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ARTArticlePersonal Development: The Value of Meaning and PassionKnowing your life purpose makes life more meaningful and fulfilling. It gives you the “why” to look forward to in your day, in your work, and in your life overall. Knowing your true values can point you in the direction of your purpose; they underpin meaning. Otherwise, you may find yourself in the nightmare of the “routine”: Wake up, go to work, come home, eat, take care of “stuff”, and go to sleep… repeat. How dull. How painful! Life is meant to be an adventure of growth and learning. It’s not about clinging to a mediocre life, and then you die. How sad.ARTArticlePersonal Power Increases with a Purpose FilterPersonal power and a sense of purpose are at the foundation of real productivity. Having a sense of purpose that is compelling for you fuels personal power and passion. Personal power is not about ‘power over’ others. It is not even about always ‘being in control’ over the environment. Haven’t you noticed? We cannot always control the environment or what happens to us, so we surely cannot really control other people.ARTArticlePersonal Success Strategy - Schedule a Mind-Rest Date"It is the journey that brings us happiness, not the destination." - Dan Millman - Peaceful Warrior
Do you ever feel as if your mind were about to burst from overwhelm?
Do you ever feel that nothing is going right no matter what you do?
Do you feel immobilized when you are seeking answers and ...ARTArticlePoint Zero: Non-DualityTo realize and fully live by your true nature, you need to break the inner and outer cycles that are making your life miserable or, in the best case, difficult.
In this chapter we'll talk about something which is fundamental to our understanding of the cycles of life: duality.
In this world ...ARTArticlePOWER COMMUNICATIONPOWER COMMUNICATIONnBy
William Cottringer
“Good communication is when an artist conveys the message of his images to a musician who correctly translates them into the musical notes she plays.” ~The author.
Today being a good communicator is not enough. Professional success requires ...ARTArticlePower up with Patience and PersistenceWEB WARS
Robert the Bruce was fighting for the independence of Scotland against the English, but he lost a battle and was hiding in a cave. He was downtrodden and perhaps even contemplating that everything was hopeless. He was not alone in that cave. A spider was his companion and he watched with wonder as the spider spun his web. The spider tried many times to create his web but never gave up.
A SPIDER NEVER GIVES UP SO WHY SHOULD YOU
If a spider never gives up, why should Robert the Bruce, so he resolved to fight again. Our spider was both patient and persistent.ARTArticlePractical Ways to Cope with Job TransitionsThe daily news about the American economy is not rosy and it may be that you are conce
ed about your present position, have lost your job due to layoff, or are taking on a new job. If you are facing any type of job transition consider these tips to help you cope with present day stress. I ...ARTArticlePracticing IndulgenceIn-dul-gence. Ohhh, say it slow, even the letting the word roll off our tongue feels good. In-dul-gence, a treat, a luxury, an extravagance, a pleasure, mmmmmm, in-dul-gence. In our fast paced world, and ever efficient lifestyles we don't even have time to say the word very often, let alone ...ARTArticlePremature Cognitive Commitments - Limiting Oneself"Common sense is a collection of prejudices acquired by age 18."rn~ Albert Einstein ~
We all have a number of premature cognitive commitments, often referred to as common sense, opinions, and erroneously as facts, which were created in childhood. These early beliefs about reality actually shape our perception and subsequent experiences. Where did you get yours? Most of us adopted our opinions from parents, teachers, media, friends and religious leaders.ARTArticlePresentation Tips: 8 Methods to Grab the Attention of Your AudienceIn this age of information overload, the window of opportunity to keep your audience’s attention gets smaller by the tweet. How bad is it? It has been reported that we are bombarded by the equivalent of 174 newspapers of data a day. No doubt about it; we constantly battle a tidal wave of information demanding our attention.
The question is, “what can you do to capture the attention of your listeners?” Here are eight ways to “disrupt” the barrage of noise so your message is heard.
