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ARTArticleWHAT REALLY HAPPENED IN THE GARDEN OF EDEN?WHAT REALLY HAPPENED IN THE GARDEN OF EDEN? BynBill Cottringe n“Adam and Eve are like an imaginary number, like the square root of minus one... If you include it in your equation, you can calculate all manners of things, which cannot be imagined without it.” ~Philip Pullman. I have been ...ARTArticleWhat Story are you Enacting?What Story are you Enacting? How much of your life is directed from the foundation of unexamined mythology? What if we are all enacting some sort of story in our lives? Now what do I mean by story? I mean that we have some vision, set of ideas, or beliefs about ourselves that define us as a ...ARTArticleWhat to Do If You are Afraid of Being FiredIf you hear or are told outright by your employer that some jobs have to go and yours “might” be one of them, what can you do about it? It’s a worrying prospect for many who rely on their regular income to cover mortgages, car loans, school fees, food bills, and all the other expenses of ...ARTArticleWhat You Are Made OfWhat makes us the kind of person that we are today? It is a number of things! Who we are is a combination of our past, present and future thoughts and actions. Let’s look at it more closely. Your past-regardless if you had a great childhood with only minor struggles or if you had a hard life, it molded you into the kind of person that you are today. By molding I mean it taught you compassion, love, understanding and taught you the value of everything. At a young age you can see what you have that others might not have or vice versa.ARTArticleWhat You Are Wanting Is Wanting You.I have heard those words so many times and always find them to be so comforting. On the weekend, I went to several garden centres, to pick up lots of beautiful trees, vines, herbs and flowering plants for my balcony garden. I have been wanting to purchase a PASSION FLOWER plant for some time ...ARTArticleWhat You Need to Know to be Successful in AnythingIf you desire to be successful in anything - and I mean anything, be it business, career, relationship - here are the two most important principles you must know!nn(1) Successful people are those who do the things other people are either unwilling or unable to do - or both.nn(2) Successful ...ARTArticleWhat You Tolerate Can Hurt Your BusinessYou may be aware of them, you may not be. In any case, chances are high that even if you are aware of them, you probably don’t realize the negative impact they are having on your business. What are they? Things you are tolerating in your work environment. Anything you are tolerating is ...ARTArticleWhat's the Difference?I was driving to work as I usually do during the week. When I do, I look at the signs and businesses that line the roads and streets on which I drive. During this particular drive, I asked myself a quite common question and in doing so, revealed in myself the fatal flaw in my thinking. The fatal ...ARTArticleWhen All Is Said And DoneWHEN ALL IS SAID AND DONEnBy Bill Cottringe n What remains when all is said and done? Take away all the additions, subtractions and changes we make to life with our thinking, perceptions and reactions and what remains is the 5% truth making up our personal success quest. Hidden away in that ...ARTArticleWhen All You Can Do Is WaitThere are so many things that happen on a daily basis to add to your stress level. A new project just landed on your desk, the school called, new bills in the mail, and you are waiting for that important phone call or letter.ARTArticleWhen Food Is LoveDo you eat to live or live to eat? We all have a relationship with food and it can represent much more than nourishment to keep our bodies alive and healthy. Take a look at your eating habits. Do you eat just the right amount of nutritious food to maintain a healthy weight, to feel good, and live your day energetically? Do you have favorite comfort foods that you reach for when unhappy or feeling off center? Do you know when you are eating to provide emotional nourishment?ARTArticleWhen love comes together – the love of son, daughter-in-law and motherA touching true story of love I would like to share a true story about my mother. ENGLISH DOWRY We are one of the rare English families to get a daughter-in-law with a dowry. WE ARE NOT AMUSED Brother number 1 wanted to marry a Gujarati girl but her family were not amused. DANGEROUS DATE However, Gujarati girl wanted to marry him, so her family summ/ned my Mum and (Step) Dad for an interview/interrogation. UNCOMFORTABLE DISCOMFORT After hours of interrogation from many family members – they agreed subject to some conditions. LASTING IMPRESSIONSrARTArticleWHEN TO FISH OR CUT BAIT?WHEN TO FISH OR CUT BAIT? By Bill Cottringe n“Adopt the pace of nature; her secret is patience.” ~Ralph Waldo Emerson. One of the hardest places to locate intellectually and emotionally is getting to the comfort zone where you can make the right decision to fish or cut bait—to continue ...ARTArticleWhen You Are A Different EnergyWe all have opened up a door or two that should have stayed closed. It’s equivalent to dating an old boyfriend/girlfriend, the feelings just aren’t the same. This happens because the energy’s do not mix well.ARTArticleWhile You Were GoneWhile you were gone the kids grew an inch taller. While you were gone the air grew smoggier. While you were gone the washer went out. While you were gone the cat snuck out. While you were gone that old car finally gave out. While you were gone I tried that recipe. While you were gone I still talk to you each day. While you were gone I still feel you next to me at church. While you were gone Tommy caught his first fish. While you were gone Lisa prayed for you to come back on a wish. While you were gone I have tried to stay strong. While you were gone I planted roses for you.rARTArticleWho Said PowerPoint Rules?