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ARTArticleSingle & Dating? Note that People Who Are Separated or “In the Process” Might Not Be “Available” for a Serious RelationshipIf you are taking part in the dating scene you have probably met many who claim to be in the process of divorce/separation or declare that they have just recently separated. Agreeing to go out with them under the assumption that a satisfying relationship might develop is, in most likelihood, a wishful thinking, ending up in your being frustrated, angry at yourself, disillusioned and alone. Taking care of your own self-development is a time better spent than going out with them.
WHY IS IT BETTER FOR YOU TO NOT GO OUT WITH PEOPLE WHO ARE JUST SEPARATED OR “IN THE PROCESS”?ARTArticleSingle Man's Guide to Getting Over RelationshipsBreak-ups in relationships are never easy and it's worse when you are the one who gets dumped.
So, what's the best way to get over someone and get back in the dating scene? Here are some tips:
1. I highly recommend taking a dating break. Stay away from nromance and the dating scene for awhile. ...ARTArticleSolving Relationship Problems with the Help of a Life CoachProblems exist in all relationships. Not even the strongest relationships between individuals with who are very understanding of each other are free from it. A relationship may have problems as soon as it has started, or may develop slowly over time. Initially, some of these problems may start out small. As time goes by, these petty problems may develop into something that cannot be ignored.
Unfortunately, even relationships that start out strong and have lasted for some time can abruptly end due to these problems that were not mutually solved.ARTArticleSome Women Get Mad When You Say "No"!Hi Doc!
Why is it that when women turn men down for sex, they expect us to be understanding and caring, and when men turn women down, they flip out??
Here's the situation: I broke up with a girl I had been with, but have been able to remain minor friends. I know you don't think that's a ...ARTArticleStill Single? Stop Justifying Your Failures! Gain Self-Awareness and Develop a Successful RelationshipINTRODUCTION
If you have been failing in your relationships time and again, you might have resorted to self-manipulations to justify to yourself why you fail. Instead of doing so, become aware of the true reasons behind your failures – and learn how to succeed!
JUSTIFICATION YOU USE
If you have been on the dating scene for quite a long time and haven’t yet had success in developing a satisfying relationship, it is very likely that you find different ways to justify it. You might be telling yourself that:
* “It is all because of him/her”;ARTArticleStop Sabotaging Your Relationships! Learn How and Develop a Successful IntimacyIf you desire to have a satisfying intimate relationship but haven’t been successful until now, you can probably “predict”, your chances at success next time around based on your past experiences. In all likelihood, if you have failed until now, there is no reason to believe you will succeed next time – unless you make changes vital for a successful relationship. But as long as you are NOT aware of what makes you fail, how would you know what you need to change in order to succeed?
EXAMPLES OF MEN AND WOMEN SABOTAGING THEIR RELATIONSHIPSARTArticleStrong Women, Submissive WomenDo you know a sexy, strong woman at your place of work? Perhaps she’s a manager or business owner. Maybe she’s a salesperson that works with your company or she represents a vendor. Do you want to know a little secret about her? She’s very likely demure and submissive in the bedroom!
What’s ...ARTArticleSuffering Unleashes GoodnessA few weeks ago I was talking with one of my patients about his recent release from the hospital where he was treated for a major infection. He was telling me he had to get home to cook the turkey for Thanksgiving. He was bringing the meal to his elderly parents, his mother is recovering from her second bout of breast cancer and his dad is currently struggling with the effects of Leukemia. Joe also mentioned that he invited a few of his workers to dinner as he knew they had nowhere else to go for the holiday as their families were far away.ARTArticleSummer Freedom - Letting go of ControlWatching butterflies, going for a run and singing (out loud) to the music, the sun beaming down from a clear blue sky with my hair blowing in the wind cruising in my convertible. Just a few of the many experiences of summer freedom that I enjoy.
It’s July, and the kids are on vacation with a ...ARTArticleTalk is Cheap – Learn to Do It Right!Dear Dr. Neder,
I saw your articles on the Internet and was hoping that you would give me some advice. My ex-boyfriend broke up with me almost five months ago. He and I were friends for a few years before we dated, and we dated for about 11 months. What bothered him most (as far as he would ...ARTArticleThe 10 Most Common Relationship & Communication TriggersAs a relationship specialist over the past 15+ years I have coached lots of people in person and on the phone to have better intimacy and communication in their personal, as well as in their business relationships. Here are some of the most common ways I have found that you may trigger each other in your relationships today. In the next issue I will share with you what to do differently so you do not cause upset.
