGY CLEARINGHow do you know you need an energy clearing?ARTArticleEnjoy More, Maintain LessEnjoy More, Maintain Less
With the emphasis on home and garden this month, it's easy to feel as though you spend more time maintaining your home than enjoying it, right? And chances are you've also felt that way about your relationship. The words — muttered or screamed — go something like, "My God, can't we be civil long enough to enjoy one measly weekend?"ARTArticleENTITIESGhosts, spirits and entities are everywhere. They can show up in your car on the way home from the grocery store or follow you home and into your apartment. Entities feed off the energy of us live wires. Yes they use our energy to exist. No they are not like vampires in that they suck our blood. However, they do use our life force.rARTArticleEscape Your Dysfuntional FamilyJump the Pond
Every one was raised in a particular pond: Their home, their community. And in that pond, the fish tend to look alike and swim in schools of similar fish. The pond becomes familiar; it is what the person knows. It is the sum of their experience. It is their normal, even if polluted.ARTArticleEver Expanding LoveLove is such an amazingly simple, elegant and universal expression of the very nature of life itself. It is present in every life-giving heartbeat and intrinsic in nebulas swirling with potential in far distant galaxies. It is felt in the beauty of each sunrise and in the gentle embrace of a smile. It is the sublime connection that does more than connect. It is the essence of all that we experience and in that which we have yet to imagine. Love knows no bounds and creates no conditions. It is what it is.ARTArticleEx-Wife In The WayDoctor:
I am what I thought was the best-possible relationship but now wonder what happened.
I have been with this man for 1 1/2 years. He has been separated from the mother of his two children (never married to her) now for 2 years, yet she continues to be very present in our relationship. ...ARTArticleFail to Plan, Plan to Fail! How to Manifest your Vision for 2007Why would you set off on a Journey without a map, plan, and vision of where you want to end up?
Adventure you say…Well that's like closing your eyes and just hoping you will hit the bull's-eye in darts, when you really, really WANT to hit the center. Adventure may be fun when you have nothing ...ARTArticleFalling in Love Too FastThe feeling of falling in love is of the most exciting, thrilling and life changing events. Falling in love can change your entire outlook on life. Falling in love can occupy your mind and seem to take away all of life's problems. However, falling in love can bring about a serious problem of ...ARTArticleFalling in Love Too FastThe feeling of falling in love is of the most exciting, thrilling and life changing events. Falling in love can change your entire outlook on life. Falling in love can occupy your mind and seem to take away all of life's problems. However, falling in love can bring about a serious problem of ...ARTArticleFind What Makes You HappyHi
I recently came across your article on “sabotaging relationships” through an Internet search and I really found it helpful. I’m writing to you because of my current situation. I am 31 years old and have grown up in a very religious community. Everything is judged superficially; family, ...ARTArticleFive Suggestions For Releasing Painful Relationship MemoriesDo you find yourself remembering how great it used to be? Perhaps it’s the memory of a loved one, or the hurtful memory attached to betrayal from someone you trusted. The pain won’t seem to lessen over time. What do you do with this emotional burden? How do you release this crippling memory that keeps you from loving or trusting again?ARTArticleFriendships and False HopesHey Doc:
I was going out with this 24-year-old girl for about 3 months. We enjoyed our time together but she fell for me pretty hard. Since it was only 3 months, I believe that her feelings were mostly infatuation, but I'm not sure now.
I panicked and broke up with her because I don't think ...ARTArticleGame-Playing GirlfriendHi Dr. Neder,
I read some of your articles and your advice is great. I just recently hooked up with a girl that actually picked me up at club. She really liked me a lot and for the first few weeks, I played hard to get with her. She wanted to get me settled down and kind of coerced me into a ...ARTArticleGet a Romantic Date by using Alpha male Body languageGetting a date tonight and even a romantic date is possible for men who understand and master the alpha male body language tricks. This is possible if they can use good seduction tips to help them to be able to attract any woman whom they desire. To help you seduce an erotic partner and beautiful women, this article will discuss how you can use alpha male body language to get a date.ARTArticleGetting Kids Out Of The Cross FireGetting Kids Out Of The Cross Fire
Heaven help those children whose separated parents are involved in a litigious parenting dispute. Not only might the children have to contend with possible sub-standard parenting as often alleged in various forms, but many children are also subject to the ...ARTArticleGetting Past Your PastDr. Neder, n
I came across your articles on the Internet and thought I’d write for some advice. The short story is this: I was sexually abused throughout most of my younger years. Now, as I start to cope with this as a 32 year old man, I have found a 22 year old woman with whom I share many ...ARTArticleGetting the Ex BackHey Dennis!
I read one of your replies to a question and thought your response was excellent. Could you please could you help with this one?
I was in a relationship with my ex for just over a year, when we first started dating. I was finding it very hard to get her out on dates. She is a very ...ARTArticleGetting to Know Yourself is the Best Way to Succeed in Developing a Satisfying Intimate RelationshipIf you are single and on the dating scene wishing to find a partner with whom to develop a successful relationship, you have probably listened to and practiced many dating-tips you read in advice columns, found on the internet and received from friends, such as:
* Write the perfect profile
* Enrol on several internet sites
* Develop communication skills
* Learn how to listen
* Make a list of what you are looking for in a partner
* Go on as many dates as you can
*Don’t try to show the best “you” on first dateARTArticleGo OrdersYou may have heard in the media recently that people who are suspected of abusing their partner could be removed from there homes by the police. This is part of the government’s proposals to manage the rising domestic violence situation in the UK. The government will be implementing its Domestic Violence and Abuse Go Orders proposals as a year-long pilot scheme in Greater Manchester, Wiltshire and West Mercia commencing summer 2011.ARTArticleGoal Setting for Kids – 1 Parenting Tip and 1 Strategy That Help Kids Accomplish Their GoalsGoal setting with pictures fit together like laughter and fun. Both end with feelings of joy and contentment. Yet many grown-ups don’t experience this. They fail to turn their dreams into goals. Don’t let this become your child’s fate. Childhood is the best time to teach your child the tools for ...ARTArticleGoing Through HellHey Doc:
My fiancé just left me about a week ago she says she needs to find her self and figure out what she wants. We were together for just over 3 years and have our problems like any relationship. I have a hard time expressing my deep feelings and at times I am independent and distant I ...ARTArticleGoing Through HellHey Doc:
My fiancé just left me about a week ago she says she needs to find her self and figure out what she wants. We were together for just over 3 years and have our problems like any relationship. I have a hard time expressing my deep feelings and at times I am independent and distant I ...ARTArticleGrief and Loss of Relationship in Marriage Counseling: Tips to Work Through the Five Stages in the Relationship Breakup.Haven’t we all felt the pit in our stomach, the disbelief it’s happening, feeling pissed off, calling up to get back together, and the sadness, when we go through the loss of a romantic relationship that we cared a lot about? Elizabeth Kubler-Ross wrote originally about these stages in terms of death, though they apply to intimate relationships as well. I’ll be adding information from my own reading and counseling experience in helping individuals through the process of relationship breakup.