1. Tell a story.rARTArticlePresidential Debate #2: Who Won?The tension was palatable as the 2012 Presidential Town Hall meeting concluded. Following the debate, both men greeted their families and then continued campaigning — signing autographs and having their picture taken. Neither candidate turned to greet the other, neither acknowledged the others family. To me, this was a natural reaction to the animosity that was expressed during the debate. And in fact, if they had greeted each other I would have questioned the authenticity of the gesture.ARTArticlePresidential Debate #3: Five Lessons to Step-Up Your Next PresentationThe pressure was on, each candidate striving to deliver the knock-out punch that would leave a lasting impression, swaying undecided voters. Two evenly matched candidates, this debate felt like a tug-of-war … one moment one candidate winning until the rebuttal, when his opponent would take the lead.
While I thought Obama was closer to his second-debate performance tha
Romney was to his first round win, all in all I’d say it was a draw. Why? Quite different in their styles, both men projected the confidence, credibility and connection that is critical to presidential leadership.ARTArticlePresidential Election: Winner and Loser, How Gracious Were They?Watching the presidential election coverage I wondered, how the two candidates felt as the returns streamed in? How would the "loser" prepare himself for his final speech? And how would the "winner" present himself as he delivered that all-important acceptance speech to the American public?ARTArticlePurposeful And Directed ImageryThe power of the mind to influence the body is quite remarkable. Imagery can be helpful in 90 percent of the problems that people bring to their doctors or counselors. Images are the most fundamental language we have. Everything you do, the mind processes through images. When we recall events from our past, it is hardly ever through words.
Images may not be limited to visual. We can include sounds, tastes, smells or a combination of those sensations.ARTArticleRandom Observations on the Current Economic CrisisAlong with the rest of the world, I am watching the United States economy as well as the world economy. Here are some sobering statistics for certain groups from a recent survey by MarketWatch.com
WORKING FAMILIES
60% of Americans are not prepared for today's crisis.
50% could only go one month without a paycheck before falling behind in bill payments.
25% will fall behind immediately if missing a paycheck.
Our savings rate as a country was negative for most of the decade. It is now up to 3%. That is good, but not where it needs to be which is around 9 or 10%. So keep saving!ARTArticleRape And A Snake Phobia: Can They Be Connected?Rape can have a devastating effect on a person’s life. Some of that effect can be easy to identify. It is not uncommon for people to have difficulty in sexual relationships, trusting, feeling an irrational sense of guilt amongst may other things. How else can it affect a person’s life? Can a ...ARTArticleRe-Create Who You AreRe-create who you once were and say goodbye to what once was. If you live with uncertainty or have had troubles in your past, change those events. You have to re-create those events and turn them into lessons. Turn those lessons into positives events that will mold you into the person you want to become.
Take that lesson; be it trust, relationships, guilt, or whatever it is, and learn from it. Don’t carry the situation with you because it will manifest itself in others and you will relive the same lessons.ARTArticleRe-framing Marketing FearsAre you a business owner/entrepreneur who feels challenged when you hear the word “marketing”?
Does this conger up a bit of fear, some negative/limiting self talk, beliefs and self-sabotaging behaviors? You love what you do so you just want the people to come to you by the Law of Attraction and forget about marketing your business. If this sounds vaguely familiar you are not alone.
Yet, in order to have a thriving business you must market- and you know this, so let’s talk about things you can do now to reframe this challenge to make it an OPPORTUNITY.ARTArticleReaching Your GoalRegardless if you have a goal that is personal or professional, here are some tips to help you attain it.
1. Stay focused: It is so easy to get sidetracked by people and outside influences. Always keep your mind focused on your goal.
2. Clear the clutter: If it is office space, a workout area, the less clutter you have the less you will become sidetracked.
3. Stay positive: Keep your energy field positive. Keep negative friends at bay. Surround yourself with people that have reached their goal.rARTArticleRead my novel in serial form, "Women Outside the Walls" (part 4)Chapter 2
Alma and Chelsea
Red lipstick half way to her mouth, Alma watched the drama at the front counter. Her daughter,
Chelsea, elbowed her.
“She’s a virgin, huh Alma?” whispered Chelsea.rARTArticleRead my novel in serial form, "Women Outside the Walls" (part 6)…….Cassandra poured the hot steaming coffee into them and, carrying both mugs, walked to the dinette in the corner.
