Category

Success Skills

Browse the success skills library by topic first, then narrow into articles, websites, videos, or events.

Topics

Success Skills Topics

Like the legacy category pages, start with the full topic folder list. The selected lane controls where each topic opens.

View Success Skills experts
Topic clicks are currently scoped to Everything. Choose Articles, Websites, Videos, or Events to open that resource type for every topic below.

Everything

Success Skills Resources

Browse a compact directory list below, or use the topic folders above for a focused legacy-style path.

30 resources

ARTArticleLaughter for Stress ReliefSummer is here, our days are packed full and we often become stressed. We sometimes have so much going on we think there's no time to laugh and have fun. Wrong! There is good news! Smiling and laughter are really good for your health! And the more you do them the better! From biblical ...ARTArticleLeaders Are Proactive, Not ReactiveHave you ever been in a situation where you saw a leader take a specific action, yet you had no idea "why" or "how" the leader decided to take that specific action? Well, I have too! That's why I decided to study various leaders that I have worked with over 22 years and before long, I started to get insights into why leaders do what they do. More importantly, I started to understand that what a leader does is much deeper than the specific action he takes.ARTArticleLeaders Go Above and Beyond - Go the Extra Mile!Have you ever been in a situation where you saw a leader take a specific action, yet you had no idea "why" or "how" the leader decided to take that specific action? Well, I have too! That's why I decided to study various leaders that I have worked with over 22 years and before long, I started to get insights into why leaders do what they do. More importantly, I started to understand that what a leader does is much deeper than the specific action he takes.ARTArticleLeaders Take Action!Have you ever been in a situation where you saw a leader take a specific action, yet you had no idea "why" or "how" the leader decided to take that specific action? Well, I have too! That's why I decided to study various leaders that I have worked with over 22 years and before long, I started to get insights into why leaders do what they do.ARTArticleLeadership is an Affair of the Heart and MindCollaborative Leadership is a partnership between the head and the heart, or the mind and the heart. It begins at this level before you can collaborate with other people. Gone are the days when people were willing to be dominated and controlled. I’m not saying that fear can no longer be used to manipulate people. What I am saying is it doesn’t have the stronghold it once did, in that people are now looking for engagement. They want inspiration and meaning; they want a reason to get out of bed in the morning.ARTArticleLeadership: Inspiring Others is Only the First StepOur leadership “true potential” is not realized simply by inspiring others or feeling inspired or just having more information. Knowledge is not really power until it is applied. Recognition or an “aha” are only nice, interesting tidbits until you muster up the courage to make the change. Courage is a funny thing; it does not mean the absence of fear. It is primarily an intention to feel fear, but to go ahead and proceed anyway. Understanding the source of FEAR—mostly Fictitious Evidence Affecting Reality in our brain—can help to alleviate it.ARTArticleLeading Change: Emotion Can Make or Break the Best Laid LogicLeading change can be tricky because not only does it take courage to innovate, it takes courage to breach subjects that make “stuck” cultures… well, stuck! There has been a tacit agreement in business culture to avoid addressing emotion/feelings at all costs. Yet, it is this very issue that creates dysfunctional teams that lead to financial waste and lack of employee engagement. It is also not good for change and innovation. Why? Until we address what creates “fear of change”—perceptions about feelings and emotion—we have essentially hit the proverbial brick wall.ARTArticleLearn From Your MistakeA mistake, no matter how large or how small, is still a mistake. It doesn’t matter if it happened on a personal or a professional level; you have to learn how to recoup from it. If you are a perfectionist, this is a bitter lesson to learn, you are human. Some people mentally beat themselves up, and have a problem getting past the mistake they made. Sometimes we are harder on ourselves than an utter stranger would be. Here are some tips for rebounding from what you might feel as the worst mistake ever:ARTArticleLearn How the Mind and Body Works with the Five Psychological Phases of FitnessWhether you are a military special operations soldier, an athlete, or just a regular person seeking to lose weight, all groups experience similar personal obstacles. Those who succeed in their training programs learn to conquer self-doubt. That is the key to fitness! Every day, excited people ...ARTArticleLearn Key ConceptsEfficiency: Getting things done right. Effectiveness: Getting the right things done. Capital intensive: Requiring lots of money to accomplish. Labor intensive: Requiring lots of work to accomplish. Quality: Not what you put into a thing; what somebody else gets out of it. Emergency: A time ...ARTArticleLeave beautiful love on your heartLOVE CREATES MIRACLES Where there is great love, there are always miracles, penned Willa Cather. LOVE IS WHERE YOUR HEART IS This is certainly true of Adeline Yeo who decided that to follow her true love she would paint from the heart – the core of our loving nature and of love. Adeline follows her true love and puts to work love in action. LOVE AND SKILL CREATE MASTERPIECES John Ruskin said – when love and skill work together, expect a masterpiece. JOU EY TO LOVErARTArticleLeave It AloneFirst thing in the morning a couple of days ago, I took my laptop (still very new and shiny) in Starbucks to do a little writing. I sat down with my big mug o’ steaming Jo and just as I was taking my first sip a member of staff came up to me, leaned in and said, ‘I just wanted to say sorry. What ...ARTArticleLessons From PiratesA good deal of my time and effort is devoted to thinking about leadership and teams. It is always fun to find great examples of exceptional groups and to understand how they became that way. Lately I’ve been reading about pirates and how they organized themselves. At first that might seem odd, ...ARTArticleLet Go Of Regret“I am still not all I should be, but I am focusing all my energies on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead.”