“I want you to discuss your accomplishments in the meeting, but please — no more than four slides.” That was the directive given to my husband last week as he prepared for a company performance review meeting. I didn’t know whether to laugh or cry. When did PowerPoint become our default communication mode? I fear that someday soo I’ll sit down to have a conversation and be expected to launch my slides.ARTArticleWhy do you have a Facebook account? This is why I am on FACEBOOK AND SOCIAL MEDIATHE FIVE PILLARS Why are you on Facebook - do you really have clear reasons? I do. I have five strong reasons why I am on Facebook. They form the five pillars of my social media presence. You should think about why you do anything in this life - and the more good reasons you have the more likely you will use your time productively and to best effect. Facebook can be a boon and a benefit to your life and your life purpose if you know how to use it properly. A HAND IN FRIENDSHIP AND NETWORKINGrARTArticleWhy Facebook And LinkedIn Are Good For Your BusinessHave you been hearing all of the buzz about social networking? Feeling confused? Don’t worry, you’re not alone. The great news is that it isn’t as complicated or time consuming as it may seem. Plus, it’s more than just social; it’s good for your business to get involved. The list of social ...ARTArticleWhy You’ll Always Be Dissatisfied - And That’s Good News!At first glance that headline seems a bit controversial don’t you think? Well hopefully I’m going to convince you that not only is it accurate but by the end of this article you’ll accept it willingly.rARTArticleWinning In Lifen“Winning isn't everything, but the will to win is everything.” ~Vince Lombardi. After decades of mixed results—of both enjoying happiness and a sense of accomplishment in succeeding, and not enjoying the bruises, bumps, bleeding and broken bones of failing—I finally figured out a simple ...ARTArticleWinning PrinciplesWINNING PRINCIPLES By William Cottringer, Ph.D. nnn“Winning and success are what you get from doing what you do to get them.” n~The Author.n n I have been an avid student of the psychology of winning/success for four decades now—learning all the knowledge and skills that bring about ...ARTArticleWinter Solstice and The Art of Letting GoAs we move from the shortest day of the year to days getting longer, we move into the holiday season. Winter, though a time of reflection, moves into high gear with a lot of moving parts, people coming and going — and often times, a lot of stress. It’s an odd sort of conflict because energetically, the earth wants us to stay quiet, but our holidays want us to move around. We vacation, travel to parents and grandparents, dinner parties and events. It can be exhausting, though fun and exhilarating.ARTArticleWith Open Eyes and a Closed HeartPerfection, what is it really? Is it a designer dress or a designer bag or a face that is coated with a lot of designer make up? We can all have perfection if we had a pocket full of money that would be easy. Oprah’s phrase “if you have it, fix it” was totally taken out of context. It gives you the impression that if you have the money, fix whatever “society” feels you should look like.ARTArticleWithin You Lies All You NeedWithin is the person we really are. Within lies our very existence. And only from within can we make it happen. This is where our very all subsists. Within you is the ability, the “what it takes” to make it all happen for you, just the way you want it. WITHIN! WITHIN!! WITHIN!!! Oh what a place! ...Within is the person we really are. Within lies our very existence. And only from within can we make it happen. This is where our very all subsists. Within you is the ability, the “what it takes” to make it all happen for you, just the way you want it. WITHIN! WITHIN!! WITHIN!!! Oh what a place!ARTArticleWords and PerceivingPeople do not perceive primarily with their senses, but with their minds. Psychologist Egon Brunswik and others have shown that people often don’t see a thing unless they have some idea of what they are looking for. The reason for this may be biological. In On Intelligence, Jeff Hawkins and ...ARTArticleWords, language and writing by the one of the greatest innovators in the English language. 7 ways to put a zing in your writingThe greatest words and writing secrets by Virginia Woolf (Part 2) Woolf is considered one of the greatest innovators in the English language. 1. POWER WORDS: “When I cannot see words curling like rings of smoke round me I am in darkness—I am nothing.” Virginia Woolf Susan McKenzie: In the beginning was the word says the Hebrew Bible – words are powerful – make sure your words work for you. 2. RIGHT WRITING: “The most extraordinary thing about writing is that when you've struck the right vein, tiredness goes. It must be an effort, thinking wrong.” Virginia WoolfARTArticleWorrying, A Waste of TimeSometimes in life we face challenges. While some days go by with great ease, others are a bit of a struggle. We can say don’t stress over the small things, and some occasions that is easier said than done. We spend countless hours of our life worrying about things that we have no control over. We might get upset with what others say or do but we really have no control over any of it. If you get upset over bills or not having a job, you can only do what you have the means to do. If you have done all that you can, you should be at ease with that knowledge.ARTArticleWould You Benefit From Coaching? Take This Quiz And Find OutOne-to-One Coaching Questionnaire: How Much Would I Benefit? If you're contemplating coaching, simply fill out this quiz and see how much there is to gain from working with the Gay Guys Coach. Answer the questions below by ticking the appropriate box and calculating your score as ...ARTArticleWRESTLING WITH THE ULTIMATE CONFLICT: CONTRADICTORY PARADIGMSWRESTLING WITH THE ULTIMATE CONFLICT: CONTRADICTORY PARADIGMS By William Cottringer, Ph.D. nnn“The only way you become aware of the intrinsic paradigms that guide your thinking are when they come in open contact with their opposites.” ~The author. I am sorry but I am not going to ...ARTArticleWrite Targeted Copy Using The Same Thoughts Your Niche ThinksWant to quickly qualify your target audience? Get inside their mind by writing the way your target thinks. It’s easy to do with practice. When you write copy this way, you quickly connect with qualified prospects. Look at the keywords people type into a search engine box. Those words represent terms and phrases your prospects think. Write copy that sounds like your prospects. It quickly connects you to them in a good way. Men and Women Are Hardwired to Think Differently About The Same Subjectr

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