“Come over here and sit.” She instructed Alma.
Sighing, Alma got slowly to her feet. She walked over and slouched into one of the kitchen chairs. “Ya want some milk for your coffee? I think it’s still good.” Alma waved her hand at the refrigerator. “Naw, I like mine black. Thanks anyway.”
“Yeah, me too. My Ma always said she liked her coffee and men the same way; ‘hot and black’. But she never dated black guys as far back as I can remember.”rARTArticleREALITY REPAIR OF THE HUMPTY DUMPTY FALLREALITY REPAIR OF THE HUMPTY DUMPTY FALLnBy
Bill Cottringer
Humpty Dumpty sat on a wall,
Humpty Dumpty had a great fall.
All the King's horses, and all his men,
Couldn't put Humpty back together again!n ~Well-known nursery rhyme.n n This well-known children’s nursery ...ARTArticleReality Repair QuestionsREALITY REPAIR QUESTIONS
BynBill Cottringer
"I wouldn't give a fig for the simplicity that comes on the near side of complexity, but I would give my left arm for the simplicity that comes on the far side of complexity." ~Oliver Wendell Holmes.
I just finished writing another book, Reality ...ARTArticleReality Repair Rx: A Critical Time for ThoughtfulnessReality Repair Rx: A Critical Time for ThoughtfulnessnBy
Bill Cottringe
n“You can’t behave your way out of a problem that you thought your way into.”n ~The author.
This quote is a re-arrangement of an earlier one by Stephen Covey, “You can’t talk your way out of a situation you ...ARTArticleRejection Rage! 7 ways to beat rejection1. Insurance man logic
Rejection is a fact of life but the more people you ask the more likely you will get a yes. This is the approach of top insurance salespeople.
Look for the yeses in life and accept that nos, also known as rejection is just the right of another to say no. Their no is because a yes is not consistent with what they think is good for them at this point of time.
Is rejection realy so bad? You can’t get anyone to say yes unless you are willing to take the risk that they will say no. When you don’t ask, the answer is always no.
2. It’s Nothing PersonalARTArticleRelationships: Mirrored Reflection of You"Each relationship you have with another person reflects the relationship you have with yourself." - Alice Deville.
You have a lot of personal and professional relationships in your life. Some relationships are loving, satisfying, uplifting, supportive and enrich your life experience. You love ..."Each relationship you have with another person reflects the relationship you have with yourself." - Alice Deville.ARTArticleReleasing The PainEach day that we awaken is a new day to take our lives forward. It is an opportunity to create something new, something fresh. No matter what you have gone thru, no matter how painful, how heart-wrenching, you don’t have to be in that situation forever. You do not have to be in pain forever. As dark as things may seem today, your life does not have to be in the darkness forever. There is a light at the end of the tunnel and it is not an oncoming train. ï Right about now you may be saying that you can’t see the light.ARTArticleRely On YourselfPlease don't take this the wrong way, because that's not the way it's intended. But in a manner of speaking, I am excited about these tough economic times, these cutbacks, these peels and reels of people who were put out on the street. No job, three months of COBRA benefits, insurance only. It's going to be bleak.
Of course, they're getting help from here and there—and they're really acting it, expecting it, and demanding it. That's another story, too.
But here's the point.ARTArticleReminding the Entire HoloCosmAre you like most of us? Do you need an occasional kick in the bucket? Well, here it is, then!
Everybody who lives by our philosophy of success knows that you need to have guiding affirmations—especially the one that you fill out in the Formula for Riches, on page six of The NEW Think and Grow Rich. You need to have it so handy you can recite it by memory!
How many of us do that? Certainly the percentages in this crowd are swayed!... You're going the extra mile here, making your success happen to you. But how many of us get up, and that's the guiding light in the morning?ARTArticleRenewing Our Faith In Accomplishing The Extraordinary: Lessons From RwandaMiracles show up in the most ordinary of circumstances. In the smallest of ways we can see the greatness in others and ourselves.
I believe to declare the desire to coach, to make a difference in the world, first requires us to make a difference in our own lives. We must know without a doubt ...