- Saint Paulnnn Perhaps you have heard the story of the man who owned an old hunting dog that fell gravely ill. He loaded up his lifeless companion ...ARTArticleLetting Go Of "What Your Know' Management ThinkingLETTING GO OF ‘WHAT YOU KNOW’ MANAGEMENT THINKINGnBy Bill Cottringer What It’s All About It’s not about— How smart you are, Who you know, Where you’ve been, Or what you have; It’s not about you, Or what you’ve done, Or left undone. Here’s what it’s about: Your silent surrender— The ...ARTArticleLeverage your inherent skill-set + promo ideas that will rock your businessjuicy ideas + savvy ingenuity = marketing power.ARTArticleLeveraging the Power of LinkedIn to Find New ClientsSocial networks are a great tool to leverage when you need to find new clients for business but some social networks are much more effective at helping you find new clients than others, take LinkedIn for example. Unlike the odd bunch you find on Facebook usually there to have fun and interact with their friends, LinkedIn is a business-oriented social network people join in order to make business connections and find new opportunities in their fields of endeavor. LinkedIn: One of the best small business resources to discover new business opportunitiesrARTArticleLife Is a StairwayI often wonder what sentence or phrase would best describe life. This to me sums it up; life is like a stairway. Only YOU can determine where your stairway will lead. Some days you can climb to the top, some days you can only climb a couple of stairs, while other days you don’t climb any at all. Each stair represents family, friends, career and situations. Each stair also represents beautiful places that you visited. Each stair is about the sharing and gratitude that go along with life. It’s about the rainbows in life; the smiles, the laughter and the tears.ARTArticleLight Their FiresLIGHT THEIR FIRESnby William Cottringe nn Knowing how to motivate employees is an important part of any supervisor’s toolbox. Fortunately you don’t have to be a psychologist to be an effective motivator. All you have to do is apply practical people principles in a common sense way. Below ...ARTArticleLighten Up To Find The AnswersA Break From Problems Can Be The Best Solutio The best way to solve overwhelming problems may be to quit thinking about them. Are you so overwhelmed by problems that you feel you can't get your life in order? Do your attempts to pray or meditate just make you feel more frustrated? Do you ...ARTArticleLittle Things Count Most in Getting a JobLittle Things Count Most in Getting a JobnBy Bill Cottringer. A long time ago I discovered an extremely useful concept called perturbation point, or just "P" point for short. These are the little critical things you can do to get the biggest results. The following checklist has the little ...ARTArticleLittle Things That Can Help a Good Relationship Stay That WayLittle Things That Can Help a Good Relationship Stay That Way By Bill Cottringer “A man's sense of self is defined through his ability to achieve results; a woman's sense of self is defined through her feelings and the quality of her relationships.” ~John Gray.ARTArticleLive for Today, Leave a Legacy for TomorrowMany people have the notion of legacy as being a gift of money or an estate left for their dear ones or someone else. While this is definitely a part of your legacy, it is not the entire picture. A legacy will also include what you impart to the future generation, including things like your ideas, philosophy, your accomplishments, and also your money.ARTArticleLiving your BEST life!Planning to live your BEST life! Most people spend more time planning their vacation, their 50th birthday party or their wedding rather than taking the time to plan their lives. Be thoughtful about your life....ask yourself:nnhow am I meant to live? What am I meant to do? What things will I no ...ARTArticleLooking For SuccessWith the drop in the job market people are looking for other ways to be successful. Sometimes people look at what others are doing in their profession and consider changing their own, they might look at a different trade, or they might go to school to further their education. People look at their options for success. A lot of times people look at what others are doing to try to imitate it thinking they can become successful as well.ARTArticleLots of Choices Don’t Always Make Us HappierWe’ve all heard the phrase “less is more” (in fact I’ve written about this concept previously), but how many of us actually practice that philosophy? It sure seems as though the world (or at least the United States) is going in the opposite direction – we’ve got supersized grocery stores with dozens of choices for each food category; enormous home-improvement stores with aisle after aisle of products; hundreds of television stations from which to choose; the list goes on and on. But do all these choices improve our quality of life?ARTArticleLove and hurt go hand in hand but that should not stop us loving. Two ways to approach loveYou can’t love without getting hurt! There is no doubt that when a relationship comes to an end, the one who did not want the relationship to end will feel hurt. Even during a relationship when we experience disappointment we may also feel hurt. At these times we should think how we can be more trusting, caring, loving and forgiving. Here are two examples of love and how to approach love. Khadijah, the first wife of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH)rARTArticleLove Story – Experience of loveMARVELOUS MYSTERY OF LOVE For a long time I have been dwelled in understanding this mystery. FAHM O SHAOOR Really love is beyond all the so-called fahm o shaoor. Fahm o shaoor means the realizing of wiseness in Urdu. It means the realization of wiseness or in this case a greater realization about love. Fahm o Shaoor means the way of understanding. LOVE IS … Love is so indescribable. It's a feeling that you've come home. It's this thing called love! LOVING LARGE It's bigger than us, isn't it? TWO BECOME ONE – I BECOMES YOUrARTArticleLoving The Body You Have: Three Simple StepsLoving the Body You Have: Three Simple Secrets 1. Put Moving Your Body as Your Top Priorityn2. Eat Like a French Woma 3. Learn What Not to Wear Some people, such as my son, have an athletic soul. He works out and plays sports as an essential part of his daily regimen. He knows the ...ARTArticleLoving You Is Killing Me: When Divorcing Your Family Is A Noble SolutionThis book is on my “To Do” list, but it will be based on this Bill of Rights. My Bill of Rights 1. I am Sacred Space and so is everyone else. 2. I deserve to be treated with respect every single second by myself and everyone else. 3. I get to be angry, but I do not get to treat myself or ...

Page 71 of 1,695