1. Starting a conversation by pointing the finger at someone and accusing them of something.
2. Using “You” Language to blame someone.ARTArticleThe Adventures of Babadooga: Back to BigThe Adventures of Babadooga: Back to Big written by Kristin Hamilton and illustrated by Noemi Faludi Varga was written for kids and kids at heart.ARTArticleThe Curse of Positive ThinkingThere is a widespread idea in the self-development and spiritual communities that you should focus only on what you want to create and turn your attention away from the obstacles. I was reading The Science of Getting Rich by Wallace Wattles which is really a brilliant book published in 1910. He mentions that you should focus your unwavering thoughts on what you want to create and let the challenges and negative things become obsolete and disappear by themselves. This is something to be very careful about.ARTArticleThe Farmer's MilkHello,
I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 11 months. Just the other day he tells me that he thinks we should just remain friends and nothing more. Two days later he called me and we talked about our relationship and he told me that I do make him happy and he enjoys our ...ARTArticleThe First Few Years Of SchoolThe First Few Years Of School
As a preschooler, your child was well behaved and didn’t exhibit any particular problems. Next your child enters school, perhaps Kindergarten, and then Grade one. Slowly issues with some classes and subjects appear. Maybe they are thought nothing of in Grade one, ...ARTArticleThe Five of CupsEach day I draw a card for my own Meditation and Guidance. Today I drew the 5 of Cups tarot card from the "Deviant Moon" Tarot, by Phillip Valenza. The Deck was a gift that I received last night. I thought it was perfect timing for the "Crow Moon".ARTArticleThe Girl at WorkDear Dr. Neder:
I have liked a woman at my work for sometime now. We were out with others from work one evening and I admitted to her how I felt after getting a little drunk. She was perfectly sober since she was the designated driver. At the same time, she told me that she was also attracted ...ARTArticleThe Granddaddy of All New Years ResolutionsThe Granddaddy of All New Years Resolutions
What if you really needed only one New Years resolution?
It could be the granddaddy of all resolutions and cover off all things from more time with the kids to quitting smoking and even saving money. Well, there is one such resolution and it comes ...ARTArticleThe Harsh Reality - She's a Prostitute!Dr Neder,
I read on a website that you try to answer your email and I'm begging for some of your expert advice please. I am in serous need of some help because a girl I had really strong feelings for and with whom I've had a very close relationship and I have just had a crisis.
About 1 1/2 ...ARTArticleThe Journey of Unconditional LoveThe journey of life takes a new direction when we become aware of the power of unconditional love residing within our heart every moment. This awareness begins a new approach to life that leads to personal peace, natural harmony and genuine inner wealth. It also changes the very fabric of society as we begin to consciously express this unlimited love. Everything and everyone is noticeably affected by this energy as we move through our daily life with each step and encounter with one another.ARTArticleThe Joy of Parenting...Teens!I used to be one of them; a self-centered, sometimes ornery, disrespectful and challenging teenager! I’m not saying that I am proud of my behaviour of over 30 years ago…it was what it was! Having my own experiences to base my parenting on, it stands to reason that my expectations would be that ...ARTArticleThe Lighter Side of StressThe Lighter side of Stress
We feel it, we say it, we live it, we affirm it and we teach it…life is stressful, right?
We’re so busy running on life’s treadmill, worried about our kids, work, finances, world issues, our health and relationships. Rushing in the morning to work to meetings and ...ARTArticleThe Magic of a 5 to 10 Second KissARTArticleThe Magic of the ApproachHave you ever seen a magician at a party walking around doing close-up magic? Everyone seems fascinated by it – even if the magician isn’t that good. There are probably just as many people hoping the performer will flop as those that are fascinated by it.
This brings me to an interesting way to ...ARTArticleThe Older WomanHey Doc:
I'm 21 years old and this girl that I've been talking to is turning 28 pretty soon. This girl has been really down on the dumps with personal problems, losing family members, etc. and we've been keeping each other "company" if you will.
I want more than that however. I have a feeling ...ARTArticleThe Power of The Akashic RecordsThe Akashic Records are a vibrational record of every soul's journey from the point of origin. Within the records all the experiences throughout each soul's inca
ations are recorded. Every thought, word, deed, emotion and event is scribed upon the ethers. Each soul has its own Akashic Records, like a series of books with each book representing one lifetime. The Hall (or Library) of Akashic Records is where all souls' Akashic Records are stored energetically.ARTArticleThe Pre-Marital Toilet TestThe Pre-Marital Toilet Test
We enter marriage with hopes, aspirations and faith. When marital discord strikes we are overcome with disillusionment. A year into the marriage, the notion of “tell death do us part”, smacks us in the face like a glass of cold water.
Not only do we enter into ...ARTArticleThe Problem: InertiaDear Dr. Dennis:
I’ve read a number of your articles where you talk about having “game” (the ability to meet women, get numbers, etc.) Unfortunately, I don’t have any! I’m more of a home-type person who wants to get out and do more with life but a lot of times I find it difficult to do. It ...ARTArticleThe Reality of “Being Friends”Hi Doctor,
I am getting to know a Christian girl. We have been going out for almost two months and I told her that I like her. In the beginning she told me that she was not interested in a relationship right now but was ok with being friends and she continues to go out with me. She answers my ...ARTArticleThe Relationship betwee
Self Harm and StigmaSelf injury or self harm, generally speaking, is a wider range of different things individuals do to themselves which is either in a deliberate or hidden way. It includes burning, cutting, banging the body against hard objects, pulling the hairs, scalding, biting, poisoning, and inserting or swallowing objects. However the harm is done, it still is damaging not only physically but also emotionally for both the person self harming and their loved ones.
SELF HARM AWARENESS